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I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either   "
Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever |
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By *zeroMan 1 week ago
Glasgow |
"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever "
Must be tight as a Chinese takeaway bag. |
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By *hechonkyduoCouple 1 week ago
Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish. |
Fake? No probably not.
Preference? Absolutely yes.
Its a great filter for us because I am NOT what they are looking for so we can block and move on.
Also men would get rinsed for saying "must be below 8 stone" but we have seen a few saying no fat people 😂 |
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This site is very much about sexual preferences and if people like big dicks then that's their preference.
I'm not sure why it bothers others so much. Just scroll on by.
A lot of guys like slim or petite women which I'm certainly not but I dont get upset by it as its their preference. |
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By *loydyMan 1 week ago
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. "
it's like wen people demand a face pic on the first message or block you lol |
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. "
Why would the profile be fake? It's their preference, to only meet men with big cocks. |
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At least 3 times a week we get guys saying are you into BBC or BWC.
Some people are happy to reduce themselves to an appendage like they have nothing else to offer.
Other people message offering dinner, massage and decent conversation.
We let people do Fab the way they want. |
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"Why do people get buthurt because someone else has criteria they don't meet? "
Exactly this.
People are here to live out their fantasies; to have the sex they want with the people they want to have it with. So why should they not express explicitly what they want whether it's cock size, big boobs, size 8, over 6ft, blonde, pubes, age, BBW, etc etc
Concentrate on those whose criteria you do meet and don't stress about those you don't |
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"Why do people get buthurt because someone else has criteria they don't meet? "
Possibly because they then post things like
Another time waster
Another cancellation
Yet plenty of guys with average stats and such would turn up and do a good Job so everyone ends up missing out. |
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"Why do people get buthurt because someone else has criteria they don't meet?
Possibly because they then post things like
Another time waster
Another cancellation
Yet plenty of guys with average stats and such would turn up and do a good Job so everyone ends up missing out. "
So they should just settle for any guy who turns up?  And how do you determine in advance that someone will definitely turn up? |
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Couldn't give less of a monkeys about profiles looking for big dicks, BBC, BWC, VWE..... Whatever the latest acronym is....
In the end, that excludes us from matching with them, so in a simple way, why bother spending value time and emotional energy worrying about something that was never going to be???
Besides, anyone who tells us they have a BBC, BWC, whatever..... We won't entertain them anyway, because that's not what we're looking for! |
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I don’t really see a problem with the request on profile, it just means they are looking for something exceptional.
Why go to all the effort if it’s not going to be a satisfying meet ???
How’s it any different than saying no fat people ? Naturally it’s only fat people that would take offence.
In fact if more men would actually exercise some preference control instead of spamming up every woman’s inbox with pish then maybe we would all get more of what we like. |
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Not in the slightest OP!
You vastly underestimate how well many people know their preferences as well as how to communicate very well, in order to prevent time wasting -yours and especially their own.
Once adults are experienced in their sexual tastes and engaging with countless inappropriate people, they very wisely get to refine their approach. It's common sense, don't you think. A few people like cocks of a certain size - let them find and enjoy them. And you go on your way, pursuing your own thing  |
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To be fair, people can ask for what they want on their profiles.
Some do enjoy bigger and they put it on their bios, in the hope that those people will be more likely to contact them.
Its down to the way people say things, any man is also welcome to state their preferences.
Many men say they want big boobs gym fit ladies.
I'm an older bigger woman. It wouldn't bother me if a man wrote no big women /olders. I wouldn't be what they're after, so wouldn't contact them.
I have seen a couple of male profiles that describe people in a derogatory manner ie no fatties /salad dodgers.
It's one thing to state what you want in a respectful way, but another to be rude about it. |
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. "
I just see that as their preference and know not to waste my or their time getting to know them. Just as some don't like hairy men, or LOVE hairy men. It's just their preference. |
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"Why do people get buthurt because someone else has criteria they don't meet?
Possibly because they then post things like
Another time waster
Another cancellation
Yet plenty of guys with average stats and such would turn up and do a good Job so everyone ends up missing out. "
But they wouldn't be missing out. |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever "
I have seen plenty of profiles where men have stated they have a size preference ie nobody over a size 10/12 I’m well over lol but I don’t get offended I just concentrate on the profiles who are interested in people on the larger size |
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By *bi HaiveMan 1 week ago
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. "
Why is someone wanting specific preferences to be met a negative thing?
Give me a profile that helps me work out if I'm potentially compatible over one that tells me little any day of the week.
If I'm not what they're looking for, be that down to age, build, hairstyle, dick size or whatever, then that's all good. I'll just look for someone who's stated preferences I do appear to fit.
Everyone is entitled to ask for whatever they choose. It doesn't make them fake, nor does it mean they have unrealistic expectations. They just know what they want and won't settle for less.
Why should they? 🤷♂️ |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either "
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Some men, actually alot of men "reduce" themselves to their cock when all their pics are a graphic close up cock-shot with zero else showing 🤭 & some virtually shove it in our face with no 'warning'!!! |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic "
It's a good filter. I am averaged sized. If I was over 9 inches I would ovoid profiles that said must be 9 inches or over. As you said they don't want to meet the guy they want to meet his big cock. |
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By *eriScotMan 1 week ago
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic "
It’s no different to the many female profiles I’ve seen that state the minimum height a guy has to be for them or if a man stated what type of body shape/size they wanted a woman to be (although for some reason some people think that’s offensive and being a misogynist)
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
It’s no different to the many female profiles I’ve seen that state the minimum height a guy has to be for them or if a man stated what type of body shape/size they wanted a woman
to be (although for some reason some people think that’s offensive and being a misogynist)
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I sincerely hope that every tall fella they have the privilege of engaging with is a wonderful, respectful lover and meets their full expectations... |
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. "
How about we are professional, classy and expect at least  inches of prime c**c..... |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
It’s no different to the many female profiles I’ve seen that state the minimum height a guy has to be for them or if a man stated what type of body shape/size they wanted a woman
to be (although for some reason some people think that’s offensive and being a misogynist)
I sincerely hope that every tall fella they have the privilege of engaging with is a wonderful, respectful lover and meets their full expectations..."
Of course they won't all be, but it is possible to find people that are all of those things. And are tall. Or have a big cock. Or any other physical attribute that floats one's boat. Some are more than happy to hold out for exactly what they're looking for. The only people that seem bothered by it are the people they aren't looking to have sex with. |
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Tbf it's a person's preference a 9inch cock & that's fine isn't it....... Seriously...... We all know what we want, need & are attracted to & to those who are saying 9inch cocks are rare, they're not that rare actually, I'm sensing Penis envy tbh.....
(Fyi~ I'm not into 9inchers just incase my comment is misconstrued, torso would wanna be a bit long for such length wouldn't it) |
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I am over 9inches and people say they want that and a few do I guess, but a hell of a lot don’t. It’s too much and they can’t take it. I pulled a guy at a club and we were getting it on and I got… excited… well, he felt and literally pulled away and was like “sorry no, don’t do that size “. I’ve been at group session with my other half and I’ve been to the loo and come back in and find them getting absolutely smashed by someone and literally loving it, in a way that I was told they couldn’t do and never had, only to find out that no, it was just my dick that was the problem…
The other way is equally bad. When you are just seen as the dick and are meant to perform as and when demanded. The pressure is so intense, makes it really hard…. Or not, as the case may be…. Lol |
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Just like you have in your profile that you like to have socials first and prefer threesomes. It’s called preference and everyone has the right to express their preference on here. Not everyone on here is looking for the same thing. Why do people get so het up over someone’s preference  |
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"This site is very much about sexual preferences and if people like big dicks then that's their preference.
I'm not sure why it bothers others so much. Just scroll on by.
A lot of guys like slim or petite women which I'm certainly not but I dont get upset by it as its their preference. "
tottaly this who are anyone to judge what others want ??? its got nothing to do with anybody if your a guy and you dont fit what couples or women want then tough its simple your not for them...
this very much stinks of the they are slags we are not thinking just because it not your thing dont make it wrong ..
this is just an attemp to shame women and men who want bigger .. no different than kink shaming in my books
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"Just like you have in your profile that you like to have socials first and prefer threesomes. It’s called preference and everyone has the right to express their preference on here. Not everyone on here is looking for the same thing. Why do people get so het up over someone’s preference "
Preferences are flexible, someone that wants something that less than 1% of men have is a tad shallow |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic "
I agree, but it's interesting to view the profile, to see if they have veris, all from guys with 9"+, and quite often they don't.....
Then I block them, and move on, because I'm more than a cock with the ability to get itself from A to B at a specified time.....  |
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if the national Averages and percentages of penis sizes are right then that leaves alot of lying men...
however this scene seems to attract quite a few well above average type guys i seem to be playing with more guys of late who are seven and a galf to nine inches so i think the scene attracts those guys anyway .... |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
This ^^^^^^^^👍
Quote - "It's not like we got a choice either" 👍....."Reducing the person down to their cock" .........
Some men, actually alot of men "reduce" themselves to their cock when all their pics are a graphic close up cock-shot with zero else showing 🤭 & some virtually shove it in our face with no 'warning'!!!"
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
This ^^^^^^^^👍
Quote - "It's not like we got a choice either" 👍....."Reducing the person down to their cock" .........
Some men, actually alot of men "reduce" themselves to their cock when all their pics are a graphic close up cock-shot with zero else showing 🤭 & some virtually shove it in our face with no 'warning'!!!"
We don’t actively look for single guys, but in all perspectives , a humerous, engaging personality would be far more important than a cock size |
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. "
I know. Imagine. It's almost like women deserve to have preferences as well. Whatever next.  |
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Get this a lot, usually as the first message, I used to ask how wide their vag was as a comeback but all get v offended and throw shit back after. Happened this Monday and her partner messaged as well kicking off, I of course laughed heartily!
Now added it to my profile, like a collection of memouirs or short terms, I consider myself up there with Tolkien. |
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"We mention cock size on our profile but we're the opposite, we don't want anything above 6 inches. It just makes things simpler."
so refreshing to hear, being average at best myself, it can be disheartening to read a promising profile and then to read “hung 8 inch plus only”
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"We mention cock size on our profile but we're the opposite, we don't want anything above 6 inches. It just makes things simpler. so refreshing to hear, being average at best myself, it can be disheartening to read a promising profile and then to read “hung 8 inch plus only” "
there is other factors you know just because you might be the right cock size the person have got to still be attracted to you as well most won’t shag any Tom Dick or Harry
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Guess maybe some have a fantasy they want to fulfill ?
I’m average my wife prefers girth to width even though she’s a big lady and can accommodate a lot she chooses not to want length with toys etc |
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The woman might prefer bigger cocks because she's roomy inside. It's could just be a kink of a couple too. What someone prefers is what they prefer. Besides, having a foot long is no good if you only last half a dozen pumps. |
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