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Is a lady being called a Milf/Cougar a good thing or a bad thing?
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I recently had a lady say that my username was disrespectful to her when I messaged her but I never thought of it that way myself so I’m just wondering, do people think it’s a good thing to be called it or do they agree with her and they don’t like it? |
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I just think its a silly word tbh. I get called it and i dont even have any kids it just makes me laugh. I wouldnt say im offended by it though just makes me giggle and think im probs not for you so helps me filter  |
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"I just think its a silly word tbh. I get called it and i dont even have any kids it just makes me laugh. I wouldnt say im offended by it though just makes me giggle and think im probs not for you so helps me filter "
I get it and I’m not even a woman.
It’s a damning indictment of the education system in this country. Some people need to pay more attention in biology class. |
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"I don't mind being called a DILF  .
Maybe it should be S for shag instead of F, sound more polite!
Dude is Listerine fresh ?
Lol, that too
Glad someone liked it 😔🤣🤣🤣
I liked it. "
Aww you can come hid in my nuclear bunker when the world ends too 🤣🤣🤣 |
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"I just think its a silly word tbh. I get called it and i dont even have any kids it just makes me laugh. I wouldnt say im offended by it though just makes me giggle and think im probs not for you so helps me filter "
That’s actually very understandable and for me a “milf” doesn’t actually have to be a mum I use it as a term of endearment for a pretty lady but I know not everyone understands that, which is why I don’t actually say it to someone unless they like being called it. My username is just a bit of a hindrance for me at this stage because like you said people probably just see my username, could be attracted to me but don’t even bother because of that word which again is totally fair enough. |
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"I just think its a silly word tbh. I get called it and i dont even have any kids it just makes me laugh. I wouldnt say im offended by it though just makes me giggle and think im probs not for you so helps me filter
That’s actually very understandable and for me a “milf” doesn’t actually have to be a mum I use it as a term of endearment for a pretty lady but I know not everyone understands that, which is why I don’t actually say it to someone unless they like being called it. My username is just a bit of a hindrance for me at this stage because like you said people probably just see my username, could be attracted to me but don’t even bother because of that word which again is totally fair enough."
Yeah you should totally have whatever username you want but me personally wouldnt reply because i would take it you love MILFS as in mums and i'm not one so i would save us both the hassle and delete haha. |
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"I don't mind being called a DILF .
Maybe it should be S for shag instead of F, sound more polite!
Dude is Listerine fresh ?
Lol, that too
Glad someone liked it 😔🤣🤣🤣
I liked it.
Aww you can come hid in my nuclear bunker when the world ends too 🤣🤣🤣"
Thanks! Handy too as my nuclear bunker is full of nuclear material I’ve been trying to shift. |
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"I don't mind being called a DILF .
Maybe it should be S for shag instead of F, sound more polite!
Dude is Listerine fresh ?
Lol, that too
Glad someone liked it 😔🤣🤣🤣
I liked it.
Aww you can come hid in my nuclear bunker when the world ends too 🤣🤣🤣
Thanks! Handy too as my nuclear bunker is full of nuclear material I’ve been trying to shift."
🤣🤣🤣 It is a pain to despise of properly. I just take a leaf out of Japan's book and dump it in the sea |
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" Yeah you should totally have whatever username you want but me personally wouldnt reply because i would take it you love MILFS as in mums and i'm not one so i would save us both the hassle and delete haha. "
See I don’t particularly like my username so I’m actually thinking I’m going to change it because for me it was just so people would look at my username and think “oh he likes an older lady” which I do but it doesn’t matter if they have kids or not obviously.
And I never thought about someone not liking my username to the point that they wouldn’t even message me over it because they don’t like it so thanks for giving me a good bit of insight. |
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"I find milf a turn off & don't have kids anyway. plus I don't want someone to be into me just because I'm older, if that makes sense. "
That makes sense and I wouldn’t say that if I like someone it’s just because they are older it’s more what your body looks like and most ladies have a better personality than younger girls if I’m being honest |
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I get called a milf even though I'm not a mum, it makes me feel old. I don't find it flattering, nor being told by a guy in his 20s how much he loves older women. I'd rather not be reminded I'm 10+ years older than them. I'm still 18 in my head, not 38 😩 |
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"I get called a milf even though I'm not a mum, it makes me feel old. I don't find it flattering, nor being told by a guy in his 20s how much he loves older women. I'd rather not be reminded I'm 10+ years older than them. I'm still 18 in my head, not 38 😩 "
I still think I'm 18, then I try to run and reality sets in 🤣🤣 |
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"I get called a milf even though I'm not a mum, it makes me feel old. I don't find it flattering, nor being told by a guy in his 20s how much he loves older women. I'd rather not be reminded I'm 10+ years older than them. I'm still 18 in my head, not 38 😩
I still think I'm 18, then I try to run and reality sets in 🤣🤣"
Oh my body reminds me all the time 🥲 |
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"I don't mind being called a DILF .
Maybe it should be S for shag instead of F, sound more polite! "
See shag sounds a bit too indifferent to me, ie, yeah I'd shag you, almost a bit unbothered. But fuck feels way more intentional |
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"I get called a milf even though I'm not a mum, it makes me feel old. I don't find it flattering, nor being told by a guy in his 20s how much he loves older women. I'd rather not be reminded I'm 10+ years older than them. I'm still 18 in my head, not 38 😩 "
Its even worse when its someone in their late 30s saying it to you 😭😭 |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 2 weeks ago
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I actually find it less objectionable than being called "baby girl" by guys in their 20s who refer to themselves as "daddy". 🤮
I'm FIFTY-EIGHT FFS!
But, yeah, MILF... at least that's still calling me that and not GILF... putting aside the fact that I'm not someone's mother, even though I can be mother...
How's your day going? 😀🌈
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Some like it, some don't.
I'm guessing you've changed your username now. But if it was something like milfhunter then I'd be simultaneously put off by both being called a milf and the idea of being hunted for it 💜 |
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"I ended up changing my username altogether so I appreciate all the comments! I actually prefer it a lot more the way it is now then being called Milflover😆"
I think it suits you so much better OP. |
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By *almprintsWoman 1 week ago
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"I recently had a lady say that my username was disrespectful to her when I messaged her"
May have fundamentally misunderstood something here. How is your username (IrishGent69) disrespectful? Does she not like Irish people? |
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"I recently had a lady say that my username was disrespectful to her when I messaged her
May have fundamentally misunderstood something here. How is your username (IrishGent69) disrespectful? Does she not like Irish people? "
He changed it. It had milf in it before. |
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The word MILF always makes me think of the staceys mom era, the teenage lad lusting after his friends mum secretly.
When it comes from a grown adult who enjoys an older womans company i just think it sounds a bit naff and silly. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 1 week ago
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"Well, I'm a T-milf. I'm being chatted up by a guy right now who has identified me as such. 😜"
I wonder if I need to stalk through the primeval forest roaring now. Or is that a T-Rex? Omg! Will I now have T-Rex trying to shag me? It's all got so complicated! |
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"I recently had a lady say that my username was disrespectful to her when I messaged her
May have fundamentally misunderstood something here. How is your username (IrishGent69) disrespectful? Does she not like Irish people?
He changed it. It had milf in it before."
He was milflover before. Or maybe she does hate Irish people? And 69. What a horrible person. |
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"The word MILF always makes me think of the staceys mom era, the teenage lad lusting after his friends mum secretly.
When it comes from a grown adult who enjoys an older womans company i just think it sounds a bit naff and silly."
This plus American Pie and porn. It's awkward to hear these terms in real life. |
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Milf and Gilf are derogatory labels that allow the users to place the 'object' into a line of 'things' they can cum into. A thing that exists to relieve their bursting balls.
What posesses people ( men mostly ) to imagine that telling someone you'd fuck them is a compliment ?
If someone considers that a compliment they've got a very low bar. |
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"I hate being called gilf. I prefer milf if you're going to call me anything. I like knowing I'm desired.
Erm.. did you tell your name that 😬
No haha. My oh did. I don't know how to change it. "
Haha i am only playing if you go on your account settings it will allow you to change it if you dont like it x |
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By (user no longer on site) 1 week ago
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The lady’s answer is quite sobering. It seems that, in general, women don’t like being labeled a “MILF.” That said, do some of them secretly enjoy the attention of a much younger man, someone energetic, enthusiastic, and perhaps more open to being guided or shaped according to their preferences and desires? |
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"The lady’s answer is quite sobering. It seems that, in general, women don’t like being labeled a “MILF.” That said, do some of them secretly enjoy the attention of a much younger man, someone energetic, enthusiastic, and perhaps more open to being guided or shaped according to their preferences and desires?"
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"much younger man" — do you mean someone in their 20s...? |
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"Is a lady being called a Milf/Cougar a good thing or a bad thing?"
I guess if they are in their 20s they might find it offensive.
If they are over 60, their hearing is probably not so good, and they may not have heard you - so you might get away with it  |
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