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By *AYENCouple 4 weeks ago
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"Alcohol and swinging do not belong together.
Sexual experiences are dampened by alcohol.
The lack of inhibitions induced by alcohol is artificial."
Everyone's personal choice - preaching and swinging do not belong together. K. |
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I am not a fan of alcohol, hardly ever drink and I agree that people should limit how much they drink when they swing. It's not very sexy when they guy or the lady see so intoxicated they can hardly stand and are slurring their words, and a d*unk person can't give informed consent either. |
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I don’t think it’s an all or nothing thing tbh
What about introverted people who might need a little loosener to engage in this activity?
As long as consumption is sensible, I don’t see a major issue.
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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"Alcohol and swinging do not belong together.
Sexual experiences are dampened by alcohol.
The lack of inhibitions induced by alcohol is artificial.
Don't you just love the temperance movement!"
A cool dandelion and burdock or sarsaparilla is good for me … a couple of alcoholic drinks is ok with me. Too much and the consent element is lost. |
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Neither of us are big drinkers although we’ll sometimes have a couple in a club.
I’ve seen too many people who are very d*unk, to the point where it’s causing problems, to drink to excess in a club environment.
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I don't drink when swinging, I don't think they mix well.
Consent, communication and being aware are all things that I think are important. D*unk sex is not my thing. If you can't do it sober then you probably shouldn't be doing it.
People will do what people want though. If someone is under the influence then I pass. |
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I don't drink. Each to their own. Some people drink to calm their nerves or give themselves some courage. Each person is responsible for knowing their own limits and making their own decisions. Take accountability. |
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Live and let live.
I enjoy a drink. I dont really drink when on a meet. There is a time and a place for everything. Since spending time with someone who doesnt drink, I have become rather indifferent to alcohol anyway.
It would be rather disappointing to meet someone for the first time who was hammered though. |
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If you only drink in moderation I think it's fine ie a couple of beers on a social.
Some people don't know when to stop in real life, so it's no suprise you get them on here too.
If someone turned up inebriated to a meet, it wouldn't be going futher though, as its not attractive and I'd doubt they'd be at their best.
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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I think your line of statement is linked between alcohol and consent.
I personally don’t drink at all so makes no difference to me.
If you are too d*unk to consent then maybe take that upon yourself for next time, whoever you are with should have the morals to look out for you.
If you take advantage and let your emotions take over someone who can’t consent, push yourself too far in play because “you are d*unk” then you are the problem and need serious help! |
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