I am returning member of Fab but how it all works is a little hazy.
My memory isn’t what it used to be!!!
I have seen so much contradictory advice on how to do well on here!!
Some say lots of dick pics from various angles and some say none!!
It seems sending messages is pointless from what i have heard so i haven’t sent any.
Clubs get touted a lot but seeing what people have said about the price of admission just to be treated like a leper, is there any point?
I have tried sitting back in the hope someone will land on my lap but unfortunately that doesn’t seem to be working!!
I think i need to be re educating in how it works these days.
TIA 😊 |
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By *WB85Man 4 days ago
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Do a forum search and you'll see the general consensus on that type of photos.
My big advise to anyone is to read profiles and only message those that are a genuine match. Be yourself, not who you think someone wants you to be. |
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I have never seen anyone say lots of dick pics from lots of different angles unless they are being sarcastic.
As for clubs you need to go and make your own mind up. Lots of guys say they get ignored but then stand around interacting with no one or walk around looking for someone to watch so they can wank which is why a lot call them the wanking dead.
We actively look for single guys in a club but not actually met one yet. Because we are put off by the way a lot act |
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"I am returning member of Fab but how it all works is a little hazy.
My memory isn’t what it used to be!!!
I have seen so much contradictory advice on how to do well on here!!
Some say lots of dick pics from various angles and some say none!!
It seems sending messages is pointless from what i have heard so i haven’t sent any.
Clubs get touted a lot but seeing what people have said about the price of admission just to be treated like a leper, is there any point?
I have tried sitting back in the hope someone will land on my lap but unfortunately that doesn’t seem to be working!!
I think i need to be re educating in how it works these days.
TIA 😊"
Sorry to let you know mate.
You are of a certain age and in a sparsely populated part of the country.
If you sit back, nothing will happen.
How many women in a 5 miles radius come up in your search
The last guy that did this only 6 came up.
I live in London. 1000 men come up in my search and my search excludes smokers and horny 18-24 years olds and men over 60.
Now imagine the women you are looking for being contacted by 1000 men a week? What's gona make you stand out.
Sorry that you are worried about rejection. I get rejected all the time...it doesn't make me any less of a person and it doesn't make me sit on my arse and do nothing.
Low effort =low reward.
If you are introverted, you are going to work even harder. Extroverts and exhibitionists usually get first pick.
For me it's usually people who are near to me that get first pick. |
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That's really, really sound advice above. Don't make fab your only pool to fish in, it will sap you time and effort wise but if it's sex without strings you want them nothings changed for years. Make the effort and if you catch the eye then all is well. |
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"Have you tried blowing into it? Giving it a sharp thump?
Pop it in a bag of rice for 24hrs? "
I was kind of hoping someone would be doing the blowing and thumping for me!!
Is the bag of rice a new kink?
I have been away for a while and it’s not in my 2014 Fab handbook 😳 |
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"I have never seen anyone say lots of dick pics from lots of different angles unless they are being sarcastic.
As for clubs you need to go and make your own mind up. Lots of guys say they get ignored but then stand around interacting with no one or walk around looking for someone to watch so they can wank which is why a lot call them the wanking dead.
We actively look for single guys in a club but not actually met one yet. Because we are put off by the way a lot act"
I thought that sounded suss taking lots of dick pics.
Personally i don’t take them as i like to leave something to the imagination.
I always preferred going with a FWB to a club, saved on entry price and accommodation if needed.
In what way are you put off,?
We all know about the Wanking Dead and the Octopus types.
Myself i am friendly and quite social once i have settled in.
Any tips on my profile etc?
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There is no silver bullet, quick fix, or proven method. There's 10's of 1000's of people using the sight and they all have their own way of using it. The advice you'll receive will be common sense to most, but even that won't work for everyone.
The only "key" is pictures, a thought out bio, manners, respect, join in, be thick skinned and tenacious. Take a break if it's getting you down and just be you. It's still the real world here and the simple truth is not everyone is for you or you for them.
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"I have never seen anyone say lots of dick pics from lots of different angles unless they are being sarcastic.
As for clubs you need to go and make your own mind up. Lots of guys say they get ignored but then stand around interacting with no one or walk around looking for someone to watch so they can wank which is why a lot call them the wanking dead.
We actively look for single guys in a club but not actually met one yet. Because we are put off by the way a lot act"
I get what you mean by blokes standing around, reminiscent of school discos or nightclubs where the boys/young men stand around getting more and more d*unk hoping to pick up courage to actually approach a girl 
Some fellas have never learnt or grown up  |
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Sorry to let you know mate.
You are of a certain age and in a sparsely populated part of the country.
If you sit back, nothing will happen.
How many women in a 5 miles radius come up in your search
The last guy that did this only 6 came up.
I live in London. 1000 men come up in my search and my search excludes smokers and horny 18-24 years olds and men over 60.
Now imagine the women you are looking for being contacted by 1000 men a week? What's gona make you stand out.
Sorry that you are worried about rejection. I get rejected all the time...it doesn't make me any less of a person and it doesn't make me sit on my arse and do nothing.
Low effort =low reward.
If you are introverted, you are going to work even harder. Extroverts and exhibitionists usually get first pick.
For me it's usually people who are near to me that get first pick."
So basically i am over the hill and in area that has more sheep than people!!!
Thank God for trains and having humans within a 20 mile radius 🙏
Mmmm what makes me stand out?
Well I have one thing among many but i try not to brag…..who would believe you anyway.
Until you get word of mouth to back it up!!
Introverted/extrovert although there is a new name for it now.
Definitely an exhibitionist when i am in that mood.
That’s me in a nutshell, i can switch in many things, i do rough well but seduction just as well etc etc.
Thanks for taking the time to reply 😊👍 |
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