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Did I dodge a bullet?

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By *inger72 OP   Man 1 week ago

South London

Bit of a weird one… the other night around midnight out of the blue, I got a message asking if I’d like to join a 30 year old guy with his lady FWB

Normally I’d jump at the chance, but I got to wondering why a straight man whose been on a while would approach a single, unverified bi man with very few photos to go over straight away… after a few exchanged messages I couldn’t put my finger on it, but I wasn’t sure what the attraction was

I said I’d had a few beers and wasn’t sure I’d be at peak performance but he was still keen to meet, and that his lady would definitely get me hard, if I could be there in 30 mins, and he was cool as he’d experimented in the past

I’m of the opinion that if something seems to good to be true, it usually is… I politely said I had to be up early for work the next day, I’ve not heard anything since

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By *athomMan 1 week ago

South Coast


"Bit of a weird one… the other night around midnight out of the blue, I got a message asking if I’d like to join a 30 year old guy with his lady FWB

Normally I’d jump at the chance, but I got to wondering why a straight man whose been on a while would approach a single, unverified bi man with very few photos to go over straight away… after a few exchanged messages I couldn’t put my finger on it, but I wasn’t sure what the attraction was

I said I’d had a few beers and wasn’t sure I’d be at peak performance but he was still keen to meet, and that his lady would definitely get me hard, if I could be there in 30 mins, and he was cool as he’d experimented in the past

I’m of the opinion that if something seems to good to be true, it usually is… I politely said I had to be up early for work the next day, I’ve not heard anything since

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Trust your instincts

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS 1 week ago

In a galaxy far far away


"Bit of a weird one… the other night around midnight

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I never reply to messages sent at that time.

I wait till the morning

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By *WB85Man 1 week ago

Staffordshire

I've had similar offers, but that kind of rushed, last minute and likely one off meet just isnt for me.

Its always the solo male doing the messaging isn't it....never the female.

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By *heron ShanMan 1 week ago

Durham

Bullet dodged, Niro.

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By *ellinever70Woman 1 week ago

Ayrshire

I don't reckon you dodged a bullet.

It's probably not a proposition you should have been considering in the first place

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple 1 week ago

in Lancashire

Absolutely you did Op, apart from it being some dipstick on a wind up theres some right dodgy fuckers on here too..

Good that you went with your gut instinct..

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 1 week ago

Carlisle usually

Any initial message sent after midnight should go in the bin 💜

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 1 week ago

Central

I don't look at my inbox at night, as they will invariably be horny men wanting sex within minutes.

And I'd only meet people where they are all party to the messaging and all are right, in any event. I need mutual compatibility with all people.

You probably took the absolute right decision OP

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