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A social or straight to it
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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"Are you a social first type or a just get to it type
I'll take anything at the moment 😆 🤣 "
Haha, yes, a social sounds like an unobtainable dream at the moment 😆 |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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"A social everytime.
Even just a coffee and a chat in a no pressure environment, is good. "
I'm so surprised this isn't the norm but I guess I'm fairly new to this site 😂 I'd opt for this everytime I think. |
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As with others I meet socially first, but that has led straight back to my place on a few occasions - sometimes that comes as a bit of a shock to me (the shock being that someone is daft enough to fancy me) |
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By *asoMan 2 weeks ago
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"Straight to it then social. My social skills improve massively after coitus 😂
Coitus?
Who are you, Sheldon Cooper? 
Hahah are you jealous I’m nerdy as well 🤣
Sheldon is my hero  "
I didn’t miss an episode of the big bang theory. I watch it every December |
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Would you not worry about someone who is happy to meet random people off the internet without a social first?
I mean sometimes I haven't finished my coffee/drink and we've decided to "go somewhere we can get more comfortable".
You need to know you click or there is a spark there... Gives both parties the chance to re-evaluate. |
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By *Effy-Woman 2 weeks ago
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"Every guy I've met we've had a hotel booked, drinks then naked stuff.
If I'm meeting someone I'm 97% sure I want more. "
This for me too. I don't have enough free time to be faffing around with meeting for socials all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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"Every guy I've met we've had a hotel booked, drinks then naked stuff.
If I'm meeting someone I'm 97% sure I want more.
This for me too. I don't have enough free time to be faffing around with meeting for socials all the time. "
When we having that drink then Effy? |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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"Every guy I've met we've had a hotel booked, drinks then naked stuff.
If I'm meeting someone I'm 97% sure I want more.
This for me too. I don't have enough free time to be faffing around with meeting for socials all the time. "
Same. Plus I'd go off them and onto someone new before we got chance to arrange to meet again! Short attention span. |
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"Always a social, but sometimes it can turn into more "
This. I actually have to like someone before I put my penis in them. Depending on how long I have been chatting to someone, its occasionally just a chemistry/click check. However, I do like to see if I can be in someone's company in a normal situation. Showing restraint when there is chemistry and tension can be amazing. |
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Always a social first. I’ve had a couple of socials where I wasn’t sexually attracted to them, can’t imagine having to say no it’s not happening on the meet or feeling obliged too do something out of feeling bad |
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"Always a social, but sometimes it can turn into more
This. I actually have to like someone before I put my penis in them. Depending on how long I have been chatting to someone, its occasionally just a chemistry/click check. However, I do like to see if I can be in someone's company in a normal situation. Showing restraint when there is chemistry and tension can be amazing."
Absolutely this! |
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Social first. No expectations or pressure but also no limitations if there’s chemistry.
In a club is different. That can be anything from a chat in the bar first to eyes meeting and sparks flying in a playroom. |
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Depends mostly i would say social but have had a hot night, where we just met at a hotel room after matching on a dating app was either pof or one of the others and just fucked and played all night and both left the next morning and havent seen her again since .. was wild gotta love your 20s lol |
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"Always a social and in many cases a social even when we both knew beforehand it would never go any further but we agreed we were good people and it was nice to meet face to face."
This is why group socials are so lovely. Get to meet people I’m not going to bang like those straight women 🤣 |
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"Are you a social first type or a just get to it type"
Social first
Getting down to naughtiness is not strictly off the cards and to be fair I usually get down to naughtiness on the first meet
But I do not promise it, just in case when I do meet, the guy turns out to be just unbearable  |
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I like a social. But then Im a social able kinda guy.
Saying that, I wouldn't decline a "get too it", but I think a social is a good call for safety, chemistry, and making sure every is still attracted. Im VERY photogenic you see 😂 |
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hearditall I agree...
Forming some kind of connection and desire will lead to far better fun!
It doesn't have to be a long drink if things are going well...
I've met ladies at a hotel before, met in the bar, had a drink, then gone to the hotel pool/spa and chilled in the jacuzzi chatting... That certainly heated things up and often led to popping up to the room... |
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