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"read somewhere that after hotwife plays with another guy, the sex between hubby and her is that much more intense both for her and her husband - esp the husband - there is a primitive part of this brain that makes him competitive with ther guy before him I have never asked the couples I have played with if this is true? Is it true or just some rubbish on internet" Yes true for me and my hubby x | |||
"read somewhere that after hotwife plays with another guy, the sex between hubby and her is that much more intense both for her and her husband - esp the husband - there is a primitive part of this brain that makes him competitive with ther guy before him I have never asked the couples I have played with if this is true? Is it true or just some rubbish on internet Yes true for me and my hubby x" Thats interesting to know - guess hubby wants to “posses” you - I guess its a evolutionary thing lodged in men’s brains | |||
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"Reclaim sex is the best! And I always feel even more in love with him when we have it (cheesy, I know!) Sassy "  | |||
"read somewhere that after hotwife plays with another guy, the sex between hubby and her is that much more intense both for her and her husband - esp the husband - there is a primitive part of this brain that makes him competitive with ther guy before him I have never asked the couples I have played with if this is true? Is it true or just some rubbish on internet Yes true for me and my hubby x" Absolutely true for us, hubby cums loads  | |||
"Yes indeed, my ex always wanted to reclaim me after watching other men fuck me, which we both absolutely loved. " I thought so! Its something I wondered about in the past..I guess its hardwired into our animal DNA - that a lady who has sex with a man who is not her hubby , then her hubby is hardwired to want to have sex with her... I have played with a lady and then watched as her hubby fucks her - and was struck by their sexual intensity but had assumed it was the way they always had sex - but i guess its the reclaim part that gives it extra intensity.. | |||
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"The look hubby gives me when I walk in the door from a meet with another man, it's hot! And then he just takes me there and then and reminds me I'm his - gets me so horny. We both love reclaim sex! Mrs x " I knew it! | |||
"The look hubby gives me when I walk in the door from a meet with another man, it's hot! And then he just takes me there and then and reminds me I'm his - gets me so horny. We both love reclaim sex! Mrs x " | |||
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"Definitely true. I always feel incredibly close to my husband after he has had me after another man has had me. The reclaim is the best part for me. Mrs N x" There is a common thread here - i thought as much. Obviously being a single guy, its not something I am part of - but something i have noticed a few times...its a very erotic thought.. | |||
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"Reclaim sex is the best! And I always feel even more in love with him when we have it (cheesy, I know!) Sassy " Ours is so intense and we feel that way as well!! | |||
"Coming from a woman who never been in this situation ever... I must admit, when I noticed a woman trying to flirt with my exes... It really turns me on when he comes back to me! I want him more than ever.. So this theory must be true. " yes it works both ways, it either works for you or not. We feel so much closer after | |||
"Coming from a woman who never been in this situation ever... I must admit, when I noticed a woman trying to flirt with my exes... It really turns me on when he comes back to me! I want him more than ever.. So this theory must be true. " Its really interesting that it works for a woman as well as a man... | |||
"read somewhere that after hotwife plays with another guy, the sex between hubby and her is that much more intense both for her and her husband - esp the husband - there is a primitive part of this brain that makes him competitive with ther guy before him I have never asked the couples I have played with if this is true? Is it true or just some rubbish on internet" It's true for us. | |||
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"It's great to hear. Have you couples let the guy you've met watch you reconnect or is it too private to share? " Haven't done that. I guess it's cuz the guy doesn't come home with me so he won't see our reclaim sex. Have had a mmf but that's different as they take turns. Mrs x | |||
"Coming from a woman who never been in this situation ever... I must admit, when I noticed a woman trying to flirt with my exes... It really turns me on when he comes back to me! I want him more than ever.. So this theory must be true. Its really interesting that it works for a woman as well as a man..." Had a mff recently and was the first time seeing my guy fuck and pleasure another woman. Was such a turn on and I couldn't wait to reclaim him as my own. Definitely either works for you or doesn't, as someone else said. Mrs x | |||
"Yes indeed, my ex always wanted to reclaim me after watching other men fuck me, which we both absolutely loved. " This | |||
"Coming from a woman who never been in this situation ever... I must admit, when I noticed a woman trying to flirt with my exes... It really turns me on when he comes back to me! I want him more than ever.. So this theory must be true. Its really interesting that it works for a woman as well as a man... Its interesting that it works both ways - Had a mff recently and was the first time seeing my guy fuck and pleasure another woman. Was such a turn on and I couldn't wait to reclaim him as my own. Definitely either works for you or doesn't, as someone else said. Mrs x " | |||
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"It's great to hear. Have you couples let the guy you've met watch you reconnect or is it too private to share? Haven't done that. I guess it's cuz the guy doesn't come home with me so he won't see our reclaim sex. Have had a mmf but that's different as they take turns. Mrs x " That's true. It could work if you are staying in a hotel and the guy gets ready to go but just before he leaves he gets to watch you two have incredible reclaim sex. | |||
"We both want reclaim sex after a meet. In fact for us it’s probably the best part no matter how much we’ve enjoyed the company. We have often carried on well into the next day. It’s incredibly raw and passionate. Also very private. We would never consider another person watching us. We’ve shared our bodies with other people, reclaim is all about the two of us. Miss V" | |||
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"We both have the most intense orgasm when I get home from a meet "Thats wonderful to hear - I knew i was on to something here... | |||
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"I love reclaiming with my mouth, a grateful kiss we call it x "?? What do you mean?? | |||
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"We definitely do this!!! We always reclaim each other. If we don't it does not feel right. We always start and finish with each other too xxx" Wow - thats a great way of doing it - interesting that you start with each other - never thought that my fab friends may have played with each other before i arrived... | |||
"We definitely do this!!! We always reclaim each other. If we don't it does not feel right. We always start and finish with each other too xxx" It definitely doesn't feel right if not reclaimed. That was the best, when he reminded me how i should be fucked. | |||
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"We definitely do this!!! We always reclaim each other. If we don't it does not feel right. We always start and finish with each other too xxx It definitely doesn't feel right if not reclaimed. That was the best, when he reminded me how i should be fucked." Really interesting that you say - that its doenst feel right - if hubby doesnt fuck you after you have played with others.. Obv as single guy, I dont have a hotwife (wish I had!) but can kind of get how hubby must feel - interesting that you enjoy the reclaim sex as Mitch as him - shows there is that part of our animal DNA that wants to reclaim the primary partner | |||
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"Nice thread. I'd like the opportunity to try reclaim sex. " You'll have to get your wife out there meeting some guys. | |||
"We do it every time. It doesn't matter how tired we are or how much sex we've had. We will always have sex with each other after a fun night before we go to sleep x" Us too! Sometimes on the drive home we just feel like sleeping, but once we’re home we always end up making love. | |||
"definitely a unparalleled experience, the whole build up to me fucking someone else to hubby reclaiming me is as intense as it gets x" This! It's still very new for us and our sex life has always been fantastic but if I'm looking for a meet or come back from one it is so intense. It's the whole point in doing it I think | |||
"definitely a unparalleled experience, the whole build up to me fucking someone else to hubby reclaiming me is as intense as it gets x This! It's still very new for us and our sex life has always been fantastic but if I'm looking for a meet or come back from one it is so intense. It's the whole point in doing it I think " That is the whole point of going it, to add to your sex life. | |||
"We do it every time. It doesn't matter how tired we are or how much sex we've had. We will always have sex with each other after a fun night before we go to sleep x Us too! Sometimes on the drive home we just feel like sleeping, but once we’re home we always end up making love." Thats really interesting to know - once having played with a wife, with her husband there. I then watched as hubby pounced onhis wife with a raw intensity. Am always intrigued what couples do after I leave ...it seems the sex they have after another person is involved is different to what happens when they are alone together.. | |||
"Nice thread. I'd like the opportunity to try reclaim sex. You'll have to get your wife out there meeting some guys. "I agree with this! I need to find a lovely, sexy hotwife who wants to be shared.. | |||
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"I’m here "Good to hear!! | |||
"Yes always makes for intense sex between us. after sam has had sex with another guy."  | |||
"Reclaim sex is the best! And I always feel even more in love with him when we have it (cheesy, I know!) Sassy " | |||
"read somewhere that after hotwife plays with another guy, the sex between hubby and her is that much more intense both for her and her husband - esp the husband - there is a primitive part of this brain that makes him competitive with ther guy before him I have never asked the couples I have played with if this is true? Is it true or just some rubbish on internet" Very true. | |||
"It's not just with hotwife/ cuck couples." Depending on the way the cuck couple play, there maybe no reclaim sex at all. Denial of reclaiming can be part of the confirmation that the wife is no longer yours. | |||
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"Is amazing. Never given it a name before " Glad that we have put a name to it and that it is a “real thing” | |||
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"100% true. K gets wetter than I’ve ever known when I show her vids of me fucking girls. The hotter the girl the better. We have unbelievable sex after that" It never occured to me that it would work the other way around as well - wow! | |||
"Reclaim sex is the best! And I always feel even more in love with him when we have it (cheesy, I know!) Sassy " I don't think it's cheesy I think it shows honesty and that you are very much in love | |||
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"Oh yes, Sometimes after some naughtiness with a guy that has been an expert lover and has provided some good sex I feel the need to up my game, which is good isn't it "Confused? You mean Mr N has to be in top of game because Mrs N has played with another guy? | |||
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"Definitely LOVE reclaim... I (hubby) like to have sex with her on an mmf meet too, have even finished inside, and let the guest continue, after.. That reclaim was the hottest yet !" Thats bloody hot to read - its great to read your thoughts about reclaim sex... | |||
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"100% true. K gets wetter than I’ve ever known when I show her vids of me fucking girls. The hotter the girl the better. We have unbelievable sex after that It never occured to me that it would work the other way around as well - wow!" That’s how we started! | |||
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"read somewhere that after hotwife plays with another guy, the sex between hubby and her is that much more intense both for her and her husband - esp the husband - there is a primitive part of this brain that makes him competitive with ther guy before him I have never asked the couples I have played with if this is true? Is it true or just some rubbish on internet" | |||
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"Very very true
read somewhere that after hotwife plays with another guy, the sex between hubby and her is that much more intense both for her and her husband - esp the husband - there is a primitive part of this brain that makes him competitive with ther guy before him
I have never asked the couples I have played with if this is true? Is it true or just some rubbish on internet"Great to hear that so many couples do indeed have intense reclaim sex... | |||
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"I don't think I've ever seen in the forums such resounding agreement on something!! " I agree - i think we have hit on a common kink - ie that deep in our primitive animal brains is the urge to “ repossess” our wife/husband after they have had sex with someone else...i had assumed that is was just husbands wanting to reclaim their wives knowing that another guy had fucked them but it appears that women want to reclaim their husband after he has had sex with someone else - it seems clear that its a common desire... | |||
"This isn't just the hotwife scenario - the same can be said of couples playing in clubs and at parties. Sex with my ex partner was always mind blowing after a party." Yes - that makes sense as well - as has become clear to me reading the comments on teh thread.. | |||
"My mrs wants me to cum in them always! I’ve gotta tell her how it felt and how horny I was. Honestly, she was like a river of wetness! " That I have never heard - but very horny | |||
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"read somewhere that after hotwife plays with another guy, the sex between hubby and her is that much more intense both for her and her husband - esp the husband - there is a primitive part of this brain that makes him competitive with ther guy before him I have never asked the couples I have played with if this is true? Is it true or just some rubbish on internet" Reclaim sex is some of the best, most intense sex we’ve had. We both love it | |||
"It's our thing " reclaim". I'm more than happy to be lent, he's very happy to share. However, M is always last in, to "reclaim" his girl back. We also love the verbal tease of us talking about the cocks I've just taken. Makes him come hard and lots. " I love the tease talk. It’s just a bit of fun. Nothing heavy. I’m so looking forward to this. | |||
"First time in chameleons last night and what a night. When Mrs wakes up we'll probably have our best reclaim sex yet, after a horny debrief of what we got up to. Wake up Mrs!" I bet you are so aroused just waiting and reliving the night you both just had?! | |||
"It's our thing " reclaim". I'm more than happy to be lent, he's very happy to share. However, M is always last in, to "reclaim" his girl back. We also love the verbal tease of us talking about the cocks I've just taken. Makes him come hard and lots. " Love the fact that you (mrs) tell hubby about the cocks that have fucked you - can see the intensity of that verbal talk | |||
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"read somewhere that after hotwife plays with another guy, the sex between hubby and her is that much more intense both for her and her husband - esp the husband - there is a primitive part of this brain that makes him competitive with ther guy before him I have never asked the couples I have played with if this is true? Is it true or just some rubbish on internet" This is deffo the way we roll | |||
"From the journal of evolutionary psychology. An article about this very subject,... Do Men Produce Higher Quality Ejaculates When Primed With Thoughts of Partner Infidelity? Michael N. Pham, Nicole Barbaro, Andrew M. Holub, ......Cuckoldry is likely to have been a recurrent adaptive problem for ancestral men over human evolutionary history (Baker & Shackelford, 2017). Estimates indicate approximately 3.1% of children are genetically unrelated to their social father (Voracek, Haubner, & Fisher, 2008), with estimates as high as 29.8% for men with low paternity confidence (Anderson, 2006). Given the substantial costs imposed on men as a result of cuckoldry, it is reasonable to suggest that men may have evolved solutions to address problems of sperm competition including cognitive, behavioral, and physiological adaptations responsive to sperm competition risk (see Baker & Bellis, 1993; Kilgallon & Simmons, 2005; Pham & Shackelford, 2014). Psychological and behavioral adaptations to sperm competition in humans include adjustments of mate retention behaviors and copulatory behaviors (Pham & Shackelford, 2014; Shackelford & Goetz, 2007). More physically attractive females present greater sperm competition risk than less attractive females, and therefore, men partnered to women who present a greater risk of sperm competition (i.e., they are more attractive) copulate more frequently with them (Pham et al., 2014) and perform more semen displacing behaviors during copulation (Goetz et al., 2005). Men partnered to women who spend more time around potential male rivals also report greater interest in copulating with their partner (Pham & Shackelford, 2013). These findings suggest that men are attentive to cues of sperm competition and show corresponding cognitive and behavioral changes. Additional research with humans suggests that men can adjust their ejaculate as a function of sperm competition risk (Baker & Bellis, 1995). Men who spend a greater proportion of time apart from their regular partner since the couple’s last copulation (i.e., indexing greater sperm competition risk) ejaculate a greater number of sperm at the couple’s next copulation (Baker & Bellis, 1993). Men produce masturbatory ejaculates containing a greater percentage of motile sperm when viewing pornography depicting two men and one woman (i.e., a cue to sperm competition) than when viewing pornography depicting three women (i.e., absence of sperm competition; Kilgallon & Simmons, 2005). " Sperm competition ! Love the term - brings out the animal in me - interesting that men produce more sperm masterbating to MMF porn than FFF porn - kinda makes sense | |||
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"Oh yes, Sometimes after some naughtiness with a guy that has been an expert lover and has provided some good sex I feel the need to up my game, which is good isn't it
Confused? You mean Mr N has to be in top of game because Mrs N has played with another guy?"Yes that's what I was saying. | |||
"Scientists do kink too!" Would love to be involved in that research - how interesting that guys if they have been away from their wives when they do have mroe sex with her will produce more sperm in case she has fucked another guy - truly sperm competition ! | |||
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"Ours is slightly different very intense for me huge orgasm she s more relaxed already fully satisfied relaxed bk n gives me just details during sex n I’ve no pressure to Mke her come as she fully satisfied but trust me re claim sex is the best for me" It works for both of you. | |||
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"I don't think so there's anything about competition. The other guy is just a toy boy but the hubby is permanent here . He feels proud of his wife that she played without him and then giving details about how she kissed him,blowed him or got licked . The fine lusty details makes it more intense ." Thats interesting to hear - its interesting to hear that the sex afterwards between hubby and wife is more intense knowing that each/both have fucked other people | |||
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"For me the reclaim sex I have with my partner is very much on another level. She may have had a guy half my age and a far better endowed and longer lasting lover. However when he has gone or she comes home the chemistry and passion that exists is something very rare and beautiful to feel! " Thats wonderful to hear - how much you enjoy the reclaim after your partner has been with another lover... | |||
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"We both want reclaim sex after a meet. In fact for us it’s probably the best part no matter how much we’ve enjoyed the company. We have often carried on well into the next day. It’s incredibly raw and passionate. Also very private. We would never consider another person watching us. We’ve shared our bodies with other people, reclaim is all about the two of us. Miss V" Same for us too. Invariably we just have to stop somewhere on the drive home after a meet with others. Never mind waiting until we get home, we cannot keep our hands off one another and the sex is simply mind-blowing. | |||
"We both want reclaim sex after a meet. In fact for us it’s probably the best part no matter how much we’ve enjoyed the company. We have often carried on well into the next day. It’s incredibly raw and passionate. Also very private. We would never consider another person watching us. We’ve shared our bodies with other people, reclaim is all about the two of us. Miss V Same for us too. Invariably we just have to stop somewhere on the drive home after a meet with others. Never mind waiting until we get home, we cannot keep our hands off one another and the sex is simply mind-blowing." Wow - i didnt realise the desire to reclaim your primary partner after they have fucked someone else was so intense. From this and the other comments, clearly reclaim sex is prevalent | |||
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"read somewhere that after hotwife plays with another guy, the sex between hubby and her is that much more intense both for her and her husband - esp the husband - there is a primitive part of this brain that makes him competitive with ther guy before him I have never asked the couples I have played with if this is true? Is it true or just some rubbish on internet" It’s absolutely true. I only heard it called reclaim sex recently but it is about a hot a session that a hubby and wife will have in our experience | |||
"First time in chameleons last night and what a night. When Mrs wakes up we'll probably have our best reclaim sex yet, after a horny debrief of what we got up to. Wake up Mrs!I bet you are so aroused just waiting and reliving the night you both just had?! " Oh yes we did, amazing. | |||
"The sex that I have with my husband when I've spent time with another man, is very intense and primal...I absolutely love it! I never feel more desired than when he's either watched another man/other men fuck me, or I've been out with another man on my own. He loves to ask me about it while he reclaims me, it turns us both on so much and the resulting orgasms are intense for both of us. Equally as important as the sex, is the cuddling and closeness we enjoy afterwards...I always feel such a surge of love for him, for giving me the freedom to be completely myself, and loving me as I am...unconditionally. I'm a very lucky girl!
V x "Well said, Mrs Ravensong! Indeed, well said..! | |||
"The sex that I have with my husband when I've spent time with another man, is very intense and primal...I absolutely love it! I never feel more desired than when he's either watched another man/other men fuck me, or I've been out with another man on my own. He loves to ask me about it while he reclaims me, it turns us both on so much and the resulting orgasms are intense for both of us. Equally as important as the sex, is the cuddling and closeness we enjoy afterwards...I always feel such a surge of love for him, for giving me the freedom to be completely myself, and loving me as I am...unconditionally. I'm a very lucky girl!
V x "Having met you both, I could certainly see how strong a couple you are. Here's to meeting up again soon. | |||
"First time in chameleons last night and what a night. When Mrs wakes up we'll probably have our best reclaim sex yet, after a horny debrief of what we got up to. Wake up Mrs!I bet you are so aroused just waiting and reliving the night you both just had?! Oh yes we did, amazing." For me as a guy who's been lucky enough to meet some fantastic couples, is what I love to hear. | |||
"The sex that I have with my husband when I've spent time with another man, is very intense and primal...I absolutely love it! I never feel more desired than when he's either watched another man/other men fuck me, or I've been out with another man on my own. He loves to ask me about it while he reclaims me, it turns us both on so much and the resulting orgasms are intense for both of us. Equally as important as the sex, is the cuddling and closeness we enjoy afterwards...I always feel such a surge of love for him, for giving me the freedom to be completely myself, and loving me as I am...unconditionally. I'm a very lucky girl!
V x Having met you both, I could certainly see how strong a couple you are. Here's to meeting up again soon. "If you can engineer it so that you're in our neck of the woods sometime, I'm sure we can make that happen. V x | |||
"I love reclaiming with my mouth, a grateful kiss we call it x
?? What do you mean??"What he means is, as a cuckold he still doesn't get to fuck me afterwards, but he likes to 'reclaim' his place by either a simple kiss on my cunt or if he is lucky he gets lick me to orgasm. He is so very grateful for having a man satisfy me, better than he could...hence he calls it 'a grateful kiss' | |||
"I love reclaiming with my mouth, a grateful kiss we call it x
?? What do you mean??
What he means is, as a cuckold he still doesn't get to fuck me afterwards, but he likes to 'reclaim' his place by either a simple kiss on my cunt or if he is lucky he gets lick me to orgasm. He is so very grateful for having a man satisfy me, better than he could...hence he calls it 'a grateful kiss' "It sounds like you both have progressed fairly far down the cuckold spectrum. | |||
"I love reclaiming with my mouth, a grateful kiss we call it x
?? What do you mean??
What he means is, as a cuckold he still doesn't get to fuck me afterwards, but he likes to 'reclaim' his place by either a simple kiss on my cunt or if he is lucky he gets lick me to orgasm. He is so very grateful for having a man satisfy me, better than he could...hence he calls it 'a grateful kiss' "Thats an interesting angle on the whole reclaim process - never thought of it that way,..but makes sense | |||
"read somewhere that after hotwife plays with another guy, the sex between hubby and her is that much more intense both for her and her husband - esp the husband - there is a primitive part of this brain that makes him competitive with ther guy before him I have never asked the couples I have played with if this is true? Is it true or just some rubbish on internet" It's true for us...both ways;-) | |||
