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How to women on fab genuinely like to be approached
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By someone who's pictures show enough for me to feel at least reasonably confident that I find them physically attractive, with a profile that actually tells me something about them as a person that indicates compatibility, with a message that I clearly written to me specifically rather than something universal that can be flung into the inbox of every viable orifice they see, and without a dick pic attached or some fap fodder fantasy bullshit 💜 |
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Your May 1st apron pic would do it. I like a man who cooks!
But seriously, just be normal, talk about normal stuff. Approach as you would someone in a bar. Don’t make it all about the sex. Not at the start.
Don’t be desperate. Don’t be pushy. Just be you.
Keep in mind that no meets is NOT a reflection on YOU, just how the site is. Don’t get disheartened by perceived lack of interest, as it is not personal to you, but sometimes to people in general. If that makes sense?
Just enjoy yourself and if it stops being fun then have a breather and step away for a bit.
But I will reiterate- your success (or lack of it) on Fab has NO BEARING on you as a person. |
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By *WB85Man 1 week ago
Staffordshire |
With a nice simple message and a photo of yourself.
The clues are often in their profile.
When it says they dont want a dick pic....they mean it, regardless of how proud you are of it.
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Sorry OP, had not checked that you were new to the Forum and this was your first post - so welcome, and apologies for the flippant comments, but do enjoy the Forum and good luck in your search (your profile and pics are respectful, and you look fit, so carry on and you'll have fun). |
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By *eliWoman 1 week ago
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"Your May 1st apron pic would do it. I like a man who cooks!
But seriously, just be normal, talk about normal stuff. Approach as you would someone in a bar. Don’t make it all about the sex. Not at the start.
Don’t be desperate. Don’t be pushy. Just be you.
Keep in mind that no meets is NOT a reflection on YOU, just how the site is. Don’t get disheartened by perceived lack of interest, as it is not personal to you, but sometimes to people in general. If that makes sense?
Just enjoy yourself and if it stops being fun then have a breather and step away for a bit.
But I will reiterate- your success (or lack of it) on Fab has NO BEARING on you as a person."
Very much this (boomer thumb)
Also remember there's no universal approach Op. No cheat codes. Women are as individual as men in their wants, their predilections. Part of the fun is finding out more. |
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"By someone who's pictures show enough for me to feel at least reasonably confident that I find them physically attractive, with a profile that actually tells me something about them as a person that indicates compatibility, with a message that I clearly written to me specifically rather than something universal that can be flung into the inbox of every viable orifice they see, and without a dick pic attached or some fap fodder fantasy bullshit 💜"
This. I also appreciate a clear and recent face photo being attached, as I think enough of my face is on my profile for people to at least have an idea of whether they think they'd like my face or not.
It's rare to find people that read profiles on here, and mine is long so it usually gets ignored or insulted. I'm a weirdo and read profiles of people who I'd never meet just for fun. |
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Read in a David Attenborough tone.......
When approaching a Crumpet do it with the utmost caution. Make a noise like a Werthers early in your advances and suck another so that it's aroma renders her docile and willing. Wear your orange T shirt with Hand of the Triple Lock you bastards emblazoned across the front so she knows you come in peace
Warning: If she smiles you're okay . If she looks you up n down she smelled something rotten ... so move on to the next one ...... |
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Treat me like someone you want to get to know not just to get a quick fuck. Over the top compliments do not work. I am neither beautiful nor the sexiest woman on fab so telling me this will just earn you a massive eye roll. A sincere compliment works though. Oh and read my frickin profile. |
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By *ed FlameWoman 1 week ago
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"By someone who's pictures show enough for me to feel at least reasonably confident that I find them physically attractive, with a profile that actually tells me something about them as a person that indicates compatibility, with a message that I clearly written to me specifically rather than something universal that can be flung into the inbox of every viable orifice they see, and without a dick pic attached or some fap fodder fantasy bullshit 💜"
This, I want to know the person has read my profile.
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"By someone who's pictures show enough for me to feel at least reasonably confident that I find them physically attractive, with a profile that actually tells me something about them as a person that indicates compatibility, with a message that I clearly written to me specifically rather than something universal that can be flung into the inbox of every viable orifice they see, and without a dick pic attached or some fap fodder fantasy bullshit 💜"
that is definitely a response I was looking for 👌🏾👌🏾
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"With a nice simple message and a photo of yourself.
The clues are often in their profile.
When it says they dont want a dick pic....they mean it, regardless of how proud you are of it.
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🤣🤣you’d think common sense would be common to some people |
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"Sorry OP, had not checked that you were new to the Forum and this was your first post - so welcome, and apologies for the flippant comments, but do enjoy the Forum and good luck in your search (your profile and pics are respectful, and you look fit, so carry on and you'll have fun)."
appreciate that thank you
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By *ision21Man 1 week ago
Newcastle Under Lyme |
I know this is a site where everyone wants to get their rocks off men and women but genuinely how do you women or men like to be approached on here ?
Stick to who you are pal. Be honest always.
There is someone for everyone on here even though it may not seem like it.
I personally like to be approached with more than just a hello and I like a woman's profile to leave something to the imagination. |
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"I know this is a site where everyone wants to get their rocks off men and women but genuinely how do you women or men like to be approached on here ?
Stick to who you are pal. Be honest always.
There is someone for everyone on here even though it may not seem like it.
I personally like to be approached with more than just a hello and I like a woman's profile to leave something to the imagination."
100% |
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"...but genuinely how do you women or men like to be approached on here?"
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I prefer to be approached by way of a handcrafted message, with humour and conviviality, with some indication that they've read my profile and picked up on something that I've written on there.
Women, mostly, have no issues with sending a clean and friendly message. I'm not quite sure why most/some men can't manage this when they message the opposite sex. |
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