I broke up with my girlfriend. The story goes like this. I met her, I made her love me in desperation to the point that she was addicted to me, and then I broke up with her out of pure satisfaction. After some time she started a relationship, I couldn't stand it and I beat up that guy so bad, police was involved and everything ,I free anyway(I was loked for some mounts). Anyways,I met her and we fucked all night long like crazy fuck, she said this shit made her see how much I love her and she wants to get married with me, but I just don't want a relationship with her. So I told her that's not possible. I've reached the point where I don't care anymore about her. The moral of the story is "We all have a past, right?" can this past affect me if I want to have a relationship? Please just serious though |
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By *vaRoseWoman 4 hours ago
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One would presume this is the sort of thing that would be disclosed on Clare’s law requests
Tracking down and assaulting an ex’s new partner definitely makes it a big risk to new potential partners |
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"Your criminal past will follow you for sure.
Not with a name change, new i d and lots of cosmetic surgery, that how i got away with stealing all that money 🤑🤑🤑🤑"
Well it was, till you blabbed all over a sex forum! Did I mention I was MI6? Gotcha!  |
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"I broke up with my girlfriend. The story goes like this. I met her, I made her love me in desperation to the point that she was addicted to me, and then I broke up with her out of pure satisfaction. After some time she started a relationship, I couldn't stand it and I beat up that guy so bad, police was involved and everything ,I free anyway(I was loked for some mounts). Anyways,I met her and we fucked all night long like crazy fuck, she said this shit made her see how much I love her and she wants to get married with me, but I just don't want a relationship with her. So I told her that's not possible. I've reached the point where I don't care anymore about her. The moral of the story is "We all have a past, right?" can this past affect me if I want to have a relationship? Please just serious though"
You need to do a lot of work and personal growth. Starting, I think with understanding what you were doing wrong and why. In some ways asking the internet is a good start but we cannot feed you the answer you need to come organically to the realisation otherwise you’re just copying what you’ve been told you should do |
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By *iver78Man 4 hours ago
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"I broke up with my girlfriend. The story goes like this. I met her, I made her love me in desperation to the point that she was addicted to me, and then I broke up with her out of pure satisfaction. After some time she started a relationship, I couldn't stand it and I beat up that guy so bad, police was involved and everything ,I free anyway(I was loked for some mounts). Anyways,I met her and we fucked all night long like crazy fuck, she said this shit made her see how much I love her and she wants to get married with me, but I just don't want a relationship with her. So I told her that's not possible. I've reached the point where I don't care anymore about her. The moral of the story is "We all have a past, right?" can this past affect me if I want to have a relationship? Please just serious though"
?? The moral is if its true your a tool and if it's made up your a childish tool !! |
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By *iver78Man 4 hours ago
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"One would presume this is the sort of thing that would be disclosed on Clare’s law requests
Tracking down and assaulting an ex’s new partner definitely makes it a big risk to new potential partners "
This is a fair a very valid point  |
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"Your criminal past will follow you for sure.
Not with a name change, new i d and lots of cosmetic surgery, that how i got away with stealing all that money 🤑🤑🤑🤑
Well it was, till you blabbed all over a sex forum! Did I mention I was MI6? Gotcha! "
You'll never take me alive 🚴🚴🚵🚵🏂⛷️⛷️🏊🏊🚣🚗🚗🏍️🛵🚜🚜🚜🚅🚄🚄🚂🛥️🛳️🛳️🚡🚡🛩️🛩️🎡🎡🎢🛹🛹 ( best getaway ever) |
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Get some therapy. Work on yourself. Grow as a human. Self reflect. Stay away from women and relationships for now. The behaviour you've displayed in the past is worrying. However, I believe everyone has the potential to become a better standard of human. Don't treat people like shit. You've caused damage to two people already. Do you really want a trail of destruction? The bad boy stereotype is exhausted now. Do better.
Everyone has a past of some kind. It does matter. How much it matters depends on the person and their outlook on it. You may have to explain your behaviour and actions to someone in the future you want to have a serious relationship with. What will you tell them? (It's rhetorical so you don't need to answer) |
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Fab definitely isn't the place for you....I actually pity any woman who is unlucky enough to get involved with you and to see shit like this on a platform Fab is alarming
For christ sake! you want to fuck up, then great, but don't fuck others up in the process
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I think your past is still with you as you said you fucked again and didn't care . Whilst I think people can change ,you sir cannot . Get yourself some help and work on your controlling issues before damaging anyone else |
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"I’ll take “Things that never happened” for $200, Alex.. "
I'd dearly like to hope this is the case. But somehow I don't.
This is why Claire's Law exists, even if this isn't true for the OP, it will be true for others. And it would be a weird thing to make up.
OP - yes, maybe you could change, but from your post, there's a lot of change to make before you go finding another relationship. Go do the therapy and do the work. |
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"My suggestion is to try therapy "
I second this 👆
Sounds like at the very least you have attachment wounds that need working on before you even think about going near another relationship. At worst I’d say the lack of empathy you express could be indicative of a personality disorder, in which case the relevant help you should seek out should be more specialist.
If none of it is true then you also need therapy.
Regardless of which it is, some deep work on yourself is in order; don’t drag anybody else into this until you’ve done that. |
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I third it.
Looking at the numerous threads you have started, you could deffinately do with sitting down and having an adult, grown up conversation with a trained proffesional.
I did wonder why i had blocked you and having more red flags than China would have been the original reason.
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This realtionship sounds like the definition of toxic. My feeling is that it would only end badly for you both.
I strongly suggest that you seek mental health support in order to deal with moving on healthily. |
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If this isn't a tall tale, then you have definitely not done yourself any favours with this post op. Of course people can change and I'm sure we all have done things in the past that we are not proud of, though probably not to this extent.
I think you need to undertake a long period of introspection. Work on your anger issues, work on what you are looking for as you move forward. As many have stated, you are massive walking red flag from the details you have posted. |
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"I broke up with my girlfriend. The story goes like this. I met her, I made her love me in desperation to the point that she was addicted to me, and then I broke up with her out of pure satisfaction. After some time she started a relationship, I couldn't stand it and I beat up that guy so bad, police was involved and everything ,I free anyway(I was loked for some mounts). Anyways,I met her and we fucked all night long like crazy fuck, she said this shit made her see how much I love her and she wants to get married with me, but I just don't want a relationship with her. So I told her that's not possible. I've reached the point where I don't care anymore about her. The moral of the story is "We all have a past, right?" can this past affect me if I want to have a relationship? Please just serious though"
Sound like a stand out guy |
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Your the sort of guy that dad's will do time for.
A bully, emotional bully by playing with someone's feelings and a physical one for beating someone up.
I would say a cowards also as I'm sure if he beat you up you would of scuttled off onto the night.
Its time to stop feeding your own ego, you will do this by reading every answer and only seeing that you are being attacked.
Until you realise the actions of your behavior you have no hope.
Deal with your anger, talk to professionals and go from there.
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"You have a criminal record. Of course it will affect any future relationships.
Please don't get involved with any other women until you've worked on your mental health issues first.
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So for a person, the past matters, even if they have changed their ways. |
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