"Is there any couples out there that have this dynamic ?
Would like your opinion.
Does it work ?
Did it cause problems ?
Etc etc etc  "
🙋🏼♀️ Me! Me! I'm the wife, I have a husband and a BF 
Does it work for us...?
YES! TheHusband enjoys all aspects of the situation; the attention I get from TheBF, the meets with TheBF, the pics we send each other, how TheBF makes me feel
Does it work...?
It works for me and TheHusband 😉
It works for me and TheBF 😈
Niggly problems in the very beginning - been seeing him 18mths so far - with my attention being on TheBF, having meets too frequently but me and hubby talked about what was/wasn't working and we changed course
I see TheBF once a month where calendars allow, hubby helps me get ready, I cage hubby up when I leave the house, me and TheBF spend time with eachother, I take pics and video to show the hubby when I come home and hubby 'cleans me up'
All involved are very happy with the situation |
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"Is there any couples out there that have this dynamic ?
Would like your opinion.
Does it work ?
Did it cause problems ?
Etc etc etc
🙋🏼♀️ Me! Me! I'm the wife, I have a husband and a BF
Does it work for us...?
YES! TheHusband enjoys all aspects of the situation; the attention I get from TheBF, the meets with TheBF, the pics we send each other, how TheBF makes me feel
Does it work...?
It works for me and TheHusband 😉
It works for me and TheBF 😈
Niggly problems in the very beginning - been seeing him 18mths so far - with my attention being on TheBF, having meets too frequently but me and hubby talked about what was/wasn't working and we changed course
I see TheBF once a month where calendars allow, hubby helps me get ready, I cage hubby up when I leave the house, me and TheBF spend time with eachother, I take pics and video to show the hubby when I come home and hubby 'cleans me up'
All involved are very happy with the situation "
You have a Husband ...and a boyfriend 😳😳😳
This is new news, im almost positive you have never mentioned this before 🤔🤔 |
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"Is there any couples out there that have this dynamic ?
Would like your opinion.
Does it work ?
Did it cause problems ?
Etc etc etc "
I live in this dynamic. Missy and I are polyamorous. She is married to another guy. |
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Coming at this from the view of the single guy, for me it works well when you have the trust of both hubby and wife. I always understand I am the third in their relationship and I want to know that hubby knows I can be trusted. Hubby is rarely there but we get on well and that is key to ensuring she is happy as well. |
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