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"How do you feel about it?
Are you silent between the sheets?
Does your partner being silent make you question if they are enjoying it?"
Not for me as need some feedback if pleasing or not. Fortunately I get that |
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"How do you feel about it?
Are you silent between the sheets?
Does your partner being silent make you question if they are enjoying it?"
I am not a fan of totally silent sex, unless there is a reason for it
Yes it makes me think they aren't enjoying it (both times it happened, with the same woman) I told her this and she was surprised saying she thought she was very reactive.
Nope. |
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Like to hear the moans when am licking that pussy out or bending her over . Myself can be varied I've groaned when I've had my cock sucked but usually concentrating and not unloading straight away if bear back haha |
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"How do you feel about it?
Are you silent between the sheets?
Does your partner being silent make you question if they are enjoying it?
I am not a fan of totally silent sex, unless there is a reason for it
Yes it makes me think they aren't enjoying it (both times it happened, with the same woman) I told her this and she was surprised saying she thought she was very reactive.
Nope."
Don't get me wrong, porn star screaming is off-putting for me just as much as silence but some sign of enjoyment is important to me! |
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I thought silent sex was between two deaf people!?🤣🤣🤔
Think I'd be a little freaked out if the person I was having sex with was just laying there like a sack of spuds not saying a word or anything.🥴
But then, maybe I'm too self conscious and paranoid...I suppose as long as they were getting enjoyment then it would be a me problem. So I make sure they sound like a foghorn..that way I know!🤣 |
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I like a little feedback to be honest…..total silence would have me doubting they were enjoying themselves which would in turn stop me enjoying myself! Xx 😄
I don’t care if it’s heavy breathing, moaning or talking I just need something xx 😄 |
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"How do you feel about it?
Are you silent between the sheets?
Does your partner being silent make you question if they are enjoying it?"
I think it would definitely make me question her enjoyment I’d have to stop at that point in fact |
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"Ok hear me out…..
A well placed hand and a gentle ‘shhhhhhh’
🥵🥵🥵🥵
I know not completely silent but I’m just saying it was intense as fuck not being allowed to make any noise….  "
Was that before or after the ball gag was applied!?🤔 |
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I think it depends on the situation. Being silent because you have to be can be quite exciting.
Someone who is very quiet / shows little emotion during sex ca be concerning, as it's hard to read enjoyment levels.
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"I think it depends on the situation. Being silent because you have to be can be quite exciting.
Someone who is very quiet / shows little emotion during sex ca be concerning, as it's hard to read enjoyment levels.
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I was thinking that, being quiet because there’s someone sleeping just across the room is exhilarating! |
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"How do you feel about it?
Are you silent between the sheets?
Does your partner being silent make you question if they are enjoying it?"
We are quite vocal in the sense we constantly talking dirty or instructing each other what to do , that or our breathing gives it away. The same with when we climax there is an obvious noise from both of us.
That said many a time especially when in the garden we have had to have ‘ quieter ‘ sex to not alert or disturb our neighbours so it can be done but after nearly 5 years together we know what we like and how to get each other there so the silence isn’t a problem. |
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I think i am fairly quiet. Not silent but yeah, quiet.
I find it quite difficult to really relax with someone and let myself go. Regular fwb's know I make certain noises, growls,for example but i'm not a "Oooo yeah baby do this, that or the other, oh yeah fuck, yeah" type person.
Some find it a little odd, i think, but then i feel i make up for it in other ways 🤷♂️
I think only one previous fwb might have found it off putting and possibly why it ended but it could have been any number of things. Not dom enough, too rough, not rough enough, who knows ! 🤣 |
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We have no choice but to be quiet at home as we have adult kids at home. In a club we can make some noise. We prefer natural moaning and groaning or silence rather than loud unnatural noises copying porn. |
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I was on a road trip with an ex-partner many yrs ago, we were camping, on one particular day we'd been in a local bar for a few lunchtime drinks that went onto early evening, got back to the tent and got a little amorous.
Now it was early evening, all the tents were occupied with people, families having bbq's, eating dinner. We knew we had to be quiet, sound really travels, and the tents were quite tightly packed together.
Once we started no way we could stop, classic missionary, slow fucking. I wasn't sure about it to start but by the gods it was one of the most intense fucks I'd ever had, and the orgasm was...WOW! |
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By *carlettsWoman 7 weeks ago
Somewhere out there |
Totally silence does freak me out. I don't mean have a debate whilst getting jiggy but some small sound of appreciation is good (no not a clap or a whistle!)
That said I did have sex with a guy that made small whimperings..very off putting wasn't sure if he was crying at some point! |
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By *wcoMan 7 weeks ago
West Midlands |
I'm going to buck the trend. I like it. Doesn't happen very often (silence, not sex in general) because we tend to talk a lot during sex but then all my sex is with a loved one so slightly different from you promiscuous people. I like the silence, especially in the total darkness. |
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By *wcoMan 7 weeks ago
West Midlands |
"I want enjoy i want her no that so turned on i just went Bang her no and like. One day i say "
This is no time for quoting Mills & Boon. It's not really a site for outlandish romantic gestures. |
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I had to be silent with gfs when we were in their parents' houses and of course parents thought we are "good kids." Later being in bed with woman who was totally silent... Nah, a bit like with a puppet. I don't scream but I don't like to be in silence |
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So I agree, having to be silent is totally different game, it can add to the intensity but, I'm talking about having sex with someone that makes no noise at all.
I like things to involve all the senses. |
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Total silence would be a little odd I think for me anyway.
I'm an expressive person and if someone was absolutely silent I might feel like it was all a bit shit lol. If it was I would rather they say something, give me some direction. |
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"Complete silence would honestly put me off entirely.
Even if I was needing to be quiet because of circumstances, I’d still need that heavy breathing, panting, and the soft quiet moans. "
Only time there should be silence is to hear the juices flowing 😅 |
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"Complete silence would honestly put me off entirely.
Even if I was needing to be quiet because of circumstances, I’d still need that heavy breathing, panting, and the soft quiet moans. "
Absolutely 💯%! |
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Silent sex where you have to be quiet can be quite the turn on.
Silent sex because the other person is just quiet freaks me out tbh, I'm then convinced they're not enjoying it and I start to panic that I'm not floating their boat, then I'm not enjoying it.
Overly vocal and performative is equally a turn off.
I'd like the happy medium please  |
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"Silent sex where you have to be quiet can be quite the turn on.
Silent sex because the other person is just quiet freaks me out tbh, I'm then convinced they're not enjoying it and I start to panic that I'm not floating their boat, then I'm not enjoying it.
Overly vocal and performative is equally a turn off.
I'd like the happy medium please "
Perfectly put. 🫰🏼 |
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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Only time we have Silent sex is when we wake up middle of the night horny as hell and fuck in the spooning position then fall back asleep, that happens often 🤣 |
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"Silent sex where you have to be quiet can be quite the turn on.
Silent sex because the other person is just quiet freaks me out tbh, I'm then convinced they're not enjoying it and I start to panic that I'm not floating their boat, then I'm not enjoying it.
Overly vocal and performative is equally a turn off.
I'd like the happy medium please "
💯 If I don't have to be quiet and I am not making any noise .... I am probably not really into it. |
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By *666Man 7 weeks ago
Warrington |
Rena Malik spoke about it recently in one of her you tube videos. Communication is important in any relationship, talk about it afterwards, ask how it was, did they like it, can it be made better or can you do something differently. I've been with women that have been silent and screamed the house down.
You look hot AF in your profile, stunning 🩷 |
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