Not necessarily. It depends what you're looking for.
I'm half a couple and finding other couples for straight swap is far from easy op.
I guess if you're a couple meeting men it might be easier. But all the couples after ffm, seem to struggle too. Hence all the forum posts on unicorns. |
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I'm half a couple now. But having joined as a single in 2008 it's worked fine for me over the years as a single too.
Will depend on how you use the site of course and whether you limit yourself to JUST the site, or use it as a means of enjoying the wider swinging world. 🤷♂️ |
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This site works best if you just relax and don't stress it.
It's not AmazonPrimeAss, it's just real life but online.
You're not fishing in a different pool with different bait on your hook. Just a bigger pool & longer range.
*Size queens calm down, we're not talking peen.
So your chances will match real life with odds a lil bit more favorable from the bigger pool you're dabbling your rod in.
We all just enjoy the craic and there's a lot of banter about. |
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By *WB85Man 4 weeks ago
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So I am part of a couple....and i can tell now you now, its not even slightly easier as a couples.
4 way attraction is an absolute fucking nightmare.
So much so that we predominantly meet solo now. |
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"This site works best if you just relax and don't stress it.
It's not AmazonPrimeAss, it's just real life but online.
You're not fishing in a different pool with different bait on your hook. Just a bigger pool & longer range.
*Size queens calm down, we're not talking peen.
So your chances will match real life with odds a lil bit more favorable from the bigger pool you're dabbling your rod in.
We all just enjoy the craic and there's a lot of banter about."
Agree 👍🏾😊 |
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"It’s a mistake to get too involved with anyone on here.
Nah. What could possibly go wrong Steve? 🤔🤷♂️😂😂"
The timewasters who send people to the wrong address for starters. Men pretending to me women or couples… |
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"It’s a mistake to get too involved with anyone on here.
Nah. What could possibly go wrong Steve? 🤔🤷♂️😂😂
The timewasters who send people to the wrong address for starters. Men pretending to me women or couples…"
Don't forget the people that steal your entire profile too....😉😂😂 |
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This site doesn't work. Meet people in real life. Go to bars or swingers clubs. This site is full of people who arrange to meet then are mysteriously unavailable on the day of the meet. It's an absolute joke. Every. Single. Profile. That has arranged a meet. Inexplicably absent on the day |
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By *viatrixWoman 4 weeks ago
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"I'm a married single woman and I love this site  "
Same, pretty much! As a single woman I get the pick of the crop here.
So difficult as a couple to find other couples/ladies haha- it’s exhausting! |
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"Is it me or does this site work best if you're a couple?
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They definitely get more attention but more from the guy to the missus, ignoring completely the other partner. Regardless their DMs are always more active than someone on their own. Then, there's just a massive imbalance of men to women here so you just got to be patient and only DM someone who matches your interests; genuinely. |
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"Is it me or does this site work best if you're a couple?
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You'd think that, you really would.
But when you are a couple you are faced with a constant stream of entitled neanderthal fantasists who write one line emails by rolling their cock on the keyboard and can't read or comprehend language.
You may think that 100 emails a day means the world is your oyster but it's nothing more than constant stress which makes you want to quit the site. |
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Maybe there's too many fakes on here. However, if you attend socials and events, you are more likely to make a few connections. Even if it's just friends. And that's what life is about, right? Connections. Connecting your penis to a vagina or an arsehole, or perhaps docking. Connecting your vagina to a penis or another vagina (Bluetooth? Lip syncing?), or an arsehole?? I don't know. There are possibilities and opportunities for lots of fun, laughs, flirting, banter and even some serious conversations. Enjoy the journey. 😁👍🏾 |
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"This site doesnt qork very well for anyone single or couple. Its definitely getting worse and worse over the years, and not very well monitored by moderators"
they are super quick to warn you if you send a rude email out of stress but they dont seem to care about dragging the site out of 1994. |
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"Maybe there's too many fakes on here. However, if you attend socials and events, you are more likely to make a few connections. Even if it's just friends. And that's what life is about, right? Connections. Connecting your penis to a vagina or an arsehole, or perhaps docking. Connecting your vagina to a penis or another vagina (Bluetooth? Lip syncing?), or an arsehole?? I don't know. There are possibilities and opportunities for lots of fun, laughs, flirting, banter and even some serious conversations. Enjoy the journey. 😁👍🏾"
You'd think that. You would. But my experience of socials is a room full of guys waiting to talk to the 3 women. And they are usually the guys that you'd turn down!
Socials are a quick path past the verificiation system. You can't put your filters on. |
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"Maybe there's too many fakes on here. However, if you attend socials and events, you are more likely to make a few connections. Even if it's just friends. And that's what life is about, right? Connections. Connecting your penis to a vagina or an arsehole, or perhaps docking. Connecting your vagina to a penis or another vagina (Bluetooth? Lip syncing?), or an arsehole?? I don't know. There are possibilities and opportunities for lots of fun, laughs, flirting, banter and even some serious conversations. Enjoy the journey. 😁👍🏾
You'd think that. You would. But my experience of socials is a room full of guys waiting to talk to the 3 women. And they are usually the guys that you'd turn down!
Socials are a quick path past the verificiation system. You can't put your filters on."
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I guess I'm fortunate to have gone to ones where the ratios are better and had a good time. Human connection is still better than online, in my opinion. Even if it's people you wouldn't say yes to. I focus more on enjoying the social than expecting something to happen. Interesting to hear a couple's perspective 👍🏾☺️ |
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"It can be tricky for most people
Must be tricky getting through a doorway, Tina 👀😜
You aren't wrong, but on the bright side, I've never banged my nose on a wall  "
I think you'd survive any vehicle accident. Tina-proof. |
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"It can be tricky for most people
Must be tricky getting through a doorway, Tina 👀😜
You aren't wrong, but on the bright side, I've never banged my nose on a wall
I think you'd survive any vehicle accident. Tina-proof."
Just don't try to motorboat them.
I got a black eye once.....🤦🤦😬😬 |
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"It can be tricky for most people
Must be tricky getting through a doorway, Tina 👀😜
You aren't wrong, but on the bright side, I've never banged my nose on a wall
I think you'd survive any vehicle accident. Tina-proof.
Just don't try to motorboat them.
I got a black eye once.....🤦🤦😬😬"
Must...resist...the...urge 😂 |
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That’s why I’m enjoying the responses. Must make some men’s heads melt that they may not be top of the list of 1000 other guys that the lady has to choose from. The self delusion is real for guys I’m afraid. |
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"That’s why I’m enjoying the responses. Must make some men’s heads melt that they may not be top of the list of 1000 other guys that the lady has to choose from. The self delusion is real for guys I’m afraid."
To be honest I’m more shock of if I get a message from a couple or a woman mostly blokes for some reason lol |
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"That’s why I’m enjoying the responses. Must make some men’s heads melt that they may not be top of the list of 1000 other guys that the lady has to choose from. The self delusion is real for guys I’m afraid."
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I would say, in my experience, the most unpalatable miscreants are couples and their complacencies, entitlements and lack of humility, oblivious to the fact that once upon a time they were singletons themselves. In addition to their indelible misconception that men can't be picky or will bed any woman.
What amuses me the most is when couples get 'fucked' over by other couples and then the lamenting begins.  |
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As a single woman... I tend to get a lot of messages from couples. I do love it when the female part of the couple messages me and tells me to message her husband this has happened a couple of times so I know the wife is 100 percent ok with it because she messaged |
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And even as a couple regardless of what you put in your profile ( I.e No single men a thousand times in capitals) you still get single blokes treating your profile as a single females and thinking a dick pic makes every woman weak at the knees and gagging for it 😂😂😂
Failing that a message such as “ I’ll make you wet or can I fuck your Mrs” works a charm 🫣🫣🫣 |
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No. We have joked how we had more interest and higher views for our single profiles (Dua’s in far, FAR greater numbers, naturally).
Typically, no interest from couples or women (even replies) and most of our messages coming from Straight guys who haven’t actually read the profile first.
The couple and single we have met made worthwhile, but I think the idea that a couples account is an instant win is misplaced…or we are just dog-ugly lol
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"So I am part of a couple....and i can tell now you now, its not even slightly easier as a couples.
4 way attraction is an absolute fucking nightmare.
So much so that we predominantly meet solo now. "
4 way attraction is indeed a fucking nightmare.
We twigged that early on, so the Mrs has set up a single profile & we’ve gone down the hotwifing route.
I’ve got permission to go solo but such is the competition amongst single males quite frankly I can’t be arsed! |
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Hi op don’t think that couples have it easier on here we do ok on here. But if we ever message someone it’s because we both read the profile look at there pics and also the verifications as it gives us a good view of what they are looking what they have experienced and if they would be a good match for us.
We would never reply to a blank profile with no pics and a bio of one sentence. Wether it be a couple, female or male
It’s just a case of putting the effort in |
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By *WB85Man 3 weeks ago
Staffordshire |
"So I am part of a couple....and i can tell now you now, its not even slightly easier as a couples.
4 way attraction is an absolute fucking nightmare.
So much so that we predominantly meet solo now.
4 way attraction is indeed a fucking nightmare.
We twigged that early on, so the Mrs has set up a single profile & we’ve gone down the hotwifing route.
I’ve got permission to go solo but such is the competition amongst single males quite frankly I can’t be arsed!"
It's difficult the solo side i get it, but theres no way I'm not trying and missing out on the potential fun.
Make it happen my friend. Good luck. |
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