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As a couple, it will be easier.
I hate to say it but there is a 'clique' culture which exists in swinging.
I've been involved for a number of years both as part of a couple and as a single man and the difference in how your are welcomed/accepted is huge.
However, the majority of people will be nice to you. The main thing is just being be wary/careful. It will however be a lot of fun.
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"That's us we're looking for an opportunity to be watched by others to begin with and see if we like it..."
Clubs are the best way. Some have viewing rooms, one we went to had a small room, the door locked but it had a viewing window. |
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"That's us we're looking for an opportunity to be watched by others to begin with and see if we like it..."
To dip your toes in..
Is this via cam/video to begin with or have someone there watching you both in person? X |
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I think your age difference is a bit of a challenge as you are seeking couples. Those seeking around age 40, might not be comfortable with age 19, and vice versa.
You have 4 words on your bio, how are people supposed to gauge any possible compatibility when they have no idea of what you offer or seek ? |
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If it’s guidance on FAB and how to attract couples/ladies other than single men. Then your pics will help sway what type of people you’ll attract.
The more action shots you put up the more you’ll attract (mainly) guys who type with one hand.
Putting pics of you both will help you attract more couples/single women as they see both of you.
Writing a full bio about what you want, are looking for and what you offer, will help attract your people.
Good luck whatever you are looking for.
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Get involved in socials. They're great fun and you meet all sorts of wonderful, fabulous people. I've met incredible people through socials that i'd honestly consider friends now.
It's also great because you really get a feel of someone face to face, their vibe, energy etc where as over message.. it can be more difficult.
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I’m struggling with getting verified! I have met a couple of people on here but because there are also not verified they can’t verify me. I tried the cams but don’t want to be too needy and ask for a verification. Any suggestions |
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"I’m struggling with getting verified! I have met a couple of people on here but because there are also not verified they can’t verify me. I tried the cams but don’t want to be too needy and ask for a verification. Any suggestions "
Socials. The bigger ones. If you look in your area in the forum they are sometimes posted there x |
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"People say its easier for couples.
Have you ever tried it?
I mean yeah....its really easy to find a couple where 2 like each other. But 4 way attraction.....fucking nightmare.
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100% this!
It's actually twice as hard for couples than singles. Four way attraction is considerably less likely than two way.
Not the end of the world, as we've made loads of friends with other couples that we don't play with but go to clubs together and also do a lot of vanilla social activities with.
As previously mentioned, I suspect the age gap may also be an issue for some. There's a fair few years between tits and I, but we're happy to play solo too so that's less of an issue especially in clubs. But when people browse profiles it may put some off. At least these days Fab shows the oldest age when searching. For years it went by the youngest. 🤷♂️
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"I’m struggling with getting verified! I have met a couple of people on here but because there are also not verified they can’t verify me. I tried the cams but don’t want to be too needy and ask for a verification. Any suggestions
Socials. The bigger ones. If you look in your area in the forum they are sometimes posted there x "
Definitely agree with this, group socials are a great way of meeting people and getting veris xx 😘 |
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