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By *amcpl4 OP Couple 4 days ago
Liverpool |
Looking for advice on the best way to go about this from people who have experienced this. We're both keen on being watched in a live situation by either a male or female but aren't really sure on the best way to go about it. How did anyone go about their first time doing it, did you use a club setting or a private setting like a hotel room? What are the pros and cons to each setting? Thanks in advance |
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If you go to a room leave the door open, someone will be there watching in seconds! Explain to them that you want to be watched, and not touched, they can pass that message on while you focus on enjoying yourself… |
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I prefer the privacy of a hotel room where you're meeting someone after a time of getting to know them. You can set expectations and boundaries up front, and meet them beforehand in the bar or wherever. |
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Personally we have experienced this ,found a guy set down ground rules no touching wanking for him was optional,met in ours cuppa to get aquatinted upstairs we fell into our own world barely noticed he was there great experience did meet twice more gave him a little more leeway overall great experience  |
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I've had guys come in and watch me toy my arse and or just watch me wank ....it's all been predetermined what's going to happen ..some want to just watch n wank, cum then go. .others want to get more involved ...
Always make it clear what the narrative is ..it's your space their being invited into ... |
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By *ohn 66Man 4 days ago
South Birmingham |
"If you go to a room leave the door open, someone will be there watching in seconds! Explain to them that you want to be watched, and not touched, they can pass that message on while you focus on enjoying yourself…"
You might also chat to someone you like the look of, and explain the scenario you are after. Two advantages to this approach;
Firstly, before you even start playing in a private room you know there is someone who already knows to not let anyone enter your room, and
Secondly, the conversation you have will not only make your boundaries really clear, that chat might be a real turn on for all of you.
I've been in this scenario before and absolutely loved everything about it xx |
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"I once arranged for a guy to walk through the side gate and stand outside the patio doors to watch me masturbating on the sofa.
Hugely erotic. "
Willing to volunteer to do this if you need another guy 😘 |
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I'm a voyeur and from my experience it's hard to find people who just want to be watched. I'm happy with only watching and pleasuring myself at the same time. Occasionally it leads to more, which is always nice but, if not I'm equally happy. Set boundaries beforehand and you'll find you will soon relax into it. |
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I been to clubs and had the pleasure of being allowed to watch, some in communal areas and some in private rooms with a window with oneway glass or with curtains left slightly open to give that peeking tom vibe where only one person can see |
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I’ve experienced this a few times over the years most meets being in a hotel or their own homes. The important thing is to choose guys/ladies/couples who fully understand and accept that voyeurism is the only thing on offer. Agree if they are allowed to strip and pleasure themselves or each other when watching.
In clubs it’s normal to have strangers watch you have sex which could be in a private room with viewing windows. |
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By *xplorerJamesMan 4 days ago
Buxton, Cheshire and South Yorkshire |
"I once arranged for a guy to walk through the side gate and stand outside the patio doors to watch me masturbating on the sofa.
Hugely erotic. "
So, so, hot! I'd love to be watched by a woman like this or watch each other while in our cars in a car park, or next to each other in neighbouring cubicles...you get the idea 😁 |
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I watched a young couple a few times , they asked me to sit on a chair in there front room and just watch they gave me their phone to take pictures and videos it was absolutely amazing the 3rd time I was asked to take my clothes off and join them for some oral fun , I genuinely didn't expect it |
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"Looking for advice on the best way to go about this from people who have experienced this. We're both keen on being watched in a live situation by either a male or female but aren't really sure on the best way to go about it. How did anyone go about their first time doing it, did you use a club setting or a private setting like a hotel room? What are the pros and cons
to each setting? Thanks in advance "
Couple of years ago now we thought bringing a 3rd in to the bedroom sounded like fun so said something along them lines in our profile (and status too) stating specifically that we expect/would not want to touch them/them interact with us etc. We were not bothered if they wanted to play with themselves (would have even supplied kitchen roll for any spills) LOL.
But only responses we had were from males who were happy to watch..to begin with and then 'when my gf sees their appendage she wouldn't be able to help herself'! So many messages received all sounding very familiar to each other..hence to say all those senders were blocked.
I think ideally someone who we could 100% trust not to approach even though it's what we would post 'if' the thought ever entered our heads again.
I find though males do tend to push/want for more then get huffy when you remind them what was on offer in first place.
For us it would most likely be a quick social to see if we actually got on then back to ours if all happy..simply because of my 'size insecurity' we wouldn't dream of going to a club but maybe you are confident which always a plus thing.
Hope you find what you are looking for with this  |
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Years ago when I had an affair at work he would often come into my office and stand at the side of my desk.
He’d watch as I hitched up my skirt and slid my hand inside my underwear and discreetly masturbated to a muffled climax, then he’d leave.
Both found it so erotic, and the sex later that day was off the chart! |
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"Years ago when I had an affair at work he would often come into my office and stand at the side of my desk.
He’d watch as I hitched up my skirt and slid my hand inside my underwear and discreetly masturbated to a muffled climax, then he’d leave.
Both found it so erotic, and the sex later that day was off the chart!"
Very hot |
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This was the basis of our first encounter. Invited a guy over with boundaries very clearly set beforehand. Mrs enjoyed throwing herself around the bed to make a show for him and then invited him to finish over her. So hot. |
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"This was the basis of our first encounter. Invited a guy over with boundaries very clearly set beforehand. Mrs enjoyed throwing herself around the bed to make a show for him and then invited him to finish over her. So hot. "
Very hot |
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By *xplorerJamesMan 3 days ago
Buxton, Cheshire and South Yorkshire |
"Years ago when I had an affair at work he would often come into my office and stand at the side of my desk.
He’d watch as I hitched up my skirt and slid my hand inside my underwear and discreetly masturbated to a muffled climax, then he’d leave.
Both found it so erotic, and the sex later that day was off the chart!"
Wow, just wow! So, so hot!! I need to watch and be watched 😁 |
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My first ever experience watching was in a hotel. Exchanged messages weeks before the planned meeting. Drinks before hand at the hotel bar to break the ice was the perfect setting. The couple in question were very friendly newlyweds and put up a hot show for 3 rounds. I could say it was the most hottest experience I’ve had in person without partaking. |
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I've done this a few times with couples where I've just watched and occasionally been either finished off by the wife or myself while watching.
I work in travel and stay hotels regularly so have been lucky to be able to accommodate for free.
I'd love to do it again and do travel to your area. |
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The couple I met to watch them, invited me to meet them at a McDonalds to check me out, then when they were happy invited me back to their place, we all stripped and they gave me a camera to photograph them said I could play with my cock. then they fucked. |
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