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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey all! Pretty new to Fab and looking at going to our first club soon!
We’d probably go to one of Leeds clubs, easier and closer to us.
Anyone have any guidance/advice, or even things to avoid?
Thanks! J&A  |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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Do your homework  , check the clubs websites. Dress codes on different nights, the different events they might be holding whether you'd prefer somewhere that's not dress down or not. An once you walked through the doors be social |
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If its your first time you should talk it through with each other set limits and wants and definitely not's.
Agree on a couple of safe words so you can convey to each other what your opinions are without others being offended.
Definitely one word for ok I want to exceed my limits and is it ok with you and another no get me out of here now.
Also remember you are there for what you want not forwhat others want of you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm going to Hellfire as a single guy newbie on Friday 17th.
Am I wasting my time by not going as a couple? "
read about the club on there website and get a since of the rules.. check to see if they have events on but most importantly go on as your self's with a agreed plan on what both are happy to do. Don't rush anything if you're not happy say no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We can’t comment on quest as we’ve not been, but we went to Pandora for the first time in January and we were made to feel really welcome.
I (mrs) am really paranoid about safety and was put at ease straight away, we were shown round.
We couldn’t play (womens issues) but everyone was lovely and we can’t wait to go back
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I (Mr) only started swinging 6-7 month ago and both Pandora and Quest are on our doorstep, Pandora for me is better of the two clubs but that’s my own opinion. Both clubs when I’ve been to them (Pandora numerous times and quest only once)the staff have always been amazing.
the missus spoke to me a lot about it and best thing is definitely set some boundaries, don’t take one for the team and it’s always ok to say no oh and don’t always go with high expectations. |
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