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"Hi, is there something wrong with my profile? I have been struggling to find a nice single woman or couple for regular meets lately."
I am very polite with my messaging, and still don't get many replies.
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By *CExeCouple 7 weeks ago
Hong-Kong/Exeter |
All looks generally okay.
The nonsense guff about Human Rights etc at the bottom is a little unnecessary and makes the profile look rather lengthy. Nothing in website terms and conditions will void your human rights.
I don't think you need to explain cropped photos, just put 'face pics on request when we've chatted' or similar, as is fairly standard on Fab.
Get chatting on the forums and cams and get along to some socials if you can. |
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Nothing really bad at all about your profile. I'd delete the bio thing about European Convention on Human Rights and Sydney University at the bottom. It is pointless putting that up.
Apart from that. Seems pretty good.
Like another mentioned. Get on the forums. Go to a social event or clubs. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. There's only so much you can get from this site as a single guy. Good luck. |
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"I am even willing to travel far and wide to find quality meets. "
You say "I do tend to travel far for quality meets and I like local meets". This implies any local women you meet aren't good quality ! |
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"Nothing really bad at all about your profile. I'd delete the bio thing about European Convention on Human Rights and Sydney University at the bottom. It is pointless putting that up.
Apart from that. Seems pretty good.
Like another mentioned. Get on the forums. Go to a social event or clubs. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. There's only so much you can get from this site as a single guy. Good luck. "
If you read his verifications, you will have seen the OP (like yourself), has already tried clubs in the past. If only clubs were the ‘be all, and end all’, that many in here promise….. 
Guys, it’s simple; if you’re looking to meet women, put yourself where women are. That just isn’t in Fab, or the club scene. Sure; there are a few ladies dotted here and there, and you can get lucky now and then, but there can be huge gaps of frustration inbetween…..
Don’t come searching for ladies in Fab, look at it as a bonus if you do happen to connect with someone in here. There are far better, and easier places to meet women, than in here or the swinger clubs 😉 |
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"It's ok and covers the basics but it's a bit lacking in personalilty for my taste "
Personality comes out when you chat and message people. How can I express my personality on my profile page? Thanks for being honest.
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"Get rid of the meaningless legal warnings.
Make realistic expectations based on most people who are not mutually compatible with most other people. They won't reply to you. "
I might try that thanks. |
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"I am even willing to travel far and wide to find quality meets.
You say "I do tend to travel far for quality meets and I like local meets". This implies any local women you meet aren't good quality !"
I don't mean that lol. |
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"Nothing really bad at all about your profile. I'd delete the bio thing about European Convention on Human Rights and Sydney University at the bottom. It is pointless putting that up.
Apart from that. Seems pretty good.
Like another mentioned. Get on the forums. Go to a social event or clubs. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. There's only so much you can get from this site as a single guy. Good luck.
If you read his verifications, you will have seen the OP (like yourself), has already tried clubs in the past. If only clubs were the ‘be all, and end all’, that many in here promise…..
Guys, it’s simple; if you’re looking to meet women, put yourself where women are. That just isn’t in Fab, or the club scene. Sure; there are a few ladies dotted here and there, and you can get lucky now and then, but there can be huge gaps of frustration inbetween…..
Don’t come searching for ladies in Fab, look at it as a bonus if you do happen to connect with someone in here. There are far better, and easier places to meet women, than in here or the swinger clubs 😉"
Do inbox me and tell me where lol. |
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By *essTTWoman 7 weeks ago
Birmingham |
Nothing wrong necessarily however I wouldn't arrange to meet someone 2 hours away because then it would be too much pressure on me
What if you arrive and you look different or our personalities don't align, I'd then feel obligated to play because you had travelled so long to get to me and I know there will be alot of other women who think the same way
Something to bear in mind having that written on your profile |
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"Nothing really bad at all about your profile. I'd delete the bio thing about European Convention on Human Rights and Sydney University at the bottom. It is pointless putting that up.
Apart from that. Seems pretty good.
Like another mentioned. Get on the forums. Go to a social event or clubs. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. There's only so much you can get from this site as a single guy. Good luck.
If you read his verifications, you will have seen the OP (like yourself), has already tried clubs in the past. If only clubs were the ‘be all, and end all’, that many in here promise…..
Guys, it’s simple; if you’re looking to meet women, put yourself where women are. That just isn’t in Fab, or the club scene. Sure; there are a few ladies dotted here and there, and you can get lucky now and then, but there can be huge gaps of frustration inbetween…..
Don’t come searching for ladies in Fab, look at it as a bonus if you do happen to connect with someone in here. There are far better, and easier places to meet women, than in here or the swinger clubs 😉
Do inbox me and tell me where lol."
Jeez mate, I’ve pulled on a 22 minute train journey recently, and Saturday morning Parkrun 😋
You can have the most advanced, up to date tennis racket on the market, and a brand new set of tennis balls, but if there’s nobody to hit the ball back over the net, you’re just practicing your serve all day. How long do you stay, before you decide to go elsewhere to find someone to play with…..? 🤔
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Hi Everyone I’m very new to all this and learning a lot but I don’t seem to get much interaction or interest from my profile now i understand I’m not everyone’s cup of tea but any help or feedback on my profile good or bad would be much appreciated.
I use the chat rooms as well a lot but don’t get much response from there either.x🩷 |
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"Nothing really bad at all about your profile. I'd delete the bio thing about European Convention on Human Rights and Sydney University at the bottom. It is pointless putting that up.
Apart from that. Seems pretty good.
Like another mentioned. Get on the forums. Go to a social event or clubs. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. There's only so much you can get from this site as a single guy. Good luck.
If you read his verifications, you will have seen the OP (like yourself), has already tried clubs in the past. If only clubs were the ‘be all, and end all’, that many in here promise…..
Guys, it’s simple; if you’re looking to meet women, put yourself where women are. That just isn’t in Fab, or the club scene. Sure; there are a few ladies dotted here and there, and you can get lucky now and then, but there can be huge gaps of frustration inbetween…..
Don’t come searching for ladies in Fab, look at it as a bonus if you do happen to connect with someone in here. There are far better, and easier places to meet women, than in here or the swinger clubs 😉
Do inbox me and tell me where lol.
Jeez mate, I’ve pulled on a 22 minute train journey recently, and Saturday morning Parkrun 😋
You can have the most advanced, up to date tennis racket on the market, and a brand new set of tennis balls, but if there’s nobody to hit the ball back over the net, you’re just practicing your serve all day. How long do you stay, before you decide to go elsewhere to find someone to play with…..? 🤔
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
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"Hi Everyone I’m very new to all this and learning a lot but I don’t seem to get much interaction or interest from my profile now i understand I’m not everyone’s cup of tea but any help or feedback on my profile good or bad would be much appreciated.
I use the chat rooms as well a lot but don’t get much response from there either.x🩷"
There's nothing wrong with your profile mate. |
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"Playing the 'profession' card coupled with the wrong version of discreet made me chuckle, as usual when I read the word spelt that way..."
The irony of 'discrete' being used so often in here, when it is rarely used anywhere else, due to people not knowing it's actual meaning....  |
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"All looks generally okay.
The nonsense guff about Human Rights etc at the bottom is a little unnecessary and makes the profile look rather lengthy. Nothing in website terms and conditions will void your human rights.
I don't think you need to explain cropped photos, just put 'face pics on request when we've chatted' or similar, as is fairly standard on Fab.
Get chatting on the forums and cams and get along to some socials if you can."
Guff, such a brilliant yet underused word!! |
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"Hi, is there something wrong with my profile? I have been struggling to find a nice single woman or couple for regular meets lately."
For me I find the bit you put about ‘travelling up to 2 hours for quality meets’ really off-putting. ‘Quality’ is subjective and it’s not clear what you mean by that. It feels like any meet is subject to an unspecified set of standards and so I’d just avoid, not wanting you to waste 2 hrs travel time just to be disappointed when the ‘quality’ threshold is not met. |
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