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When you have really genuine and sincere conversations with people that you may never meet and may think that you have little in common with until you chat.
I think that the forums are great for that. You might get a direct message off the back of something you posted.
On a website where there are few boundaries, everyone can be their absolute real selves, and so when you do chat to one of the genuine people, you can have conversations that you just can’t have elsewhere in the world. |
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"Finding women that want to have sex with me was a nice little surprise 😄"
This is it! I'm always amazed that someone read all the nonsense on my profile and decided they might want to meet the bellend who wrote it |
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"Finding women that want to have sex with me was a nice little surprise 😄"
On a more serious note, the social side of things has really surprised me. When joining, I essentially viewed Fab as a bit of a hook-up site but having been to a fair few group socials, I was surprised by how well run some of them are and how encouraging people are without judgement which has really helped my confidence over the years to end! |
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I've had some genuine, open, fun and decent conversations on a variety of topics with some people for years.
For some it was never a pre-requisite to meet so whether I will get to meet them in the future, time will tell.
For those I have met I do keep in touch with frequently. |
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"The astonishing number of men attracted to curvy or older women  or 'curvy younger women' (for some of us) 
That doesn't surprise me tbh
I think they everyone gets to like what they like here "
It's about finding the mutual attraction, proximity and diaries aligning. Not everyone is successful. |
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"The astonishing number of men attracted to curvy or older women or 'curvy younger women' (for some of us)
That doesn't surprise me tbh
I think they everyone gets to like what they like here "
Most women on Fab are younger than me! |
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By *eliWoman 4 weeks ago
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When I first joined I wanted Fab to be very, very casual sex and absolutely no strings and then?
Life happened. Surprisingly. One fiancé, a longterm partner and some incredible people I'm lucky enough to call friends. It's wonderful how things work out. ❤️ |
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By *eliWoman 4 weeks ago
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"How genuinely nice some of the women are even the women that have no interest in other women sexually,and that you can actually build strong friendships with eachother.
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Oh! Yes! This has definitely been a surprise but a very welcome one. I'd assumed women would be really competitive and bitchy and only nice to men they wanted to fuck. That exists but generally women aren't too bad on here. |
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"Heading out on my first ever solo meet wracked with nerves and ending up having the best sex and walking away with a regular fwb.
I was surprised to say the least! "
Always in the last place you look hey. |
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Meeting our perfect couple, building a relationship with them that now spans over 6 years and the way the sex has evolved into knowing exactly how to fulfill each other every time we get together.
We originally only met other women and as successful as that became opening our minds to couples and men really enhanced the whole experience. |
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The amount of people who find me attractive was the biggest surprise, I didn't have much confidence when I joined.
The variety of hot people on here I've met, the great new experiences, and the genuine friendships I've found, they have been the best parts of fab. |
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"The amount of people who find me attractive was the biggest surprise, I didn't have much confidence when I joined.
The variety of hot people on here I've met, the great new experiences, and the genuine friendships I've found, they have been the best parts of fab. "
Thank you for sharing. |
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"Not one good surprise. I have never smiled while on this site. I think I should delete "
No need to do that pal... just join in more with different threads and get to know someone of the forumites  |
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"Not one good surprise. I have never smiled while on this site. I think I should delete
Some of your comments make me smile!
Not this one obviously.
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Well it's life on here. You talk to someone for weeks or months. Get along really well, so you think. They make arrangements to meet. You agree. The day comes. Funnily enough they lose all internet connection for 8 days. Suddenly they get back to you with no excuse or communications, just a message. "Meet?"
Every time. Why would I smile when people are on here exclusively to waste other's time and those are the only ones who actually message or message back? |
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"I got a surprise when I posted ‘meet now’ and actually ended up meeting someone lovely. It happened once. 😂"
Don't lie mate. Everyone knows that guarantees you get no attention at all. Only get requests to meet when you're unavailable and blocked because you're working on a Tuesday afternoon |
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"I got a surprise when I posted ‘meet now’ and actually ended up meeting someone lovely. It happened once. 😂
Don't lie mate. Everyone knows that guarantees you get no attention at all. Only get requests to meet when you're unavailable and blocked because you're working on a Tuesday afternoon"
Or at 1am when the wife has d*unk enough alcohol to finally say “Oh go on then”…….  |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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"I got a surprise when I posted ‘meet now’ and actually ended up meeting someone lovely. It happened once. 😂
Don't lie mate. Everyone knows that guarantees you get no attention at all. Only get requests to meet when you're unavailable and blocked because you're working on a Tuesday afternoon
Or at 1am when the wife has d*unk enough alcohol to finally say “Oh go on then”……. "
Single women do this too.... apparently |
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The way on threads that if someone needs support / help the group comes together.
That when chatting with a lovely person we discovered there was occasions we were probably within quarter of a mile of each other when I was 3 -15 yo |
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That I've got to know some genuinely amazing people on here. Thought it would be all sex,sex, sex...and a lot of it is and that's great but have made some great connections that go beyond that. People i'd class as real friends, that was a nice surprise.
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"I got a surprise when I posted ‘meet now’ and actually ended up meeting someone lovely. It happened once. 😂
Don't lie mate. Everyone knows that guarantees you get no attention at all. Only get requests to meet when you're unavailable and blocked because you're working on a Tuesday afternoon
Or at 1am when the wife has d*unk enough alcohol to finally say “Oh go on then”…….
Single women do this too.... apparently "
How can they? Fab rule No.1; single ladies never send an opening message………🤷♂️ |
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