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Forum members contacting directly with no respect?
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So as we all know there is a reply direct part on the forum and MOSTLY we get genuine messages related to the post or post we have replied to and helpful. Recently there seems to be an influx of men messaging and sending their private parts unsolicited and we have to block. Is this rife on here that if you post something positive in the forum they see it as carte Blanche to send us dick pics like it’s going to make us suddenly want them? |
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Constantly get couples in my inbox from the forums.
Just mass delete.
Don't wanna block all one group from messaging.
But yeah, it happens all the time. Most profiles on here don’t have the basic IQ or respect to read profiles before messaging. Story of fab lol |
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"So as we all know there is a reply direct part on the forum and MOSTLY we get genuine messages related to the post or post we have replied to and helpful. Recently there seems to be an influx of men messaging and sending their private parts unsolicited and we have to block. Is this rife on here that if you post something positive in the forum they see it as carte Blanche to send us dick pics like it’s going to make us suddenly want them? "
What you're getting is a high volume of blokes, without a sniff of contact through direct messaging, who may get some response via a forum topic, who then, in a barren wasteland,see it as some sort of encouragement. Irritating, but that's what block is for. |
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I sometimes get replies to my forum posts that are either barely related to the post or something that could have easily been added to the public post, with no need for private message. It is annoying, especially when they see my reply then as them "getting their foot through the door" and trying to go with more unrelated chat. Those get blocked. |
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"I don’t think the people that have contacted me related to forum discussions have been disrespectful. Everyone else is a different matter…"
Most are nice people who are trying to help based on the forum post or topic but also lots of people see it as an excuse to send us unsolicited pics of their dick… you can’t send photos in the forum so that’s how they get round it ! |
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"I don’t think the people that have contacted me related to forum discussions have been disrespectful. Everyone else is a different matter…
Most are nice people who are trying to help based on the forum post or topic but also lots of people see it as an excuse to send us unsolicited pics of their dick… you can’t send photos in the forum so that’s how they get round it ! "
I’m sure it won’t make you feel much better to know I get sent dick pics too, though I assume less than most people do |
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"I don’t think the people that have contacted me related to forum discussions have been disrespectful. Everyone else is a different matter…
Most are nice people who are trying to help based on the forum post or topic but also lots of people see it as an excuse to send us unsolicited pics of their dick… you can’t send photos in the forum so that’s how they get round it !
I’m sure it won’t make you feel much better to know I get sent dick pics too, though I assume less than most people do"
Even worse for you as you are a straight man ! People just are chancers x |
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"So as we all know there is a reply direct part on the forum and MOSTLY we get genuine messages related to the post or post we have replied to and helpful. Recently there seems to be an influx of men messaging and sending their private parts unsolicited and we have to block. Is this rife on here that if you post something positive in the forum they see it as carte Blanche to send us dick pics like it’s going to make us suddenly want them? "
The majority of comments from something we put on the forum comes as a private message. We ask them to repeat it on the forum thread to show others their response. Some guys do, some don't. |
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