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Hypothetical questions- I'm not angling for accommodation.
How well would you need to know a fab "friend" to have them stay at yours for a week?
Gender aside, you've never met only chatted online, they have no other options.
Would you do it? you may have already done it |
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Personally I wouldn't as you can have such a different vibe in person and my kids live with me.
If I was living alone and got really friendly with someone who was stuck i might think differently about it. |
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"No, I wouldn't do it.
I spent years warning our kids against meeting people they'd only spoken to on the net in* not about to do something that fact* myself.
* I'm
* Daft
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Are your batteries low? 😂😜 |
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"For a week? Would the bugger off out during the day or just watch gmtv till 5pm and have your tea ready? "
I dunno, I didn't think that far ahead.
Well if they were a friend of any kind id like to think they'd chip in and actively look for a new abode throughout the day 🤷🏻♂️ |
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"No, I wouldn't do it.
I spent years warning our kids against meeting people they'd only spoken to on the net in* not about to do something that fact* myself.
* I'm
* Daft
🙀
Are your batteries low? 😂😜"
 in more ways than one |
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No. And a week could turn into two, could turn into difficult to get rid off.
And maybe ask yourself why someone on a sex site is their last option? No other friends? No other family? No other options?
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By *Effy-Woman 11 hours ago
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Absolutely not.
I don't like guests in my house at the best of times. Never mind someone I've never met.
I do have a tent though! They are welcome to kip in the back garden and I'm happy to provide bacon rolls and tea. |
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No, not at all. We would therefore be incompatible.
Only one person has accommodated me and she is one of my closest, oldest (Fab ti_eline) and dearest friends. I already knew her from a previous date (hotel) but even then my first visit to her home was in the company of a third, mutual friend, before we were left alone to our overnight pleasures. That's an exception for me; I wouldn't stay with anyone else. |
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"Absolutely not.
I don't like guests in my house at the best of times. Never mind someone I've never met.
I do have a tent though! They are welcome to kip in the back garden and I'm happy to provide bacon rolls and tea. "
That bacon sounds nice. |
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By *Effy-Woman 10 hours ago
Scotland |
"Absolutely not.
I don't like guests in my house at the best of times. Never mind someone I've never met.
I do have a tent though! They are welcome to kip in the back garden and I'm happy to provide bacon rolls and tea.
That bacon sounds nice. "
It is! You can have some as long as you're happy with the dog potentially pissing on the tent in the morning. |
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This happened!!! It was a years ago now. We had chatted loads, been on two socials and he messaged one night while i was moving house. Asked if i had a spare room. When i said i did for now, he TOLD ME he was staying, turned up a short while later with a canoe on the roof of his car and everything he owned. Stayed for either a long weekend or a week im not sure.
Hed been an instructor in the army, kids (under 19, army college students) were 'graduating' and the other instructors left the bar leaving him there with the 'youngesters' which got him reported for fratanising with underage youth, disaplined, kicked off base while they investigated and moved to another unit at the opposite end of the country.
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Many years ago, a guy i knew from drinking in my pub needed a place to sleep for a week. I let him stay in the spare room.
So not quite the same as we had met in person over a months and had become friends rather than an online interaction.
Would i do it now for someone i had only chatted online with? No chance ! |
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"Absolutely not.
I don't like guests in my house at the best of times. Never mind someone I've never met.
I do have a tent though! They are welcome to kip in the back garden and I'm happy to provide bacon rolls and tea. "
I'd love a camping trip in Scotland 😁 |
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There is no way I would allow anyone I have never met to stay over at mine, regardless if it's for 1 night or longer. You can say anything online, pretend to be just anyone. And I don't want to become a statistic, either for "romance scam", or other crime. |
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If we've never met then it's a hard no
I am altruistic, but just too many downsides
I've let family & friends crash in my spare room when they've been between accommodation (longest was my uncle for 5 months while his house move was completed) but rando's, never |
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I am likely to BUT........
My gut reaction is no however I really do trust my own judgement.
I won't go into explanations but each case is unique and I'd have a few rules n regs before it happened. It's because you say they have no other option. If they are in need then dependent on how well I feel I can put my trust in them then yes.....
P.S. I have NO problem saying no outright if I don't feel i'd be safe enough with them
P.P.S I'd have to know them very well |
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