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Single ladies… do you agree to same day play meets?
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Am I the only one that wants to get my eyebrows plucked and my arsehole bleached before a meet?
I like to spend the day removing all my hair from the eyebrows down and be nice and smooth for a meet. Play music and get excited for the meet.
Are you like me do you need some notice or are you perpetually smooth and meet same day for play?
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"I shave my legs and bits daily in the bath so always smooth, but life is too busy to meet the same day. My meets are planned weeks in advance."
Oh wow you’re perfect I don’t shave though I epilate and I don’t always have time to keep smooth all the time. But thanks for your reply xx |
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I’d never do a same day meet. Partly for practical reason of getting ready, partly because I like to chat first and partly because I’m more social if I’ve had time to get into the right headspace! |
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I am not currently looking for any new meets, but even when I was looking, I liked to take my time getting to know the person, seeing how compatible we are. But I was never doing the whole pre-meet pampering, I'd shave/epilate my legs and would be shower fresh, wearing a nice dress but that's about it. Anybody expecting a made up doll wearing sexy lingerie got highly disappointed as I much prefer the "girl next door" look. |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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the only time i have ever agreed to a same day meet, is when i have been let down by someone else.... im all dolled up ready to play and.... let down... so sometimes i have had a same say meet if im able to get it planned xx |
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"I've never done same day or fast meets.I enjoy the build up.
I prefer to get to know someone a but first, I work shifts and I already have a partner. So I like to plan any meets. "
Thanks single ladies for your posts I am glad I am not the only one xx |
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"I dont do meets at short notice, and my first meets are always purely social, so the 'being prepared' thing isnt really an issue.
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Thanks for sharing this post. Although you don’t play on a first meet you still wouldn’t do same day or short notice xx |
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"Am I the only one that wants to get my eyebrows plucked and my arsehole bleached before a meet?
I like to spend the day removing all my hair from the eyebrows down and be nice and smooth for a meet. Play music and get excited for the meet.
Are you like me do you need some notice or are you perpetually smooth and meet same day for play?
Sam xx "
I am a busy person. I'm also not stressing myself out with the removal of all body hair for a man who is not paying for it and who is not my life partner.
My eyebrows are never plucked and my arsehole is never bleached for anyone...ever.
I'm autistic and perimenopausal. I don't have the spoons for this. Also I'm a domme in training. If a man wants plucked eyebrows and a bleached butthole I can tie him up and do his own for him. 
I can fuck at a drop of a hat and don't need to be turned into a sanitised fantasy doll version of myself.
Now if a man wants to take care of me in all aspects and finer details then I have not problems being a fantasy doll for a short period of time.
But I do better with more freedom and less demands.
I could never be a submissive 24/7. Nor could I be a dominant 24/7. Far too many spoons and intensity. |
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By *essTTWoman 30 weeks ago
Birmingham |
When I used to meet regularly i would do same day meets.
I wax every 4 weeks so depending on where I am in the cycle I may be a bit hairy.
Other than showering and moisturising I don't do any else to get ready for a meet. |
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By *recticWoman 30 weeks ago
taunton |
Epilate all the time so I don’t worry about body hair. I can also get ready in half an hour. Some of my best meets have been last minute impulse decisions but there has always been some chat before hand and when the what about a drink after work has been asked, I’ve gone for it. I never meet expecting there to be enough attraction for it to move on immediately and I try to put myself in a position where I wouldn’t even agree to it off the back of a social but once in a while it escalates ( and they’ve always been the better meets) |
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First meets are always socials so the getting ready bit isn’t a huge deal for me. But I also like to get to know the person a little bit first to make sure that there is a connection, I don’t want to waste anyone’s time on meeting when it is obvious that it will go no further. |
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"First meets are always socials so the getting ready bit isn’t a huge deal for me. But I also like to get to know the person a little bit first to make sure that there is a connection, I don’t want to waste anyone’s time on meeting when it is obvious that it will go no further."
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"Am I the only one that wants to get my eyebrows plucked and my arsehole bleached before a meet?
I like to spend the day removing all my hair from the eyebrows down and be nice and smooth for a meet. Play music and get excited for the meet.
Are you like me do you need some notice or are you perpetually smooth and meet same day for play?
Sam xx
I am a busy person. I'm also not stressing myself out with the removal of all body hair for a man who is not paying for it and who is not my life partner.
My eyebrows are never plucked and my arsehole is never bleached for anyone...ever.
I'm autistic and perimenopausal. I don't have the spoons for this. Also I'm a domme in training. If a man wants plucked eyebrows and a bleached butthole I can tie him up and do his own for him.
I can fuck at a drop of a hat and don't need to be turned into a sanitised fantasy doll version of myself.
Now if a man wants to take care of me in all aspects and finer details then I have not problems being a fantasy doll for a short period of time.
But I do better with more freedom and less demands.
I could never be a submissive 24/7. Nor could I be a dominant 24/7. Far too many spoons and intensity."
God I LOVE this
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I don’t think men consider this and we should.
I surprised a girl I was dating with two hours notice that I was going to visit and she was happy but told me later that it was a mad panic to be ready.
Love the glamour look so now appreciate planning!
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Oh if I have arranged a social then I'll be meet ready so to speak just in case that goes well. I find it a pain if the social is going well then having to rearrange for another time.
I like to take time though you know exfoliating, shaving etc.
So I'm rarely just randomly meet ready
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"Am I the only one that wants to get my eyebrows plucked and my arsehole bleached before a meet?
I like to spend the day removing all my hair from the eyebrows down and be nice and smooth for a meet. Play music and get excited for the meet.
Are you like me do you need some notice or are you perpetually smooth and meet same day for play?
Sam xx
I am a busy person. I'm also not stressing myself out with the removal of all body hair for a man who is not paying for it and who is not my life partner.
My eyebrows are never plucked and my arsehole is never bleached for anyone...ever.
I'm autistic and perimenopausal. I don't have the spoons for this. Also I'm a domme in training. If a man wants plucked eyebrows and a bleached butthole I can tie him up and do his own for him.
I can fuck at a drop of a hat and don't need to be turned into a sanitised fantasy doll version of myself.
Now if a man wants to take care of me in all aspects and finer details then I have not problems being a fantasy doll for a short period of time.
But I do better with more freedom and less demands.
I could never be a submissive 24/7. Nor could I be a dominant 24/7. Far too many spoons and intensity."
I love this 100% my type of lady |
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"Reading the comments why do you all have to get dolled up before a meeting, I love seeing woman coming out the gym or finishing up a run it’s so sexy "
I am the OP and I was talking about being hairy not sweaty. Some guys like hairy armpits and legs on ladies but many don’t and I like my meets to be prepped and smooth too xx
Do you like women with hairy legs and pits? |
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By *essTTWoman 30 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"Reading the comments why do you all have to get dolled up before a meeting, I love seeing woman coming out the gym or finishing up a run it’s so sexy
I am the OP and I was talking about being hairy not sweaty. Some guys like hairy armpits and legs on ladies but many don’t and I like my meets to be prepped and smooth too xx
Do you like women with hairy legs and pits?"
Most men don't care, I haven't touched my armpit hair for years lol |
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By *eeSoarMan 30 weeks ago
Shrewsbury, West Midlands |
"Reading the comments why do you all have to get dolled up before a meeting, I love seeing woman coming out the gym or finishing up a run it’s so sexy
I am the OP and I was talking about being hairy not sweaty. Some guys like hairy armpits and legs on ladies but many don’t and I like my meets to be prepped and smooth too xx
Do you like women with hairy legs and pits?"
A proper bush is the best. Wish I had been about in the 70s (sensible house prices too). I find all this shaved/waxed stuff a bit weird. Pubic hair indicates sexual maturity. A lack of it.... |
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Being sweaty only works for me if I know the man is into that kink.
Otherwise I make an effort to be clean! Majority of people do not like stale sweat!plus it may give you skin complications if you leave sweat on too long.
Or one of my partners lives within cycling distance so I shower off the sweat, road dirt and London pollution in his bathroom before Irub myself all over him.  |
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"Am I the only one that wants to get my eyebrows plucked and my arsehole bleached before a meet?
I like to spend the day removing all my hair from the eyebrows down and be nice and smooth for a meet. Play music and get excited for the meet.
Are you like me do you need some notice or are you perpetually smooth and meet same day for play?
Sam xx
I am a busy person. I'm also not stressing myself out with the removal of all body hair for a man who is not paying for it and who is not my life partner.
My eyebrows are never plucked and my arsehole is never bleached for anyone...ever.
I'm autistic and perimenopausal. I don't have the spoons for this. Also I'm a domme in training. If a man wants plucked eyebrows and a bleached butthole I can tie him up and do his own for him.
I can fuck at a drop of a hat and don't need to be turned into a sanitised fantasy doll version of myself.
Now if a man wants to take care of me in all aspects and finer details then I have not problems being a fantasy doll for a short period of time.
But I do better with more freedom and less demands.
I could never be a submissive 24/7. Nor could I be a dominant 24/7. Far too many spoons and intensity.
I love this 100% my type of lady "
I'm a naturist at heart so no surprise I lean to the more natural side of things. I'm just more practical and I've been married before and it's not always practical to do all of this prep.
Honeymoon, vacations, valentines day but real life gets in the way for most people.
Luckily I'm not super hairy. I'm all for women(actually all genders) doing what ever they want with their bodies. Smooth or bushy. |
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"Reading the comments why do you all have to get dolled up before a meeting, I love seeing woman coming out the gym or finishing up a run it’s so sexy
I am the OP and I was talking about being hairy not sweaty. Some guys like hairy armpits and legs on ladies but many don’t and I like my meets to be prepped and smooth too xx
Do you like women with hairy legs and pits?
A proper bush is the best. Wish I had been about in the 70s (sensible house prices too). I find all this shaved/waxed stuff a bit weird. Pubic hair indicates sexual maturity. A lack of it...."
Bald pussy gives me the autistic underage ick. Good thing I'm not sexually attracted to women. I can only imagine really liking some one and then they take their clothes off and your dick goes limp. Oh my days!  |
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By *aven RedWoman 29 weeks ago
who knows, but it's not raining x |
"I love a big hairy bush
Gets trapped in the elastic of underwear... or zips!
Pokes out the side of swimsuit scaring scarring small children at the leisure centre pool. 😅🤣😂🙈😈🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️"
Like hundreds of spiders trying to make an escape x 🤣 |
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