I want to get my gf to at least give swinging a chance. I know she isn't very comfortable in her own body and I'm not sure why because she has a great body. How do I approach the topic as I feel maybe she would realise that she has a nice body and this would probably help with her confidence. I've said I'm happy to have people watch as we have done that before and she enjoyed it. I'm hoping maybe one day being able to have others join us. Any advice on how I could approach this would be appreciated. |
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Yeah, this isn't going to go well OP.
Swinging requires trust and communication, neither of which you are demonstrating in any appreciable form by being on a swinging site behind your partner's back! |
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"I want to get my gf to at least give swinging a chance. I know she isn't very comfortable in her own body and I'm not sure why because she has a great body. How do I approach the topic as I feel maybe she would realise that she has a nice body and this would probably help with her confidence. I've said I'm happy to have people watch as we have done that before and she enjoyed it. I'm hoping maybe one day being able to have others join us. Any advice on how I could approach this would be appreciated."
Do you really want her to try swinging to help with her confidence? Because there are a thousand other ways you can do that which don't involve her having sex with other people or being watched.
I suggest that first you establish good and open communication, boost her confidence by genuinely complimenting her, pointing out her good points and making sure she is secure in your relationship. Once you've done that you can suggest sharing fantasies and bring up the subject of swinging. It requires work from you and consistent, positive communication and you still might not get her to 'at least give it a try' but at least you will know that you've boosted her confidence and improved your relationship |
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By *enelope2UWoman 33 weeks ago
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It's not about her physical body for most women but how you value her as a person...
She should feel turned on being in your presence and she'll gladly want others to see that passion or share it out of a boasting pride..
neither seem something she has or is feeling..otherwise it would have already probably happened.
Why share or show a disappointment. |
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By *igad999Man 33 weeks ago
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My wife has always been big but big is my thing
She had a bit of a confidence thing about a year ago but after weeks of me telling her she’s amazing and she knows I love her body she was ok
Now she flaunts it at times
But I’d say just keep telling her how beautiful she is
And speaking to a lot on here BBW and big ladies seem to be a lot of people’s taste now |
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