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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Let’s cut the abuse. There are many here who are married seeking low profile encounters, these are often with other married people. Rather than curse / abuse, simply respond to the post with “same” and let the girls take a look and then dm who they want.
No abuse please, we’re not asking for approval. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well from experience on threads about us married guys I often get a few DMs & it’s overall worth the grief. So let’s all put our money where our mouth is and let them come fishing. They’re out there for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just throwing my name into the lions den. I’m honest about my marital status on my profile. My reasons for being here are my reasons, and I certainly would not judge anyone else for theirs.
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I'm not in this situation but everyone has their reasons for being here which are theirs alone. It's not my place to judge or criticise. I've met married women before and would certainly do it again. Good luck to you all   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let’s cut the abuse. There are many here who are married seeking low profile encounters, these are often with other married people. Rather than curse / abuse, simply respond to the post with “same” and let the girls take a look and then dm who they want.
No abuse please, we’re not asking for approval. "
I’m not completely put off my Married guys. (Very single lady here!) but I do like to hear the reasons why when I chat. Not sure why maybe makes me feel better about the whole situation! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Married ... Mrs Monster hasn't got a scooby I'm on here...but I have put that in my profile. Honesty is the best policy; unless a lie will get you laid. |
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"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married? "
I don't think many people go into a relationship with the intention of cheating. Life changes people, relationships and presents challenges you can't possibly anticipate |
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By *redrayMan
over a year ago
Emsworth |
"Just throwing my name into the lions den. I’m honest about my marital status on my profile. My reasons for being here are my reasons, and I certainly would not judge anyone else for theirs.
Same "
I agree fully with this.
Same |
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By *ipster8Man
over a year ago
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"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?
I don't think many people go into a relationship with the intention of cheating. Life changes people, relationships and presents challenges you can't possibly anticipate "
Well put. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?
I don't think many people go into a relationship with the intention of cheating. Life changes people, relationships and presents challenges you can't possibly anticipate "
That’s certainly true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?
I don't think many people go into a relationship with the intention of cheating. Life changes people, relationships and presents challenges you can't possibly anticipate "
Yeah and you can tell a lot about a person's character by how they deal with those challenges. Apparently joining a swinging site and sleeping around seems to be the easy option. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?
This is a non judgemental thread."
Just because you say that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to judge. You can't just ban people from judging you, especially when your actions are immoral. |
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"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?
This is a non judgemental thread.
Just because you say that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to judge. You can't just ban people from judging you, especially when your actions are immoral. "
You can avoid the thread though if you don't agree with its contents. |
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"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married? "
Don’t judge until you’ve walked a mile in my shoes. Based on your age you haven’t got the experience to judge others |
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"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?
I don't think many people go into a relationship with the intention of cheating. Life changes people, relationships and presents challenges you can't possibly anticipate "
Agreed |
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"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?
This is a non judgemental thread.
Just because you say that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to judge. You can't just ban people from judging you, especially when your actions are immoral. "
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Each to their own, no one should be judging anyone based on how they are running their life or why they are on a swingers site, married, attached or single.
As long as you are are honest about your status and what you are looking for, then everyone can make up their own minds as to whether you meet each other.
As someone whose every relationship has ended because of being cheating on, I don’t actively seek married or attached men. However, if I choose to meet them (and I have) that’s my choice after talking to them.
Don’t judge what you don’t understand. If you think it’s morally wrong for married people to be seeking sex with others outside of that relationship, then you are on the wrong site.
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"Each to their own, no one should be judging anyone based on how they are running their life or why they are on a swingers site, married, attached or single.
As long as you are are honest about your status and what you are looking for, then everyone can make up their own minds as to whether you meet each other.
As someone whose every relationship has ended because of being cheating on, I don’t actively seek married or attached men. However, if I choose to meet them (and I have) that’s my choice after talking to them.
Don’t judge what you don’t understand. If you think it’s morally wrong for married people to be seeking sex with others outside of that relationship, then you are on the wrong site.
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"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married? "
For me personally I am married to my wife as we have a strong emotional bond and our relationship isnt defined by sex. Although we have a good sex life together we both still like to meet new people and have different experiences. I'm sorry if that offends you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting that most people on this thread seem to be in their late 40s/early 50s. Midlife crisis much?"
and the only person moaning about it is in thier 20s. Naive much?
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"Interesting that most people on this thread seem to be in their late 40s/early 50s. Midlife crisis much?and the only person moaning about it is in thier 20s. Naive much?"
Maybe kinder to say idealistic! |
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"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?
This is a non judgemental thread.
Just because you say that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to judge. You can't just ban people from judging you, especially when your actions are immoral. "
Who decides what is or isn't immoral? I doubt it's you!
Am not sure a swinging site is really the place!
And I hate it when the oldies pile onto the youngsters (though thhe younger guy older woman threads are brutal/hilarious) but perhaps do some research before jumping onto the high horse....there are loads of reasons why someone married might be here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love these kind of threads all the married guys together  "
I think you have misread some of the posts. There are many people Men, Women and couples commenting. If you don't like, don't read. It's very simple really. |
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"Love these kind of threads all the married guys together
I think you have misread some of the posts. There are many people Men, Women and couples commenting. If you don't like, don't read. It's very simple really."
Agreed I'm single, but I known men and women who do, some with agreement and some without. It's their lookout and am sure they have their reasons. Just the same as why you may choose not to play with them! No one is judging you for that!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same and to be honest my opinion is no one knows why people are on here , before judging us ask , some it's loveless marriage, some is sexless marriage some it's medical, wives or husband's can be dying and it's their pardon pun release to feel bit of normality |
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"Love these kind of threads all the married guys together
I think you have misread some of the posts. There are many people Men, Women and couples commenting. If you don't like, don't read. It's very simple really."
Think you have misunderstood mine where am I judging it's your business true but you lot make it mine when its clearly not on none of mens single profiles that they are here cheating then we ladies get your angry other half calling us when we are with our families so think on before you get on your high horse just to justify cheating ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love these kind of threads all the married guys together
I think you have misread some of the posts. There are many people Men, Women and couples commenting. If you don't like, don't read. It's very simple really.
Think you have misunderstood mine where am I judging it's your business true but you lot make it mine when its clearly not on none of mens single profiles that they are here cheating then we ladies get your angry other half calling us when we are with our families so think on before you get on your high horse just to justify cheating ...
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Because you have had a bad incident in the past, doesn't give you the moral high ground. So you pick a Dickhead, not our fault. I think you should read my profile, it clearly does say about my situation.
I don't have to justify anything to anyone. If you don't like my situation, kindly move on. |
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"Love these kind of threads all the married guys together
I think you have misread some of the posts. There are many people Men, Women and couples commenting. If you don't like, don't read. It's very simple really.
Think you have misunderstood mine where am I judging it's your business true but you lot make it mine when its clearly not on none of mens single profiles that they are here cheating then we ladies get your angry other half calling us when we are with our families so think on before you get on your high horse just to justify cheating ...
Because you have had a bad incident in the past, doesn't give you the moral high ground. So you pick a Dickhead, not our fault. I think you should read my profile, it clearly does say about my situation.
I don't have to justify anything to anyone. If you don't like my situation, kindly move on. "
Sorry you have misunderstood and I was on my break at work rushing doing the post so worded it all wrong
It wasnt a dig at you, I only quoted you because your the only one who quoted me so in response I was just answering and I think you have took it wrong wasnt saying you in particular it's great that you are honest on your profile
A lot of men on here arnt that's all I meant and I certainly wasnt on any high horse... and that's all I'm saying on the matter of married men or attached males on here who dont let us know they are attached. |
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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago
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"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?
This is a non judgemental thread.
Just because you say that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to judge. You can't just ban people from judging you, especially when your actions are immoral. "
Let the person who is without sin throw the first stone.
The action of others are their own. Your moral high ground is but a mole hill compared to others who, if given the chance, would judge you as you seem to want to judge others.
It’s a shame you waste energy on deciding the moral fate of others rather than servicing your own moral position.
Surely an honest profile allows you to side step those you want to judge and go on your saintly path, as others side step you on their own more saintly road.
Go forth with a light heart and Judge not unless you are open to be judged yourself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a shame that dishonest cheaters are using a swinging site.....
Ah well. Each to their own "
Nope
They should leave and find another site.... What they're after isn't swinging |
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"Just a shame that dishonest cheaters are using a swinging site.....
Ah well. Each to their own
Nope
They should leave and find another site.... What they're after isn't swinging"
The origins of swinging - Swinging, sometimes called wife swapping, husband swapping or partner swapping, is sexual activity in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in such activities with others as a recreational or social activity. Swinging is a form of non-monogamy and is an open relationship.
If your in a open relationship then there is no issue. |
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"Let’s cut the abuse. There are many here who are married seeking low profile encounters, these are often with other married people. Rather than curse / abuse, simply respond to the post with “same” and let the girls take a look and then dm who they want.
No abuse please, we’re not asking for approval. "
Same |
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