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By (user no longer on site) OP 3 weeks ago
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Anyone else not message someone as they look at the pics and profile and say nah they are well out of my league? Some absolutely gorgeous people on this app! |
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"Anyone else not message someone as they look at the pics and profile and say nah they are well out of my league? Some absolutely gorgeous people on this app! "
if they've messaged you, maybe leave it up to them to decide if they fancy you rather than assuming they don't despite making the first move 🤣 come on man give yourself a chance 🤣💪
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This can be an example of the fab equivalent of Murphys law..
What I refer to as fab law..so you spor a profile you th8nk way out of my league but everyone else thinks same...so no-one else ever messages so said hot profile actually doesn't recieve messages..
You drop message they're so over come someone has messaged them they actually reply...
Ah if fab was so easy..or run by carlsberg |
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Way too many times...
I think for me it's becoming an excuse to avoid the possibility of being rejected, heritage of my last relationship...
But what I keep repeating myself is: you don't get if you don't ask. |
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No one is out of anyones league only those who think they are .
I've been very surprised over the years with some of the people contacting me and wanting repeat meets so just go for it what is the worst that can happen !?
Rejection isn't nice but we all have to realise we all have likes & dislikes. |
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I have hesitated to contact ladies and couples on here because I thought they wouldn't be interested in me.
I have also had ladies respond to me messaging them saying they have had me on their hot list but though I was out of their league!
My reaction is always, what a shame to have self selected themselves out of my interest...
So turning the tables, I try not to self deselect, and contact folk with a polite exploratory message to let them decide if they are interested or not.
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"Anyone else not message someone as they look at the pics and profile and say nah they are well out of my league? Some absolutely gorgeous people on this app! "
I'm my own worst enemy on here for this reason.
I either think the person is out of my league or I see who has verified them and put myself down thinking I wouldn't measure up to what they've already had. |
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I think part of the problem is that many guys who don't have a 7+ inch cock and who aren't ripped, feel that they simply don't measure up to what females/couples are looking for on here, because after all many are looking for fantasies to be fulfilled and the above ticks a lot of boxes and there's a lot to choose from.
Dad bods and 5 inch cocks therefore probably feel a little out of their depth and dare I say it, inadequate? So everyone looks out of their league.
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By *aspberryWoman 3 weeks ago
glasgow/belfast |
I don't think anyone is out of anyone's league. It comes down to personal preferences, likes and dislikes. Personally I think incomplete profiles are a real turn off, as is messages with 'Hi im horny' and such like another turn off. Or the messages where cock pics are sent asking what I would do to their cock.... Just my thoughts |
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No one should judge anyone,if the person behaved towards you as if they felt they were out of your league, then call it a lucky escape and it helps you understand what it is that you are looking for in a sexual partner and what sex with them will be like in my experience. Mx
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Yeah I often 2nd guess myself. Sometimes I will send and hope for the best. Depends on how I am feeling if I send a message or not. And always try to be respectful. Oddly I don't find that in a "kinkier" place. That seems easier fir some reason. |
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"Anyone else not message someone as they look at the pics and profile and say nah they are well out of my league? Some absolutely gorgeous people on this app! "
Not so much not messaging them. But not taking things further for reasons of a similar vain. |
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All the time! Sometimes I get messages from people and think, they'll be well dissapointed when they meet me , so I disregard them too 😂 it's funny how our insecurities play massively when a socials a social . Your not promising anything 😂 we should just go for it ! |
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By *lue-raspWoman 2 weeks ago
never ending banter in fife |
I do it all the time! Look at their pics and maybe see slim perky women in their pics and think they would be disappointed if they met me. Or if i get a message from someone really hot and think the same |
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I usually find a lot of pics of women on here quite hot and they look great..then I read their profile and it's barrier after barrier and they all want you to be hung like a horse or built like a Greek god 😅which I am not, unfortunately😅. I don't really shoot my shot but I ain't desperate either and I'm not gonna try and get with someone for the sake of it. So I recently took my pics off from public and decided I'll just write in the forums and engage with people here.  |
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Biggest bug bear is people messaging saying I’m stunning (how do they know - they can’t see my face?) and then the usual… “but, im way out your league anyway”.
Lack of confidence is so off putting, be more self assured guys, pleassseee! |
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By *iimonMan 2 weeks ago
Central belt Scotland |
"Biggest bug bear is people messaging saying I’m stunning (how do they know - they can’t see my face?) and then the usual… “but, im way out your league anyway”.
Lack of confidence is so off putting, be more self assured guys, pleassseee! "
Might not be able to see your face but your body is incredible! Latest addition to the hot list  |
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It’s a 50/50 either way yes or no, so if you think it’s a no why not just take chance if nothing to lose? Plus what we all look for can vary from person to person yeah some physical but others the mind x |
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"Anyone else not message someone as they look at the pics and profile and say nah they are well out of my league? Some absolutely gorgeous people on this app! "
All the time. There are some really stunning people on here so I rarely message these days plus age isn’t on my side either lol. |
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Lack of confidence is so off putting, be more self assured guys, pleassseee! "
I hate when I ask for a pic and people say something like , this is where we stop talking, or , yes but I'll not be your type .
I'm very much a personality kind of gal. Time just isn't on my side to meet as regularly as we hope 😂 |
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"Anyone else not message someone as they look at the pics and profile and say nah they are well out of my league? Some absolutely gorgeous people on this app! "
Don't hate the player, hate the game  |
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"Yes a lot, we look at profiles and think wow they are stunning, then don’t send a message because we know that they are so out of our league it’s unthinkable that they would reply back x"
Exactly this! |
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"Yes a lot, we look at profiles and think wow they are stunning, then don’t send a message because we know that they are so out of our league it’s unthinkable that they would reply back x"
Your profile is right up there with the best of them, can't imagine there would be many looking down their noses at you
(Did that make me look like a fawning arselicker?) |
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"Yes a lot, we look at profiles and think wow they are stunning, then don’t send a message because we know that they are so out of our league it’s unthinkable that they would reply back x
Your profile is right up there with the best of them, can't imagine there would be many looking down their noses at you
(Did that make me look like a fawning arselicker?) "
Yes |
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"Yes a lot, we look at profiles and think wow they are stunning, then don’t send a message because we know that they are so out of our league it’s unthinkable that they would reply back x
Your profile is right up there with the best of them, can't imagine there would be many looking down their noses at you
(Did that make me look like a fawning arselicker?)
Yes"
Well, they're out of my league anyway |
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By *j2015Couple 2 weeks ago
Glasgow |
We have felt it yeah, omg they are hot, but never let it stop us.
Unless the profile states “we are gym fit and prefer the same” or something similar there is no reason for us not to say Hi 🤷♂️ |
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"Yes a lot, we look at profiles and think wow they are stunning, then don’t send a message because we know that they are so out of our league it’s unthinkable that they would reply back x
Your profile is right up there with the best of them, can't imagine there would be many looking down their noses at you
(Did that make me look like a fawning arselicker?)
Yes
Well, they're out of my league anyway "
We aren’t out of anyone’s league, not even sure we are in a league x |
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I've gave up pretty much , I haven't had an admirer for a long time on here now, it's a jungle and yeah I see amazing cpls but most appear out my league or I guess untrusty to a guy,it's cool im thick skinned seen it all over the years I expect nothing now, but heh I love a blether and im always nice  |
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By *eriScotMan 2 weeks ago
Scottish Borders |
Never back away from messaging someone even if I think I don’t have much of a chance. Nothing wrong with being rejected, will have happened to me more than being successful. Just have to accept you’re not everyone’s type and move on |
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