I have been on this site now many years and I have had 1 meet. I can never seem to get any intrest is it that there is so many other men or just me. When I message I do try to be creative and not boring or generic. Maybe my profile need a revamp |
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What are you doing right, is more to the point.
Absolutely nothing from what we can see.
1 ~ No profile picture.
2 ~ No other pictures on your profile.
3 ~ Your bio tells us very little.
4 ~ You’re asking others to send you a message.
Absolutely nothing there that would inspire us to send you a message.
You did ask. |
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I am currently waiting for my pictures to uploaded and update older ones. So your advice would be to out nore in the bio? I have ny kinks and fetishes but I do really struggle with this side of things thanks |
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"What are you doing right, is more to the point.
Absolutely nothing from what we can see.
1 ~ No profile picture.
2 ~ No other pictures on your profile.
3 ~ Your bio tells us very little.
4 ~ You’re asking others to send you a message.
Absolutely nothing there that would inspire us to send you a message.
You did ask."
Can you tell me where im going wrong please 🙏 |
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We might not be your target market so take this with a big pinch of salt and as always this is our opinion not fact.
If we look on a profile we love to see a little bit of personality on a profile, that's people talking about what they like generally as well as sexually, that's something we have done as if people Habe common interests with us that's a way to be able to connect with them and spark up conversation.
Something else we look for is people that understand what they want and aren't afraid to articulate that, for us and again this is not directed at you at all but a frustration for us is alot of people just want to people please or tell you what you want to hear and that drives us up the wall. We far rather someone be confident and comfortable with saying what they want and need on a profile so we can see compatibility.
We like a little mix of pictures, body and cock personally but understand that's not the same for everyone.
Put effort into conversation is a big one aswell for us, 99% of lads, lasses and couples that message us just don't really put much effort in and it's boring as watching paint dry haha (not saying you don't already do this)
If you want to ask us more or wish for us to elaborate or anything feel free to DM but intimately we think the more if you that your able to put on your profile the better |
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Us AI to formulate a response based on their profile, our profile was 99% AI written, obviously we entered the correct prompts.
Not everyone is great at writing things that get an interest but a few different pics on the main profile, a recent face pic with first message might help |
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"Moaning feeling sorry for yourself "
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What would be the correct method to ask for help, clarification and guidance, which wouldn't come across as "Moaning" or "feeling sorry for yourself"?
How would you promote male solidarity on here? |
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"Moaning feeling sorry for yourself
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What would be the correct method to ask for help, clarification and guidance, which wouldn't come across as "Moaning" or "feeling sorry for yourself"?
How would you promote male solidarity on here?"
Well said. |
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"I have been on this site now many years and I have had 1 meet. I can never seem to get any intrest is it that there is so many other men or just me. When I message I do try to be creative and not boring or generic. Maybe my profile need a revamp "
Nothing in your profile, is any different than 1000s of others on FAB.
1. Photo of massive dick - Check
2. Classic pose in front of mirror showing abs - Check
To be fair I was half expecting a photo of your cock to be next to a Lynx can, or Grandfather clock.
At least your profile didn't say 'naturally dominant' lol
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Mix up your photo's a bit, if you have a shot of you in a suit or smart clothing it makes a much better first image on your page, or some tasteful cloths on shots in the gym.
You haven't got any meet verifications, Fab is just the online social element of Swinging. Try going to some local clubs, or socials to actually meet people. Once you've picked up a few verifications and got involved in the swinging community in your area you'll likely find it easier to chat to people on here. |
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For us we like to look at photos from various angles not just cock pictures because let's face it we all know what acock looks like also your profile is fairly short we like to see a well written profile of things you like doing and things you dont simply because we dont want to waste time by chatting with people Only to find out we're after totally different things |
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