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By *kbwc1995 OP Man 26 weeks ago
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There's a woman i work with. We're really close and we really get on. We've built a really good relationship and are really good friends we open up with eachither and know bits about eachother that not many people know.
I can't tell if she's just really comfortable with me or if she's dropping hints. She's friendly and a little flirty. She's once pulled her top up and adjusted her g string infront of me and then left it out whilst we were talking. She's told me she was too hot and I said take your jumper off and then said she can't. I said why and she proceeded to show me her love bite.
Basically are we just really close and she's comfortable with me. Or is there somthing more too it?
Sounds really pathetic reading it back but would like some advice and maybe just someone to talk too about it
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Nobody can answer your question except her. If she's a similar age to you she knows that adjusting her thong and showing you a love bite (who gave it to her?)is giving out a particular vibe but none of us knows if she sees you as a mate or a romantic interest.
How about saying something like " I really want to try a pumpkin spice latte, do you want to come with me?" Then you can see how she is with you outside of work |
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Why is she showing you a love bite from somebody else? That's not flirting that's teasing you.
What would make more sense would be to stay on her good side to see if she has single friends, and keep things professional with work colleagues. |
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"Ask her out on a date. That usually sorts the women who are interested from the ones who just want a male girlfriend.
Don't end up in the FriendZone."
He doesn't want to lose her as a friend, he said that |
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"Ask her out on a date. That usually sorts the women who are interested from the ones who just want a male girlfriend.
Don't end up in the FriendZone.
He doesn't want to lose her as a friend, he said that"
But he ready to shag her 😁 maybe fell in love with her already, he just doesn't know yet |
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"Ask her out on a date. That usually sorts the women who are interested from the ones who just want a male girlfriend.
Don't end up in the FriendZone.
He doesn't want to lose her as a friend, he said that"
There is no reward without risk. From where I'm standing, it looks like he wants to earn romance through proximity, which never works.
Be honest, make a move, don't try and secure the outcome |
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If it's worth losing the friendship for then go for it.
Only you can answer that, I don't know of she is actually flirting or just teasing you only she can answer that ha.
There are no rewards without risk like the gentleman said though so ultimately you either take the leap and talk to her or leave well alone. You can't predict the outcome. |
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"Ask her out on a date. That usually sorts the women who are interested from the ones who just want a male girlfriend.
Don't end up in the FriendZone.
He doesn't want to lose her as a friend, he said that
But he ready to shag her 😁 maybe fell in love with her already, he just doesn't know yet"
The age old conundrum.
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"How about saying something like " I really want to try a pumpkin spice latte, do you want to come with me?" "
But what if she says yes?
I mean, she may be smoking hot, but no woman is worth having to drink a pumpkin spice latte for. |
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"How about saying something like " I really want to try a pumpkin spice latte, do you want to come with me?"
But what if she says yes?
I mean, she may be smoking hot, but no woman is worth having to drink a pumpkin spice latte for. "
I hadn't thought of that 🤔 it's a fatal flaw in my cunning plan |
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Hi I am new to this and want to visit a club. I have never been to 1 but would love to go. I don't have transport, could anyone help in the Blackburn area. Please let me know x |
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"Basically are we just really close and she's comfortable with me. Or is there somthing more too it?"
OK, to be serious for once, there are two possibilities here - she wants a relationship, or she just wants to be friends.
If she wants a relationship, and you do nothing, then the friendship probably won't last very long. She'll find what she's looking for somewhere else.
But if she just wants to be friends and you want more then it also won't last very long as she'll start to feel uncomfortable.
Short summary: whatever you do, there's an equal chance that things won't work out. So do what YOU want to.
There's also a chance that she's not 100% sure. In which case making it clear how much you like her may just tip the balance in your favour. We all like being fancied. |
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"Ask her out on a date. That usually sorts the women who are interested from the ones who just want a male girlfriend.
Don't end up in the FriendZone."
Definitely don't want to be in the friend zone. |
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You’ve got to put your big boy pants on and ask her
I fancied a girl at school but thought she was out of my league so didn’t say anything.
Long story short she died and at her funeral her best friend said she really liked me but thought I didn’t like her
Since that day I’ve always asked someone out if I like them, you don’t always get the answer you want but at least you know
No good being on your deathbed thinking what if.
Regret the things you’ve done and don’t regret not doing things |
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By *otshot14Woman 26 weeks ago
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Ask her,coz I love to tease men just to see what there going to do.
I push and play without sex to start off with just to see how long there going to stay.
I do kind of give them mix signs but sometimes that's coz I've got nervous,then my head over thinks.
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1. You haven't actually said that you would like a relationship, or that you want to fuck her a 1000 times, its not clear to me, can you clarify?
2. Sometimes having a friend like that is worth more than a thousand fucks. Once I liked a girl, we kissed once; i asked her out, but there was something missing so we stopped. we have since been best friends and we know each other's secrets and confide on each other, it's such a wonderful feeling.
3. you can tell her that you feel uncomfortable with her flirting as you are not used to that; tell her you like her but it sometimes feel like mixed messages; if you are honest and she is worth it, you'll find a solution good for both
4. I once had a very very good friend, for many years; one day we got together and had sex; we ere d*unk and the sex was very bad; we havent talked about that night ever again. we remain very good friends  |
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1. You haven't actually said that you would like a relationship, or that you want to fuck her a 1000 times, its not clear to me, can you clarify?
2. Sometimes having a friend like that is worth more than a thousand fucks. Once I liked a girl, we kissed once; i asked her out, but there was something missing so we stopped. we have since been best friends and we know each other's secrets and confide on each other, it's such a wonderful feeling.
3. you can tell her that you feel uncomfortable with her flirting as you are not used to that; tell her you like her but it sometimes feel like mixed messages; if you are honest and she is worth it, you'll find a solution good for both
4. I once had a very very good friend, for many years; one day we got together and had sex; we ere d*unk and the sex was very bad; we havent talked about that night ever again. we remain very good friends "
This makes an awful lot of sense.
Unfortunately very many men are incapable of having women friends, they don't want to |
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