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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. |
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Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic "
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either   |
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Echo..echo…echo..echo…ec….ooooo
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either "
Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever |
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tbh it doesn't bother me, I just know not to waste their time (or mine) |
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"tbh it doesn't bother me, I just know not to waste their time (or mine)"
Aye I suppose you can see it as a good filter |
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By *heelerMan 45 weeks ago
Northants |
I wish I'd be able to be picked |
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We mention cock size on our profile but we're the opposite, we don't want anything above 6 inches. It just makes things simpler. |
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By *zeroMan 45 weeks ago
Glasgow |
"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever "
Must be tight as a Chinese takeaway bag. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Fake? No probably not.
Preference? Absolutely yes.
Its a great filter for us because I am NOT what they are looking for so we can block and move on.
Also men would get rinsed for saying "must be below 8 stone" but we have seen a few saying no fat people 😂 |
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This site is very much about sexual preferences and if people like big dicks then that's their preference.
I'm not sure why it bothers others so much. Just scroll on by.
A lot of guys like slim or petite women which I'm certainly not but I dont get upset by it as its their preference. |
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By *loydyMan 45 weeks ago
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. "
it's like wen people demand a face pic on the first message or block you lol |
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. "
Why would the profile be fake? It's their preference, to only meet men with big cocks. |
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At least 3 times a week we get guys saying are you into BBC or BWC.
Some people are happy to reduce themselves to an appendage like they have nothing else to offer.
Other people message offering dinner, massage and decent conversation.
We let people do Fab the way they want. |
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By *ayd100Man 45 weeks ago
clitheroe |
You can have me 3 times for that |
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Why do people get buthurt because someone else has criteria they don't meet? |
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Where are these profiles? Asking for a friend  |
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By *ordy73Man 45 weeks ago
lancashire |
"Where are these profiles? Asking for a friend "
I bet lol |
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"Why do people get buthurt because someone else has criteria they don't meet? "
Exactly this.
People are here to live out their fantasies; to have the sex they want with the people they want to have it with. So why should they not express explicitly what they want whether it's cock size, big boobs, size 8, over 6ft, blonde, pubes, age, BBW, etc etc
Concentrate on those whose criteria you do meet and don't stress about those you don't |
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"Why do people get buthurt because someone else has criteria they don't meet? "
Possibly because they then post things like
Another time waster
Another cancellation
Yet plenty of guys with average stats and such would turn up and do a good Job so everyone ends up missing out. |
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"Why do people get buthurt because someone else has criteria they don't meet?
Possibly because they then post things like
Another time waster
Another cancellation
Yet plenty of guys with average stats and such would turn up and do a good Job so everyone ends up missing out. "
So they should just settle for any guy who turns up?  And how do you determine in advance that someone will definitely turn up? |
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Couldn't give less of a monkeys about profiles looking for big dicks, BBC, BWC, VWE..... Whatever the latest acronym is....
In the end, that excludes us from matching with them, so in a simple way, why bother spending value time and emotional energy worrying about something that was never going to be???
Besides, anyone who tells us they have a BBC, BWC, whatever..... We won't entertain them anyway, because that's not what we're looking for! |
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It's just a preference
Like those that prefer women with massive vaginas 
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I don’t really see a problem with the request on profile, it just means they are looking for something exceptional.
Why go to all the effort if it’s not going to be a satisfying meet ???
How’s it any different than saying no fat people ? Naturally it’s only fat people that would take offence.
In fact if more men would actually exercise some preference control instead of spamming up every woman’s inbox with pish then maybe we would all get more of what we like. |
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Not in the slightest OP!
You vastly underestimate how well many people know their preferences as well as how to communicate very well, in order to prevent time wasting -yours and especially their own.
Once adults are experienced in their sexual tastes and engaging with countless inappropriate people, they very wisely get to refine their approach. It's common sense, don't you think. A few people like cocks of a certain size - let them find and enjoy them. And you go on your way, pursuing your own thing  |
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To be fair, people can ask for what they want on their profiles.
Some do enjoy bigger and they put it on their bios, in the hope that those people will be more likely to contact them.
Its down to the way people say things, any man is also welcome to state their preferences.
Many men say they want big boobs gym fit ladies.
I'm an older bigger woman. It wouldn't bother me if a man wrote no big women /olders. I wouldn't be what they're after, so wouldn't contact them.
I have seen a couple of male profiles that describe people in a derogatory manner ie no fatties /salad dodgers.
It's one thing to state what you want in a respectful way, but another to be rude about it. |
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. "
I just see that as their preference and know not to waste my or their time getting to know them. Just as some don't like hairy men, or LOVE hairy men. It's just their preference. |
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"Why do people get buthurt because someone else has criteria they don't meet?
Possibly because they then post things like
Another time waster
Another cancellation
Yet plenty of guys with average stats and such would turn up and do a good Job so everyone ends up missing out. "
But they wouldn't be missing out. |
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I think the beauty of this site is there's a bit of something for everyone. So don't get too "hung" up on it and just concern yourself with who might want to jump your bones |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever "
I have seen plenty of profiles where men have stated they have a size preference ie nobody over a size 10/12 I’m well over lol but I don’t get offended I just concentrate on the profiles who are interested in people on the larger size |
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By *bi HaiveMan 45 weeks ago
Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. "
Why is someone wanting specific preferences to be met a negative thing?
Give me a profile that helps me work out if I'm potentially compatible over one that tells me little any day of the week.
If I'm not what they're looking for, be that down to age, build, hairstyle, dick size or whatever, then that's all good. I'll just look for someone who's stated preferences I do appear to fit.
Everyone is entitled to ask for whatever they choose. It doesn't make them fake, nor does it mean they have unrealistic expectations. They just know what they want and won't settle for less.
Why should they? 🤷♂️ |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either "
This ^^^^^^^^👍
Quote - "It's not like we got a choice either" 👍....."Reducing the person down to their cock" .........
Some men, actually alot of men "reduce" themselves to their cock when all their pics are a graphic close up cock-shot with zero else showing 🤭 & some virtually shove it in our face with no 'warning'!!! |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic "
It's a good filter. I am averaged sized. If I was over 9 inches I would ovoid profiles that said must be 9 inches or over. As you said they don't want to meet the guy they want to meet his big cock. |
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By *eriScotMan 45 weeks ago
Scottish Borders |
"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic "
It’s no different to the many female profiles I’ve seen that state the minimum height a guy has to be for them or if a man stated what type of body shape/size they wanted a woman to be (although for some reason some people think that’s offensive and being a misogynist)
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Id be 9 if I could fuck them twice |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic "
A great opportunity to swiftly move on to the following profile... |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
It’s no different to the many female profiles I’ve seen that state the minimum height a guy has to be for them or if a man stated what type of body shape/size they wanted a woman
to be (although for some reason some people think that’s offensive and being a misogynist)
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I sincerely hope that every tall fella they have the privilege of engaging with is a wonderful, respectful lover and meets their full expectations... |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Whatever happened to personality, banter, mutual respect etc??? |
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"Whatever happened to personality, banter, mutual respect etc???"
Whilst that's good too, there has to be an attraction too & people are here for what they like /are attracted to.
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"Whatever happened to personality, banter, mutual respect etc???
Whilst that's good too, there has to be an attraction too & people are here for what they like /are attracted to.
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Absolutely |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. "
How about we are professional, classy and expect at least  inches of prime c**c..... |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Like many have said. Its just another filter which tells me I need not apply 😂 |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
It’s no different to the many female profiles I’ve seen that state the minimum height a guy has to be for them or if a man stated what type of body shape/size they wanted a woman
to be (although for some reason some people think that’s offensive and being a misogynist)
I sincerely hope that every tall fella they have the privilege of engaging with is a wonderful, respectful lover and meets their full expectations..."
Of course they won't all be, but it is possible to find people that are all of those things. And are tall. Or have a big cock. Or any other physical attribute that floats one's boat. Some are more than happy to hold out for exactly what they're looking for. The only people that seem bothered by it are the people they aren't looking to have sex with. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Tbf it's a person's preference a 9inch cock & that's fine isn't it....... Seriously...... We all know what we want, need & are attracted to & to those who are saying 9inch cocks are rare, they're not that rare actually, I'm sensing Penis envy tbh.....
(Fyi~ I'm not into 9inchers just incase my comment is misconstrued, torso would wanna be a bit long for such length wouldn't it) |
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I'm not cutting 3 inches off for anyone!
Natural shrinkage from the E shots I vam cope with but no surgery yet |
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I am over 9inches and people say they want that and a few do I guess, but a hell of a lot don’t. It’s too much and they can’t take it. I pulled a guy at a club and we were getting it on and I got… excited… well, he felt and literally pulled away and was like “sorry no, don’t do that size “. I’ve been at group session with my other half and I’ve been to the loo and come back in and find them getting absolutely smashed by someone and literally loving it, in a way that I was told they couldn’t do and never had, only to find out that no, it was just my dick that was the problem…
The other way is equally bad. When you are just seen as the dick and are meant to perform as and when demanded. The pressure is so intense, makes it really hard…. Or not, as the case may be…. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Just like you have in your profile that you like to have socials first and prefer threesomes. It’s called preference and everyone has the right to express their preference on here. Not everyone on here is looking for the same thing. Why do people get so het up over someone’s preference  |
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"This site is very much about sexual preferences and if people like big dicks then that's their preference.
I'm not sure why it bothers others so much. Just scroll on by.
A lot of guys like slim or petite women which I'm certainly not but I dont get upset by it as its their preference. "
tottaly this who are anyone to judge what others want ??? its got nothing to do with anybody if your a guy and you dont fit what couples or women want then tough its simple your not for them...
this very much stinks of the they are slags we are not thinking just because it not your thing dont make it wrong ..
this is just an attemp to shame women and men who want bigger .. no different than kink shaming in my books
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Usually the ones who ask this are the ones who moan ooooh far to many cock pics on your profile. |
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From my own personal experience, I prefer a 7-9" cock. These have been the sizes that have done it for me.
But... I'm not averse to letting someone with 5" try and change my mind.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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"Just like you have in your profile that you like to have socials first and prefer threesomes. It’s called preference and everyone has the right to express their preference on here. Not everyone on here is looking for the same thing. Why do people get so het up over someone’s preference "
Preferences are flexible, someone that wants something that less than 1% of men have is a tad shallow |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic "
I agree, but it's interesting to view the profile, to see if they have veris, all from guys with 9"+, and quite often they don't.....
Then I block them, and move on, because I'm more than a cock with the ability to get itself from A to B at a specified time.....  |
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I’m not folding mine in half for anyone…
(I wish, lol). |
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if the national Averages and percentages of penis sizes are right then that leaves alot of lying men...
however this scene seems to attract quite a few well above average type guys i seem to be playing with more guys of late who are seven and a galf to nine inches so i think the scene attracts those guys anyway .... |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
This ^^^^^^^^👍
Quote - "It's not like we got a choice either" 👍....."Reducing the person down to their cock" .........
Some men, actually alot of men "reduce" themselves to their cock when all their pics are a graphic close up cock-shot with zero else showing 🤭 & some virtually shove it in our face with no 'warning'!!!"
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
This ^^^^^^^^👍
Quote - "It's not like we got a choice either" 👍....."Reducing the person down to their cock" .........
Some men, actually alot of men "reduce" themselves to their cock when all their pics are a graphic close up cock-shot with zero else showing 🤭 & some virtually shove it in our face with no 'warning'!!!"
We don’t actively look for single guys, but in all perspectives , a humerous, engaging personality would be far more important than a cock size |
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"Usually the ones who ask this are the ones who moan ooooh far to many cock pics on your profile."
Citation needed |
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. "
I know. Imagine. It's almost like women deserve to have preferences as well. Whatever next. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Get this a lot, usually as the first message, I used to ask how wide their vag was as a comeback but all get v offended and throw shit back after. Happened this Monday and her partner messaged as well kicking off, I of course laughed heartily!
Now added it to my profile, like a collection of memouirs or short terms, I consider myself up there with Tolkien. |
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"We mention cock size on our profile but we're the opposite, we don't want anything above 6 inches. It just makes things simpler."
so refreshing to hear, being average at best myself, it can be disheartening to read a promising profile and then to read “hung 8 inch plus only”
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The joy of reading profiles is you can choose who you message based on what's written... revolutionary I know. |
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"We mention cock size on our profile but we're the opposite, we don't want anything above 6 inches. It just makes things simpler. so refreshing to hear, being average at best myself, it can be disheartening to read a promising profile and then to read “hung 8 inch plus only” "
there is other factors you know just because you might be the right cock size the person have got to still be attracted to you as well most won’t shag any Tom Dick or Harry
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By *igad999Man 44 weeks ago
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Guess maybe some have a fantasy they want to fulfill ?
I’m average my wife prefers girth to width even though she’s a big lady and can accommodate a lot she chooses not to want length with toys etc |
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The woman might prefer bigger cocks because she's roomy inside. It's could just be a kink of a couple too. What someone prefers is what they prefer. Besides, having a foot long is no good if you only last half a dozen pumps. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Just wondering what reaction a man would get if he had something similar on his profile but about a pussy?
Something along the lines of 'no bucket cunts' 😂
Just banter x |
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The average vaginal canal is 2.4 to 3 inches.
Most women don’t like huge cocks.. it can actually hurt to have sex and give bjs, it actually takes away from the pleasure
We mention cock size on ours though basically stating we don’t like big cocks! xD |
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Maybe retaliate with "must be a natural 32H" on your profile OP?  |
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"We mention cock size on our profile but we're the opposite, we don't want anything above 6 inches. It just makes things simpler."
that’s actually quite brilliant, as a couple i am sure you get flooded with mail from so called huge cocks etc, and that’s a brilliant filter and gives us lesser mortals a guide too   |
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Everyone is entitled to have their own preferences and it certainly doesn't bother me. However, given the propensity of some males to exagerate (not all 9 hasten to add), I would just say, buyer beware. |
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By *b1980Man 43 weeks ago
Burnley |
Wife prefers me just putting just over tip in rather than thrusting |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"Maybe retaliate with "must be a natural 32H" on your profile OP? "
And as tight as a mouses ear.... |
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i agree ,
it must be a fantacy for some ladies ,
my reply would be , get a big dildo and fuck yourself . |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever "
Just saw a profile that said only size 6-12. which means they only want small women. |
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The average penis is between 5.1 and 5.5 inches, with one study finding that nearly everyone falls within this range. Penis enlargement methods do exist, but many may be harmful, do not work, or only have temporary effects.
The average penis size is not nearly as big as many people think it is!
A 2020 review of research on penis size found that the average length of an erect penis is between 5.1 inches and 5.5 inches. Factoring in volunteer bias, the researchers believe that the average falls closer to the lower end of that range.
Older 2014 research pegged the average length of a flaccid penis at 3.61 inchesTrusted Source. |
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. "
The best are 9 inches plus to the front of the queue...I just picture an orderly line of donkey dicked fellas waiting their turn. |
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Haha.... Fun topic.
Average male only ever sees other erect dick in porn..... and that's always porn sized dick. Haha.
Hence the issue with inferiority complex.
I'm lucky to have a nice cock, (so everyone has told me! Lol) but I do feel sorry for the micro guys.
For every porn sized dick out there, there must be a 2" er to get the average.
Must be tough going.
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Some women just enjoy a ‘fantasy style’ meet with a well endowed guy from time to time.
As a small cocked cuck, it’s always interesting to see other guys in the flesh performing, we’ve met a couple of very well endowed guys over the years but 9” is an exception generally. |
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It's the same as "whites only" or "BBC only" or "no men under 6 foot" etc
It's just a red flag. |
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Size queens make up a large percentage of people on here. It's a preference and/or a fantasy to most. I have no complaints at all but i can see the negative attraction to it. |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever "
Oh I’d grab my popcorn and sit back if that happened, there would be a lynching!! |
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By *loydyMan 43 weeks ago
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever "
so many couples profiles are all demands must must must |
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That’s me out of the line up then 🤣😂
Saying that I heard a few woman say it’s the girth more than a long pencil dick
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By *ohn 66Man 43 weeks ago
South Birmingham |
If someone is looking for 9inches, I just fold mine in half |
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"That’s me out of the line up then 🤣😂
Saying that I heard a few woman say it’s the girth more than a long pencil dick
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"pencil" dicks work well for small buttholes and small throats. Lol!
Variety is the spice of life as one of my playmates would say. |
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Mmmm you are a sexy big dicks 🍆 lover |
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By *ylvieMWoman 43 weeks ago
Aylesbury |
I prefer larger even if I don't state it in my profile it should be quite obvious by my veris lol
When I meet on my couples profile it's quite rare the man is well endowed, so I have and will play outside my preference range if there's other things going for the fella but I am also allowed preferences just as men can have theirs  |
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If they want 9” they can have mine twice |
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Ehh personally it doesn't bother me to much. At the end of the day a lot of people on here are on here for sex and have their preferences which is fine of course! It's just best to scroll past and remember what else you have to offer
Love you all no matter your size and shape x |
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It’s a personal preference so people can ask for whatever they want
Doesn’t mean they’ll get it though
My Swedish ladies beach volleyball team request still remains open from my 2014 post |
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By *orny PTMan 43 weeks ago
Peterborough |
"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever "
Or worse still must have a flat stomach |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever
Or worse still must have a flat stomach "
my stomach has never been flat. lol! even as a skinny kid. just bones, thighs and belly. |
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"Fake? No probably not.
Preference? Absolutely yes.
Its a great filter for us because I am NOT what they are looking for so we can block and move on.
Also men would get rinsed for saying "must be below 8 stone" but we have seen a few saying no fat people 😂"
I’m obese -I would prefer that as an option to describe yourself. also like it if men state a preference for slim people … know not to waste my time |
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By *bi HaiveMan 43 weeks ago
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"It's the same as "whites only" or "BBC only" or "no men under 6 foot" etc
It's just a red flag."
Those aren't red flags. They're preferences.
Preferences arent red flags, they're huge neon signs indicating what people are looking for and are really useful tools to help you decide if it's worth contacting someone. If someone wants to meet 6ft plus guys and you're 5ft 6" how well received do you think a message will be? The same goes for ethnicity, body shape, age and yes - dick size.
Red flags are obvious signs that you should be wary of someone. Obvious warning signs that someone won't respect your choices, doesn't understand consent or any other behaviour that tells you that someone isn’t likely to be a good choice. Such as not understanding that people are entitled to have whatever preferences they choose. 😭
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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People can choose what they want and need, my only thing with it is your choosing from such a small pool of men with 9”+. |
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"Fake? No probably not.
Preference? Absolutely yes.
Its a great filter for us because I am NOT what they are looking for so we can block and move on.
Also men would get rinsed for saying "must be below 8 stone" but we have seen a few saying no fat people 😂"
I’m obese -I would prefer that as an option to describe yourself. also like it if men state a preference for slim people … know not to waste my time |
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By *adyNyxWoman 43 weeks ago
Crawley |
"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic "
It’s a swinger site, so it’s much more likely to be based on appearance, and they can have whatever preferences that they want. |
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People can ask for what they like, getting it is another thing. I wouldn't think finding a guy your attracted to with a.9", penis would be easy to find, but good look to them |
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By *andlerMan 43 weeks ago
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I’m 2 thirds there if that do! |
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"The average penis is between 5.1 and 5.5 inches, with one study finding that nearly everyone falls within this range. Penis enlargement methods do exist, but many may be harmful, do not work, or only have temporary effects.
The average penis size is not nearly as big as many people think it is!
A 2020 review of research on penis size found that the average length of an erect penis is between 5.1 inches and 5.5 inches. Factoring in volunteer bias, the researchers believe that the average falls closer to the lower end of that range.
Older 2014 research pegged the average length of a flaccid penis at 3.61 inchesTrusted Source."
The thing is though, most men on swingers sites are above average and that's why they're here. If they were average or less they wouldn't be here. Like a couple of my mates said years ago when I asked why they didn't go to a swinging club or on a swing site "No chance, I haven't got a big enough cock!" |
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Preferences are fine.
Only with a 100 - 1 ratio, if a guy has preferences he has zero options. Lol.
100/1 single guy to single women.
Preference for slim..(25%)....
400/1 ratio.
Preference for local, (25%).....
1600/1 ratio.
Preference for age limits..(25%)...
6400/1 ratio
Chances she actually fancies you. (10%)...
64,000/1 ratio
Still awaiting my first meet up. Hahaha
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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lol - genuine 9 inches is too big for 99% of women
Mrs can handle just under thant and realtively thick on the odd ocassion ie when she has been really tunred out - i used to ask poetial candidates re their size as it had to be bigger than mine 0 but these days i dont as mrs rarely has a fuck even when i leave them alone and i trust her |
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Don’t any of you ever use / own a proper sized dildo
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Preference of alot of people just like women just want BBC or BWC.
Most people have a preference.
I like slim to a bit of curves but won't go for bbw women because that's not for me.
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My wife has tried a proper 9” cock and it was too long, 8” was ok but 7-7.5” is able to give her pleasure whether slow and soft or pounding. Any bigger is uncomfortable. She does like something thick and girthy, smaller than 7” is ok too, just needs to be rock hard. She did have sex with one guy with a really small cock, less than 4” and said she didn’t get much from that. 5-7.5” works.
Also, it isn’t all about the cock, just agreeing with a prior post. Touching, kissing, making her laugh, funny personality, general sex appeal - it’s the complete L gets turned on with, of course it’s the firm ass she’s grabbing and cock ultimately making her orgasm get over the line but it’s the person and build up that sets it all up.
That was our conversation on it anyway |
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I personally agree with people stating preferences... It might be disheartening that one doesn't get to "apply within", but it feels better to be clear up front.
However, what exactly does WE or VWE actually mean? And, with specified measurements, where does one actually measure from?
In any case, as I'm swinging single and am neither black nor white, I've accepted that I'm probably a niche taste on this site and will have to stick to parties or my own 👋🏻...
...and meanwhile keep myself entertained on the forum 😎 |
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Being the original OP I'm surprised how much interest this post has, must hit home with ppl |
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"must hit home with ppl "
Isn't that exactly the problem with 9" plus? It hitting home... |
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By *rufflesCouple 38 weeks ago
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Am definitely with you on that one, unfortunately doesn't stop majority of (males) telling me just how big they are!!
For me, anything above 6" hurts!x
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Only 1 way to guarantee getting 9 inches, Order a pizza |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Been turned down multiple times because of this really hits the confidence levels |
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By *riel13Woman 38 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic "
Surely the men they meet are also reducing themselves down to the size of their cock too? How are you supposed to find your people if you don't tell anyone who you are? |
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It’s just another preference, and in some ways it’s better them being up front than wasting time messaging back and forth. The bigger headache is that (a lot of) men don’t read profiles and message regardless… |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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If someone is looking for a big one then let them. Maybe that's what they want to try? |
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Probably meed the extra inche or two to get past their big bum cheeks to be fair. |
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"Probably meed the extra inche or two to get past their big bum cheeks to be fair. "
Never thought of that lol, it appears to be a divertery tactic, a bit like on those dating apps where they put "must be 6ft 3 or taller " so that only a handful of people will reply because they are already inundated with so many messages that they can't be bothered to read |
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By *enelope2UWoman 38 weeks ago
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Doesn't bother me in the slightest..
some women are so busted and used up that that's what it takes for them to feel pleasure.. their prerogative.
Just as some women believe all black men have BBC's.. also their delusions and their myth to believe.
Some people are new to sex, others have just been run through and never had real pleasure..
I don't worry about what others prefer when it doesn't match my preference. |
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some women are so busted and used up that that's what it takes for them to feel pleasure.. their prerogative.
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You think that’s why women like big cocks, because they can’t feel pleasure from little ones?
Do you think the same about guys that like big tits? They have numb hands and need at least an F cup to feel any pleasure
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Genuine fat 9inch cock here |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Bloody hell if I’m in the 9 inch cock section I’m in the wrong part 😂😂😂 |
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By *riel13Woman 37 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Big cock little brain "
The guys with the big cocks not looking for you, no? |
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By *riel13Woman 37 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Doesn't bother me in the slightest..
some women are so busted and used up that that's what it takes for them to feel pleasure.. their prerogative.
Just as some women believe all black men have BBC's.. also their delusions and their myth to believe.
Some people are new to sex, others have just been run through and never had real pleasure..
I don't worry about what others prefer when it doesn't match my preference. "
Yeah you don't sound bothered at all! |
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By *hoccaMan 37 weeks ago
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Even as someone who usually fits the requirements it can be quite jarring. Because my dick ain’t taking you on a social by itself you know. I don’t care if it’s got a mind of its own sometimes. |
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It's very few profiles let's face it & if you don't meet their requirements move on, you aren't compatible.
It's only the same as people wanting a bbw etc
I always notice people don't moan about the ones that specify small/average cocks 😂
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By *andb69Couple 37 weeks ago
leeds |
"Why do people get buthurt because someone else has criteria they don't meet?
Exactly this.
People are here to live out their fantasies; to have the sex they want with the people they want to have it with. So why should they not express explicitly what they want whether it's cock size, big boobs, size 8, over 6ft, blonde, pubes, age, BBW, etc etc
Concentrate on those whose criteria you do meet and don't stress about those you don't "
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Good luck with that one, as average size is 5 to 6 inches and many women complain it hurts if it's too big(I've heard ). |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I need a good laugh,hugs.cock size is not first thing on my list. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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There is a very old joke from some years ago a ladies in bed with the gentleman and he's inside her, and she says your organ is not very big and he replies it's never played in a cathedral before I think that sums it up. |
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I've been turned down by people for being too big, too small, hairy, no tattoos, bisexual.
I get there everybody has their own attractions, for me it is the face, then after that your personality. If you happen to have any of the other body parts and body shapes that I find attractive then it is just a bonus.
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I think sometimes people forget that this site is for people to bring extra experience and excitement to their sex life, get what perhaps they couldn’t get from real life. Whether that’s big cocks, bbw, fetish, and all other preferences. Don’t take things so seriously and concentrate on the profiles that do match you and your preferences. |
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must be willing to give me watersports , and have big hard nipples !!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Good luck with that one, as average size is 5 to 6 inches and many women complain it hurts if it's too big(I've heard ). "
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By *riel13Woman 37 weeks ago
Northampton |
"There is a very old joke from some years ago a ladies in bed with the gentleman and he's inside her, and she says your organ is not very big and he replies it's never played in a cathedral before I think that sums it up."
Do you?! |
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By *enelope2UWoman 37 weeks ago
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"Even as someone who usually fits the requirements it can be quite jarring. Because my dick ain’t taking you on a social by itself you know. I don’t care if it’s got a mind of its own sometimes. "
Exactly this so thank you for wanting both heads appreciated |
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"Good luck with that one, as average size is 5 to 6 inches and many women complain it hurts if it's too big(I've heard ).
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Apparently 5 out of 100 men have an erect penis larger than 6.3 inches. The average sized cock is 5.5 inches. |
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"The average penis is between 5.1 and 5.5 inches, with one study finding that nearly everyone falls within this range. Penis enlargement methods do exist, but many may be harmful, do not work, or only have temporary effects.
The average penis size is not nearly as big as many people think it is!
A 2020 review of research on penis size found that the average length of an erect penis is between 5.1 inches and 5.5 inches. Factoring in volunteer bias, the researchers believe that the average falls closer to the lower end of that range.
Older 2014 research pegged the average length of a flaccid penis at 3.61 inchesTrusted Source.
The thing is though, most men on swingers sites are above average and that's why they're here. If they were average or less they wouldn't be here. Like a couple of my mates said years ago when I asked why they didn't go to a swinging club or on a swing site "No chance, I haven't got a big enough cock!""
Mine is 5.5 inches and that is average. I am on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Well said |
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Im 8”…. It’s the ones with private photos that are full of crap |
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"The thing is though, most men on swingers sites are above average and that's why they're here. If they were average or less they wouldn't be here. Like a couple of my mates said years ago when I asked why they didn't go to a swinging club or on a swing site "No chance, I haven't got a big enough cock!""
Yeah, and if you want to know what women want, the best plan is always to ask a couple of your male mates... |
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"The thing is though, most men on swingers sites are above average and that's why they're here. If they were average or less they wouldn't be here. Like a couple of my mates said years ago when I asked why they didn't go to a swinging club or on a swing site "No chance, I haven't got a big enough cock!"
Yeah, and if you want to know what women want, the best plan is always to ask a couple of your male mates..."
The thing is that they were under the misconception that the criteria for being a swinger was to have a big cock. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Honestly! This is like hating on someone because they’re a cuck or only like bi women! I don’t care about other people’s preferences and I certainly wouldn’t moan about it, why can’t everyone just get along? X |
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"Honestly! This is like hating on someone because they’re a cuck or only like bi women! I don’t care about other people’s preferences and I certainly wouldn’t moan about it, why can’t everyone just get along? X"
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I’d have to meet them 3 times to give 9” |
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles?
considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. "
It's a question of preference which everyone is entitled to. For me it flags not to bother wasting my time or theirs as I don't fit the criteria. Is it shallow to base your choice on a body part... maybe but its not for me to judge. |
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Not just 9inch but also works in finance, trust fund, blue eyes |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic "
Thank you for this as I’m 9 inches & 90% of my meets are due to my cock size & not my personality xx |
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Out of all the things that get me riled this isn't one of them, it's their preference. Perhaps she's got a vag as long as the Suez and only a monster does it for her - who knows. Just means pointless in contacting them for me - move on |
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I not where near nine so that rules me out, on some levels it is down to personal preferences, but I'm sure that is also making the pool of people down to a small percentage. Plus are they getting the ruler out at the start of a meet. |
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It is on our profile and we are not fake
Mrs prefers bigger so we don’t want to waste peoples time |
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Doesn't bother me at all.
It's their preference. It just means I know im not what they're looking for so I don't bother messaging.
It's each their own at the end of the day. Personally I find women of various shapes and sizes attractive so I dont have any specifics. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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Yes there maybe some that prefer the bigger guy but most actually don’t like big cocks, each to there own |
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It reminds me of the joke...who has the biggest hat in England?
The guy with the biggest head |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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I don’t put numbers on it but I’m not going to waste guys times by pretending I’m interested in not well hung guys, I’m here for fun and there is no point in beating about the bush so to speak or giving false hope!!
I’ll always say to guys or specify Vwe Is a must for meets for from Fab ! |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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I only check this thread to see if anyone’s actually got one and all I see is talk |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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There are many guys on here 8.9 or more plus inches. And no surprise that there are a lot of women who are size Queens. Thats absolutely fine as we all have our preference and are entitled to meet who we choose. I often feel inadequate when see that and just happy that not everyone is just into massive cocks. There is much more to a good meet than having a big cock.
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By *igad999Man 35 weeks ago
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It’s down to individuals likes and fantasies.
Some want to feel it bigger or be filled / stretched etc others don’t
Plenty of men fit the bbc and bwc category I’m not one
My wife prefers girth over length but lots like it the other way
So wouldn’t say they are fake just asking for what the like and want |
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Fake or not, the expectation means that the person is looking for perfection. There's no such thing. We prefer to be impressed by how ordinary people are. |
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Yet another thread demonstrating that most guys start the tape measure from their holes. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Yet another thread demonstrating that most guys start the tape measure from their holes."
Yeah, the same hole most of these claims come from. |
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By *eyeYCouple 34 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
It's an easy way to tell we're not for them..
D is definitely not 9 inches and I don't want 9 inches.. ☺️ |
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By *alltwoCouple 34 weeks ago
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Not sure why people get so upset about other people's preferences...
Either way, Mr is vwe and we love playing with other vwe guys |
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Did someone say 9 inches, hello! |
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By *m3232Man 34 weeks ago
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Do they stand at the door with a tape measure |
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Agree wife’s ex had 11 and I have watched her with a few guys with length , but she much prefers the girthy ones , which thankfully I have 😊 |
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By *heelerMan 34 weeks ago
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My subway roll i assume you're talking about |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Each to their own, Amen |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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Only 9????? |
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic
Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever "
Doesn't bother me what people ask for.
Good luck to them.
Not that fussed on cock size as long as they can keep it up...
As for 8 stone, we won't meet the larger lady but say size 12 to 14 is our preference.
I rather people be up front with their preferences, imagine turning up to a meet and being told you are too large, much rather know beforehand.
My main preference is they show up, seems to be a problem for many. |
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