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By *oalie88 OP Man 1 week ago
Newtownabbey |
Been invited to a group meet mainly a couple of guys with one women to be ‘used’ and possibly another couple
What would advice would you give someone going to one of these situations for the first time
What should a person bring etc |
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Ask the organizer for anything specific but I as a woman going to these things I take anything I think I might need… I appreciate it may be different for men but my bag contains condoms, lube, a change of underwear hairbrush, deodorant, wet wipes, tissues. |
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By *oalie88 OP Man 1 week ago
Newtownabbey |
"Make sure boundaries are discussed properly and they get respected.
People misunderstand the term used and expect nothing is off limits.
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Yes that’s has been discussed but will again on the night there are clear and easy to follow rules |
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I’ve participated in a couple of group sessions. My advice would be to relax and enjoy it. It’s completely different to what you see in porn, all mine have been very chilled, respectful and sexy. It’s a wonderful uplifting, liberating and joyful experience so I really hope you enjoy it |
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By *oalie88 OP Man 1 week ago
Newtownabbey |
"I’ve participated in a couple of group sessions. My advice would be to relax and enjoy it. It’s completely different to what you see in porn, all mine have been very chilled, respectful and sexy. It’s a wonderful uplifting, liberating and joyful experience so I really hope you enjoy it "
That’s exactly what I was looking for! |
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"I’ve participated in a couple of group sessions. My advice would be to relax and enjoy it. It’s completely different to what you see in porn, all mine have been very chilled, respectful and sexy. It’s a wonderful uplifting, liberating and joyful experience so I really hope you enjoy it "
It's really refreshing to hear a guy describe a sexual experience in this way  |
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"Been invited to a group meet mainly a couple of guys with one women to be ‘used’ and possibly another couple
What would advice would you give someone going to one of these situations for the first time
What should a person bring etc "
I generally list it out like:
Boundaries and hard limits
Protection expectations (open to redicuss and flexible to change)
Who is allowed to participate and who isn't
Whether photos/videos are strictly prohibited
Consenting (not trying to hurt anyone )
For new groups:
Arriving with an open mind but low expectations (as a previous member stated, this is not like a porn studio , there'll be nerves, last minute cancellations etc )
Taking time to observe before participating
Having your own transport home if possible or pre arranged transport home (let's make sure we arrive and leave together and safely)
Having a check-in plan with a trusted friend or partner of the group
For things to bring:
Protection
Test results
Hygiene wipes
Change of clothes
Toilet utilities
Phone charger lol
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"Unfortunately it got canceled but thanks for all the advice! All solid bits of advice to remember for next time "
Blue pill is not a bad shout even if you’ve not required one in the past. We went to a group meet and for the first time ever I got stage fright!! The more I fought it the worse it got. Never had that problem since and the Lloyd’s pharmacy own brand sindenafil (spelt that wrong for sure) are as good as the branded ones. |
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Blue pills are a personal choice but I did notice almost all the other guys had taken them at the last group meet I attended. I needed a bit of time to recharge after the first round so sat back and watched the show until I was ready to go again. I might consider taking a pill for future events, I’ve never taken them before though so would want to do a bit more research first |
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By *ision21Man 6 days ago
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"Been invited to a group meet mainly a couple of guys with one women to be ‘used’ and possibly another couple
What would advice would you give someone going to one of these situations for the first time
What should a person bring etc "
Make sure it's not a scam.
Do not send money to anyone. |
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