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Did we overdo it with the profile
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Quick question for the Fab hive mind...
Is our profile too long or too detailed?
We seem to get plenty of views, but not much engagement, so we're wondering if people are opening it, seeing a wall of text, and making a swift tactical retreat or maybe we just don't seem very approachable. 😂
We thought being open and detailed would help people get a feel for us, but perhaps we've accidentally written the director's cut.
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I couldn’t read it all to be honest. Try and prioritise what is most important to you then the rest could be discussed in messages. Only a thought but if it’s all important then I’m out of ideas.
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There's a few chunks of that that even if they aren't AI are so generic and everyman that they're pointless.
Can I ask why it's single guys and single females? As opposed to males and females or guys and girls. I'm always put out by terms which other us as if we're a different species.
Most people aren't for most people. If not everyone who sees your profile contacts you that's fine. Most people won't be your people anyway 💜 |
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By *ision21Man 10 hours ago
Newcastle Under Lyme |
Quick question for the Fab hive mind...
Is our profile too long or too detailed?
We seem to get plenty of views, but not much engagement, so we're wondering if people are opening it, seeing a wall of text, and making a swift tactical retreat or maybe we just don't seem very approachable. 😂
We thought being open and detailed would help people get a feel for us, but perhaps we've accidentally written the director's cut.
No offence will be taken—we asked for feedback, so feel free to be brutally kind. 😄
You're stating everything on your profile which you're looking for so from that perspective it's clearly outlined.
Some people will read, some won't.
Long profile, medium profile, short profile.
I don't think it matters too much really.
If you drop on it will probably be when you least expect it anyway.
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By *ANiCURETV/TS 10 hours ago
Winchester |
"Quick question for the Fab hive mind...
Is our profile too long or too detailed?
We seem to get plenty of views, but not much engagement, so we're wondering if people are opening it, seeing a wall of text, and making a swift tactical retreat or maybe we just don't seem very approachable. 😂
We thought being open and detailed would help people get a feel for us, but perhaps we've accidentally written the director's cut.
No offence will be taken—we asked for feedback, so feel free to be brutally kind. 😄
You're stating everything on your profile which you're looking for so from that perspective it's clearly outlined.
Some people will read, some won't.
Long profile, medium profile, short profile.
I don't think it matters too much really.
If you drop on it will probably be when you least expect it anyway.
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"There's a few chunks of that that even if they aren't AI are so generic and everyman that they're pointless.
Can I ask why it's single guys and single females? As opposed to males and females or guys and girls. I'm always put out by terms which other us as if we're a different species.
Most people aren't for most people. If not everyone who sees your profile contacts you that's fine. Most people won't be your people anyway 💜"
To be honest we didn't even think about the single guys/single females but it's a fair point and we will make that change. |
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Stupid auto text, try again
Don't see anything specifically wrong. You seem to lay out your stall well. The bio is maybe on the longer side but not too long and it's all relevant. I've definitely seem longer ones. The pictures seem nice. Show good range and most importantly there's a few of the husband. I don't really see anything wrong per se. Without seeing your messages all I can say is keep getting yourselves out there and give it time.
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"Have you changed it already?
I’ve seen many much longer and far more demanding than this one "
Yes, we started to change it within the first few feedbacks we received 😂, we had a feeling it was too long.
Although it's still not as short as some , we don't feel we can go much shorter without losing some of the things we want to say. |
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By *athomMan 9 hours ago
South Coast |
"Have you changed it already?
I’ve seen many much longer and far more demanding than this one
Yes, we started to change it within the first few feedbacks we received 😂, we had a feeling it was too long.
Although it's still not as short as some , we don't feel we can go much shorter without losing some of the things we want to say."
😂 late to the party but saved an hour of my life |
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"Quick question for the Fab hive mind...
Is our profile too long or too detailed?
We seem to get plenty of views, but not much engagement, so we're wondering if people are opening it, seeing a wall of text, and making a swift tactical retreat or maybe we just don't seem very approachable. 😂
We thought being open and detailed would help people get a feel for us, but perhaps we've accidentally written the director's cut.
No offence will be taken—we asked for feedback, so feel free to be brutally kind. 😄"
Caramel I read it all. Very detailed and specific and well written. People, if they are interested in getting to know you, should take the time to read your profile. I wish people would read mine sometimes. A lot shorter than yours, but it's annoying being asked certain things when my details are on my profile.
Happy Fabbing, and great pics by the way! Debs x |
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"Quick question for the Fab hive mind...
Is our profile too long or too detailed?
We seem to get plenty of views, but not much engagement, so we're wondering if people are opening it, seeing a wall of text, and making a swift tactical retreat or maybe we just don't seem very approachable. 😂
We thought being open and detailed would help people get a feel for us, but perhaps we've accidentally written the director's cut.
No offence will be taken—we asked for feedback, so feel free to be brutally kind. 😄
Caramel I read it all. Very detailed and specific and well written. People, if they are interested in getting to know you, should take the time to read your profile. I wish people would read mine sometimes. A lot shorter than yours, but it's annoying being asked certain things when my details are on my profile.
Happy Fabbing, and great pics by the way! Debs x "
Awww thanks Debs , there are certainly people on here that just message off looking at the pictures and don't even read a shirt profile x |
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By *AYENCouple 9 hours ago
Lincolnshire |
I think it's great, it took me all of two minutes to read it - if a two minute investment of time is too long for someone then they're probably not going to be right for you anyway. K.
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By *ision21Man 9 hours ago
Newcastle Under Lyme |
Quick question for the Fab hive mind...
Is our profile too long or too detailed?
We seem to get plenty of views, but not much engagement, so we're wondering if people are opening it, seeing a wall of text, and making a swift tactical retreat or maybe we just don't seem very approachable. 😂
We thought being open and detailed would help people get a feel for us, but perhaps we've accidentally written the director's cut.
No offence will be taken—we asked for feedback, so feel free to be brutally kind. 😄
You're stating everything on your profile which you're looking for so from that perspective it's clearly outlined.
Some people will read, some won't.
Long profile, medium profile, short profile.
I don't think it matters too much really.
If you drop on it will probably be when you least expect it anyway.
You know u can use the "Reply+quote "?
I did and have this time.
I just delete the quote in bracket text.
That ok? |
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"Quick question for the Fab hive mind...
Is our profile too long or too detailed?
We seem to get plenty of views, but not much engagement, so we're wondering if people are opening it, seeing a wall of text, and making a swift tactical retreat or maybe we just don't seem very approachable. 😂
We thought being open and detailed would help people get a feel for us, but perhaps we've accidentally written the director's cut.
No offence will be taken—we asked for feedback, so feel free to be brutally kind. 😄
You're stating everything on your profile which you're looking for so from that perspective it's clearly outlined.
Some people will read, some won't.
Long profile, medium profile, short profile.
I don't think it matters too much really.
If you drop on it will probably be when you least expect it anyway.
You know u can use the "Reply+quote "?
I did and have this time.
I just delete the quote in bracket text.
That ok?"
It's harder to tell what you wrote as a reply over what you was reading to |
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"Quick question for the Fab hive mind...
Is our profile too long or too detailed?
We seem to get plenty of views, but not much engagement, so we're wondering if people are opening it, seeing a wall of text, and making a swift tactical retreat or maybe we just don't seem very approachable. 😂
We thought being open and detailed would help people get a feel for us, but perhaps we've accidentally written the director's cut.
No offence will be taken—we asked for feedback, so feel free to be brutally kind. 😄
You're stating everything on your profile which you're looking for so from that perspective it's clearly outlined.
Some people will read, some won't.
Long profile, medium profile, short profile.
I don't think it matters too much really.
If you drop on it will probably be when you least expect it anyway.
You know u can use the "Reply+quote "?
I did and have this time.
I just delete the quote in bracket text.
That ok?
It's harder to tell what you wrote as a reply over what you was reading to"
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By *ision21Man 9 hours ago
Newcastle Under Lyme |
"Quick question for the Fab hive mind...
Is our profile too long or too detailed?
We seem to get plenty of views, but not much engagement, so we're wondering if people are opening it, seeing a wall of text, and making a swift tactical retreat or maybe we just don't seem very approachable. 😂
We thought being open and detailed would help people get a feel for us, but perhaps we've accidentally written the director's cut.
No offence will be taken—we asked for feedback, so feel free to be brutally kind. 😄
You're stating everything on your profile which you're looking for so from that perspective it's clearly outlined.
Some people will read, some won't.
Long profile, medium profile, short profile.
I don't think it matters too much really.
If you drop on it will probably be when you least expect it anyway.
You know u can use the "Reply+quote "?
I did and have this time.
I just delete the quote in bracket text.
That ok?
It's harder to tell what you wrote as a reply over what you was reading to"
Ok a reply to this.
Is this better?
I just thought deleting the brackets was right.
I'm doing reply and quote now. |
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