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Best clubs for cleanliness, atmosphere and clientele... ( NOT LEEDS as we fancy a change)
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Don't get me wrong we enjoy Quest and Pandoras, but fancy a change and don't mind travelling.
Which clubs do you recommend?
Things we don't like:-
Single guys hounding us, knocking constantly, trying doors, in general just not getting the message that we aren't interested.
Dirt, we understand it's a sex club, it comes with certain smells but there doesn't need to be a pile of old crap shoved in a corner of a room. It feels like *some* clubs are becoming tired and almost blind to the junk they have lying around.
We just want to try somewhere new, clean, with friendly people that respect boundaries and can actually have a conversation.
We are kinky, so a good dungeon helps too but not necessary.
Torture Garden? Killing Kittens events?
Clem x |
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I've found that Chameleons in Darlaston near Walsall is good, in my humble experience. On the times I've been, it's been clean, the atmosphere has been friendly and welcoming, and the clientele have been respectful. I quite like their dungeon-esque play rooms on the top floor, although I've not been for some time now, so it might have changed since then, but I'm actually hoping to visit there again at the end of the month, all being well.
I'm also going to the ‘new’ Attic venue in a couple of weeks with my lady friend — I've been to their old place which was okay but, like all clubs, it can depend on what day you go and which event is running, so your mileage many vary. I'd still say it's worth a punt, especially as they don't require membership, so if you don't like it, you've not had too much of a financial outlay and/or too daunting a journey.
Those would be my two suggestions, plus the Midlands (East and West!) has quite a large variety of clubs you could branch out to 😁👍 |
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I've never been but I've heard good reports about Xtasia and Chameleons but I am in the middle aged category. We tend to be a little less fussy."
I'm kind of a regular at xtasia. can't fault them for clientele, staff and atmosphere. You get the odd bit of discarded detritus but by no means piles of crap shoved into a corner.
Their spa, steam room and sauna is excellent, you can rent onsite accommodation and book massages.
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By *bi HaiveMan 21 weeks ago
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West Midlands
I've never been but I've heard good reports about Xtasia and Chameleons but I am in the middle aged category. We tend to be a little less fussy.
I'm kind of a regular at xtasia. can't fault them for clientele, staff and atmosphere. You get the odd bit of discarded detritus but by no means piles of crap shoved into a corner.
Their spa, steam room and sauna is excellent, you can rent onsite accommodation and book massages.
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Plus two dungeon areas. 👌 |
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West Midlands
I've never been but I've heard good reports about Xtasia and Chameleons but I am in the middle aged category. We tend to be a little less fussy.
I'm kind of a regular at xtasia. can't fault them for clientele, staff and atmosphere. You get the odd bit of discarded detritus but by no means piles of crap shoved into a corner.
Their spa, steam room and sauna is excellent, you can rent onsite accommodation and book massages.
Plus two dungeon areas. 👌"
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"Oh! I was actually looking up vanilla alternative and wondered how their hotel rooms work in regards to memberships etc.
Festival of fun? What am I missing?
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there's a whole bunch of swinger events all over the world and VA puts on one of them. If you look up Swingathon and festival of Fun Swingers. Loads of people go. Some in camper vans. Some stay in hotels. Some stay in tents.
I like sleeping in my own bed so I never really overnight. I'm also autistic so something can be a little bit overwhelming.
I have been to Cap D'agde in France where the whole village is dedicated to nudists/naturists and a lot of swingers, LGBTIQIA and sex clubs, bars, spas and pool foam parties. I stayed outside of the naturist village when I went to France so I could escape the overstimulation if necessary.
There are also popular clubs and club nights in Amsterdam and Berlin. |
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XTASIA in west Brom as that also has themed bedrooms to stay over in and they're reasonable priced too
Club play is another favourite of mine and there Dungeon is just getting a refurb and looks and smells amazing (if you like new wood smells lol). Really friendly and feel safe too |
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same size as Pandoras
Hope this helps x