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Do you prefer conversationalists or someone who cuts straight to the chase?
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By *itter78Couple 2 weeks ago
Spennymoor |
Oooo we're different
I (Mrs) love to jump straight to it, no small talk, fully hedonistic
He (Mr) loves the build up and flirting before play or he gets bored half way through 🫣🫣
It works well for our relationship but means I play a lot more than him in the swinging world |
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"If I've not met you, I like conversation but not too much conversation. If you're gonna start asking me how my day was you can go away. "
If I don't ask how your day was but how was your month was. Will that help? |
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By *eliWoman 2 weeks ago
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I like talking to people, getting to know them, also don't want to talk daily. I'd much rather someone messaged because they actually wanted to talk rather than an odd sense of obligation.
Not a big fan of when people only talk about themselves, that can switch me off sadly. Big fan of when someone is mentally stimulating and has that spark about them that makes me want to find out more.
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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"If I've not met you, I like conversation but not too much conversation. If you're gonna start asking me how my day was you can go away.
If I don't ask how your day was but how was your month was. Will that help?"
I may think you're a bit weird |
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"For me I do prefer conversationalist, I know looks are one part of the attraction. However, even so if I can't have a conversation with someone. Then it just won't work for me. As I'm very chatty."
Same here OP |
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I can be a conversationalist, it takes two, it can be a great way to build sexual chemistry without being explicit. I can also skip it until after the sex, sometimes you can see enough about a person on a profile & few messages to know that you want them. But there’s never any excuse for the how are you/how’s your day rubbish, it’s nosy and it’s boring. |
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I like the conversations but its small talk much of the time. Its a give and take dynamic. One has to nake conversation and have an almost question to ask within the conversation for the recipiant to respond too. And also for them to carry on the almost question theme.
Its how conversations work but at tes it can be tough not to simply ask, how was your day, your weekend weather stuff.
The art of small talk is a challenge sometimes especially if you are trying to avoid the constant under lying message of i just want to pin you against a wall, kiss your neck and pull your hair whilst investigating the inside of your knickers with my hand. 🤷♂️
One word replies kill it.
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"I can be a conversationalist, it takes two, it can be a great way to build sexual chemistry without being explicit. I can also skip it until after the sex, sometimes you can see enough about a person on a profile & few messages to know that you want them. But there’s never any excuse for the how are you/how’s your day rubbish, it’s nosy and it’s boring."
It is lazy. And i admit that i have done it |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 2 weeks ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Online, I find most conversationalists will never meet for whatever reason, whereas those who ask if you're free on a certain day and time and propose a location, then read my terms and conditions copy and paste and are happy with it, will be reliable.  |
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