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This was the second meet I'd ever had on here.
Guy turned up late, put his phone on the table and checked it repeatedly, no offer of a drink so I got my own, offered him one and he said no, so I sat there with half a pint of Pepsi and he had nothing, he turned up in joggers, dirty trainers, a dirty tshirt and a cardigan, he'd also gained about 40lb from the photos he'd sent
I've never drank a glass of pop so quickly
As we left he went to kiss me and I turned away so he got my cheek, said goodbye and got in my car
I take much longer before I arrange a meet now |
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By *Effy-Woman 2 weeks ago
Scotland |
It was with my husband on our couples profile and thank the lord he was there!
The guy looked nothing like the pictures he had sent, was absolutely wasted and when he switched his livingroom TV on there were multiple cctv cameras in every room of the house.
A few other things went on that I'm not allowed to talk about, but you can use your imagination.
Meeting them put me off fab for a long time. |
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When i was naive and first came on here i met someone for a social he turned up nothing like his pics about a ft shorter than what he had declared to be and said he wasnt really from were he had originally said. I thought i was gunna end up in a barrell. Now i mame sure i videocall before any meets |
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Met at a trans club event in soho. An intelligent, engaging personality turned into an absolute dickhead. He was keen to make sure I understood he was dominant, culminating in him repeatedly ‘holding’ my throat. I had to get security to sort him out.
There are some nutters out there. |
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I’ve been lucky, the ones I’ve had have all been pretty good, but I did have a tinder hook up, and when I turned up to her place, she had pet rats running around in her bedroom…. I had to leave immediately. I hate rats, it would have been bad if they were in their cage, but running around the house is an absolute no go |
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Agreed to a video call with a lady- no small talk, she launched into a check list of questions (i could see her actually ticking them off) in a manner that would make MI5 proud.
All centered on what I could/would/should do to her, i felt like a cross between a human sex toy and a reluctant job applicant.
She had the self entitled tone deafness to look surprised when I told her I was hanging up. |
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I had arranged to meet for a social, I was living on the East Side of Manchester, she was in Bolton. We agreed to a pub not far from hers so she didnt have to travel far etc (her safety in mind etc) - Pulled up and this woman arrived who was about 20 years older than the pictures I had seen and about 10 stone heavier. I asked why she had used old photos and she said because nobody would meet her otherwise. I didnt even stay for a drink because I felt deceived, and she had the cheek to then say I had wasted her time! |
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It's briefly mentioned in my profile blurb, but I arranged a social meet, just coffee in town. He barely spoke, muttered 'yeah' or 'no' occasionally, while I kept trying to make conversation. He just didn't seem interested in being there at all. He eventually said his first full sentence, "You're a lot fatter than you said"... I had not mentioned my weight at any point, but you can clearly see from my pictures I'm a big gal, I don't try to hide it. He then got up and just walked away. No bye, nothing... and I had to pay for his drink! |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 2 weeks ago
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"It's briefly mentioned in my profile blurb, but I arranged a social meet, just coffee in town. He barely spoke, muttered 'yeah' or 'no' occasionally, while I kept trying to make conversation. He just didn't seem interested in being there at all. He eventually said his first full sentence, "You're a lot fatter than you said"... I had not mentioned my weight at any point, but you can clearly see from my pictures I'm a big gal, I don't try to hide it. He then got up and just walked away. No bye, nothing... and I had to pay for his drink! "
I would have thrown my drink over him |
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By *asoMan 2 weeks ago
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"A few days after a social I'd met a guy that said he didn't fuck on first meet, that was fine, so he proceeded to rub my clit so hard he bruised me I had to tell him to leave "
Goodness sake, was he rubbing with his nails? 😱 |
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"It's briefly mentioned in my profile blurb, but I arranged a social meet, just coffee in town. He barely spoke, muttered 'yeah' or 'no' occasionally, while I kept trying to make conversation. He just didn't seem interested in being there at all. He eventually said his first full sentence, "You're a lot fatter than you said"... I had not mentioned my weight at any point, but you can clearly see from my pictures I'm a big gal, I don't try to hide it. He then got up and just walked away. No bye, nothing... and I had to pay for his drink!
I would have thrown my drink over him"
What made it worse, it was my first meet in 19 months. I was just stunned by his audacity hahaha |
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Met a women few years back with my ex at pub b4 goin on 2 club .sat next 2 her at table and didn't recognise her as her pics were old pics on profile .then in club she was very pushy and rude .if she ad been a guy I would av punched her x |
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I don't think I ever had a great meet here. Except for 1 where I met a guy for wank session(I'm not even bi/gay) lol that tells you a lot.
Too many time wasters/catfish acc ruin the experience of this place |
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"What's the worst meet you've had?"
I went to a woman’s house and at the door she asked if ‘I was going to eat her cunt?’
She was ok looking but her house was the filthiest it EVER seen so declined and walked away.
Crisp packets, cig boxes, cans on the floor. Yes plural.
Dusty cobweb things hanging down everywhere. I could see the kitchen and there was a big dog poo on the floor. |
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"What's the worst meet you've had?
I went to a woman’s house and at the door she asked if ‘I was going to eat her cunt?’
She was ok looking but her house was the filthiest it EVER seen so declined and walked away.
Crisp packets, cig boxes, cans on the floor. Yes plural.
Dusty cobweb things hanging down everywhere. I could see the kitchen and there was a big dog poo on the floor."
Omg I have had that experience too
You question how they even live there |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 2 weeks ago
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"It's briefly mentioned in my profile blurb, but I arranged a social meet, just coffee in town. He barely spoke, muttered 'yeah' or 'no' occasionally, while I kept trying to make conversation. He just didn't seem interested in being there at all. He eventually said his first full sentence, "You're a lot fatter than you said"... I had not mentioned my weight at any point, but you can clearly see from my pictures I'm a big gal, I don't try to hide it. He then got up and just walked away. No bye, nothing... and I had to pay for his drink!
I would have thrown my drink over him
What made it worse, it was my first meet in 19 months. I was just stunned by his audacity hahaha"
I had something similar hapoen to me off another site,he lived quite a distance from me,but we decided to meet at Durham train station and the first thing he said was oh you look much bigger than your photos,I looked him up and down kept my eyes on his nob area for a while and said well you don't impress me much either and walked away  |
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Weve had 2 first we went to a guys house the place was a dump and absolutely dirty and he looked and smelt like he hadn't washed for months safe to say we left
2rd we meet a couple when on holiday seemed nice at first arranged to meet again next time we were going to be in the area but had to cancel at short notice due to my mum passing away the male then decided to call us all the names under the sun and when we blocked him on here and from messenger he decided to contact my young adults on Facebook kept changing his number and contacting us in the end had to get police involved as he just would not stop |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 2 weeks ago
pink panther territory |
"Weve had 2 first we went to a guys house the place was a dump and absolutely dirty and he looked and smelt like he hadn't washed for months safe to say we left
2rd we meet a couple when on holiday seemed nice at first arranged to meet again next time we were going to be in the area but had to cancel at short notice due to my mum passing away the male then decided to call us all the names under the sun and when we blocked him on here and from messenger he decided to contact my young adults on Facebook kept changing his number and contacting us in the end had to get police involved as he just would not stop"
That's really awful that you had to go through that,I'm glad that I rarely meet after hearing things like this |
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"A few days after a social I'd met a guy that said he didn't fuck on first meet, that was fine, so he proceeded to rub my clit so hard he bruised me I had to tell him to leave
Goodness sake, was he rubbing with his nails? 😱"
He actually had neat nails it was just too much pressure |
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By *asoMan 2 weeks ago
Sheffield |
"Weve had 2 first we went to a guys house the place was a dump and absolutely dirty and he looked and smelt like he hadn't washed for months safe to say we left
2rd we meet a couple when on holiday seemed nice at first arranged to meet again next time we were going to be in the area but had to cancel at short notice due to my mum passing away the male then decided to call us all the names under the sun and when we blocked him on here and from messenger he decided to contact my young adults on Facebook kept changing his number and contacting us in the end had to get police involved as he just would not stop"
This is definitely beyond the disaster level 😱 |
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"Weve had 2 first we went to a guys house the place was a dump and absolutely dirty and he looked and smelt like he hadn't washed for months safe to say we left
2rd we meet a couple when on holiday seemed nice at first arranged to meet again next time we were going to be in the area but had to cancel at short notice due to my mum passing away the male then decided to call us all the names under the sun and when we blocked him on here and from messenger he decided to contact my young adults on Facebook kept changing his number and contacting us in the end had to get police involved as he just would not stop
That's really awful that you had to go through that,I'm glad that I rarely meet after hearing things like this"
Luckily with have definitely had more nicer meets than bad |
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Agreed to go to a club with someone I had met socially at events previously, and had chatted online with on the fab chatrooms (this was a couple of years ago now and I used to go on them now and again). He seemed nice and I wasn't doing anything so thought, why not.
Ended up in a private room and it was the worst sex I've ever had, foreplay to fucking it was all bad. Thankfully only lasted about 10 minutes in total, once he came I suggested we go to the bar for a drink and then made my excuses and went home 😆
There was the guy who I met for a social who looked like he was about to pass out the entire conversation, didn't ask me anything and only replied to my questions with one word answers. Painful. I left after 30 mins.
The guy who was leering at me the entire time, slagged his ex wife off for half an hour then came out with a load of right wing bullshit.
Several guys who turned up for socials and were at least 10 years older than their photos, or just looked unrecognisable. |
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One that sticks out in the memory was a couple who invited me over to theirs, took a chance and messaged them as it was a satisfy afternoon and I was at a loose end.
Arrived to find they’d been up “partying” all night, the male half offered me a certain substance to which I declined. Go down to the sex and his wife was so passive and laid their lifeless. I then ask to use their toilet and the man goes “sure lemme just check the coast is clear”. He was doing so as their son was in his room next door! 😳
They asked the following weekend if I wanted to come over again to which I made up an excuse about being busy. |
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By *asoMan 2 weeks ago
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"I had arranged to meet for a social, I was living on the East Side of Manchester, she was in Bolton. We agreed to a pub not far from hers so she didnt have to travel far etc (her safety in mind etc) - Pulled up and this woman arrived who was about 20 years older than the pictures I had seen and about 10 stone heavier. I asked why she had used old photos and she said because nobody would meet her otherwise. I didnt even stay for a drink because I felt deceived, and she had the cheek to then say I had wasted her time! "
‘Nobody would meet me otherwise’, delayed honesty tactic; audacious! |
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"What's the worst meet you've had?"
Went to a meet where the ladies pictures were awesome. Really good camera angles. Got there oh dear not at all what I was expecting. But in for a penny in for a pound. Went upstairs with her to her room full of kids stuff literally floor ceiling path to bed… eeek gets worse she takes off her dressing gown and had the smelliest fanny I’ve ever encountered. If you’ve ever gone fishing and used maggots well that was the smell. That was the straw that broke the camels back and I made my excuses and left. I felt really bad but I just couldn’t go there. |
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Oh wow at some of these. Worse 2 I had was being stood up for a social and the other, him being about 13 years older than he'd claimed.
I'd never go straight to anyone's home, after some of the stories I've seen on threads similar to this. |
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My very first fab meet more than 10 years ago.
Met a woman socially twice and agreed to meet at an hotel a few weeks later.
As soon as I was undressed she punched me full on in the face and when I asked wtaf and got dressed again she apologised profusely claiming that she had a kink that involved me retaliating to what she had done.
I said no way and told her she had picked the wrong guy for that shit. She begged me to stay and said she hadn't mentioned it before in case I didn't turn up or didn't react the way she wanted if I'd known what was coming.
I agreed to stay but an hour later as I walked out of the bathroom she had hidden herself to one side of the door and drove her knee into my balls.
It was my hotel room but I left at that point and left fab a few days later thinking everyone was as crazy as her.
I wasn't physically intimidated as she was half my size but even now the thought of what could have happened is scary regardless of whether I had reacted or not. |
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I might a guy somewhere between where we both lived. He told me where he lived and I suggested a place, went ok ISH. Based on this he then spent the next few weeks driving round trying to find my car and find out where I lived.
He then sent me a picture of a landscape photo in his office, and he had superimposed a fab picture of mine onto it.
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"I might a guy somewhere between where we both lived. He told me where he lived and I suggested a place, went ok ISH. Based on this he then spent the next few weeks driving round trying to find my car and find out where I lived.
He then sent me a picture of a landscape photo in his office, and he had superimposed a fab picture of mine onto it.
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What the hell is wrong with people 😵💫 |
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My first meet here. Went for the complete opposite from my husband! 20 years younger then me, muscles for miles, huge cock. ... i went to a hotel, took ages doing my makeup and getting dressed nice in new underwear must have cost me anout 150 quid inc travel. Invited him up, he was finished in 5 mins, out of my room in 10 mins. Didnt even see my new lingerie just hoiked up my dress bent me over, 4 thrusts and he was done, took the bottled water and coffee sachets and left.
I was unfulfilled. |
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"My very first fab meet more than 10 years ago.
Met a woman socially twice and agreed to meet at an hotel a few weeks later.
As soon as I was undressed she punched me full on in the face and when I asked wtaf and got dressed again she apologised profusely claiming that she had a kink that involved me retaliating to what she had done.
I said no way and told her she had picked the wrong guy for that shit. She begged me to stay and said she hadn't mentioned it before in case I didn't turn up or didn't react the way she wanted if I'd known what was coming.
I agreed to stay but an hour later as I walked out of the bathroom she had hidden herself to one side of the door and drove her knee into my balls.
It was my hotel room but I left at that point and left fab a few days later thinking everyone was as crazy as her.
I wasn't physically intimidated as she was half my size but even now the thought of what could have happened is scary regardless of whether I had reacted or not."
Mental! |
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My first social failure ended badly and for the saddest reason. Too shyness
We chatted for a couple of weeks, and the charming chemistry was working well. We wanted to meet, but of course, Fab curse, we lived far away from each other. One day he told me he was travelling to London for work and staying close to me. Bingo. I was so nervous, I really put a lot of effort into looking sexy.
When I arrived, he was sitting drinking a beer. He barely looked at me staying seated. I said, you are very handsome, look so much better than your pics, in a seductive way. He didn't reply anything. He even looked a bit upset. We continued chatting about very trivial and boring things until I said, well It's better to go back home. He said ok, it's getting late, and I have to work tomorrow. I left. He didn't say a nice thing to me, let alone flirt like we were doing for weeks. I felt so bad, I felt ugly.
On the bus, I checked my messages. He texted me:
I’m alone on my room dreaming you are with me. You are gorgeous and I wanted you so bad
Why now? I replied
I'm shy, he concluded
THE END |
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Showed up at my house at least 8 stone heavier than pictures show, could barely fit through my front door.
Afterwards I gad to say sorry but not really my type it won’t go anywhere. She didn’t accept it so had to block her.
This was a few years ago, since then she had made fake profiles up and tried chatting to me several times again.
Chances are she may look in the forums and see this, if so, that’s another fake profile message coming my way soon |
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m/f couple. She was full of herself like she was doing me a favour. "I've got one condom" and "I don't kiss".
Did not matter to me either way but I lost interest.
I got on well with the chap and we had a good natter. She just sat there not smiling or saying much. After a while, made my excuses and left. |
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I have been very lucky with most of the socials and meets. Even the socials that didn’t turn into anything, they were great guy just not for me.
One however was let’s just say not for the faint hearted. Lucky I know when I’m being manipulated so it didn’t affect me as much it did to others he did it too. He would later lose his job over it (not because of me). |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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"I've not met anyone yet. I'm very careful but from this simply careful might not be enough! 😬"
Wow, there are some seriously disrespectful people out there/in here! I'd be happy with a social but even that sounds frought! 😬🙂 |
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"I might a guy somewhere between where we both lived. He told me where he lived and I suggested a place, went ok ISH. Based on this he then spent the next few weeks driving round trying to find my car and find out where I lived.
He then sent me a picture of a landscape photo in his office, and he had superimposed a fab picture of mine onto it.
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A landscape you say, not any landscape - it was Claude Monet's Water Lilies. Also I had placed you in the water behind the reeds, which explained the wet T-shirt when any of my clients asked about it   |
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I had a meet on an old profile. Shared plenty of pics etc and then when I turned up she looked like a completely different person.
Had a nice chat etc but it ended there. |
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We had sex and followed up with a therapy session about his ex girlfriend. He then proceeds to discuss our sex and told me what I did great and where I could improve.
He struggled to understand why I didnt want to meet again  |
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Never had a bad meeting. Couple odd ones first was lot years ago chatted to a couple over maybe 2 months when we met at there house had a 7 week old baby that she was feeding. Ended good meet and long term friends. Just first message must been just before and just after giving birth.
Other was with my ex a couple she was nice he was arrogant and believe is 9 inch cock was every girls dream.
Once met a couple great night but day after my back was sore when looked mirror deep scratches and I mean deep at time did not feel her digging nails in so bad. |
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"I might a guy somewhere between where we both lived. He told me where he lived and I suggested a place, went ok ISH. Based on this he then spent the next few weeks driving round trying to find my car and find out where I lived.
He then sent me a picture of a landscape photo in his office, and he had superimposed a fab picture of mine onto it.
What the hell is wrong with people 😵💫 "
One of the many reason I never have my proper location on here anymore. |
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"I might a guy somewhere between where we both lived. He told me where he lived and I suggested a place, went ok ISH. Based on this he then spent the next few weeks driving round trying to find my car and find out where I lived.
He then sent me a picture of a landscape photo in his office, and he had superimposed a fab picture of mine onto it.
A landscape you say, not any landscape - it was Claude Monet's Water Lilies. Also I had placed you in the water behind the reeds, which explained the wet T-shirt when any of my clients asked about it "
It was a pretty impressive picture to be fair! |
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Some of these are really awful to read. But as I always 'date', am not a 'swinger' and usually meet people from elsewhere, touch wood, no terrible experiences. Would never just randomly meet at a hotel, go to their houses, or invite them to mine, unless we were sort of a bit more established!! |
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Haven’t had a bad meet here, but on the last site I was on before joining Fab I did.
I’d got chatting to a fella, we got on well and he seemed normal. We chatted for weeks and so when I had a child free weekend I invited him to mine.
He rocks up, I give him a BJ. He cums (and he hasn’t touched me yet). He says “I just have to go and grab something from the car” which is parked on the road. Ok says I. Sit waiting on the sofa. And waiting. I hear a car driving off….he’s left.
And do you know what, that fella messaged me on WhatsApp at least once a year asking for a repeat BJ for approximately 5 years, despite me blocking him.
Cheek! |
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"Haven’t had a bad meet here, but on the last site I was on before joining Fab I did.
I’d got chatting to a fella, we got on well and he seemed normal. We chatted for weeks and so when I had a child free weekend I invited him to mine.
He rocks up, I give him a BJ. He cums (and he hasn’t touched me yet). He says “I just have to go and grab something from the car” which is parked on the road. Ok says I. Sit waiting on the sofa. And waiting. I hear a car driving off….he’s left.
And do you know what, that fella messaged me on WhatsApp at least once a year asking for a repeat BJ for approximately 5 years, despite me blocking him.
Cheek! "
I hate him 🤬 |
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Cut a long story short,I was meeting one half of a couple. At some point I was to phone her husband up so he could listen in on the action. The meeting had been arranged for weeks,I drove 80 miles. When I got there she answered the door dressed in full fetish gear and wearing a robe. It quickly became apparent she was as d*unk as a skunk. In the end I ended up putting her to bed,she was out for the count. I phoned her husband up and told him I'd put her to bed and that there was no way in hell that anything was happening tonight. I ended up kipping on the sofa,in the morning she was mortified at what had happened,couldn't apologise enough....but thankful too. I made breakfast for us both....then I was on mi way home, back up the motorway.
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Can't name call but they're still in fab. Dead of winter, husband and I spoke for MONTHS planning this meet for he and the missus. She had a Christmas dinner with her team in London so the hotel was arranged, knowing what I know now, I'd have arranged it myself to avoid what was to come. Anyway, Christmas Dinner is finished, I told him I'm already otw to the hotel, I'd meet her outside so that we may have a few lovely drinks at the bar opposite the street. We had an agreed time to meet, So I went inside, sat on the reception couch for hours until I was told I had to leave if I didn't have a reservation. I messaged throughout my time there to ask what was the hold up, traffic , cold feet etc - never got a response. The reception staff was very friendly and kept offering my coffee but in the end I had to leave. Took me two and a half hours to get back to my residence. Never got an explanation for any of it |
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I've had three meets plus three disappearing acts.
First was the worst - definitely lacked experience, used his fingers like a jackhammer, absolutely no sense of touch or attunement, and when his condom 'fell off' he kept pressing me to continue without it. Absolutely not, sunshine. So that ended sharpish, with no orgasm and a raw cervix.
Second was just a spur of the moment social I was convinced into after someone else had pulled out. Just a few drinks in the local, but it was good. No sex though, just a kiss.
Third turned into a year long relationship (situationship is probably more accurate) which he initiated. I ended it because I was bored of half-assed sex and sick of seeing half naked girl's, barely out of their teens, popping up on my insta feed 🤮
Two ghosters since. And now I'm questioning my life choices. I must say, reading the above isn't leaving me with much hope it'll get any better 😅
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Strap in boys and girls. Ive put this on the forum before but it's always worth repeating.
Messaging a lady in Lincolnshire and we agreed to meet for a cuppa. She said she didn't drive so I offered to pick her up.
I get to her place and ring the bell and she answers. She is in an electric wheelchair and has very obvious limitations. There was no mention of this on her profile and it never came up in conversation.
My car is definitely not equipped for this situation.
I am obviously in a bit of shellshock at this point, she awkwardly asks if I want to come in for a cuppa. I say yes.
We sit in her living room chatting over a cuppa. The room is dominated by a large medical bed and hoist. I then make my excuses and leave.
Did I mention she did amateur taxidermy as a hobby? Well she did amateur taxidermy as a hobby. There were buckets of animal remains around the room. It stank. Not overpowering, but noticeable and acrid.
I washed my clothes twice when I got home. I could still smell the room on them (not sure if it was psychological). Binned them.
Scarred I was. Scarred. |
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"Can't name call but they're still in fab. Dead of winter, husband and I spoke for MONTHS planning this meet for him and the missus. She had a Christmas dinner with her team in London so the hotel was arranged, knowing what I know now, I'd have arranged it myself to avoid what was to come. Anyway, Christmas Dinner is finished, I told him I'm already otw to the hotel, I'd meet her outside so that we may have a few lovely drinks at the bar opposite the street. We had an agreed time to meet, So I went inside, sat on the reception couch for hours until I was told I had to leave if I didn't have a reservation. I messaged throughout my time there to ask what was the hold up, traffic , cold feet etc - never got a response. The reception staff was very friendly and kept offering my coffee but in the end I had to leave. Took me two and a half hours to get back to my residence. Never got an explanation for any of it "
I bet the wife never existed. So many single guys pretend to be a couple to engage in a sexual conversation with young guys. |
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In a nutshell... the guy had taken different substances (realised that kuch later) and couldn't sit still. It actually started off walking to his flat from where we'd met and one street looked particularly dodgy with a big group of guys just sat there. I honestly thought my life was going to end there. Told me his life story which was extremely dramatic and he was very intense with me. Kept talking about having bare sex with me as we'd make cure babies. I got out. |
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By *erdyHolly OP TV/TS 2 weeks ago
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"This thread is eye opening…I’ve yet to schedule my first meet (waiting till after a club visit to try that) but Lordy…some of you have had terrible times   "
Yup, there's been some terrible experiences. Truly horrifying |
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"Strap in boys and girls. Ive put this on the forum before but it's always worth repeating.
Messaging a lady in Lincolnshire and we agreed to meet for a cuppa. She said she didn't drive so I offered to pick her up.
I get to her place and ring the bell and she answers. She is in an electric wheelchair and has very obvious limitations. There was no mention of this on her profile and it never came up in conversation.
My car is definitely not equipped for this situation.
I am obviously in a bit of shellshock at this point, she awkwardly asks if I want to come in for a cuppa. I say yes.
We sit in her living room chatting over a cuppa. The room is dominated by a large medical bed and hoist. I then make my excuses and leave.
Did I mention she did amateur taxidermy as a hobby? Well she did amateur taxidermy as a hobby. There were buckets of animal remains around the room. It stank. Not overpowering, but noticeable and acrid.
I washed my clothes twice when I got home. I could still smell the room on them (not sure if it was psychological). Binned them.
Scared I was. Scarred."
Horrendous. This experience surpasses the Terrible Social’s thread story of the woman who brought their children to a hotel room meet and the guy ended up calling security
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"Reading through this thread is bluddy scary ,I rarely meet to start with but now il be even more caut about meeting, it's a true fact you really don't no people at all"
There haven’t been many from the lads perspective but it’s even making me hesitant |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 2 weeks ago
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"Reading through this thread is bluddy scary ,I rarely meet to start with but now il be even more caut about meeting, it's a true fact you really don't no people at all
There haven’t been many from the lads perspective but it’s even making me hesitant "
I wish I'd never read the bluddy thread now  |
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"Reading through this thread is bluddy scary ,I rarely meet to start with but now il be even more caut about meeting, it's a true fact you really don't no people at all
There haven’t been many from the lads perspective but it’s even making me hesitant
I wish I'd never read the bluddy thread now "
I’ll grab the sponges can you grab the soap. I’m scrubbing it from my memory. Just help me get my back |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 2 weeks ago
pink panther territory |
"Reading through this thread is bluddy scary ,I rarely meet to start with but now il be even more caut about meeting, it's a true fact you really don't no people at all
There haven’t been many from the lads perspective but it’s even making me hesitant
I wish I'd never read the bluddy thread now
I’ll grab the sponges can you grab the soap. I’m scrubbing it from my memory. Just help me get my back "
Ooh your smooth |
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"Reading through this thread is bluddy scary ,I rarely meet to start with but now il be even more caut about meeting, it's a true fact you really don't no people at all
There haven’t been many from the lads perspective but it’s even making me hesitant
I wish I'd never read the bluddy thread now
I’ll grab the sponges can you grab the soap. I’m scrubbing it from my memory. Just help me get my back
Ooh your smooth "
I will be when the bubble bath is added |
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Twice on FabGuys and once on FabSwingers when I was first starting out.
1). FabGuys invited to attend private house party only to then find married couple with kids answered door. Apologised wrong door NR. The guy who invited me was properly peeping from window nearby having a good laugh.
2). FabGuys invited to attend 1-2-1 meeting at guys home, on arrival he opened the door which I entered very dark room to find he was nothing like he'd shown on his profile. Luckily keys left in door which I quick stepped out asap, only to find him follow me to say he'd pay me to stay, which I replied no amount of money would get me to stay due to deceit. Very nasty guy, and a very lucky escape. Could've turned ugly.
3). FabSwingers, invited to couples profile on arrival advised his Mrs was out and she would be back to join in, so gave him the benefit of doubt and went upstairs as requested. We had fun with him cumming three times. He later confessed, advising me his Mrs wasn't in the know and he just wanted to experience his first time with a CD/TS/TG, etc. he even left me a lovely verification and later had to block because his Mrs got upset with him he told me. Not nice, way too much Drama.
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Reading these has been a really eye opener. To each and everyone of you who have posted you really do have my sympathy.
Us humans can be bloody brilliant at times but fuck me we can unfortunately be bloody awful too. |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 2 weeks ago
pink panther territory |
"Reading these has been a really eye opener. To each and everyone of you who have posted you really do have my sympathy.
Us humans can be bloody brilliant at times but fuck me we can unfortunately be bloody awful too."
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"I think it shows that when meeting from online due diligence is needed. Check verifications video calls, meet for socials in a public place first.
Safety first "
Yep even those who have public service jobs, watch for them 😐 |
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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNiceMan 2 weeks ago
Maidenhead now Travel lots Face-Pic-A-Must. Let's at least chat maybe a social if we Click |
3 real bad
All at houses early days on fab.
Now my hotel or booked accommodation or no meet simple really.
Short list of bads.
Animals unadvised.
Dogs hairs
Unwashed sheets
Poo stained toilets
B.o
Friends at houses unadvised.
And fabbers wonder why I ask so many inquisitive questions & insist on a selfie and WhatsApp No exchanges lol.
Watch out there are some weirdos about.
F.y.i
My verifications confirm I have also had some great meets to.
And lots do not wish to do or have verifications.
Shame
But we have to respect that
BigLittleT xc |
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By *WB85Man 2 weeks ago
Staffordshire |
I'd been chatting for a while with a lady on here, swapped photos and all seemed good.
Spent a week chatting before having a social.
On the day of the social she aged 12 years. She admitted her pics were old and it made things awkward. I declined her asking me to get in the back her car and went home.
Now I photo verify just to be on the safe side. |
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While I've had disappointing ones that didn't live up to the promise, I can't say I've ever had a total disaster.
My skank filter is in A1 condition apparently. Never met a disgusting arsehole, just nice people being economical with the truth and I'm sure the had their reasons. |
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"I'd been chatting for a while with a lady on here, swapped photos and all seemed good.
Spent a week chatting before having a social.
On the day of the social she aged 12 years. She admitted her pics were old and it made things awkward. I declined her asking me to get in the back her car and went home.
Now I photo verify just to be on the safe side. "
I had a non-fab date many years ago. Her photos were 10 years and 40 kilos out of date. We went for a quiet drink to meet up. She then insisted we go to the next pub which she insisted was 'much better'. It also happened, but total coincidence, to have her work mates there on a christmas ir birthday do (can't remember which). My date immediately starts doing rounds of shots with her colleagues, leaving me at the table like a muppet. I did an Irish goodbye and left. She messaged me the next day kicking off about it. Happily blocked her. |
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The man who wouldn’t let me out of his car, we had been out for dinner, had a lovely evening and I agreed to him dropping me off “home”. He wouldn’t stop and said we were going to go somewhere quiet. Thank goodness for traffic lights, I got out.
Another guy I met for some drinks, had such a lovely evening and he was the perfect gentleman. I let my guard down and went back to his. He blindfolded me and tied my hands to the bed. I sensed he was filming me, I was too frightened to say no at first, when I did he stopped what he was doing. He later messaged with photos of another girl blindfolded and telling me how she wasn’t confident in her skin. I feared he would do the same to me. I messaged the girl and told her he sent photos of her to me, she was devastated and said she trusted him. He was blocked and reported. |
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"The man who wouldn’t let me out of his car, we had been out for dinner, had a lovely evening and I agreed to him dropping me off “home”. He wouldn’t stop and said we were going to go somewhere quiet. Thank goodness for traffic lights, I got out.
Another guy I met for some drinks, had such a lovely evening and he was the perfect gentleman. I let my guard down and went back to his. He blindfolded me and tied my hands to the bed. I sensed he was filming me, I was too frightened to say no at first, when I did he stopped what he was doing. He later messaged with photos of another girl blindfolded and telling me how she wasn’t confident in her skin. I feared he would do the same to me. I messaged the girl and told her he sent photos of her to me, she was devastated and said she trusted him. He was blocked and reported."
Jesus that's some scary shit |
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"The man who wouldn’t let me out of his car, we had been out for dinner, had a lovely evening and I agreed to him dropping me off “home”. He wouldn’t stop and said we were going to go somewhere quiet. Thank goodness for traffic lights, I got out.
Another guy I met for some drinks, had such a lovely evening and he was the perfect gentleman. I let my guard down and went back to his. He blindfolded me and tied my hands to the bed. I sensed he was filming me, I was too frightened to say no at first, when I did he stopped what he was doing. He later messaged with photos of another girl blindfolded and telling me how she wasn’t confident in her skin. I feared he would do the same to me. I messaged the girl and told her he sent photos of her to me, she was devastated and said she trusted him. He was blocked and reported.
Jesus that's some scary shit "
Very! I definitely put my defences so much more, took several years to get back on the wagon. Thankfully I have since met some wonderful people |
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"The man who wouldn’t let me out of his car, we had been out for dinner, had a lovely evening and I agreed to him dropping me off “home”. He wouldn’t stop and said we were going to go somewhere quiet. Thank goodness for traffic lights, I got out.
Another guy I met for some drinks, had such a lovely evening and he was the perfect gentleman. I let my guard down and went back to his. He blindfolded me and tied my hands to the bed. I sensed he was filming me, I was too frightened to say no at first, when I did he stopped what he was doing. He later messaged with photos of another girl blindfolded and telling me how she wasn’t confident in her skin. I feared he would do the same to me. I messaged the girl and told her he sent photos of her to me, she was devastated and said she trusted him. He was blocked and reported.
Jesus that's some scary shit
Very! I definitely put my defences so much more, took several years to get back on the wagon. Thankfully I have since met some wonderful people"
Glad to hear it, good reminder for everyone though, safety first |
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Overview ….
My left black Oxford shoe which is still behind the reception desk I believe at Chichester travel lodge …
As I sprinted trying pull my jeans on to leave a disaster … omg - sadly only the use of
sodium thiopental, sodium amytal (barbiturates), and scopolamine Would force me to confess !
I still shudder and shake x |
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I've had a couple of meets that have turned into a disaster due to me not being well.
On one of the meets I felt a little off after the meet finished, but he was due to take me home so I just thought I'd sleep it off when I got home.
I ended up suddenly needing to vomit, and nor quite making it out of the car fully.
He was nice natured about it at the time ( most of the vomit was outside of the car ), and said he'd message me in the morning to check I was okay. I never heard from him again and he blocked me after that.
I felt so humiliated and embarassed. I get it wasn't pleasant but the least he could have done was check I was okay the next day.
A lot of my meets off here have been very meh at best. |
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So we met this couple a good few years ago. We’d been chatting a while and finally got to the meeting for a drink part of it.. well they kept changing the time, location etc.. already red flags, but pushed on.
Met said couple, Mrs was sat arms folded, not engaging, more red flags..meanwhile mr is like yay let’s do this.. but you know when it’s just not right?!.. was just a bit odd for us,
anyway we make our excuses to leave but mr panics and says hey come back to ours..
So yea we do, ignoring our instincts. There’s a hot tub in their room, wine chocolates and the whole lot, but anyway myself (mrs) thinks ok I’ll kick this off, gets naked and dips in the hot tub.. my mr follows.
However, they’re confabbing in the corner and say .. “look we’re gonna head out, was nice meeting you etc but you’ll be gone when we get back”..
so basically we had a bath in a strangers hotel suite.. not embarrassing at all 🤣🤷🏻♀️ |
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By *erdyHolly OP TV/TS 2 weeks ago
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"So we met this couple a good few years ago. We’d been chatting a while and finally got to the meeting for a drink part of it.. well they kept changing the time, location etc.. already red flags, but pushed on.
Met said couple, Mrs was sat arms folded, not engaging, more red flags..meanwhile mr is like yay let’s do this.. but you know when it’s just not right?!.. was just a bit odd for us,
anyway we make our excuses to leave but mr panics and says hey come back to ours..
So yea we do, ignoring our instincts. There’s a hot tub in their room, wine chocolates and the whole lot, but anyway myself (mrs) thinks ok I’ll kick this off, gets naked and dips in the hot tub.. my mr follows.
However, they’re confabbing in the corner and say .. “look we’re gonna head out, was nice meeting you etc but you’ll be gone when we get back”..
so basically we had a bath in a strangers hotel suite.. not embarrassing at all 🤣🤷🏻♀️"
Wtf, that is very strange |
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By *ee1967Man 2 weeks ago
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Way back when, me and my ex-wife were swinging. We used to meet couples, and sometimes when we met the couples it was quite obvious that the female half had been talked into it by the male half. The female would sit there just looking bored or not really joining in or anything, and she was doing it usually just to annoy her partner for talking her into it. |
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"Way back when, me and my ex-wife were swinging. We used to meet couples, and sometimes when we met the couples it was quite obvious that the female half had been talked into it by the male half. The female would sit there just looking bored or not really joining in or anything, and she was doing it usually just to annoy her partner for talking her into it. "
I have had this. I met a couple at their home. It was clear she was being pushed into it. I made my excuses and left.
Years ago in chat I was talking to a woman from Coventry. It progressed to email chats and then Skype video chats. We chatted online for a couple of months before she suggested meeting at a hotel near to her. We agreed to meet at the entrance of the hotel. When we met she said sorry I don't fancy you and walked off. WTF lol. We have been chatting for weeks on Skype. It wasn't like outside the hotel was the first time she had seen me. |
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By *ee1967Man 2 weeks ago
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"Way back when, me and my ex-wife were swinging. We used to meet couples, and sometimes when we met the couples it was quite obvious that the female half had been talked into it by the male half. The female would sit there just looking bored or not really joining in or anything, and she was doing it usually just to annoy her partner for talking her into it.
I have had this. I met a couple at their home. It was clear she was being pushed into it. I made my excuses and left.
Years ago in chat I was talking to a woman from Coventry. It progressed to email chats and then Skype video chats. We chatted online for a couple of months before she suggested meeting at a hotel near to her. We agreed to meet at the entrance of the hotel. When we met she said sorry I don't fancy you and walked off. WTF lol. We have been chatting for weeks on Skype. It wasn't like outside the hotel was the first time she had seen me. "
Interesting isnt it. Love to chat more |
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"Agreed to a video call with a lady- no small talk, she launched into a check list of questions (i could see her actually ticking them off) in a manner that would make MI5 proud.
All centered on what I could/would/should do to her, i felt like a cross between a human sex toy and a reluctant job applicant.
She had the self entitled tone deafness to look surprised when I told her I was hanging up. "
So women are just as clueless as men haha
Good to know |
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In my mid twenties I met a couple who id been chatting with for awhile and had arranged a threesome with, the wife was absolutely stunning and I couldn't believe my luck, so I went round and she opened the door in some black lingerie and stockings I almost came there, I said hello to the husband and she takes me to the bedroom where we start kissing and fondling each over she soon has my cock in her mouth then her husband comes into to watch,this is were it starts to go wrong. She's sucking me and he asks if he can join in but shes abit hesitant then they start to argue about her only wanting my big cock and he storms out the room, I ask her if she'd like me to go and she said no fuck him it was his idea and if can't handle it its his problem but don't take to long to cum. So I didn't and left in a hurry. That was my last house visit nearly twenty years ago and one of the reasons I only meet at clubs now. |
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The worst was has been dating in a club for a massage and realised she used me to pay for both.
There she knew some people and only wanted to enjoy the jacuzzi and sauna.
When the massage started she complained about the technique saying she suffered of fibromyalgia.
Dumb of me At least I learnt not to trust. |
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"In my mid twenties I met a couple who id been chatting with for awhile and had arranged a threesome with, the wife was absolutely stunning and I couldn't believe my luck, so I went round and she opened the door in some black lingerie and stockings I almost came there, I said hello to the husband and she takes me to the bedroom where we start kissing and fondling each over she soon has my cock in her mouth then her husband comes into to watch,this is were it starts to go wrong. She's sucking me and he asks if he can join in but shes abit hesitant then they start to argue about her only wanting my big cock and he storms out the room, I ask her if she'd like me to go and she said no fuck him it was his idea and if can't handle it its his problem but don't take to long to cum. So I didn't and left in a hurry. That was my last house visit nearly twenty years ago and one of the reasons I only meet at clubs now."
I went for a MFM with a couple. Met at theirs and got to it pretty quickly. Not my usual MO. Things progress and the husband finishes pretty quickly. I am barely getting warmed up at that point so the wife and I keep going. I am not quick to finish but I could tell the husband was getting more arsey as his wife was getting more into it.
I faked a climax and binned the condom and made my excuses to leave. |
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"I went to his house and it was beyond grotesque.
It must have been the most cluttered filthy home I had ever been in.
Never again haha, I couldn't stay I had to leave it was truly awful. "
I have to ask, what redeeming features did he display to make you want to visit his midden in the first place? |
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Just remembered another bad one.
Playing with someone i had seen many times before, we were going at it when our activity brought on a heavy period. Absolute blo*dbath.
We got cleaned up and she suggested some back door fun. So we restarted and just as we were getting into it, it became apparent that her prep work hadnt been thorough, given the brown liquid torrent that had erupted.
Definitely ruined the vibe. I am glad of 2 things though.
1. We were at hers
2. She had laminate flooring. |
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By *erdyHolly OP TV/TS 2 weeks ago
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"Just remembered another bad one.
Playing with someone i had seen many times before, we were going at it when our activity brought on a heavy period. Absolute blo*dbath.
We got cleaned up and she suggested some back door fun. So we restarted and just as we were getting into it, it became apparent that her prep work hadnt been thorough, given the brown liquid torrent that had erupted.
Definitely ruined the vibe. I am glad of 2 things though.
1. We were at hers
2. She had laminate flooring."
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By *iver78Man 2 weeks ago
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The very worse was a lady in derbyshire , I wanted a social but she was happy for me to go to hers ,all was going well and we had sex in her kitchen , lovely oak dining table lol , had a break and went to her living room were she asked me join her in front if fire , just started having sex and I moved into doggy when I caught site of a man at the doorway !! Obviously I stopped ,
She was extremely sheepish and he was just kinda looking sad , I left and she messaged me about an hour later saying it was her husband and they had split and he had moved out " that morning !!
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