Been on this site for a while now
Just finding it really hard to get a meet I find I don’t either get no reply or on odd occasion I do and start chatting get ghosted
I am never rude or offensive tend to be pretty honest about my situation but still so hard
I just think most females and couples on here tar guys all with the same brush which I do get but just so frustrating
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Get along to any localish Fab socials. Be confident without being cocky. Be talkative without going OTT. Always be polite and well mannered. Don't dress like a chav. You'll find these simple things will soon start to open doors for you. I can offer you the same advice for attending any swingers clubs you may have in your area. |
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No profile picture? Not even opening the message.
Look at the gallery and it's all cock shots? Delete.
Most recent pictures are almost 6 years old? Delete.
Cheating on the Mrs? Delete.
There's a lot of hurdles to even get a message read to be honest. And given how many people wouldn't even open it I doubt it matters much what it even says 💜 |
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As others have said, your photos are really out of date. That'd be a problem. Also, I'd try to make them more deliberate, less "quickly pull my pants down and take a picture". For better or worse, pictures that are well taken (and recent!) will get more attention.
The "situation" you allude to will also put many people off. |
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"Been on this site for a while now
Just finding it really hard to get a meet I find I don’t either get no reply or on odd occasion I do and start chatting get ghosted
I am never rude or offensive tend to be pretty honest about my situation but still so hard
I just think most females and couples on here tar guys all with the same brush which I do get but just so frustrating
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You only have 3 pictures which are all of your cock and 5 years old, your bio says nothing really about you or what you’re looking for. It’s not a very stand out profile if you’re actively looking to meet |
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"Im same what can I change x"
For some reason you’re making out that it’s a couples profile but is a single man profile
There are 11 videos and 18 pictures and everyone of them is of your cock, whilst you may think it’s impressive, trust me, no one wants to see 11 videos and 18 pictures of it. You have no bio to speak off and your profile pic is a cock. You have no verifications, it’s a zero effort, very confusing profile that we would block if you messaged us |
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By *ildSilkCouple 1 week ago
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"Im same what can I change x
For some reason you’re making out that it’s a couples profile but is a single man profile
There are 11 videos and 18 pictures and everyone of them is of your cock, whilst you may think it’s impressive, trust me, no one wants to see 11 videos and 18 pictures of it. You have no bio to speak off and your profile pic is a cock. You have no verifications, it’s a zero effort, very confusing profile that we would block if you messaged us "
Apart from that though…  |
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Same here absolutely no luck. Sent dozens of messages always attach a clear recent photo with message. Try to pick something out of their profile to talk about. Had a few not for me/us messages rest are read no reply or just deleted. Guess it's just a numbers game so many guys on here.
Where can I find out where the Fab social meetings are thinking that might be the way to go. |
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"Same here absolutely no luck. Sent dozens of messages always attach a clear recent photo with message. Try to pick something out of their profile to talk about. Had a few not for me/us messages rest are read no reply or just deleted. Guess it's just a numbers game so many guys on here.
Where can I find out where the Fab social meetings are thinking that might be the way to go."
Your 58 and your age range is 24-99
You have one pic that shows nothing about you
Your profile lacks detail about you. And what you’re looking for and you have no verifications.
It’s not a numbers game it’s about standing out with that profile you don’t |
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"Same here absolutely no luck. Sent dozens of messages always attach a clear recent photo with message. Try to pick something out of their profile to talk about. Had a few not for me/us messages rest are read no reply or just deleted. Guess it's just a numbers game so many guys on here.
Where can I find out where the Fab social meetings are thinking that might be the way to go.
Your 58 and your age range is 24-99
You have one pic that shows nothing about you
Your profile lacks detail about you. And what you’re looking for and you have no verifications.
It’s not a numbers game it’s about standing out with that profile you don’t "
Definitely a numbers game quick look on near me 1 female, 3 couples, 4tv and 53 guys |
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"Same here absolutely no luck. Sent dozens of messages always attach a clear recent photo with message. Try to pick something out of their profile to talk about. Had a few not for me/us messages rest are read no reply or just deleted. Guess it's just a numbers game so many guys on here.
Where can I find out where the Fab social meetings are thinking that might be the way to go.
Your 58 and your age range is 24-99
You have one pic that shows nothing about you
Your profile lacks detail about you. And what you’re looking for and you have no verifications.
It’s not a numbers game it’s about standing out with that profile you don’t
Definitely a numbers game quick look on near me 1 female, 3 couples, 4tv and 53 guys "
Yes but if you don’t have a good profile that stands out then there could be 1 man and you still wouldn’t get the response you’re looking for |
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