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If people have a problem with my past they’re not for me. Equally if they think I’ll ever be monogamous they’re not for me. I won’t even date someone who wants anything but ethical non-monogamy. It’s not the American 1950s, a very specific and atypical moment in time that seems to be fetishised at the moment. |
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"Can tell she was experienced when we got together. Said she had been with 5 other guys but i think its few more. Said some were 1 offs after night out"
Who cares and why does it matter? She’s the same person. |
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"No longer married .... Why would I bother lying, if a man can't cope with me having previous lovers then he is too insecure and not welcome in my bed. "
This this this this. No one has the time to nurse a fragile ego. |
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By *riel13Woman 4 days ago
Northampton |
I am all for people not wanting to be with someone else due to body count but being a dick about it, once you have split up is just childish and why some people lie... Until people can take truth, lies will be told |
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I don’t think body count matters at all, I’ve slept with men who have been with lots of girls, yet their performance was shocking. Slept with men who have only have a few and they have been incredible.
Given we are on a swingers site surely people’s body count goes up all the time…
The only down side I guess to a high body count is if you never moved away and bump into past partners or lovers! |
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"Do all women lie abojt how many men they have slept woth before marriage?"
my husband was first attracted to me due to me being a greedy girl. He knows I have no clue as to the actual number just that its easily in thr thousands. But 30 years of gangbangs will do that lol
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"Do all women lie abojt how many men they have slept woth before marriage?"
About the same percentage as men who lie about how many women they have slept with, although women claim fewer and men claim more. |
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"Do all women lie abojt how many men they have slept woth before marriage?"
Asking body count is a fast way to a block.
It's irrelevant and if it does matter to you, you are very much on the wrong site  |
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By *enelope2UWoman 2 days ago
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"Do all women lie abojt how many men they have slept woth before marriage?"
No because it's irrelevant I've slept with plenty and some I'd repeat on an instant some lied simply to fuck so has nothing to do with me. If a guy asked how many were honest great guys. What made them stand out then I'd give too fucks... otherwise it's irrelevant and useless to know. |
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My OH has told me quite a lot about her past conquests as it turns us on and quite a few are on her socials.
One kept asking her out for a drink, and as we are honest and open about these things, she told me about it and their past dynamic. We chatted and we agreed it could be fun to take him up on his offer, believe me it certainly was.
As some have said, its about trust and being secure, and it benefits our relationship.
I dont understand squashing a woman sexual energy when it should be encouraged to be expressed.....call me old fashioned haha
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"Also, women who have experience is a good thing. They have had others and still choose you. Inexperienced women might wonder what if, and feel like they’re losing out if the partner isn’t great."
Exactly ,wife had only ever been with me, she always said she was curious and eventually did the deed with someone else,she never looked back
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By *sm265Woman 1 day ago
Perthshire |
I dont lie about it. But I also dont generally feel the need to tell anyone how many people I've slept with.
Historically women were shamed for having had multiple partners, whilst men were often applauded. Sadly that is still sometimes the case. |
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