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Wow it's not so shabby!
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Inspired from a comment on the best nipple thread ..
Is there a part of your body that you disliked pre-fab, but gained confidence with due to fab?
I always thought that my feet was minging, due to Mr W intentionally winding me up about them 🙄!
I get lots of nice compliments about them on here, and I've come to realise that they aren't too shabby at all!
What about you? 🫵🏼
Has fab helped with any of your body insecurities? If so, what? |
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By *xx0123Man 4 weeks ago
nottingham |
I’d say my face - had a serious facial injury and had to have parts rebuilt. Don’t send me face pic to many on here (not much interest 😂) but sending to the few and getting nice comments made me feel good  |
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I dislike my body in general.
My ex once said that my naked body looked like homer Simpson and it stuck with me... So knowing other people find it other wise is a good thing...no body else has that opinion |
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"I’d say my face - had a serious facial injury and had to have parts rebuilt. Don’t send me face pic to many on here (not much interest 😂) but sending to the few and getting nice comments made me feel good "
Having seen that lovely face, I can confirm you've nothing to worry about. |
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By *xx0123Man 4 weeks ago
nottingham |
"I’d say my face - had a serious facial injury and had to have parts rebuilt. Don’t send me face pic to many on here (not much interest 😂) but sending to the few and getting nice comments made me feel good
Having seen that lovely face, I can confirm you've nothing to worry about. "
😘 thank you - I can confirm that you do have sexy feet - glad you started to post more feet content 😍 |
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I have always had insecurities about how I look, I hate having my photo taken for that reason. But on here, I have been called handsome and even sexy by some.... while others have said "not for me" - but overall my confidence improved and my skin got thicker |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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My boobs. There that awkward size were there not tiny but not big an just a bit meh. Ive always disliked them but its definitely improved my confidenc3 as men i have been with have definitely appreciated them |
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"My boobs. There that awkward size were there not tiny but not big a just a bit meh. Ive always disliked them but its definitely improved my confidenc3 as men i have been with have definitely appreciated them"
Exact same for me 😊 |
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My boobs. There that awkward size were there not tiny but not big a just a bit meh. Ive always disliked them but its definitely improved my confidenc3 as men i have been with have definitely appreciated them
Exact same for me 😊
I think your boobs are nice! |
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"I have loads i dislike about myself... I would say my smile/face... I usually get called smiler for other reasons 😂.. give over speedy got one of the best smiles on here "
Haha thanks! I was shocked when I got second loveliest smile a while back... certainly helped my confidence.. thinking maybe it's not that bad then |
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I’m overweight or as fab would define - curvy. But people compliment my body anyway. I’m sure it’s because they like it and not just because they wanna get their dick wet 
Mrs
I think your body is good! - I don’t care if my dick gets wet or not too * |
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By *Effy-Woman 4 weeks ago
Scotland |
I tend not to believe much of the compliments I receive from people on here for obvious reasons.
I wouldn't say fab has helped with gaining any confidence with my body, especially recently after some weight gain.
My face is alright once I've slapped enough layers of makeup on i think. No one has run away screaming yet so that's always a good sign. |
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"I dislike my body in general.
My ex once said that my naked body looked like homer Simpson and it stuck with me... So knowing other people find it other wise is a good thing...no body else has that opinion "
Some people don't realise how powerful (and hurtful) their words can be, and they can stick with us for a long time. Mr W used to call my toes Quavers 🙈😂😂 but he joked about them that often, I got proper paranoid about them. He felt really bad for making me feel like that! |
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"My boobs. There that awkward size were there not tiny but not big an just a bit meh. Ive always disliked them but its definitely improved my confidenc3 as men i have been with have definitely appreciated them"
Same here..but yours look cracking! |
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I havent ever really been confident with my body, always wanted to be taller, more ripped etc. But i feel like fab has taught me people are all shapes and sizes with others who think they are hot for that reason |
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"I have always had insecurities about how I look, I hate having my photo taken for that reason. But on here, I have been called handsome and even sexy by some.... while others have said "not for me" - but overall my confidence improved and my skin got thicker "
That is good! Glad it's made you more confident. We can't be everybody's cup of tea! |
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"I’m overweight or as fab would define - curvy. But people compliment my body anyway. I’m sure it’s because they like it and not just because they wanna get their dick wet
Mrs"
Omg guys are just after getting their dicks wet? 
I've been believing every damn one of them  |
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"I tend not to believe much of the compliments I receive from people on here for obvious reasons.
I wouldn't say fab has helped with gaining any confidence with my body, especially recently after some weight gain.
My face is alright once I've slapped enough layers of makeup on i think. No one has run away screaming yet so that's always a good sign. "
I remember a make up free selfie thread and your face is gorgeous even without the slap  |
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By *Effy-Woman 4 weeks ago
Scotland |
"I tend not to believe much of the compliments I receive from people on here for obvious reasons.
I wouldn't say fab has helped with gaining any confidence with my body, especially recently after some weight gain.
My face is alright once I've slapped enough layers of makeup on i think. No one has run away screaming yet so that's always a good sign.
I remember a make up free selfie thread and your face is gorgeous even without the slap "
You're far too kind to me Mrs! 🖤 |
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"I tend not to believe much of the compliments I receive from people on here for obvious reasons.
I wouldn't say fab has helped with gaining any confidence with my body, especially recently after some weight gain.
My face is alright once I've slapped enough layers of makeup on i think. No one has run away screaming yet so that's always a good sign. "
I don't believe you need the make up at all. Beautiful with curves to die for |
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"From what I can see in your profile picture I don’t see anything wrong? "
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No, her body is actually that colour. It's been defrosted, frozen and then thawed again. No amount of compliments will put the colour back into her cheeks, or any other cheeks for that matter.
Tiny thumbnails can be deceptive. |
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By *Effy-Woman 4 weeks ago
Scotland |
"I think fab has made me have more insecurities 🤷🏻♀️
There's parts of my body I thought we're ok and since been on here realised they are not! "
I know insecurities don't just dissappear when other people tell you that you are wrong, but you're wrong. Your body is perfect! We can swap if you really don't want it 👀 |
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"I think fab has made me have more insecurities 🤷🏻♀️
There's parts of my body I thought we're ok and since been on here realised they are not!
I know insecurities don't just dissappear when other people tell you that you are wrong, but you're wrong. Your body is perfect! We can swap if you really don't want it 👀"
You wouldn't want it! As well as been a bit creaky my photos are very deceptive, it's helps when you're really good at editing and angles! I could upload ones that show a very different picture. I obviously won't though 🤣 |
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"Never been a fan of my bum- legacy of being told it was too big in a previous job.
Gets positive comments on here, so i’ve learnt to like it more. "
I often see your picture through latest pics, great figure. I am glad you learned to like it more. |
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Short (for a guy), big wobbly ass, belly, thick thighs, skinhead, tranny-ish (arguably not really in the tv category). It shouldn’t work or at the very least be very marmite. I get more (positive) attention now than I’ve ever had in my life. |
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I think being on the shorter side and quite slim, I had insecurities in terms of having preconceived ideas in what women look for in a guy when it comes to having sex with them.
I always thought it's was either bodybuilder muscled types or even that sort of manly bear type that they were attracted to but I've been pleasantly surprised that my body type was attractive to others. |
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The only insecurity I can remember having in regards to my body was that I genuinely felt invisible.
I felt like that until I was almost 50 and a couple of things happened that changed my whole outlook on life.
By the time I joined fab aged 52 I had found confidence in myself I'd never had before so even though fab in itself hasn't had any great effect on how I see myself, when others say they like my pics or comment on how I look for my age it reminds me that I'm not so shabby... |
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Oh god, I have so many. Much like others, I can be really down on my appearance at times. But the fact I found some confidence about posting what I did (and I’ve had some nice comments) has been a real boost. I have never liked my waist as that’s where my fat seems to accumulate, but thanks to some nice comments I’ve definitely started to look at it more favourably |
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"I dislike my body in general.
My ex once said that my naked body looked like homer Simpson and it stuck with me... So knowing other people find it other wise is a good thing...no body else has that opinion "
What an awful thing to say! that’s so, so mean |
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I've always been self conscious about my body but especially my tummy and thighs. I struggle to accept that anyone might find me attractive but since becoming active in the lifestyle and on here, I've got better at accepting compliments at face value. |
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"I think fab has made me have more insecurities 🤷🏻♀️
There's parts of my body I thought we're ok and since been on here realised they are not! "
Do you do the whole comparing thing? I try not to, but sometimes it just happens. You shouldnt though..you look smoking hot, despite what that negative nelly is trying to tell your brain |
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"My entire body really. I used to have zero body confidence and hated looking at myself, fab has helped me get over that a bit and I feel more confident overall. "
And so you should lovely. I could say the same about myself really. I'm ok with my legs and big bum, and the face is ok with a bit of slap on ..but everything else, meh. We are who we are though, and to be quite frank, I like my food too much to give a shit anymore 🤷🏼♀️🤣🤣🤣 |
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"Short (for a guy), big wobbly ass, belly, thick thighs, skinhead, tranny-ish (arguably not really in the tv category). It shouldn’t work or at the very least be very marmite. I get more (positive) attention now than I’ve ever had in my life. "
Good for you! You rock that look! |
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"Nice to see the love on here, kudos Mrs wolves. 😉
And f.y.i I think you all look great, but more than that are genuinely nice people. Keep on trucking 👍 x"
Oh youuuuu 🥰
The same goes for you, olive 🫒 man x |
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By *erdyHollyTV/TS 4 weeks ago
In a galaxy far far away |
"I think I have a fat arse but I get messages saying the guys like it. So I guess that's ok
Nothing fat about it, lovely. Makes mine look gigantic 😂 which in fairness it is 😂"
Not at all, very peachy |
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No, not for me.
The bits I don't mind 8 still tolerate. The bits I don't like, I still don't like! But you're right people don't seem to notice those bits as much as I think they do (or they're just too polite to say).
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"I've always been self conscious about my body but especially my tummy and thighs. I struggle to accept that anyone might find me attractive but since becoming active in the lifestyle and on here, I've got better at accepting compliments at face value."
Good for you! |
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"My entire body really. I used to have zero body confidence and hated looking at myself, fab has helped me get over that a bit and I feel more confident overall.
And so you should lovely. I could say the same about myself really. I'm ok with my legs and big bum, and the face is ok with a bit of slap on ..but everything else, meh. We are who we are though, and to be quite frank, I like my food too much to give a shit anymore 🤷🏼♀️🤣🤣🤣"
I’d like to be you when I grow up 🫶🏻 kudos for the positivity |
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"The only insecurity I can remember having in regards to my body was that I genuinely felt invisible.
I felt like that until I was almost 50 and a couple of things happened that changed my whole outlook on life.
By the time I joined fab aged 52 I had found confidence in myself I'd never had before so even though fab in itself hasn't had any great effect on how I see myself, when others say they like my pics or comment on how I look for my age it reminds me that I'm not so shabby..."
You most certainly aren't. That neck 🥵🥵😉 |
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"My entire body really. I used to have zero body confidence and hated looking at myself, fab has helped me get over that a bit and I feel more confident overall.
And so you should lovely. I could say the same about myself really. I'm ok with my legs and big bum, and the face is ok with a bit of slap on ..but everything else, meh. We are who we are though, and to be quite frank, I like my food too much to give a shit anymore 🤷🏼♀️🤣🤣🤣
I’d like to be you when I grow up 🫶🏻 kudos for the positivity "
It's a fake it til you make it job. I do secretly care somewhat 🤫 but the snacks always win 🤣😂 |
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"Oh god, I have so many. Much like others, I can be really down on my appearance at times. But the fact I found some confidence about posting what I did (and I’ve had some nice comments) has been a real boost. I have never liked my waist as that’s where my fat seems to accumulate, but thanks to some nice comments I’ve definitely started to look at it more favourably "
That is good. Your pics look great and you should definitely feel more confident. I have the same problem with the stomach area..I have PCOS and a common symptom is the weight around the stomach. Mind you, the snacks don't help 🫣🫣 |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 4 weeks ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
I have a rollercoaster relationship with my looks. I will say this; I always considered that I looked like a bloke in a dress, and that I was kidding myself if anyone would find me attractive. Since joining Fab I've slowly come to the conclusion that I can do feminine a little bit, and that some people do find me attractive. That's nice, even if I do have regular crises of confidence.
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