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"You've put 'you must *not* be 'gentle'
Did you mean 'you must be gentle'?
Many thanks, corrected!
Appreciated.
You changed it to "you not be gentle"
Do you want them to be gentle or not gentle?
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Thnak you. Silly me I though I corrected it when the other poster asked. Appreciated! |
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"You make it clear what you want, not sure how the no face pics of you but you must see face pics of them will go down, but it's a clear profile of what you are looking for."
Thanks. Re face pics, no single male has comlained and over 90% that contact us already have a face pic on view to all or send a face pic inc dck pics. We've not yet had one complaining about this. We offer a phone chat with both of us before a meet is agreed and only reached that stage with a couple of people,
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"A few more clearer pics would be good x "
Cheers, but most of the other pics are fully naked, close up of Mrs but I've inclued one of us together but it is upside down. I can never get the hang of doing pictures.
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We're not really your target so our opinion would be a bit skewed but the way the profile is written makes it kind of seem like a corporate interview process.....
It just feels a little cold. I'd try and inject a bit of personality into it to make your profile seem more human. Maybe also a bit of information regarding why people might want to meet you as it currently seems like that's not really important, but it really is.
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"We're not really your target so our opinion would be a bit skewed but the way the profile is written makes it kind of seem like a corporate interview process.....
It just feels a little cold. I'd try and inject a bit of personality into it to make your profile seem more human. Maybe also a bit of information regarding why people might want to meet you as it currently seems like that's not really important, but it really is.
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Cheers. Re cold, sort of agree with you thinking about it to me it sounds clinical.
Will try to tweak it and post here when done possibly a bit later - Thanks |
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I would get rid of the bit about Mrs not saying a lot. If I was reading between the lines I would assume from that that she isn’t really into any of this and is being led along by Mr.
The bit about the VWE cock is confusing - who is this referring to?
Spell/grammar check everything, there are still a load of typos.
It does read a lot warmer now, that’s great. I still think you’ll struggle with the one-sidedness of your requirements, but I hope I’m wrong. |
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Can’t see much given that there’s some weird smear across the pics. It isn’t my phone… in case you’re wondering. |
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By *ickD80Man 32 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
The heavily edited picture of you holding the piece of paper with ‘fabswingers.com’ written on it is very suspicious, it’s obviously a picture that’s been used to verify your identity but you’ve edited out the profile name and it’s been photoshopped where the name of the website is so it just looks very fake.
Also, why have you edited the pictures to hide Mrs’ pussy when there’s a picture that shows her pussy? What’s the point in hiding it when it’s shown in another picture?
When you’re describing what will happen on the first meet you say that during the massage Mr will do most of the talking and Mrs will just indicate to Mr if she’s enjoying it or not…but later in your bio you say that Mrs likes to have a good chat while she’s being massaged, so that’s a contradiction.
Why do you think it’s ok to insist that people send you a face picture when you’re not prepared to send one back? You say that lots of people are happy to do it but that’s not the point I’m making, i think it’s a bit selfish and hypocritical to insist someone does something that you’re not willing to do. You actually come across as very self absorbed and arrogant people in the way you describe exactly how the first and second meet will go and by asking for the face picture. Don’t you think that meets should be more fluid and unplanned rather than you specifying exactly what will happen and when it will happen? |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Hello
Please review revised profile and constructive feedback appreciated.
Thanks
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I'm a bit puzzled by the black cock on a white man. Please enlighten me |
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your describing whats going to happen and what mrs will do and how shy she is, comes across as mrs really isnt into it as much as you, also its very you will do this and you will do that and will live here etc what exactly is in it for the person your meeting apart from chatting to a shy woman while giving her a massage as her husband wanks?? |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Hello
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I'm a bit puzzled by the black cock on a white man. Please enlighten me"
Looks like a nasty infection, gangrene at a guess  |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Hello
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I'm a bit puzzled by the black cock on a white man. Please enlighten me
Looks like a nasty infection, gangrene at a guess "
Oh my lol |
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By *ickD80Man 32 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
You say that after an initial chat Mr and Mrs will decide if they want to move onto the next stage if that’s what the meet wants to do as well.
You state that either Mr or your meet can remove Mrs’ underwear if she consents to it being removed.
You state that your meet will be able to rub and finger Mrs’ pussy if she consents to it.
You state that your meet will be able to massage Mrs boobs if Mrs consents to it.
Why do you think it’s necessary to state that these things will only happen if there is full consent? It shouldn’t need to be said that your meet won’t be able to do those things without consent, it should ne a given. You’re making out like Mrs is getting special treatment by being allowed to give her consent to things but no one should have their underwear removed or be touched in intimate places without their consent.
By specifically saying that these things will only happen with Mrs consent it gives the impression that you don’t think consent is needed unless specified that it is. |
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Well the pics certainly kept me guessing  as already stated, consent should be non negotiable for everything on a meet so your profile comes across as a lottle regimented - I would struggle to remember that whole scenario but then my memory is poor - Xeno |
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"Hello
Please review revised profile and constructive feedback appreciated.
Thanks
No face pics till meet. I dnt think so. Pass and double pass"
Hi
Thanks
Re no face pics. We've made it clear in our profile that it is their choice if to contact us or not. Therefore, those genuinely interested would have read that and decide either way.
Appreciate your comments. |
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"I would get rid of the bit about Mrs not saying a lot. If I was reading between the lines I would assume from that that she isn’t really into any of this and is being led along by Mr.
The bit about the VWE cock is confusing - who is this referring to?
Spell/grammar check everything, there are still a load of typos.
It does read a lot warmer now, that’s great. I still think you’ll struggle with the one-sidedness of your requirements, but I hope I’m wrong. "
Hiya
Many thanks for your helpful post
I've revised the profile a few times having taken note of what you and several others have stated.
We do get many contacts but sadly most are too far for us
We detail ideal locations for us
About the "one sided"ness. Profile is clear what the postential meeter can expect from us and what not, EG, no face pics and we have made it clear we won't ask for theirs but the vast majority do have public profile face pics. We will only ask for face pic if we were going to decide to agree a meet
I've just tweaked the profile and hope its a better read
Thank you all that have helped, sincerely appreciated.
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"Hello
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Having read your profile and checked out your photos.
You come across as self centered and your profile is extremely Unappealing. There's way too many red flags in your profile.
You want someone who is verified but your not verified yet, so are you just after your 1st verification ?
You would get a massive NO from us.
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By *AABMan 32 weeks ago
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"your describing whats going to happen and what mrs will do and how shy she is, comes across as mrs really isnt into it as much as you, also its very you will do this and you will do that and will live here etc what exactly is in it for the person your meeting apart from chatting to a shy woman while giving her a massage as her husband wanks??"
Kind of reads like a business contract. |
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The chatting to Mrs only once a meet is arranged would hugely put me off, how do I know if I want to meet the Mrs without chatting to her?
It's both or nothing for me.
Close up pics are a turn off for me personally I wouldn't have read the profile based on those pics as there's zero way to see if there's any attraction.
The accommodation your very specific when someone is inviting you into their homes and it comes across a little judgemental specifying what someone else's home should be like is a little odd.
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The pictures are truly awful. What you put in your profile is up to you but saying that you want a single guy to invite you over without him seeing what you look like is a bit off. Why not do a video call?
You don’t seem to have taken much notice of the advice given previously and like others have said it does seem like a business contract. Put some more about yourselves in the profile to stop it sounding like your wife is just doing this to please you. |
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"The chatting to Mrs only once a meet is arranged would hugely put me off, how do I know if I want to meet the Mrs without chatting to her?
It's both or nothing for me.
Close up pics are a turn off for me personally I wouldn't have read the profile based on those pics as there's zero way to see if there's any attraction.
The accommodation your very specific when someone is inviting you into their homes and it comes across a little judgemental specifying what someone else's home should be like is a little odd.
Mrs "
I thought this was odd too. Imho like hygiene a clean space to host guests should be a given |
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I think OP may have asked for similar advice before? Not sure what is the point really as nothing changed and all suggestions are brushed aside.
OP you seem to be saying it works for you and men don't mind which if true then just crack on and no need for advice from others. I do wonder what kind of man you are attracting but if it works then great. Personally so many red flags/turn offs including face pic thing, not Fab photo verified, the tone and most importantly of all actually what would be on the agenda - a massage with possibly G string being removed after going through all the hoops and accommodating. Think I would rather watch some porn and have a wank. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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Maybe your Mrs should write what she wants as it comes across that it's all from your point. You are married yes? So it should be from both of you
Pictures ain't that hard to take if you actually try
It's been mentioned but why cover the fanny but then have a full pic?
Overall, too many flags
Why not look at other couples profiles and see how a couples profile could be written |
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By *unnybunsWoman 32 weeks ago
Between here and over there |
This is a bit of a weird one.
Sounds like your poor Mrs doesn’t want to do this.
I could go on and on but I really can’t be bothered because you are not listening to what advice you have.
I’ve just read it for the first time and it seems cold and clinical.
I wish you good luck however. And if you get meets that’s great.
Most would settle for a wank in front of the tele than go through the whole shenanigans of what your asking though. Possibly one of the strangest profiles I’ve seen. |
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You say won't meet unless they have at least One verification but you don't have any verifications yourself so that's a bit unfair and may not sit well with people.
Not being diggy just a point I feel relevant |
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