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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Tips please to help single men and others to find a swing-date .... What have you found that has helped here?? Some dont have a clue about wrighting a nice letter .... no a cutt and paste things it puts us people off . Tips please for them that need help xx  |
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"Tips please to help single men and others to find a swing-date .... What have you found that has helped here?? Some dont have a clue about wrighting a nice letter .... no a cutt and paste things it puts us people off . Tips please for them that need help xx "
I think this is a very cruel post, you know Soapy frequents the forums...... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tips please to help single men and others to find a swing-date .... What have you found that has helped here?? Some dont have a clue about wrighting a nice letter .... no a cutt and paste things it puts us people off . Tips please for them that need help xx
I think this is a very cruel post, you know Soapy frequents the forums......"
well i love soapy posts so he is find i hope he come up with some good tips . |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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and just because someone has a vagina, doesn't make them always right, the same as,.. if you have a penis you are always wrong........"
And just because we have a vagina, doesn't mean we'll shag anyone. 
Woo us! Woo us hard! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tips please to help single men and others to find a swing-date .... What have you found that has helped here?? Some dont have a clue about wrighting a nice letter .... no a cutt and paste things it puts us people off . Tips please for them that need help xx
I think this is a very cruel post, you know Soapy frequents the forums...... well i love soapy posts so he is find i hope he come up with some good
tips ."
I've already said loads a cock pics xx  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"be original, be respectful, be honest, be genuine, be patient and most of all, be yourself (unless your a prick, in which case be off with ya)"
ooo i love this good Tips xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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and just because someone has a vagina, doesn't make them always right, the same as,.. if you have a penis you are always wrong........
And just because we have a vagina, doesn't mean we'll shag anyone.
Woo us! Woo us hard!"
Fridgid xx  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tips please to help single men and others to find a swing-date .... What have you found that has helped here?? Some dont have a clue about wrighting a nice letter .... no a cutt and paste things it puts us people off . Tips please for them that need help xx
I think this is a very cruel post, you know Soapy frequents the forums...... well i love soapy posts so he is find i hope he come up with some good
tips .
I've already said loads a cock pics xx "
its not all about cock or pussy ... swinging is about so much more , |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tips please to help single men and others to find a swing-date .... What have you found that has helped here?? Some dont have a clue about wrighting a nice letter .... no a cutt and paste things it puts us people off . Tips please for them that need help xx
I think this is a very cruel post, you know Soapy frequents the forums...... well i love soapy posts so he is find i hope he come up with some good
tips .
I've already said loads a cock pics xx "
Soapy you always answer the same, I asked you what the time was today and you just said "loadsa cock pics" with a mad gleam in your eyes..... I think he needs sedating  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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and just because someone has a vagina, doesn't make them always right, the same as,.. if you have a penis you are always wrong........
And just because we have a vagina, doesn't mean we'll shag anyone.
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agree with that one....
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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and just because someone has a vagina, doesn't make them always right, the same as,.. if you have a penis you are always wrong........
And just because we have a vagina, doesn't mean we'll shag anyone.
Woo us! Woo us hard!
Fridgid xx "
Picky more like. 
To be honest I'm not the best person to ask. A wink and a drink and I'm anybodies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a serious note.....make me laugh....and not with glasses on your dick, well not unless I ask you to
That's about as serious, as I can be .......wanders off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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and just because someone has a vagina, doesn't make them always right, the same as,.. if you have a penis you are always wrong........
And just because we have a vagina, doesn't mean we'll shag anyone.
Woo us! Woo us hard!
Fridgid xx
Picky more like.
To be honest I'm not the best person to ask. A wink and a drink and I'm anybodies. "
Right I've sent the wink and I'll bring a can a wi me
Drop em xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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and just because someone has a vagina, doesn't make them always right, the same as,.. if you have a penis you are always wrong........
And just because we have a vagina, doesn't mean we'll shag anyone.
Woo us! Woo us hard!
Fridgid xx
Picky more like.
To be honest I'm not the best person to ask. A wink and a drink and I'm anybodies.
Right I've sent the wink and I'll bring a can a wi me
Drop em xx "
Not out the fridge I hope |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If ya short put six foot on ya
Profile
Gives em a laugh when ya turns up xx "
no soapy i would hate that i am tall , lol xx i know not to have my 5 or 7 in heels on , |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If ya short put six foot on ya
Profile
Gives em a laugh when ya turns up xx no soapy i would hate that i am tall , lol xx i know not to have my 5 or 7 in heels on ,"
I know what ya mean Jo choices choices lol xx |
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We are plankton in an ocean of Whales on here..but we love the site and all the nice people that frequent it...especially the forums..our advice would be 'be honest, genuine and sociable...other people who are the same will find you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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and just because someone has a vagina, doesn't make them always right, the same as,.. if you have a penis you are always wrong........
And just because we have a vagina, doesn't mean we'll shag anyone.
Woo us! Woo us hard!"
woo us? noooo its a sex site not a dateing site? im married i want sex not a boyfriend???
if you want wooo,d go to iwantadate.com 
ps,to the post,,be respectfull if its a cpls profile message the cpl not hey i want to shag yer mrs mate,
enclose a face or body pic if you havent got any on your profile,a nice hello liked your profile and think we might be looking for the same things ,,ect?
auds xx  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
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and just because someone has a vagina, doesn't make them always right, the same as,.. if you have a penis you are always wrong........
And just because we have a vagina, doesn't mean we'll shag anyone.
Woo us! Woo us hard!woo us? noooo its a sex site not a dateing site? im married i want sex not a boyfriend???
if you want wooo,d go to iwantadate.com "
Well each to their own but I prefer to be seduced, either by message on here or when we meet. I can meet mates for a drink, I'm on here to meet for sex! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are plankton in an ocean of Whales on here..but we love the site and all the nice people that frequent it...especially the forums..our advice would be 'be honest, genuine and sociable...other people who are the same will find you."
we so are plankton in the big ocean .. I do see swinging like that .. our net is our profile so you have to work on that , You people out there not getting bites xx
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Dont make the mistake of thinking "swingers" are any different to people out there,the things that make friends out there work here too,the things that pull out there work here.
Its harder to get a shag here than out there though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Soapy thats NOT helpful. Funny, but not helpful!
I would suggest a polite but succinct first message, maybe a little humour, but not too much.
Good diction, spelling and no text speak, it makes people think that you are lazy- and if you can't be arsed with messaging- perhaps you are lacking in other ways!
Harsh but fair!
Asking before sending a friends invite, is good, and things like "what are you in to", frankly bore me, it shows a lack of imagination too- which doesn't bode well for the bedroom (or wherever!).
Taking it at their pace helps too, some ladies want to meet to play straight off, but some like a social, to suss you out first.
And a genuine wish to have fun and give pleasure as well as receive, is more appealing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Dont make the mistake of thinking "swingers" are any different to people out there,the things that make friends out there work here too,the things that pull out there work here.
Its harder to get a shag here than out there though."
yes your right .. we are just normal people xx maybe with high sex drives xx |
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do some ground work. you will only get something out of swinging if your prepared to make an effort. join in the forums go to parties and socials. its amazing how many doors get opened when people realize your a good decent person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if ur score rate isnt very good off site it wont be much different onhere.
i think this kinda scene attracts alot of people that may be finding it difficult scoring with the opposite sex and they come into it with a far greater expectancy. us guys will have it alot worse than most women onhere but hey...suck it up buttercup
u cant escape reality |
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"We are plankton in an ocean of Whales on here..but we love the site and all the nice people that frequent it...especially the forums..our advice would be 'be honest, genuine and sociable...other people who are the same will find you. we so are plankton in the big ocean .. I do see swinging like that .. our net is our profile so you have to work on that , You people out there not getting bites xx"
Good clever analogy concerning the net there 'Game'...our net is more of a tube that people pass through normally...nice people though, so we are happy with that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"do some ground work. you will only get something out of swinging if your prepared to make an effort. join in the forums go to parties and socials. its amazing how many doors get opened when people realize your a good decent person"
yes i think your right there and fab have some good partys at clubs for singles and couples at times ,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right I've sent the wink and I'll bring a can a wi me
Drop em xx
"You've had no winks"
Oh soapy, you fibber you!
Am not then I sent it xx
Haha now you have.
Where's me beer?"
Alchol is the devils brew
I said full fat or diet?? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Send a nice face pic With first letter and not a cock pic ... if thay like the look of the face ... that will all come after maybe ."
Knackered before i even start then! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Write a Forum post saying "Would you shag me? if so message me?
and see what turns up"
well it may make one or two look at the profile .. but alot dont like posts like that in forum .. feel if thay have to do that things must be bad , loads of better ways i am sure. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Send a nice face pic With first letter and not a cock pic ... if thay like the look of the face ... that will all come after maybe .
Knackered before i even start then! "
a nice smile a face x thats the best pic you can get .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tips please to help single men and others to find a swing-date .... What have you found that has helped here?? Some dont have a clue about wrighting a nice letter .... no a cutt and paste things it puts us people off . Tips please for them that need help xx
Talk to Bob he's doing alright!!! Bit like marmite, you either love him or hate him Bobs loving itDo you have some good tips Bob ? Glad your doing ok x"
yes, when you get to the swapping phone number stage you can say "is it 07... shit no we're in england it starts +447....." but that only works if you have an international life like Bob |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nar im a big fish in a tiny puddle lol honestly it does feel that way
Surely thats a good thing...
Not when the sun comes out."
Only comes out if I stand up... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like bass well can cope with that as long as not a shark , thay can eat you alive .
But not you Jo...
You're too nice..."
ooo you charmer I have this thing for charming men . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like bass well can cope with that as long as not a shark , thay can eat you alive .
But not you Jo...
You're too nice...ooo you charmer I have this thing for charming men . "
Removes hat, bows low...
At your service m'dear... |
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