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A catfish case study
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5pm I spot the profile of an attractive local woman, so I send her a msg referring to her profile and attach a face pic. She has one public pic, one friends only,a published veri (from two meets) and has been on the site for 10 months.
She replies within a few mins, asking if I can accom for a quickie. I tell her I can and she asks where I am.
She tells me that she will be near my area in 30 mins and that she will come by.
OK, sounds good. I'm thinking that maybe she's a carer and will be on a break.
She wants me to confirm what I will and won't do and asks for a face pic, so she knows who she's meeting.
I reply that as it's short notice, we'll stick to oral on this occasion and remind her that I attached a pic with my first msg and ask if I can have one of her (as the one on her profile is a body shot)
Two mins later she replies "that's fine" and I send her a photo that I just took.
Then nothing
Made me make my bed for nowt LOL |
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In fairness I'd run a mile from anyone who suggested meeting in a second message firvacquivkie. Probably fake but if not who really wants to be fucked for nothing more than being local and available? |
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Had similar happen a few times now! We get a bad rep us men when the ladies are just as bad... if it is a lady of course 
Some people have too much time on their hands  |
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"5pm I spot the profile of an attractive local woman, so I send her a msg referring to her profile and attach a face pic. She has one public pic, one friends only,a published veri (from two meets) and has been on the site for 10 months.
She replies within a few mins, asking if I can accom for a quickie. I tell her I can and she asks where I am.
She tells me that she will be near my area in 30 mins and that she will come by.
OK, sounds good. I'm thinking that maybe she's a carer and will be on a break.
She wants me to confirm what I will and won't do and asks for a face pic, so she knows who she's meeting.
I reply that as it's short notice, we'll stick to oral on this occasion and remind her that I attached a pic with my first msg and ask if I can have one of her (as the one on her profile is a body shot)
Two mins later she replies "that's fine" and I send her a photo that I just took.
Then nothing
Made me make my bed for nowt LOL"
Who is the catfish? You sent her a pic and and she decided against meeting. |
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There are lots of catfishers lol
I regularly see new 'couples' profiles with amazingly wording to 'new' profiles last week lol
If it seems to be good to be true.....then it fucking is mate ??
It's most likely she is a he  |
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"There are lots of catfishers lol
I regularly see new 'couples' profiles with amazingly wording to 'new' profiles last week lol
If it seems to be good to be true.....then it fucking is mate ??
It's most likely she is a he "
He took a walk on the wild side |
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Second thoughts, or something came up? If you had developed a long term relationship, rather than chatted via text for a near immediate quick oral session, it may have been catfishing.
It was a low commitment involvement of time and effort etc, for a basic level of sexual interaction, with someone you didn't even know how they looked. Evaluate your assessment criteria and expectations, otherwise it could be a life of disappointment, without doing so.
All meetings aren't confirmed, until I have seen someone in person and know that we like each other and there's reliability. There are lots of recent active posts about reliability that may give OP and others some good ideas, to improve your experience here. Anyone messing anyone else around is awful and I advise reporting inappropriate behaviour to admin, who investigate and evaluate, helping to maintain site standards  |
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I had a woman message me tonight. She asked if I wanted to meet on Monday, completely out of the blue.
I replied that I would love to.
She deleted my message without reading it.
I don’t understand people. |
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"I had a woman message me tonight. She asked if I wanted to meet on Monday, completely out of the blue.
I replied that I would love to.
She deleted my message without reading it.
I don’t understand people. "
'She'jizzed just because you replied |
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"I had a woman message me tonight. She asked if I wanted to meet on Monday, completely out of the blue.
I replied that I would love to.
She deleted my message without reading it.
I don’t understand people.
'She'jizzed just because you replied "
Really?
Wow I didn’t know I was that good lol. |
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"Women get their kicks from attention so this kind of thing will be common. Several times women message me a poor one liner and then ignore my response "
First time for me. |
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"I had a woman message me tonight. She asked if I wanted to meet on Monday, completely out of the blue.
I replied that I would love to.
She deleted my message without reading it.
I don’t understand people. "
That was just Sydney University research. They are a strange bunch. |
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"I had a woman message me tonight. She asked if I wanted to meet on Monday, completely out of the blue.
I replied that I would love to.
She deleted my message without reading it.
I don’t understand people.
That was just Sydney University research. They are a strange bunch."
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"I had a woman message me tonight. She asked if I wanted to meet on Monday, completely out of the blue.
I replied that I would love to.
She deleted my message without reading it.
I don’t understand people.
That was just Sydney University research. They are a strange bunch."
I’ve seen some profiles with a disclaimer at the end. Does this actually work? How can it be enforceable? |
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"In fairness I'd run a mile from anyone who suggested meeting in a second message firvacquivkie. Probably fake but if not who really wants to be fucked for nothing more than being local and available?"
I get that all the time and I send a polite message back saying "I think you have the wrong site"..This is t a sex site lol.... I don't get s reply lol  |
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"Unlikely that a woman on fab would ask to meet you on the 2nd message. "
Note to myself - stop messaging men out of the blue asking if they want to meet tonight straight off. Wait for the 3rd message to ask. |
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"Unlikely that a woman on fab would ask to meet you on the 2nd message.
Note to myself - stop messaging men out of the blue asking if they want to meet tonight straight off. Wait for the 3rd message to ask."
Even easier, just ask on the first  |
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