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How do couples cope with jealousy
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Despite what some may tell you, there should be no jealousy in swinging at all. It leads to drama and relationship problems. If you have any jealousy we would advice you take a step back and just do what you're both comfortable with. You should be getting enjoyment from your partner having fun. |
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"How do you ladies cope with jealousy. Seeing your partner constantly seducing others and going on meets alone? "
If you're feeling jealous why is he still doing it?
I have never felt jealous in swinging. I would feel hurt if my partner was sharing an emotional bond with someone else but he wouldn't do that. |
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"How do you ladies cope with jealousy. Seeing your partner constantly seducing others and going on meets alone? "
From the language you've used,
I'm not sure it's jealousy. This is insecurity. If you are entering into a non monogamous relationship, you've got to do this from a place of emotional safety. If your partner isn't making this safe for you emotionally, it may be best to take a step back until you both know what that looks like for yourselves and each other |
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I don’t feel jealous at all watching C have fun. It’s a massive turn on seeing her enjoy herself, but I also trust her completely and know we are rock solid as a team and couple. One off fun isn’t going to change that.
Not going to lie I’ve had the odd insecure wobble at times, nothing major, but open and honest communication at all times, awkward/hard discussions or not, soon sorts it out. She calms my head in all aspects of our life, this is no different |
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By *j188Couple 3 weeks ago
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"Despite what some may tell you, there should be no jealousy in swinging at all. It leads to drama and relationship problems. If you have any jealousy we would advice you take a step back and just do what you're both comfortable with. You should be getting enjoyment from your partner having fun."
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"How do you ladies cope with jealousy. Seeing your partner constantly seducing others and going on meets alone? "
Well for us,
We don't meet alone, as it wouldn't be what we want. Why should the other person be sat at home wondering what's going on rather than sharing in that experience?
Sounds like jealousy isn't the problem here op, seems you need to communicate your boundaries a bit better so that your not left at home feeling jealous. |
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"How do you ladies cope with jealousy. Seeing your partner constantly seducing others and going on meets alone? "
Is jealousy seeing the other partner with somebody else sexually?
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Is it jealousy because one partner is getting more meets than the other?
Jealousy is not good in swinging.,
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If there is even a tiny bit of jealousy in a relationship, swinging is not for you.
I'll admit that it was very strange watching Kelly with another man the first time but the excitement I felt watching them soon dispelled any doubts.
She was so happy being laid,her face was lit up and that made me happy for her.
Nowadays,it's exactly the same and the reclaim is wonderful.
So,if you feel anxious or jealous,give it a miss ,I've seen grown men cry while watching their wife swing for the first time.
Some people are OK before hand,but the reality is something else. |
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Reckon we've had the same problem. We have had zero issues when playing with others together, we're full of confidence and laughter and a great team but one of us tried separate play under a loose agreement and it did not have the desired effect and took us to a bit of a low.
Back to the drawing board for what works I guess! |
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