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I think I'm only as good as the person I'm with. The chemistry needs to be there and I think when you're really into it is when you feel confident in your skills and abilities. Oh, and having a nice cock helps as well 😎 |
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I dont think im some porn star sex goddess, im better at some things than others. But all my meet have always been multiple times so either im quite alright or their just genuinely not that fussy 🤣 |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"I think I'm only as good as the person I'm with. The chemistry needs to be there and I think when you're really into it is when you feel confident in your skills and abilities. Oh, and having a nice cock helps as well 😎"
That would ease the disappointment for me. I smoosh my tits in their face to distract them from the fact i'm shit in bed. |
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"At the sex thing?
Are you confident in your abilities?
Does it make the people want more? "
Good enough to make a sweaty happy mess of us.
Only as confident as the day allows.
People have been known to want more, lots more. But soon the newness always fades on both sides and on we drift. |
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It depends on who I'm with. Chemistry and connection make a difference. I used to be super confident then I lost it all in my last relationship. I still haven't fully recovered to be honest. I'm on a journey to rebuild it.
Do people want more? Some do, some don't. If you're everyone's cup of tea then you're just a mug. |
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"I think I'm only as good as the person I'm with. The chemistry needs to be there and I think when you're really into it is when you feel confident in your skills and abilities. Oh, and having a nice cock helps as well 😎
That would ease the disappointment for me. I smoosh my tits in their face to distract them from the fact i'm shit in bed. "
I don't know about others, but I actually class tits smooshed in my face as good chemistry 🤷♂️ |
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"At the sex thing?"
I think I'm competent enough as long as my partner is receptive to my passions.
"Are you confident in your abilities?"
🅨🅔🅢
"Does it make the people want more?"
It doesn't make them want less. I'll settle for that. |
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"At the sex thing?
Are you confident in your abilities?
Does it make the people want more? "
At the sex thing?
Mediocre
Not a lot of confidence until I’m in the moment
Never had someone not want anymore |
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As others have said, a lot of it depends on chemistry and how you fit together with others.
I dont think I'm some sex goddess but I'm also pretty confident that I'm not terrible in bed. I think I have some skill at some specific things. People seem to enjoy it and lots want to do it multiple times so I can't be that bad  |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"It depends on who I'm with. Chemistry and connection make a difference. I used to be super confident then I lost it all in my last relationship. I still haven't fully recovered to be honest. I'm on a journey to rebuild it.
Do people want more? Some do, some don't. If you're everyone's cup of tea then you're just a mug."
Ah, it's not great when people get in your head about stuff and you start second guessing yourself. |
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Very different for men and women this question!
Women rarely getting negative feedback from guys. Even if it was terrible, they'll always say it was amazing. Because that's what guys tend to do..
Men have the bulk of the heavy lifting when it comes to bedroom matters, and it only comes with practise, but Bad experiences can hold them back greatly. And to much porn! |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"Very different for men and women this question!
Women rarely getting negative feedback from guys. Even if it was terrible, they'll always say it was amazing. Because that's what guys tend to do..
Men have the bulk of the heavy lifting when it comes to bedroom matters, and it only comes with practise, but Bad experiences can hold them back greatly. And to much porn!"
So they're all lying to me and I'm in fact not the porn star that I think I am? Great. |
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"Very different for men and women this question!
Women rarely getting negative feedback from guys. Even if it was terrible, they'll always say it was amazing. Because that's what guys tend to do..
Men have the bulk of the heavy lifting when it comes to bedroom matters, and it only comes with practise, but Bad experiences can hold them back greatly. And to much porn!
So they're all lying to me and I'm in fact not the porn star that I think I am? Great. "
Most men have the idea that all women are pornstars some may well be but others are pillow princesses either way if the chemistry and connection are there it doesn’t matter what one you are both can have a good time! |
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By *ilbzMan 1 week ago
Swindon Wiltshire |
I would love to say i am great in bed but i can’t even sleep through the night half the time 😂
I have had good compliments, but theres always the element of how genuine were they? I am not great at accepting compliments due to low confidence levels
But is it about how good you are or how much effort you put in?
If the foreplay is amazing does it matter how long i last?!
As long as its good clean fun does it matter |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 1 week ago
Scotland |
"Better than you can imagine.
I'm out of practice but yes, extremely confident.
Depends on you, i've had stalkers from a couple days fuckfests, does that count as wanting more? "
My stalking tendencies go unnoticed, I'm that good. |
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"I'm not confident in sex or life in general, ppl only want me when they need help with something but when the table is turned different story "
The story of so many of our lives. We give and give. When it's our turn to receive we are left wanting. |
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I'm quietly confident. Not cocky. As I know every woman is different and not everyone enjoys the same things, and some require different methods to orgasm.
All about communication as not every woman is the same |
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"May be unnoticed by others, but I see things others don't.
Spooky 👀"
It actually can be when you're looking back at old camping photos and spot the unseen staring at you...only my words were, creepy as fuck. potatoe potato
meh
I do much prefer being stalked by the living, with nice titties and sopping wet pussies. |
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"How good are you...At the sex thing? "
It depends. I enjoy it. Should we say an enthusiastic amateur?
"Are you confident in your abilities? "
At the first encounter I may wonder about my own abilities, but some might say it's like riding a bike (guess that could mean it's downhill all the way, or there is a danger of falling off!
"Does it make the people want more? "
I have never had someone say the immortal line of Oliver Twist: "Please, sir, I want some more." However, nearly all of those I have met have come back for seconds and thirds! |
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I've found that it's what you do outside the bedroom that is the biggest determinant of outcomes in the bedroom. Which is fortunate because I'm shit in bed but I do a cracking velociraptor mime that has women frothing at the axe wound before we get there. |
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By *eliWoman 1 week ago
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I wouldn't necessarily say good but I really enjoy it and I'm very chalant and enthusiastic about it. A lot of it depends on who you're with, doesn't it?
People want to see me again so I can't be that bad. |
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"I wouldn't necessarily say good but I really enjoy it and I'm very chalant and enthusiastic about it. A lot of it depends on who you're with, doesn't it?
People want to see me again so I can't be that bad. "
I think you could sit across the room and talk them through the scene leaving them satisfied with your voice alone. No wonder they want to see you again |
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By *fellMan 1 week ago
The beach surfing |
"I think I'm only as good as the person I'm with. The chemistry needs to be there and I think when you're really into it is when you feel confident in your skills and abilities. Oh, and having a nice cock helps as well 😎
That would ease the disappointment for me. I smoosh my tits in their face to distract them from the fact i'm shit in bed. "
This is an expert move - which makes you good in bed…. |
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