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Do women like bigger guys
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By *oc101 OP Man 34 weeks ago
sheffield |
Hi there. Now I'm a solo male meeting anyone is very difficult. I did meet with a friend when I lived in Portsmouth.
Im a bigger guy that I don't get any views or interest in. What's people thoughts on a bigger guy.
Is it really a put off.
Im discreet due to work so no face unless friends but big guys don't show well on pictures.
Any advice please |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Yes many women like bigger guys, in fact I'm married to one.
We also specify that we look for bigger guys for meets.
Your size isn't as much of a boundary as you think, its just on fab the ratios aren't in the single males favour. |
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"Hi there. Now I'm a solo male meeting anyone is very difficult. I did meet with a friend when I lived in Portsmouth.
Im a bigger guy that I don't get any views or interest in. What's people thoughts on a bigger guy.
Is it really a put off.
Im discreet due to work so no face unless friends but big guys don't show well on pictures.
Any advice please "
Although I no longer meet, a man being overweight would be off putting to me but that's because my preference is for fit, fairly muscular physiques. I find a man who trains and takes care of his body and attractive trait. Not everyone is like me though. There will be equally as many women if not more who aren't bothered if a guy is on the large side, there are plenty of people of both sexes of all shapes and sizes on here so there is definitely someone for everyone. Good luck OP   |
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For me, I am not overly bothered, but a lot depends on how the person feels about their size. If they're quite confident, have good personality and there is chemistry between us, then it's all good. But if they are very down by their weight, come across as if that's the defining factor of who they are as a person, then it's not attractive to me. Also, there are practicalities to consider. Is their mobility affected? If I wish so, can they still provide full penetration without me having to go on top or being in positions that are very uncomfortable for me due to my dodgy hips and knee.
I don't get instantly attracted to a person, they need to show me they are a person and treat me like a person, not just a collection of holes to fuck. So no, a man being overweight would not be an instant turn off. |
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Obviously attraction is subjective. However in my experience on the scene (as a single guy previously as well) my size has never been barrier with women of all shapes and sizes themselves. I think guys do a lot better when they stop worrying about their bodies and are comfortable in their own skin. I think women find men who are just comfortable and confident in who they are hot.
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Confidence is key for me.
I like all sorts of different boys types.
I need someone to be confident and feel good in their own skin, it translates if they're not and it makes me feel awkward.
Shy just because you don't know someone yet is fine but if they have low self esteem that is more of an issue for me. |
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Just to clarify, when you say "bigger," are you talking manhood or overall size?
Being a cuddly size isn't an issue to me, but hung like a donkey will make me pause, especially if it's in length, as it's far more likely to hit the wrong spot and hurt me. |
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As a man who is 6ft5” and 22st I’m what my name says a big lad.
In fairness I’ve never had an issue finding women and couples to play with back in my single swinging days and as a couple we have never had an issue either.
Of course there will be some women who will not find larger men attractive and that’s fine, we all have our preferences. I would say from my experience it has far more to with your confidence, the way you carry yourself, your ability to have and hold a conversation, being respectful, not being a dick and if you’re good in bed as well that’s a massive bonus lol |
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It's like asking do men only like 6ft blonds with big tits?
The answer is the same of course not.
People like different things, personally I've dated thin, muscular and larger guys, If I like the guy I'll like his body too.
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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what i found out years ago when we were a lot more active - most women want a cock that is the biggest they can take when very wet and the cock has to be rock hard and not cum until they have cum - with that the usal, ie nice/police man who is good looking in their eyes or acceptable
MrsP - she has never admitted to that but has addmitted that she wants noting small than mine which used to be close to 7 inches on a good day and now 6 - biggest she has taken is about 9 inches rock hard but it was years ago |
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"what i found out years ago when we were a lot more active - most women want a cock that is the biggest they can take when very wet and the cock has to be rock hard and not cum until they have cum - with that the usal, ie nice/police man who is good looking in their eyes or acceptable
MrsP - she has never admitted to that but has addmitted that she wants noting small than mine which used to be close to 7 inches on a good day and now 6 - biggest she has taken is about 9 inches rock hard but it was years ago"
I think the post was about body size, not penis size. That's what the replies have been about anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"what i found out years ago when we were a lot more active - most women want a cock that is the biggest they can take when very wet and the cock has to be rock hard and not cum until they have cum - with that the usal, ie nice/police man who is good looking in their eyes or acceptable
MrsP - she has never admitted to that but has addmitted that she wants noting small than mine which used to be close to 7 inches on a good day and now 6 - biggest she has taken is about 9 inches rock hard but it was years ago"
That's cool and all, but this is about liking chubby/fat guys. |
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Some definitely do. But with 4bn women on the planet the word some is doing a lot of heavy lifting.
As a guy who has been seriously overweight, a powerlifting gym rat, and back now to being a mild fatty I can confirm, a bigger man can gather only a tiny fraction of the interest a fitter man can. It's just the way it is sadly. There is no BBW equivalent for men. |
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By *aandLoCouple 33 weeks ago
Southampton |
As our profile says L loves a chunky guy, she married one. 💕
The ratio of those looking for a single guy, to single guys on Fab is not in your favour though. You really have to have a knock out profile, be photo verified, and include a pic or two.
If you don't want to put on a full length photo due to body image sensitivities, then perhaps you could put on a close up of a part of you that you love and feel confident about? |
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By *959femxCouple 33 weeks ago
Weston super mare |
"Hi there. Now I'm a solo male meeting anyone is very difficult. I did meet with a friend when I lived in Portsmouth.
Im a bigger guy that I don't get any views or interest in. What's people thoughts on a bigger guy.
Is it really a put off.
Im discreet due to work so no face unless friends but big guys don't show well on pictures.
Any advice please "
Just being a single man on fab is the biggest challenge. If you do message or reply being natural and friendly is a big bonus . If you can make the lady laugh you’re winning. Persistence is key . |
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By *959femxCouple 33 weeks ago
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Raise your age range plenty of more mature ladies on fab who can be every bit as sexy and fun if not more so . Every woman has her own beauty you just have to open your eyes and mind to see it . |
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"Hi there. Now I'm a solo male meeting anyone is very difficult. I did meet with a friend when I lived in Portsmouth.
Im a bigger guy that I don't get any views or interest in. What's people thoughts on a bigger guy.
Is it really a put off.
Im discreet due to work so no face unless friends but big guys don't show well on pictures.
Any advice please "
from your profile -
New here. So yes no meets or verified yet. -negative, don't mention it
Hoping some people happy to give a new guy a chance. -negative, don't mention it
Sorry don't meet guys (I'm straight) -negative, don't mention it
Come say hi. Will chat with everyone.
Get to know me. I'm a genuinely nice guy. Big heart. Hard worker. Work hard, like to have fun aswell. - great!
Yes Im a big guy. Big belly, big shoulders, not a big cock-negative, don't mention it
Knows how to use my equipment and even better with fingers and tongue. -ok
Love to please - ok
Come say hi and find out. -ok
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"Hi there. Now I'm a solo male meeting anyone is very difficult. I did meet with a friend when I lived in Portsmouth.
Im a bigger guy that I don't get any views or interest in. What's people thoughts on a bigger guy.
Is it really a put off.
Im discreet due to work so no face unless friends but big guys don't show well on pictures.
Any advice please "
Clubs and social events are your Friend |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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always but most to shy to say so - bigger as in will fit, it has to be hard and htick and only cum when she is ready, clean bloke along with that is imortant and no self procalmed bulls |
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"always but most to shy to say so - bigger as in will fit, it has to be hard and htick and only cum when she is ready, clean bloke along with that is imortant and no self procalmed bulls"
It’s the second time you’ve replied to this thread without comprehending that OP is talking about body size, not necessarily penis size. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Thank you. It maybe just a kink but I prefer bigger girth. Maybe cause ive had 2 kids. But. Yes. It does turn me on more xxx"
Perosnal preference,
If going to some cuntry's, bigger is better for men that is, not sure if women prefer bigger men though |
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