Ok so just indicate if you read profiles
Female half here and have a solo profile too. I filled all ny text out, and helpful hints on how to meet me
When I see a profile that hasn't been filled out. I assume they have zero effort to put into a meet if they cant put any time into a profile.
So.. do you read a profile when your contacted by someone. And does it help you decide if you should reply.
(8 men this week have told me im a nasty peice of work, cos I asked if they had read my profile b4 messaging) |
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I always read profiles, how would I know if we'd potentially be a match, if not.
I bypass those that tell me nothing about them.
If someone hasnt read my profile and it's obvious, it's an instant delete. I would only reply if it's amega creepy or abusive message , then I'll challenge them. |
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"Ok so just indicate if you read profiles
Female half here and have a solo profile too. I filled all ny text out, and helpful hints on how to meet me
When I see a profile that hasn't been filled out. I assume they have zero effort to put into a meet if they cant put any time into a profile.
So.. do you read a profile when your contacted by someone. And does it help you decide if you should reply.
(8 men this week have told me im a nasty peice of work, cos I asked if they had read my profile b4 messaging)"
Yeah I do, it often makes my mind up if I can get along with a person. I realise my blank profile does me no favours but I don't really have any real intentions of meeting right now. I've filled it out like a book but I'd much rather have a chat and discussion rather than reading a novel. What else is there to ask if it reads like a CV. There's a couple of types who just seem to do different variations of the same profile and it reminds me of people who put quotes on socials with a pic of say Harley Quinn, "if you can't handle me at my worst.." most long profiles have templates vibes and I think they are pretty vanilla and acting edgy. |
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When looking though I do find more genuin women fill out profile text, but a large amount of men leave it as either the basic starter profile or just 2 or 3 lines.
I know its not a dating app but its still nice to know if your going to be able to talk to someone between sessions, a decent profile and a good smile and im wont over pretty easily lol.
Im glad its not just me reading them x |
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i trying to read and concoct a message about what i like about it and then its rather annoying when they read but dont reply to even say thanks but no thanks, if they delete then i know i'm done but read and leave it is abit hmmm |
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Always read profiles before messaging because it gives a insight into what they are looking for and the things they don't like. Everyone should have the respect to read your profile to see if yous even like the same things |
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If it is obviously they haven’t read my profile, like they don’t fit my age requirements I delete without opening it.
I always read a profile unless they’re rude, then I just block them.
My argument is if you can’t put in the effort to read a profile, yet you’ll expect the me in my pics to turn up not sweats and oversized
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Always read the profile. Women and couples tend to have an inbox brimming with messages. So I’d rather read the profile and then decide if it’s worth me sending a message. Don’t wanna waste my time writing if I’m clearly not going to be something that would be of interest |
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