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TV/TS verifications off putting?
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Question, not looking to offend!
We are a couple, looking to meet straight men and bi-women.
The amount of 'straight' men who contact us with loads of verifications from TV/TS is a lot.
Are we wrong to be put off by this? |
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"Question, not looking to offend!
We are a couple, looking to meet straight men and bi-women.
The amount of 'straight' men who contact us with loads of verifications from TV/TS is a lot.
Are we wrong to be put off by this? "
If they are clearly "play" veris, and you only want to meet straight guys then I'd say you were perfectly right to be put off. |
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"Question, not looking to offend!
We are a couple, looking to meet straight men and bi-women.
The amount of 'straight' men who contact us with loads of verifications from TV/TS is a lot.
Are we wrong to be put off by this?
If they are clearly "play" veris, and you only want to meet straight guys then I'd say you were perfectly right to be put off. "
This is a very good point because people will quite often leave veris from club meets and parties if you get chatting without play being involved as a sign of activity in the community and being genuine |
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I'm a trans woman and I find it offputting myself! I specify that I'm not into straight men but constantly get guys with straight on their profile messaging me about how they're actually bi (and many of them have play veris from men). To me it shows a certain level of either dishonesty or self-denial.
Everyone is entitled to define their sexuality as they see fit, but you're also entitled to your preferences about who you hook up with (which are worth examining from time to time!).
In my experience nothing you say on your profile will deter the "fab straight" opportunists anyway. Might be worth setting up message filters. |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 3 weeks ago
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"Question, not looking to offend!
We are a couple, looking to meet straight men and bi-women.
The amount of 'straight' men who contact us with loads of verifications from TV/TS is a lot.
Are we wrong to be put off by this? "
No not at all I'm a straight women looking to meet straight guys and it's totally puts me off |
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As a TV I often get 'straight' guys messaging me for sex.
But in all fairness, what does it matter who someone had sex with before they contacted you?
I don't meet straight men because I've done it in the past & the sex wasn't great tbh. |
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"Could you trust someone in real life if they lie on their profile here? I couldn't.
lol I just view everyone is full of shit on their profile by default. Saves the hassles  "
BRB, just updating my height if that's the case 👀 |
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"Could you trust someone in real life if they lie on their profile here? I couldn't.
lol I just view everyone is full of shit on their profile by default. Saves the hassles
BRB, just updating my height if that's the case 👀"
Update it to whatever. Most of us make a 5 second visual decision tbh anyway |
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"Could you trust someone in real life if they lie on their profile here? I couldn't.
lol I just view everyone is full of shit on their profile by default. Saves the hassles
BRB, just updating my height if that's the case 👀
Update it to whatever. Most of us make a 5 second visual decision tbh anyway "
That's a "Why are you booing me? I'm right!" statement if I ever saw one 😂 |
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"Question, not looking to offend!
We are a couple, looking to meet straight men and bi-women.
The amount of 'straight' men who contact us with loads of verifications from TV/TS is a lot.
Are we wrong to be put off by this? "
Honestly, it is a bit off-putting for us as well.
Couldnt tell you why though, nothing against TV/ts folk at all. Maybe it's as you say... "Straight" men. It sounds like there's some copium going on! |
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"Could you trust someone in real life if they lie on their profile here? I couldn't.
lol I just view everyone is full of shit on their profile by default. Saves the hassles
BRB, just updating my height if that's the case 👀
Update it to whatever. Most of us make a 5 second visual decision tbh anyway
That's a "Why are you booing me? I'm right!" statement if I ever saw one 😂"
No it’s just a statement it has no meaning as I don’t possess emotional care to view something as a boo or not. Just facts based on function is all humans are visual text is secondary to that |
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