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By *Effy- OP Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
No. Don't actually, I'm shy.
Do you enjoy being watched?
Whether it's playing in an open area at a club, being part of a cuck/hotwife dynamic, putting on a bit of a show or something else. Is being seen by others part of the appeal for you? |
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Yes, really enjoy it. Have done cams a few times here, and we tend to play where we can be watched in clubs too. we’ve had some lovely comments from it!
Recently “that was really beautiful to watch” which is hands down the cutest “I wanked while watching you fuck” comment so far 🤣🤣 |
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"No. Don't actually, I'm shy.
Do you enjoy being watched?
Whether it's playing in an open area at a club, being part of a cuck/hotwife dynamic, putting on a bit of a show or something else. Is being seen by others part of the appeal for you? "
Never been to any clubs or things like that, but do like being watched on video calls, especially by women who are interested in that |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"Yes! Something very liberating and empowering by being watched...Only in a club scenario though"
Genuine question. In a club setting, do you care who's watching? Or is it just a case of being turned on from putting on a bit of a show?
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"Yes! Something very liberating and empowering by being watched...Only in a club scenario though
Genuine question. In a club setting, do you care who's watching? Or is it just a case of being turned on from putting on a bit of a show?
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Usually too busy to care who is watching and yes! It's a hell of a turn on. Last time was at Townhouse.
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"Yes! Something very liberating and empowering by being watched...Only in a club scenario though
Genuine question. In a club setting, do you care who's watching? Or is it just a case of being turned on from putting on a bit of a show?
Usually too busy to care who is watching and yes! It's a hell of a turn on. Last time was at Townhouse.
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It’s funny because afterwards I have no idea who was watching and who wasn’t. Just hot to know people are. |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"Yes! Something very liberating and empowering by being watched...Only in a club scenario though
Genuine question. In a club setting, do you care who's watching? Or is it just a case of being turned on from putting on a bit of a show?
Usually too busy to care who is watching and yes! It's a hell of a turn on. Last time was at Townhouse."
Interesting! Thanks. I've always been curious about the open rooms, but I'm not sure how I'd feel about being watched/potentially wanked over by people I don't fancy. I can see how you can become lost in the moment though and forget where you are😆 |
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It depends...
A group of people at a club is fine.
Many faceless profiles watching me on cam is fine.
1 or 2 watchers in an intimate scenario like I'm having sex with one person and the other people are just sort of there making eye contact with me... No that's very off putting. |
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I dont mind being watched at clubs when i'm havimg sex with someone. If i'm honest, I dont really get anything from it, I'm generally concerntrating on making sure the woman i'm with is enjoying what i'm doing and trying to drown out the sound of jingling keys from the observing men that are wanking whilst watching.
It sounds like it is Christmas half the time with the jingling keys !. Put the key on your other wrist or around your ankle/foot for fucks sake 🤣🤣🫣 |
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"Yes! Something very liberating and empowering by being watched...Only in a club scenario though
Genuine question. In a club setting, do you care who's watching? Or is it just a case of being turned on from putting on a bit of a show?
Usually too busy to care who is watching and yes! It's a hell of a turn on. Last time was at Townhouse.
Interesting! Thanks. I've always been curious about the open rooms, but I'm not sure how I'd feel about being watched/potentially wanked over by people I don't fancy. I can see how you can become lost in the moment though and forget where you are😆"
The rooms are dimly lit, you can't really see who is watching, in the group area men have to be invited in by whoever is playing so that's an added reassurance. Staff are always close by to make sure people follow the rules |
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"Yes! Something very liberating and empowering by being watched...Only in a club scenario though
Genuine question. In a club setting, do you care who's watching? Or is it just a case of being turned on from putting on a bit of a show?
Usually too busy to care who is watching and yes! It's a hell of a turn on. Last time was at Townhouse.
It’s funny because afterwards I have no idea who was watching and who wasn’t. Just hot to know people are. "
Yes! That's it exactly |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"Yes, really enjoy it. Have done cams a few times here, and we tend to play where we can be watched in clubs too. we’ve had some lovely comments from it!
Recently “that was really beautiful to watch” which is hands down the cutest “I wanked while watching you fuck” comment so far 🤣🤣"
They really can be sweet sometimes🥹 |
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"In a club we haven't really been aware of whose around. But every now and again you can catch someone's eye as there about to cum whilst watching and that's hot "
Yep. And hot if people are fucking near where you are fucking and you watch each other. Love that |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"I have found it difficult to relax some times but once I'm in the moment I don't really notice"
I think this sums me up too. I can take a while to relax if others are around or if I feel like there's eyes on me. |
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The first time I took part in an open play scenario at a club, I was surprised by how much I enjoyed being watched. I actually found it tough when it was just a couple as for some reason it just feels like more pressure playing to an audience of one than many.
But with experience, I found if I can focus on who I'm with to start with, it becomes easier and the more into it I get, the more I can enjoy the being watched aspect of it if that makes sense? |
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Yes, in certain contexts. It's the main reason I attend clubs as I enjoy playing in the open areas and being watched. I used to go on cams a bit on the chatrooms on here, but I got a bit bored of that. It's also why I post the photos I do on here and other sites I suppose.
I'm not really an exhibitionist in any other aspect of my life weirdly, so I'm not sure why I enjoy it. |
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"No. Don't actually, I'm shy.
Do you enjoy being watched?
Whether it's playing in an open area at a club, being part of a cuck/hotwife dynamic, putting on a bit of a show or something else. Is being seen by others part of the appeal for you? "
Yes, I would love to be watched. Only happened once for me when i was approached by a couple at a pub and asked to go back to theirs to enjoy his wife… such a hot night! |
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I have a bit of an exhibitionist streak. But only for selective people. I love certain people watching me. A bunch of randoms in a club? or in the cam rooms? not so much.
Even with the pictures I post here, obviously they're for people to view. But when I upload a new pic I only notice when the people I want to take notice have fab'd my pictures. |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"Fuck yes, I like to be watched by consenting adults. It’s really hot in a group scenario. I love watching too… sometimes being made to watch and wait 
Mrs TMN x"
I'm good with the watching part in certain settings, but then i wanna be involved! I'm not a great voyeur 😅 |
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"No. Don't actually, I'm shy.
Do you enjoy being watched?
Whether it's playing in an open area at a club, being part of a cuck/hotwife dynamic, putting on a bit of a show or something else. Is being seen by others part of the appeal for you? "
Well idk seeing a husband seeing his wife be fuxked by me gives me pleasure. It's probably because I like being dominant and enjoy the thrill of it |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"I dont mind being watched at clubs when i'm havimg sex with someone. If i'm honest, I dont really get anything from it, I'm generally concerntrating on making sure the woman i'm with is enjoying what i'm doing and trying to drown out the sound of jingling keys from the observing men that are wanking whilst watching.
It sounds like it is Christmas half the time with the jingling keys !. Put the key on your other wrist or around your ankle/foot for fucks sake 🤣🤣🫣"
See, now this would put me off. I'd have to call a time out and make them take the keys off  |
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By *vaRoseWoman 1 week ago
Ankh-Morpork |
I didn’t think I did but I do a bit…
When I’m really in the moment I’m only focussed on my partner and I find it off putting if people get too close to watch or start loudly chatting. However when everybody is being respectful yeah I kind of enjoy it |
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"The first time I took part in an open play scenario at a club, I was surprised by how much I enjoyed being watched. I actually found it tough when it was just a couple as for some reason it just feels like more pressure playing to an audience of one than many.
But with experience, I found if I can focus on who I'm with to start with, it becomes easier and the more into it I get, the more I can enjoy the being watched aspect of it if that makes sense?"
If you need more practice I selflessly put myself forward. |
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"I dont mind being watched at clubs when i'm havimg sex with someone. If i'm honest, I dont really get anything from it, I'm generally concerntrating on making sure the woman i'm with is enjoying what i'm doing and trying to drown out the sound of jingling keys from the observing men that are wanking whilst watching.
It sounds like it is Christmas half the time with the jingling keys !. Put the key on your other wrist or around your ankle/foot for fucks sake 🤣🤣🫣
See, now this would put me off. I'd have to call a time out and make them take the keys off "
Its not all clubs |
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Yes, I do like being watched, as long as it's done with eyes only, not trying to touch or join in uninvited. Also, lately, I've noticed I get distracted easily, by the chitchat around me (worse was a couple discussing golf when they were watching me and my partner at a club, just because our gloves reminded them of it), and I'm not the fan of the comments some people dish out trying to be "encouraging". Hence lately I tend to play in rooms with viewing windows rather than entirely in the open. |
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"In a club we haven't really been aware of whose around. But every now and again you can catch someone's eye as there about to cum whilst watching and that's hot
Yep. And hot if people are fucking near where you are fucking and you
watch each other. Love that"
Definitely that's another one x |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"The first time I took part in an open play scenario at a club, I was surprised by how much I enjoyed being watched. I actually found it tough when it was just a couple as for some reason it just feels like more pressure playing to an audience of one than many.
But with experience, I found if I can focus on who I'm with to start with, it becomes easier and the more into it I get, the more I can enjoy the being watched aspect of it if that makes sense?"
I get it. There's something about being the "third" that can be quite daunting to begin with. Especially when you're expected to perform to an audience of one.
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"The first time I took part in an open play scenario at a club, I was surprised by how much I enjoyed being watched. I actually found it tough when it was just a couple as for some reason it just feels like more pressure playing to an audience of one than many.
But with experience, I found if I can focus on who I'm with to start with, it becomes easier and the more into it I get, the more I can enjoy the being watched aspect of it if that makes sense?
If you need more practice I selflessly put myself forward. "
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"The first time I took part in an open play scenario at a club, I was surprised by how much I enjoyed being watched. I actually found it tough when it was just a couple as for some reason it just feels like more pressure playing to an audience of one than many.
But with experience, I found if I can focus on who I'm with to start with, it becomes easier and the more into it I get, the more I can enjoy the being watched aspect of it if that makes sense?
I get it. There's something about being the "third" that can be quite daunting to begin with. Especially when you're expected to perform to an audience of one. "
That's exactly it! There's an element of being "the one they chose" out of other guys that you want to make it worth it for them which is different to being with one other person in a crowd of others. |
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"Yes, I do like being watched, as long as it's done with eyes only, not trying to touch or join in uninvited. Also, lately, I've noticed I get distracted easily, by the chitchat around me (worse was a couple discussing golf when they were watching me and my partner at a club, just because our gloves reminded them of it), and I'm not the fan of the comments some people dish out trying to be "encouraging". Hence lately I tend to play in rooms with viewing windows rather than entirely in the open. "
Yes! Find this so rude. If you want to talk please head downstairs to the bar, don’t chat outside the room we’re fucking in |
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By *reya73Woman 1 week ago
Whitley Bay |
Yes sometimes I enjoy it. Other times it's the last thing in my mind and I'm much more intimate and responsive.
Consistently inconsistent.. but I live it when I'm in my moment, making people feel welcome, taking control and commanding a small crowd. Cathartic, brilliant fun. |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"Yes, I do like being watched, as long as it's done with eyes only, not trying to touch or join in uninvited. Also, lately, I've noticed I get distracted easily, by the chitchat around me (worse was a couple discussing golf when they were watching me and my partner at a club, just because our gloves reminded them of it), and I'm not the fan of the comments some people dish out trying to be "encouraging". Hence lately I tend to play in rooms with viewing windows rather than entirely in the open. "
This would happen to me, then I would get all in my own head thinking I was boring them
I think viewing rooms could be a nice way to dip your toes in without physically having a crowd of people standing around you. |
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"Yes, I do like being watched, as long as it's done with eyes only, not trying to touch or join in uninvited. Also, lately, I've noticed I get distracted easily, by the chitchat around me (worse was a couple discussing golf when they were watching me and my partner at a club, just because our gloves reminded them of it), and I'm not the fan of the comments some people dish out trying to be "encouraging". Hence lately I tend to play in rooms with viewing windows rather than entirely in the open. "
Oddly, and I've only seen this from d*unk women, but there are cases of heckling when a couple is in a viewing only room or something similar which absolutely disgusted me |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"Yes, I do like being watched, as long as it's done with eyes only, not trying to touch or join in uninvited. Also, lately, I've noticed I get distracted easily, by the chitchat around me (worse was a couple discussing golf when they were watching me and my partner at a club, just because our gloves reminded them of it), and I'm not the fan of the comments some people dish out trying to be "encouraging". Hence lately I tend to play in rooms with viewing windows rather than entirely in the open.
Oddly, and I've only seen this from d*unk women, but there are cases of heckling when a couple is in a viewing only room or something similar which absolutely disgusted me"
People forget how to be human beings when their clothes come off. I've been having sex in a private room where a guy was repeatedly knocking on the door and shouting to let him in. I'm guessing he was moved along eventually because it stopped, but it massively put me off to the point I didn't want to leave the room incase he was waiting at the door. |
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"No.
We’re not the show off types and can’t think of anything worse than people watching us doing the sex thing.
How set are you on this? Asking for me. "
Only if you watch it through our mirrored wardrobe whilst you’re ‘stuck in the middle’. |
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"Yes, I do like being watched, as long as it's done with eyes only, not trying to touch or join in uninvited. Also, lately, I've noticed I get distracted easily, by the chitchat around me (worse was a couple discussing golf when they were watching me and my partner at a club, just because our gloves reminded them of it), and I'm not the fan of the comments some people dish out trying to be "encouraging". Hence lately I tend to play in rooms with viewing windows rather than entirely in the open.
Oddly, and I've only seen this from d*unk women, but there are cases of heckling when a couple is in a viewing only room or something similar which absolutely disgusted me
People forget how to be human beings when their clothes come off. I've been having sex in a private room where a guy was repeatedly knocking on the door and shouting to let him in. I'm guessing he was moved along eventually because it stopped, but it massively put me off to the point I didn't want to leave the room incase he was waiting at the door. "
Both stories here are horrendous.
We’ve been having a great time in a dungeon sex swing, to then be put off by a guy asking Ben if he can touch me 🤢 I mean. Sign is clear not to approach people, and to ask bens permission over my body was double ick. I said no but we both lost our horns and had to leave the room. |
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I'm very much an exhibitionist, I don't know why? But I just find it very thrilling.
I also love fooling around in a vanilla setting I:e a bar or restaurant, I'm not talking about going hell for leather or anything like that, just lots of teasing, 🫦 |
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Putting on a bit of a show no I don't like that at all.
As for being watched if I am getting fucked when I am at club it doesn't bother me, it doesn't add anything to the experience ithe.
Being watched by my FWB on the other hand is a turn on. As I know he is going to reclaim me after.
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By *eliWoman 1 week ago
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Never had sex in a club, don't see that changing any time soon.
I do like being watched by the girlfriend/wife, was going to go in to details but it's early and there's no need. Same applies to being watched wanking.
I don't think I'm an exhibitionist. Far from it. I like being watched sometimes though. |
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"Never had sex in a club, don't see that changing any time soon.
I do like being watched by the girlfriend/wife, was going to go in to details but it's early and there's no need. Same applies to being watched wanking.
I don't think I'm an exhibitionist. Far from it. I like being watched sometimes though."
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Back when I was taking my love to Chams we both loved to put on a show.
Jacuzzi, rooftop, dungeon (usually with me secured) and the little net curtained alcove.
Knowing we were being watched could definitely increase the pleasure.
We came out of the couples room one afternoon and a guy who had been watching actually shook my hand! He wasn’t what we were looking for but my partner hooked him up with her mate afterwards.
Happy days.
But we also took ourselves off into a private room for pure ‘us’ time. |
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By *sWyldWoman 1 week ago
Edinburgh |
Its a funny thing. I'm actually not confident at all but I recently discovered I really enjoyed being watched with a friend.
It was hot and there was something really sexy knowing that the people watching us in the club were wanting but never going to have us.
I also now enjoy being watched by him, seeing him respond, the look in his eyes , the way he touches himself at the same time. Its really intimate and just utterly sexy.
However, still can't watch myself in the mirror! |
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I love watching, in person or on cam. I don’t even need to interact, just watching is hot.
But I cannot for the life of me enjoy being watched on cam.
In person, with someone I’m comfortable with, I can enjoy being watched 😊 |
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I love being watched! (I guess it’s in the name…)
Whether it’s on a video call, in person one on one, in a club or on webcam here or on other sites where there are 50 or more people watching me stroke my cock, I find it a huge thrill!
Oh and OP, it’s very difficult NOT not look at you when you look so stunning!  |
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I don’t get off on people watching me but I also don’t really mind if they do. My focus is on the lady.
It’s off putting if I’m starting out and I can see people wanking around me but once I start then I’m not bothered.
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