Hi All,
I know a lot of people ask for profile advice and opinions here, apologies in advance to add to the long list, but I'm curious to hear some of your thoughts on my profile and photos.
I know mine is quite unique and fairly refined, but it never hurts to have a quick peer review now and then.
Thanks
John 🖤 |
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"Faaaaaar too many pictures with women in them for a single male profile. Have you got her consent to share them? "
If you read my profile you'd have seen I'm linked to a shared couples profile with my poly partner - all the photos I have posted with her included are duplicates of ones from the shared profile, with full consent. |
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By *eri24Woman 36 weeks ago
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I agree with the above, too many pics with someone else
But just too many photos overall, they're all the same
You've also written a novel, maybe trim the text down to the essentials - what you can offer someone, and what you're looking for |
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I like that there's variety in the photos. I don't like that there are so many featuring other people. Selling yourself by advertising with other people's bodies is an odd game.
Profile at least covers who you are wand what you want.
Legal disclaimer at the end does little more than make people think you're a mug.
Better than most at least. But as always you'll only appeal to the people you appeal to. And while I'm not denying success on fab, the majority of people here aren't looking for poly 💜 |
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By *eri24Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Faaaaaar too many pictures with women in them for a single male profile. Have you got her consent to share them?
If you read my profile you'd have seen I'm linked to a shared couples profile with my poly partner - all the photos I have posted with her included are duplicates of ones from the shared profile, with full consent. "
If they're on the couples profile, they don't need to be duplicated on your singles one
If you're using your single profile I'd take it you're looking for something different than what you're looking for as a couple
Make it different |
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"Faaaaaar too many pictures with women in them for a single male profile. Have you got her consent to share them?
If you read my profile you'd have seen I'm linked to a shared couples profile with my poly partner - all the photos I have posted with her included are duplicates of ones from the shared profile, with full consent.
If they're on the couples profile, they don't need to be duplicated on your singles one
If you're using your single profile I'd take it you're looking for something different than what you're looking for as a couple
Make it different "
Fair points, I'll remove those and trim down the text and remove the disclaimer at the bottom, thanks for the input. |
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"Other than the disclaimer right at the bottom as it's pointless and takes up unnecessary space on the server
nothing "
Thanks, I've removed the disclaimer now, you're right it's outdated and not needed. |
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By *ucka39Man 36 weeks ago
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"Other than the disclaimer right at the bottom as it's pointless and takes up unnecessary space on the server
nothing
Thanks, I've removed the disclaimer now, you're right it's outdated and not needed."
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"I like that there's variety in the photos. I don't like that there are so many featuring other people. Selling yourself by advertising with other people's bodies is an odd game.
Profile at least covers who you are wand what you want.
Legal disclaimer at the end does little more than make people think you're a mug.
Better than most at least. But as always you'll only appeal to the people you appeal to. And while I'm not denying success on fab, the majority of people here aren't looking for poly 💜"
Thanks for the honesty. I've removed the photos of me with my poly partner now, I can see from what you've said as to why it could appear unusual to have them on my profile.
I've ditched the disclaimer too, in hindsight it does seem pointless haha!
Of course, though just because I'm poly doesn't mean I can't have play partners or more casual connections too. I'm open to more if that's how it naturally goes, but it's never a prerequisite for new people I meet 🖤 |
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"Hi All,
I know a lot of people ask for profile advice and opinions here, apologies in advance to add to the long list, but I'm curious to hear some of your thoughts on my profile and photos.
I know mine is quite unique and fairly refined, but it never hurts to have a quick peer review now and then.
Thanks
John 🖤"
I wish you all the best is my advice cause some of the comments do be comedy gold ! |
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"Hi All,
I know a lot of people ask for profile advice and opinions here, apologies in advance to add to the long list, but I'm curious to hear some of your thoughts on my profile and photos.
I know mine is quite unique and fairly refined, but it never hurts to have a quick peer review now and then.
Thanks
John 🖤
I wish you all the best is my advice cause some of the comments do be comedy gold ! "
Not really advice or an opinion, but thanks I guess |
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"Hi All,
I know a lot of people ask for profile advice and opinions here, apologies in advance to add to the long list, but I'm curious to hear some of your thoughts on my profile and photos.
I know mine is quite unique and fairly refined, but it never hurts to have a quick peer review now and then.
Thanks
John 🖤
I wish you all the best is my advice cause some of the comments do be comedy gold !
Not really advice or an opinion, but thanks I guess"
My advice wouldn’t help just hinder your chances and my opinion is pretty insignificant but hope you have a good one and get lucky |
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"Hi All,
I know a lot of people ask for profile advice and opinions here, apologies in advance to add to the long list, but I'm curious to hear some of your thoughts on my profile and photos.
I know mine is quite unique and fairly refined, but it never hurts to have a quick peer review now and then.
Thanks
John 🖤
I wish you all the best is my advice cause some of the comments do be comedy gold !
Not really advice or an opinion, but thanks I guess
My advice wouldn’t help just hinder your chances and my opinion is pretty insignificant but hope you have a good one and get lucky "
Fair enough no worries 👍 |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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Hello everyone,
Im new to the scene and would like some advice on my profile please?
Everyone i message or try and connect with just ignores me or deletes the message entirely. Is there something im doing wrong or this just how it goes?? |
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By *eri24Woman 35 weeks ago
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"Hello everyone,
Im new to the scene and would like some advice on my profile please?
Everyone i message or try and connect with just ignores me or deletes the message entirely. Is there something im doing wrong or this just how it goes??"
You should start your own thread
Advice gets confusing |
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"Hello everyone,
Im new to the scene and would like some advice on my profile please?
Everyone i message or try and connect with just ignores me or deletes the message entirely. Is there something im doing wrong or this just how it goes??
You should start your own thread
Advice gets confusing"
Agreed, you'll be better off making your own post @Tyler9928 |
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