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May be like me. I don't like what standards consider to be beautiful. Like everything is perfect. I like the things that stand out. They are what makes someone attractive. Quirky little unconventional things. Conventionally attractive is flawless, but life isn't that way |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 10 hours ago
Scotland |
"May be like me. I don't like what standards consider to be beautiful. Like everything is perfect. I like the things that stand out. They are what makes someone attractive. Quirky little unconventional things. Conventionally attractive is flawless, but life isn't that way"
This was very poetic. Thank you, Peekaboo. |
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Believe it or not truly attractive people rarely receive compliments. People assume that they know they are attractive so dont bother giving them compliments.
But, being called unconventionaly attractive still means they find you attractive. Us women tend to overthink and over analyse things all the time.
Take the compliment and feel good x
Mrs x |
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By *YDB75Man 10 hours ago
East Yorks/ Castle Donnington |
I was called unattractively sexy once…I just nodded politely and overanalysed it for days. Did they really mean sexually unattractive or did they get off on shaggin grogs? 🤷🏼♂️🤷🏼♂️ |
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By *lim_funMan 10 hours ago
Hebden bridge |
A few times being "alternative" the best was an Asian girl who said she liked me becy I was different but it wouldn't work out becy I was white. Her farther organised a wedding for her the year after and I never saw her again. |
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"been called unconventionally attractive?
Is it a compliment? Would you take it as one? "
Yes. I'm not sure, maybe it is for some, maybe it isn't for others.
Depends on who's saying it and the context. |
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By *lim_funMan 10 hours ago
Hebden bridge |
"A few times being "alternative" the best was an Asian girl who said she liked me becy I was different but it wouldn't work out becy I was white. Her farther organised a wedding for her the year after and I never saw her again."
damn typos
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By *tormQueenWoman 10 hours ago
All over the place |
"I've been called 'cute' a fair few times. Which is neither here nor there as far as compliments go.
'Cute' can get in the bin 🙄
⬆️. This
Cute is for animals and children."
I got chubby cute once 🙈🙈 |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 10 hours ago
Scotland |
"been called unconventionally attractive?
Is it a compliment? Would you take it as one?
Yes. I'm not sure, maybe it is for some, maybe it isn't for others.
Depends on who's saying it and the context."
Do you think it was meant as a compliment when said to you? |
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"been called unconventionally attractive?
Is it a compliment? Would you take it as one?
Yes. I'm not sure, maybe it is for some, maybe it isn't for others.
Depends on who's saying it and the context.
Do you think it was meant as a compliment when said to you? "
I was sleeping with her at the time, so yes. 😂 |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 9 hours ago
Scotland |
"been called unconventionally attractive?
Is it a compliment? Would you take it as one?
Yes. I'm not sure, maybe it is for some, maybe it isn't for others.
Depends on who's saying it and the context.
Do you think it was meant as a compliment when said to you?
I was sleeping with her at the time, so yes. 😂"
You hope 👀 |
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"been called unconventionally attractive?
Is it a compliment? Would you take it as one?
Yes. I'm not sure, maybe it is for some, maybe it isn't for others.
Depends on who's saying it and the context.
Do you think it was meant as a compliment when said to you?
I was sleeping with her at the time, so yes. 😂
You hope 👀"
I mean I took it as a compliment at the time. Then we had another round. |
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I think somewhere out there exists a venn diagram with about 7 circles.
To cover off what passes for attraction.
The pretty
The handsome
The character face
The cute
The unconventional
The stunning
The only-a-mother |
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By *vaRoseWoman 9 hours ago
Ankh-Morpork |
"I think somewhere out there exists a venn diagram with about 7 circles.
To cover off what passes for attraction.
The pretty
The handsome
The character face
The cute
The unconventional
The stunning
The only-a-mother"
Where does “you’re not my usual type, I usually go for pretty girls” fall into this? |
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"I think somewhere out there exists a venn diagram with about 7 circles.
To cover off what passes for attraction.
The pretty
The handsome
The character face
The cute
The unconventional
The stunning
The only-a-mother
Where does “you’re not my usual type, I usually go for pretty girls” fall into this?"
I think that goes under 'cheeky fecker' |
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"I think somewhere out there exists a venn diagram with about 7 circles.
To cover off what passes for attraction.
The pretty
The handsome
The character face
The cute
The unconventional
The stunning
The only-a-mother
Where does “you’re not my usual type, I usually go for pretty girls” fall into this?"
It falls in the bin, that’s where 🤮 |
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By *mf123Man 8 hours ago
with one foot out the door |
Means looks like a munter 
Im only messing attractive is a atractive
Suppose its like not being someones usual type
Iv never been called it as of yet but theres time im gett8ng older and that cave man brow is growing in |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 8 hours ago
Scotland |
"Means looks like a munter
Im only messing attractive is a atractive
Suppose its like not being someones usual type
Iv never been called it as of yet but theres time im gett8ng older and that cave man brow is growing in"
Fucking knew it!!! |
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By *mf123Man 8 hours ago
with one foot out the door |
"Means looks like a munter
Im only messing attractive is a atractive
Suppose its like not being someones usual type
Iv never been called it as of yet but theres time im gett8ng older and that cave man brow is growing in
Fucking knew it!!!"
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"A lot of fashion models arnt conventionally attractive
They jus have that something about them"
I do wonder how some people become models. I don't think most of them are actually attractive. Each to their own I guess. |
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We suppose using that term makes them slightly better educated than those who might say derogatory comments. Either way, result is the same.
No, neither of us have been told that but we can't imagine many would use the terms |
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"A lot of fashion models arnt conventionally attractive
They jus have that something about them
I do wonder how some people become models. I don't think most of them are actually attractive. Each to their own I guess."
I think a lot of it is their body shape, to model the clothes which no " normal" women would ever be like
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By *lim_funMan 7 hours ago
Hebden bridge |
"Isn't being attractive better than being beautiful... You can still be beautiful and unattractive... I think being called attractive is a compliment, regardless of any other words involved  "
Depends on interpretation of the word. If you define beauty by what we see in pop media it's probably an insult but it's in the eye of the beholder.. |
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I haven't.
I have a fairly conventional face so you'll either find me attractive or you won't, but unlikely to be for anything unusual. (Maybe my nose, but no-one's ever said they found me attractive because of my nose alone! 🤣)
I would take it as a compliment though! |
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"been called unconventionally attractive?
Is it a compliment? Would you take it as one? "
I've a friend who is very attractive but if you break her features down you'd say she was built with the leftovers no one wanted. |
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By *Effy- OP Woman 6 hours ago
Scotland |
"been called unconventionally attractive?
Is it a compliment? Would you take it as one? I've a friend who is very attractive but if you break her features down you'd say she was built with the leftovers no one wanted."
Oh |
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"Believe it or not truly attractive people rarely receive compliments. People assume that they know they are attractive so dont bother giving them compliments.
But, being called unconventionaly attractive still means they find you attractive. Us women tend to overthink and over analyse things all the time.
Take the compliment and feel good x
Mrs x"
Ohhhhh, I must be truly attractive then  |
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"been called unconventionally attractive?
Is it a compliment? Would you take it as one? "
I think i actually would take it as a compliment.i mean, it's obviously a compliment.. like, yeah you're not classically beautiful BUT you are unconventionally attractive. Is not like they're saying you're not classically beautiful but you've got a pus that would scare rats aff a coup!
(Apologies for the fife accent!) |
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"I once got told I was weirdly attractive which wasn't a compliment in my eyes
For what my opinion is worth, having just checked your profile I would say you are absolutely attractive  "
Ah the tits and arse are better than the face  |
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I’d take it as a compliment, they’re intrigued by you and see you as unique x
Anyone low in confidence would probably see it as a negative or over think it.
It’s a smart way of opening a conversation as it invites questions too.. |
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