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Non-sexual things that are deal breakers
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What "little things" are deal breakers for you?
For me, it's someone that doesn't enjoy being outdoors, especially at beaches or on hikes, and wants to stay in a lot of the time.
I get twitchy if I'm indoors everyday  |
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"Not wanting to travel/holiday even within the relative safety of the UK
Bring rude to waiters/bar staff/shop assistants"
It's always an eye opener if someone is rude to other people this puts me off people also. |
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By *inkShyWoman 4 weeks ago
near Windsor |
"Not wanting to travel/holiday even within the relative safety of the UK
Bring rude to waiters/bar staff/shop assistants
It's always an eye opener if someone is rude to other people this puts me off people also."
It certainly let's you see the true person. Even if there is an issue, it can be dealt with politely. I just hate that "I'm the customer so I'm right, and can be an arse" mentality! |
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Untidy - in person or in their home life
Bad teeth (mine are far from perfect btw)
The great unwashed
Smokers
Heavy drinkers
Recreational users
Beggars
Those who refuse to accept that it ain't happening
Chatters
Fantasists
People who won't share a face pic
People who watch too much porn
People who read too much into 50 shades
Highly sexualised profile names
Overfamiliar
Effeminacy in men
Oversharers
Rudeness
People who try too hard to be funny
Braggers
Materialists |
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"Some people walk funny. Like on their tippy toes with a bounce. I don't like that. "
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We used to call them 2 stage steppers. Its like they start to walk and then stop and then go again. Wtf 😱🤦🏼♂️ |
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By *Effy-Woman 4 weeks ago
Scotland |
"Some people walk funny. Like on their tippy toes with a bounce. I don't like that.
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We used to call them 2 stage steppers. Its like they start to walk and then stop and then go again. Wtf 😱🤦🏼♂️"
They always look like they're in a rush to tell someone off. |
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"In addition to pretty much all the above.
Those who think they have done something better than you have /could (known as black catting in my world) "
Like those that went on holiday to elevenerffe.😁 |
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"In addition to pretty much all the above.
Those who think they have done something better than you have /could (known as black catting in my world)
Like those that went on holiday to elevenerffe.😁"
😂😂😂 Is that where spinal tap go on holiday ? |
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By *viatrixWoman 4 weeks ago
Back in Surrey, Dahlings! |
1. Smokers. No, just no.
2. People who can’t think of a plan for a first social meet. “I don’t mind what we do…” well, I do. Get lost.
3. Brexit- Reform sympathisers- get in the bin.
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One sided conversationalists. When they have a bizarre impulse to tell you everything and all of their opinions in one breath and when you try to politely break into their one manned conversation and say something, they look annoyed, show absolutely no interest in what you are saying, look away from you or check their phone as you are speaking, and when you realise and give up, they resume and go on again. |
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If they ever try to claim Georges Seurat’s painting “Bathers at Asnieres” is better than Vincent Van Gogh’s painting “Cafe Terrace at Night”
Then they just need to jog on by
Of course this will never happen, because anyone who would think that will be in a lunatic asylum anyway… so no chance of a meet anyway  |
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"Some people walk funny. Like on their tippy toes with a bounce. I don't like that. "
That’s me fucked. I get told I walk like a silent deer A few friends and family get weirded out that I move around almost silently |
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"Most of the things I've read in today's Shocking Behaviour thread, including the guy who lifted his leg, letting a turd fall down his trouser leg, to the floor and walking on  "
Imagine the turd trail down his leg. Dirty rotter |
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"One sided conversationalists. When they have a bizarre impulse to tell you everything and all of their opinions in one breath and when you try to politely break into their one manned conversation and say something, they look annoyed, show absolutely no interest in what you are saying, look away from you or check their phone as you are speaking, and when you realise and give up, they resume and go on again."
I have an autistic nephew that does things like that a lot. He just wants to talk about the things that are interesting to him. |
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"If they ever try to claim Georges Seurat’s painting “Bathers at Asnieres” is better than Vincent Van Gogh’s painting “Cafe Terrace at Night”
Then they just need to jog on by
Of course this will never happen, because anyone who would think that will be in a lunatic asylum anyway… so no chance of a meet anyway "
Seurat any day. The recent exhibition of his works proved that |
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By *CExeCouple 4 weeks ago
Hong-Kong/Exeter |
"Voting reform and believing that they are a legitimate political party and not a Ltd company."
company."
Labour has two limited companies as part of it's party structure....it's common practice in UK politics.
On that note, political bigots who regardless of which side of the fence they sit, inject politics into every thread, sucking the joy out of life.
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"Voting reform and believing that they are a legitimate political party and not a Ltd company.
company."
Labour has two limited companies as part of it's party structure....it's common practice in UK politics.
On that note, political bigots who regardless of which side of the fence they sit, inject politics into every thread, sucking the joy out of life.
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Knight to D5
Well played 😂 |
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"Voting reform and believing that they are a legitimate political party and not a Ltd company.
company."
Labour has two limited companies as part of it's party structure....it's common practice in UK politics.
On that note, political bigots who regardless of which side of the fence they sit, inject politics into every thread, sucking the joy out of life.
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No political affiliation at all here.
Not a great fan of politics but I will not idle by and watch racists and racism appear to be accepted.
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"Voting reform and believing that they are a legitimate political party and not a Ltd company.
company."
Labour has two limited companies as part of it's party structure....it's common practice in UK politics.
On that note, political bigots who regardless of which side of the fence they sit, inject politics into every thread, sucking the joy out of life.
No political affiliation at all here.
Not a great fan of politics but I will not idle by and watch racists and racism appear to be accepted.
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Somehow my phone altered that.
Facism. |
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"If they ever try to claim Georges Seurat’s painting “Bathers at Asnieres” is better than Vincent Van Gogh’s painting “Cafe Terrace at Night”
Then they just need to jog on by
Of course this will never happen, because anyone who would think that will be in a lunatic asylum anyway… so no chance of a meet anyway
Seurat any day. The recent exhibition of his works proved that "
Oh my god!
Nurse! They've let one out!
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By *AYENCouple 4 weeks ago
Lincolnshire |
Guys that proudly announce that they're Bearded, Tattooed and Hung
So you haven't shaved in a while
You sat there whilst someone else did all the work
You've got a big cock.
Please, please, please go and bore someone else! |
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"Guys that proudly announce that they're Bearded, Tattooed and Hung
So you haven't shaved in a while
You sat there whilst someone else did all the work
You've got a big cock.
Please, please, please go and bore someone else!"
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"Guys that proudly announce that they're Bearded, Tattooed and Hung
So you haven't shaved in a while
You sat there whilst someone else did all the work
You've got a big cock.
Please, please, please go and bore someone else!"
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"Guys that proudly announce that they're Bearded, Tattooed and Hung
So you haven't shaved in a while
You sat there whilst someone else did all the work
You've got a big cock.
Please, please, please go and bore someone else!"
From what I've seen, a good beard takes some looking after and good tattoos are very skilled so finding the right artist takes time and some effort.
A big cock can be a fine attribute too I'd say.
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"Smoking.
Smokers taste weird."
I can't understand profiles that profess to be non smokers and yet say that they will meet smokers.
Is that because they are desperate to meet anyone at all or don't they care if the meet stinks of fag ash and wants to break off every twenty minutes to have a drag on a roll up? |
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"Most of the things I've read in today's Shocking Behaviour thread, including the guy who lifted his leg, letting a turd fall down his trouser leg, to the floor and walking on "
Especially if it really was the floor, rather than the ground.
People who call the street surface 'the flaw-er'! |
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"Smoking.
Smokers taste weird.
I can't understand profiles that profess to be non smokers and yet say that they will meet smokers.
Is that because they are desperate to meet anyone at all or don't they care if the meet stinks of fag ash and wants to break off every twenty minutes to have a drag on a roll up?"
Im a smoker, I quit (fingers crossed) and I can understand it. I'm not that desperate, just sympathetic |
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"Smoking.
Smokers taste weird.
I can't understand profiles that profess to be non smokers and yet say that they will meet smokers.
Is that because they are desperate to meet anyone at all or don't they care if the meet stinks of fag ash and wants to break off every twenty minutes to have a drag on a roll up?"
I wouldn't want to kiss anyone that smelled strongly of cigarette smoke, but I wouldn't be opposed to hanging out with them, as long as I wasn't breathing in the smoke or getting the smell on me.
I was in a relationship with a smoker for years, and she always smoked outside of the house, the smell was only ever noticeable at a wee ashtray she kept out the back, and it was fine.
She was conscious of maybe using chewing gum, some mouth wash or whatever, and keeping the smell away from me.
There are ways around things that don't mean the person is desperate  |
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"Silly little lies 💜"
100% this.
People that tell lies, or use loopholes or intentionally mislead... how can I trust them to keep me safe if I was to meet with them?
Honesty and transparency will always be key for me on Fab.
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Smokers
People who clack their teeth on spoons/forks
Mouth breathers
Rude people
People who steal food from my plate without asking
People who won't meet without recreational 'assistance'
People who are so fussy with food they need a kids menu and some crayons |
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"Smokers
People who clack their teeth on spoons/forks
Mouth breathers
Rude people
People who steal food from my plate without asking
People who won't meet without recreational 'assistance'
People who are so fussy with food they need a kids menu and some crayons"
I do colour within lines nowadays though |
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"Smokers
People who clack their teeth on spoons/forks
Mouth breathers
Rude people
People who steal food from my plate without asking
People who won't meet without recreational 'assistance'
People who are so fussy with food they need a kids menu and some crayons
I do colour within lines nowadays though "
Good boys can be upgraded to a felt tip, but I'm sending you home if you get it on the tablecloth. |
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"Smokers
People who clack their teeth on spoons/forks
Mouth breathers
Rude people
People who steal food from my plate without asking
People who won't meet without recreational 'assistance'
People who are so fussy with food they need a kids menu and some crayons
I do colour within lines nowadays though
Good boys can be upgraded to a felt tip, but I'm sending you home if you get it on the tablecloth."
No way that's to much pressure I'm not ready for felt tips |
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"Someone who doesn't enjoy music... There's been a few people I've spoke to that don't have a favourite artist/band. I just don't get it, how can you not like music?!"
Couldn't do it. I'm averaging seeing 50 bands a year for the last few years. |
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"Smokers
People who clack their teeth on spoons/forks
Mouth breathers
Rude people
People who steal food from my plate without asking
People who won't meet without recreational 'assistance'
People who are so fussy with food they need a kids menu and some crayons
I do colour within lines nowadays though
Good boys can be upgraded to a felt tip, but I'm sending you home if you get it on the tablecloth.
No way that's to much pressure I'm not ready for felt tips "
Im not giving you pencils again. You keep snapping them. I told you to be gentle but you colour in like you are using a bingo blotter |
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"Smokers
People who clack their teeth on spoons/forks
Mouth breathers
Rude people
People who steal food from my plate without asking
People who won't meet without recreational 'assistance'
People who are so fussy with food they need a kids menu and some crayons
I do colour within lines nowadays though
Good boys can be upgraded to a felt tip, but I'm sending you home if you get it on the tablecloth.
No way that's to much pressure I'm not ready for felt tips
Im not giving you pencils again. You keep snapping them. I told you to be gentle but you colour in like you are using a bingo blotter "
I'm just expressing myself, jeez you never let me just be me |
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"Someone who doesn't enjoy music... There's been a few people I've spoke to that don't have a favourite artist/band. I just don't get it, how can you not like music?!"
I dont have a list in my mind of things but not liking music I agree I find off putting |
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Mrs here haha buckle up lol 😂
certain accents 🫣 and saying words like pacifically 😂🫣
Bad dress sense
Adults wearing air max trainers ( sorry not sorry)
No sense of humour
Spends more on Botox and fillers than me 😂
Eats fish a lot ( can’t stand it)
Bad personal hygiene
Bad/dirty teeth
This is really bad but drives a “girly” car 🫣
Rude…..how they treat people generally so for example being rude to a waiter in a restaurant etc
Vanilla
How they are as a parent and how they treat and behave towards their child’s mother ( unless good reason) so if they are shitty and a crap dad, nah not for me |
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This is really bad but drives a “girly” car 🫣
What's a girly car? Just for the sake of my knowledge "
I’m making myself sound a bit of a c u n t now haha 😝
Hard to be “pacific” but for example a mini or a fiat 500. A soft top mini would be way up there. |
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"If they ever try to claim Georges Seurat’s painting “Bathers at Asnieres” is better than Vincent Van Gogh’s painting “Cafe Terrace at Night”
Then they just need to jog on by
Of course this will never happen, because anyone who would think that will be in a lunatic asylum anyway… so no chance of a meet anyway "
This is comparing apples with oranges - misguided |
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"Smoking.
Smokers taste weird.
I can't understand profiles that profess to be non smokers and yet say that they will meet smokers.
Is that because they are desperate to meet anyone at all or don't they care if the meet stinks of fag ash and wants to break off every twenty minutes to have a drag on a roll up?"
Or maybe it just doesn’t bother then that the other person smokes?
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"Someone who doesn't enjoy music... There's been a few people I've spoke to that don't have a favourite artist/band. I just don't get it, how can you not like music?!"
Can't recall meeting anyone ever who wasn't into some sort of music |
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"Someone who doesn't enjoy music... There's been a few people I've spoke to that don't have a favourite artist/band. I just don't get it, how can you not like music?!
Can't recall meeting anyone ever who wasn't into some sort of music "
Exactly, even I love a bit of Mongolian throat singing |
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By *ypersoonMan 4 weeks ago
WHITCHURCH, Shropshire |
Don't do mouth or arrogance plus hate anyone who misjudges me (I'm mildly autistic), someone I'd never met before did recently when I went out to a bar & (because I was alone at the time) called me a lech to my face 😔😡 |
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"smoking. nothing worse.
amazing as well how so many men actually just gave up and forgot to change their profile."
About the same who are now bi but just never got round to changing from straight on their profile, I would imagine. |
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"smoking. nothing worse.
amazing as well how so many men actually just gave up and forgot to change their profile."
Here's a thought.
Perhaps quite a few of the non smokers who will neet smokers are really smokers but think that their chances will be better, within the non smoking pool, by saying that they don't smoke?
Then if they meet a smoker, they can say that even though they are listed as non smoking, they occasionally enjoy a fag, so why not indulge together... |
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"smoking. nothing worse.
amazing as well how so many men actually just gave up and forgot to change their profile.
Here's a thought.
Perhaps quite a few of the non smokers who will neet smokers are really smokers but think that their chances will be better, within the non smoking pool, by saying that they don't smoke?
Then if they meet a smoker, they can say that even though they are listed as non smoking, they occasionally enjoy a fag, so why not indulge together..."
You mean there are people who will lie in order to get laid?
Surely not? |
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People who write there when it should be the possessive adjective, their.
E.g. It's there problem
I love there profile
Stop it people 🥷
(Had to delete first attempt at this post.....spelt who wrong 😳) |
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- Anything that makes someone a crappy human — ignorance, arrogance, entitlement, racism, misogyny, ableism, body shaming etc. I don't understand why some people go out of their way to be a dickhead.
- People who bitch about messages being ignored, yet turn nasty if you politely turn them down.
- Socks & sandals combo. Nope 🤢
- Man Utd supporters ❌ #ALAW |
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"- Anything that makes someone a crappy human — ignorance, arrogance, entitlement, racism, misogyny, ableism, body shaming etc. I don't understand why some people go out of their way to be a dickhead.
- People who bitch about messages being ignored, yet turn nasty if you politely turn them down.
- Socks & sandals combo. Nope 🤢
- Man Utd supporters ❌ #ALAW "
Man united supporters. Lol. I like that comment. I recon they will defect to man city if it means getting a meet. |
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