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By *T90ee OP Man over a year ago

croydon

Ok sure many threads on this,

but penis size.

we all know most women can be happy with Mr. Average so long as he knows what he’s doing. and even heard women say “it’s not something that bothers me’

if you’re one of these women (‘ it really doesn’t me ) can you answer this. Does it actually still feel better when someone with a bigger one first enters. The feeling that’s given in tightness and so on. Even though that isn’t what makes good sex. But does bigger one still have an advantage in this stage an average doesn’t at this stage?

so to put bluntly, size doesn’t bother you. But does the bigger one being tighter actually feel better for you than Mr. Average entering

honest feedback please and don’t drift off topic, I know chemistry and love play a role but I’m asking from a purely physical side.

I know this is a forum but come on no trolling on this.

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By *eatrice BadinageWoman over a year ago

In a Sparkly Dress

They all feel the same to me when first entering, love the stretching feeling round it as he slowly pushes In

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bigger than average hurts me, I don't like that stretch feeling its like a Chinese burn and not pleasurable for me. Gimme average or less girthy any day of the week, I love the feeling of him sliding in with no pain.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 big definitely hurts, but that said I do prefer girth over length. I get extremely wet so it's easy really...

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By *T90ee OP Man over a year ago

croydon

Oh wow this wasn’t the answers I was expecting :S this is by no offence to you ladies as obviously - you like what you like.

I’m still interested in more comments

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, I am happy with average, it really is about skill though too. Bigger sometimes means less finesse,(in my experience) again, not always. I have had well endowed lovers with extremely good skills too.

I find that girth is more the indicator of that filling feeling that you mentioned OP.

And how hard they are- rock hard is so much nicer!

I do think men worry about size, when they should be more concerned with being reactive, there is no correct answer, because every woman is different, every man is different and each time can have different elements and factors.

Sometimes I am more sensitive around my cervix at different times in my cycle, so even that can make a difference on how deeply I want to be penetrated.

But by altering the angle of my hips and tensing my buttocks, I can lessen the depth of penetration, for example!

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By *T90ee OP Man over a year ago

croydon

You’re happy average. Does this mean you’d still rather someone with bigger than average ?

For example

Two males 1 with 8’’ 5’’ girth

1 with 6.5’’ 5’’ girth

Both skilled equally and both have the same level of attraction.

Who do you chose ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You’re happy average. Does this mean you’d still rather someone with bigger than average ?

For example

Two males 1 with 8’’ 5’’ girth

1 with 6.5’’ 5’’ girth

Both skilled equally and both have the same level of attraction.

Who do you chose ?"

I'd go for the smaller one every time

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By *ornyhappyCouple over a year ago

perth

Far prefer average to big.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op why do you ask?

My experience of these forums over the 4 years I've been on and off would say that these questions usually come from a guy with a big cock who can't understand why women won't choose him and his massive chopper over a guy with a smaller one.

In my experience the very large majority don't care about size, only the few actively look for massive cocks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What is a lot of girth to women?

For example, I'm 6 inch girth, is that a lot or not?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I personally had all sorts of sizes. My favourite size so far been 8 inches by 5.5 inches, curved with big helmet. Felt amazing going in etc. Bigger the better in my opinion. I just learn to relax and get very wet for the sexy big ones as long as the lover good at foreplay, it's all good

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By *T90ee OP Man over a year ago

croydon

No I’m on the larger side of average.

I ask because of a conversation with my ex.

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman over a year ago

Near Bourne

I find bigger than average painful. So no, bigger ones dont feel better when first going in.

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By *ave1976XXXMan over a year ago

newmarket

Big is good to look at Whist wanking and good to suck. Great to be fucked by

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By *T90ee OP Man over a year ago

croydon

What about after? Is the sex the same more painful? Or do I prefer larger once you’re at it?

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By *ave1976XXXMan over a year ago

newmarket

"What about after? Is the sex the same more painful? Or do I prefer larger once you’re at it?"

It’s painful to start

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By *nfamousbutFunWoman over a year ago

Maidenhead

I used to say I like a good size. But then I went and broke my vagina. I got a tens kegal exercise machine for post natal reasons in an attempt to fix what I had then affectionately named the bat cave. Well I went and got over excited at the fact it worked and now if someone puts two fingers in me too roughly I yelp. Average size is perfection for me. My partner has a slightly above average, 7 1/2 inches I believe was his last measuring tape moment of strangeness in the bathroom and there are still certain positions I just can’t take him in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im just under 10 inches and find it hard and wish it was smaller as so many women don’t enjoy it , seems more as a novelty piece than anything else

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By *T90ee OP Man over a year ago

croydon

I wasn’t asking you lol

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By *T90ee OP Man over a year ago

croydon

What about after? Do you prefer the bigger size to average?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From the bonsai master with his small tools doing fine detailed work or professional arboretist with industrial size chainsaw..

Not the size of your chopper its how you perfect your craft n skill.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman over a year ago

Hampshire

I've said it once and I'll say it again......

Big cocks (in my personal experience) do not get as hard as the more 'average' sized cock.

Big cocks can be painful.

I do enjoy the girth of a large cock but not the length.

I suppose what it comes down to is also the size of a ladies vagina??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"From the bonsai master with his small tools doing fine detailed work or professional arboretist with industrial size chainsaw..

Not the size of your chopper its how you perfect your craft n skill.

Oh wow! I think I’ll steal this! Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"From the bonsai master with his small tools doing fine detailed work or professional arboretist with industrial size chainsaw..

Not the size of your chopper its how you perfect your craft n skill.

Oh wow! I think I’ll steal this! Thanks!

If you FAB my photos x... Lol

Your welcome x

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By *nfamousbutFunWoman over a year ago

Maidenhead

"What about after? Do you prefer the bigger size to average?"

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The bigger one for me personally... I like to feel completely full x

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By *T90ee OP Man over a year ago

croydon

Well with my ex. She always said “a dicks just a dick”

She the later said when asked if she liked big dicks she said no.

And when we talked about 3 somes and I mentioned about the guy having a bigger one than me she said I’d still be able to make her cum after.

But what i don’t get is as one point she said big ones can hurt.

But surely even though she said “a dicks just a dick’ she surly has a preference ? Or am I wrong?

I know she’s had some ex partners who had big ones. But said our sex was better.

She also was known to lie when it came to stuff about sex.

I’m not sure wether she was just happy with mine but preferred bigger or not.

I did say if I could make it bigger she said ‘I wouldn’t want you too because I’m happy with how it is now’

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF) over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

If it's the same size as mine I won't complain.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've said it once and I'll say it again......

Big cocks (in my personal experience) do not get as hard as the more 'average' sized cock.

Big cocks can be painful.

I do enjoy the girth of a large cock but not the length.

I suppose what it comes down to is also the size of a ladies vagina??"

Can you say it again I didn't get it ?

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By *antra MassageMan over a year ago

Old bog road

I'm very happy with my size, however most of the women I've had sex with were not. Far too big and uncomfortable, most of them said. Or we could only have sex in certain positions. And I usually can't let loose, as most want me to hold back a bit.

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By *ave1976XXXMan over a year ago

newmarket

"I'm very happy with my size, however most of the women I've had sex with were not. Far too big and uncomfortable, most of them said. Or we could only have sex in certain positions. And I usually can't let loose, as most want me to hold back a bit. "

I won’t complain lol. Big is best

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone’s preference is different. Luckily there is all shapes and size for people to chose from

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By *lice AgainTV/TS over a year ago

Bristol

Definitely realising I like bigger.

I thought I was average. Apparently I'm not. But I'd like me or bigger...

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By *T90ee OP Man over a year ago

croydon

What I dont understand and maybe you ladies can help me with this.

My ex has consistently said she doesn't care about size. "A dick is just a dick"

Surely she has a preference or can this sometimes not be the case?

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By *ungscotsman26Man over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm not trolling but reading this perhaps you maybe have some unresolved issues with your ex? I genuinely don't mean that in a bad way. But you just need to be happy with what you have and forget what she said

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By *T90ee OP Man over a year ago

croydon

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By *T90ee OP Man over a year ago

croydon

You're 100% right about the unresolved issues dude.

But is it common for women to not actually have a preference?

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By *ungscotsman26Man over a year ago

Glasgow

I'd say some have a preference for sure. But genuinely some don't.

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By *T90ee OP Man over a year ago

croydon

Cheers dude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bigger than average hurts me, I don't like that stretch feeling its like a Chinese burn and not pleasurable for me. Gimme average or less girthy any day of the week, I love the feeling of him sliding in with no pain. "

This.

We are all different. I fucking LOVE that feeling that u find so unpleasant

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By *wink loverMan over a year ago

Newcastle

You seem to be doing alright for yourself mate. Don't overthink things. Let the ex go and keep on having fun

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By *s Daisy MillerWoman over a year ago

Room 101

I prefer girth over length as it can be painful if the guy gets carried away. But also I have had the pleasure of a few VWE guys on fab of whom I thought absolutely not . But they were gentle and took their time and they felt amazing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This.

We are all different. I fucking LOVE that feeling that u find so unpleasant

Somebody for everybody on here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I personally had all sorts of sizes. My favourite size so far been 8 inches by 5.5 inches, curved with big helmet. Felt amazing going in etc. Bigger the better in my opinion. I just learn to relax and get very wet for the sexy big ones as long as the lover good at foreplay, it's all good

Very precise measurements - do you get the tape measure out before, or afterwards? #passionkiller

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By *eavenNhellCouple over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

penis size is the reason women cant reverse park as they have been lied to consistently about what constitutes 12 inches

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

No. I've had all size variations and enjoyed similarly. What I need at each point varies too.

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By *ess n BenCouple over a year ago

Didcot

I (Jess) perfer mr avarage the big penis I find painful and uncomfortable

But it’s not size it’s the guy and how he treats you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Long and thin may go all the way in but short and thick really does the trick

I dont think it's the size but the lover...not keen on cervix bashers tbh...ouch

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By *uscularLoveMan over a year ago

london

Lets be honest (99%) girls like big dicks.

Not massive ones but above average.

Anything less than 6 inches she gonna lie to you cus she loves you and doesn't wanna hurt your feelings.

Just know if you with a girl and u take out anything less than 5 inches she will be very dissapionted.

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By *uscularLoveMan over a year ago

london

The way I see it.

It's all about proportion.

If you go to put it in, and it just slides in with no pressure. She ain't gonna enjoy it bro.

If you have to push it in and squeeze in those last few inches. Then you guys are sexually compatible and she gonna enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At the end of the day you have what you have so why worry about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women who are with men with smaller than average penis sizes report better sexual satisfaction than women with bigger than average.

Here is why. Guys with average or smaller than average know they are. So are better at everything else to 'compensate'.

Now that is not true for every guy who is bigger /smaller but overall it is. Guys with massive cocks often will just whipit out and think that is good enough for her.

Obviously I am larger than average and am great at all the other stuff too...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One reason the “ rabbit” vibrator is so successful is I guess the size is perfect for most women. Personally I like to be stretched a fair bit and my favourite toys are about 2.5” to 3” diameter and about 10” long.

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By *icence to thrillMan over a year ago

Barnsley

"Women who are with men with smaller than average penis sizes report better sexual satisfaction than women with bigger than average.

Here is why. Guys with average or smaller than average know they are. So are better at everything else to 'compensate'.

Now that is not true for every guy who is bigger /smaller but overall it is. Guys with massive cocks often will just whipit out and think that is good enough for her.

Obviously I am larger than average and am great at all the other stuff too...

Im certainly agree ..im not slighly less than average but boy does my tongue and mouth fingers know there jobs

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By *T90ee OP Man over a year ago

croydon

Well definitely bit in the 5" area thank fuck! Maybe I do worry to much

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By *ugardadcleanerMan over a year ago

cirencester

ladies check out Big Harold. Missus wants

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By *eachPreacherMan over a year ago

Canterbury/London

Honestly it seems like the attraction towards larger dicks seems all psychological rather than physical, as a smaller dick can please just as well as a larger one from what I've been told

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anything more than 8inches in length and it hurts to much to enjoy a good sex session.

I prefer girth over length

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is a question that's been asked 1000's of times on here and from what I've read, on average woman prefer average.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple over a year ago

Herne Bay

F half here if we meet couples not really bothered about size long as they are considerate lovers ,but if meeting single men I normally like to treat myself to a big one why not it’s my indulgence

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By *andy2123Couple over a year ago

Portsmouth

"They all feel the same to me when first entering, love the stretching feeling round it as he slowly pushes In

Exactly!!! X

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By *ungmagic10Man over a year ago

Northampton

"I've said it once and I'll say it again......

Big cocks (in my personal experience) do not get as hard as the more 'average' sized cock.

Big cocks can be painful.

I do enjoy the girth of a large cock but not the length.

I suppose what it comes down to is also the size of a ladies vagina??"

Exactly, size match babe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So what size do you woman clase as an avarage male penis size when erected

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So what size do you woman clase as an avarage male penis size when erected "

Around 5.2 is average

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So what size do you woman clase as an avarage male penis size when erected

Around 5.2 is average"

Wow... That means I'm bigger than average???

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"So what size do you woman clase as an avarage male penis size when erected

Around 5.2 is average"

I knew I'd been spoiled for years with what I have at home

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By *untop7Man over a year ago

Eaton

"Op why do you ask?

In my experience the very large majority don't care about size, only the few actively look for massive cocks."

I agree. Its the girth in my medical openion that is better as it can stretch vaginal and ass walls if you happen to go that way too. Sometimes too long for example, as a medic, I have found ladies find it uncomfortable until they get strteched with regular takings.. Hope this makes sense

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By *untop7Man over a year ago

Eaton

"No I’m on the larger side of average.

I ask because of a conversation with my ex."

So how big are you and how girthy are you?

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By *untop7Man over a year ago

Eaton

"Im just under 10 inches and find it hard and wish it was smaller as so many women don’t enjoy it , seems more as a novelty piece than anything else"

You are right... most women find 9 or more quite uncomfortable and us lads like to go balls deep. So Medically average is 5-6 large is 6-8 and XL is all above.

Vagina has a limited stretch and over stretced can cause problems later in life.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Im just under 10 inches and find it hard and wish it was smaller as so many women don’t enjoy it , seems more as a novelty piece than anything else

You are right... most women find 9 or more quite uncomfortable and us lads like to go balls deep. So Medically average is 5-6 large is 6-8 and XL is all above.

Vagina has a limited stretch and over stretced can cause problems later in life."

Vaginal stretching from any size of penis is not going to cause any such problems. It's the over stretching from pushing a human out that does the damage

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By *untop7Man over a year ago

Eaton

"Definitely realising I like bigger.

I thought I was average. Apparently I'm not. But I'd like me or bigger...

Yes ass can take upto 12 inches..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So what size do you woman clase as an avarage male penis size when erected

Around 5.2 is average"

Aye but your a guy I was wanting to know what a woman's idea of avarage is

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By *k197Man over a year ago

wymondham

I am neither long nor girthy but the wife has not had anyone else so luckily for me doesn't have a comparison lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love this response

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don’t like them big

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So what size do you woman clase as an avarage male penis size when erected

Around 5.2 is average

Aye but your a guy I was wanting to know what a woman's idea of avarage is"

But that's not my idea of average, if you Google that's widely recognised as about the average give or take .1 of an inch.

Ask women and you'll get all different answers.

Some like very big so to them 5.2" is small, others find bigger than average painful so to them 5.2" is on the larger side.

Just accept what you have, there's plenty of women out there who will find your penis size perfect for them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my opinion, real men know better than to mention their size at all. If I want to know your size I will ask.. But I won't because I'm not superficial.

Gets me really angry when people specifically look to have their genitalia mocked or mewl about being small (even if they're actually not).

Bragging about being hUnG is just as gross and an instant turn-off.

If I'm in a situation where you're a stranger at a club and I'm a stranger atva club AND I'm interested I might try but I do know that I have phases where being penetrated is more or less comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From what i see in my local area a lot of women think 6.5-7in in length is average and 5.5in girth is average.

Tho finding what most woman class as girthy is much harder than whats big in length despite more will say they want girth.

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By *untooMan over a year ago

manchester

This has been an interesting read for a guy who has always worried about his size.

It’s amazing how many couples who are looking for single guys or other couples specify the guy must be well endowed.

With the average height of a guy being around 5 ft 10 or so it would seem on here, Most likely I will already be at a size disadvantage compared to the male partner. It’s a little off putting.

I’d love to find a couple or would welcome someone my height etc but definitely feel like I am bottom of the list

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By *uboCouple over a year ago

East kilbride

"I am neither long nor girthy but the wife has not had anyone else so luckily for me doesn't have a comparison lol "

Don't be so sure

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By *jpcockMan over a year ago

Nuneaton

I'm only 7inch long but girthy

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By *iptonblokeMan over a year ago

tipton

Im only 5 and 1/2 inch long 6" girth

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By *wink loverMan over a year ago

Newcastle

"I'm only 7inch long but girthy "

"Only"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The bigger one for me personally... I like to feel completely full x"
... greedy bugger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Girth all the way for the wife ... with a decent 8" length .. happy gal x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think mine is small but fat let me no what you think message me xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don’t look small .

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By *69_maleMan over a year ago

Market Deeping / Chertsey

I had the pleasure of meeting a lady for about half a year, twice a month. She said that over 6" for her was too painful. She was 5'4" nd size 8. Did her size have anything to do with it ? Her pussy size?

I dont think that at all. Its personal preference.

I for one am average size and stated it on my profile, but took it off as too many F/cpl status messages were looking for VWE or VVWE or "HUNG". F or couples that insiste on large size on their profiles, I block as there is no chance, so why bother with my genuine self.

Is penis envy real - yes

Do some fab F / cpls choose based on penis size - yes i reckon so

Does it matter to me, a male - No

Does it have its advantages - yes, with the ladies who prefer smaller

Has it proved advantageous - No, but a cpl I met in a club and wanted to play, I told them no as they did not remember telling me I was too small on a previous meet request.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mine in my profile pic cut and 7.5 inches girls have loved it

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By *anebbwWoman over a year ago

Berwick

I'm very tight and small I prefer the smaller, leaner ones as a general rule. Everything stretches me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm very tight and small I prefer the smaller, leaner ones as a general rule. Everything stretches me!

So my 5.6 inch is perfect for you then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm very tight and small I prefer the smaller, leaner ones as a general rule. Everything stretches me!

Im 5.4inch. At your service.

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By *ooking2play46Man over a year ago

Paisley

Few enjoy it ball deep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its a pain being a man hangin from a dick

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By *uscularLoveMan over a year ago

london

Most couples male counterparts are cuckolds.

Cuckolds generally psychologically enjoy the humiliation of being embarrassed and demasculinated. This highly revolves around watching they're wife get fucked by a bigger,stronger and more well endowed and able man. This is apart of the whole fetish.

Women who are in couples are looking for satisification theyre men can't give them due to lack of ability or size.

Single men don't care.

Tv|Ts want attractive guys.

Single women on here are looking for Sex. A Good dick will more than likely give them what they want with ease. So to save time and effort they will look for a bigger one.

If you have a below than average piece, your best bet is to look for love. Becuase then the women will look past your flaws and have sex with you to make love and want to make you feel good due to an emotional connection.

Or find a girl who has a smaller vagina which can only hold a smaller penis. But that is probably rare on a site like this as most women are stretched out beyond belief.

So obviously if you have a smaller than average penis your probably not going to have an inbox flooded with interest.

I hope this helps you guys with average to below average size.

It's sad but it's reality and sometimes you people get dealt a shitty hand.

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By *ongueFkYouMan over a year ago

Bradford

"I'm very tight and small I prefer the smaller, leaner ones as a general rule. Everything stretches me!

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your pussy does look really tight i love it! is mine big enough for u x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like big and girthy, makes me cum so much quicker.

I feel like being a bigger girl small or average ones dont really work in certain positions

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By *ongueFkYouMan over a year ago

Bradford

"I like big and girthy, makes me cum so much quicker.

I feel like being a bigger girl small or average ones dont really work in certain positions "
what do u think of mine will it do lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hello xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most couples male counterparts are cuckolds.

Women who are in couples are looking for satisification theyre men can't give them due to lack of ability or size.

Single men don't care.

Tv|Ts want attractive guys.

Single women on here are looking for Sex. A Good dick will more than likely give them what they want with ease. So to save time and effort they will look for a bigger one.

Or find a girl who has a smaller vagina which can only hold a smaller penis. But that is probably rare on a site like this as most women are stretched out beyond belief.

So obviously if you have a smaller than average penis your probably not going to have an inbox flooded with interest.

I hope this helps you guys with average to below average size.

It's sad but it's reality and sometimes you people get dealt a shitty hand.

What a load of bollocks

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Most couples male counterparts are cuckolds.

Women who are in couples are looking for satisification theyre men can't give them due to lack of ability or size.

Single men don't care.

Tv|Ts want attractive guys.

Single women on here are looking for Sex. A Good dick will more than likely give them what they want with ease. So to save time and effort they will look for a bigger one.

Or find a girl who has a smaller vagina which can only hold a smaller penis. But that is probably rare on a site like this as most women are stretched out beyond belief.

So obviously if you have a smaller than average penis your probably not going to have an inbox flooded with interest.

I hope this helps you guys with average to below average size.

It's sad but it's reality and sometimes you people get dealt a shitty hand.

What a load of bollocks"

MrMonkey, you beat me to it. Utter codswallop!

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By *uscularLoveMan over a year ago

london

How can you tell me its bollocks..

You guys are just insecure

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"How can you tell me its bollocks..

You guys are just insecure

The majority of swinging couples are not cuckold and swinging has got naff all to do with getting what your husband "can't" give you. Every guy I've had through swinging has been smaller in the penis department than my husband and we swing because we are both turned on by their partner with others. We also wanted to fulfil fantasies involving extra people, but we have both been involved in our group fun. So from our perspective, we'll stick with describing the earlier essay as utter codswallop.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How can you tell me its bollocks..

You guys are just insecure

Most couples male counterparts are cuckolds

What about hotwife couples, stag and vixen or those who just like sharing their wife

Women who are in couples are looking for satisification theyre men can't give them due to lack of ability or size.

See my comment above

Single women on here are looking for Sex. A Good dick will more than likely give them what they want with ease. So to save time and effort they will look for a bigger one.

Not true, those who look for bigger are actually a minority group

Just LOL

Or find a girl who has a smaller vagina which can only hold a smaller penis. But that is probably rare on a site like this as most women are stretched out beyond belief.

I think.you need a lesson in biology

I think my comments above satisfy my earlier one of you're talking bollocks.

I'm guessing you probably have a big cock and somehow believe this makes you a superior lover to those less endowed. If you read the hundreds of threads on this subject you'd see that it simply isn't the case.

Absolutely no insecurity here, I rock what is in your opinion a measly penis and have an inbox full of offers thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most couples male counterparts are cuckolds.

Women who are in couples are looking for satisification theyre men can't give them due to lack of ability or size.

Single men don't care.

Tv|Ts want attractive guys.

Single women on here are looking for Sex. A Good dick will more than likely give them what they want with ease. So to save time and effort they will look for a bigger one.

Or find a girl who has a smaller vagina which can only hold a smaller penis. But that is probably rare on a site like this as most women are stretched out beyond belief.

So obviously if you have a smaller than average penis your probably not going to have an inbox flooded with interest.

I hope this helps you guys with average to below average size.

It's sad but it's reality and sometimes you people get dealt a shitty hand.

Said by a truely big cock

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By *T90ee OP Man over a year ago

croydon

Well in 6,5" 5" girth thisbsurely isn't something I need to worry about?

I do appreciate all the replies people honestly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The beauty of Fabswingers is that there are all sizes and shapes available to please all.

I am above average when it comes to cock size and I have met women who found it too big for them, which is no fun, but I have also found women who couldn’t be happier with me. Also, it’s not just about the cock as the biggest sexual organ is the brain.

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By *na_Luv_4PlayCouple over a year ago

Santa lucia de Tirajana

In our experience meeting guys and couples with all shapes and sizes of endowment.. a considerate lover is most important a gent who actually cares about how the female is responding and not just how hard and deep he can pound her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm happy with mine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Heres my cock for the cockfest

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By *untooMan over a year ago

manchester

Im on the small side. I accepted that years ago and didn’t bother spending money on pills and gadgets that done work.

That said, I stay hard and it seems to be ok for me.

I’ve been honest on my profile about my size and haven’t had any interest from women or couples.

Occasionally it niggles when reading a profile that they insist on the guy being hung. With my height, I also consider comparing against say a guy who stands over 6 ft tall. Of course he will be bigger than me. Will this mean the woman won’t be interested in anything smaller than she’s already getting? Sad to say, it seems to be that way at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love girthy ones

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By *jonesMan over a year ago

Totnes

I've never measured mine...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being unselfish and technique are more important than size

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By *k197Man over a year ago

wymondham

Small here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never measured but feel like it's average

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I'm about average although I haven't measured and I'm a short arse anyway, so I made a conscious effort to make sure I was good at everything else

I have never really had any complaints so the size thing was my issue to deal with and because I can't realistically change it just have to work with what I have got

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being average.

I would say that being average tho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm average at best but my ex gf always said she preferred girth over length. She has had a few partners and always said around 6inch is great if girthy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Our daddy taught us not to be ashamed of our dicks, especially since they're such a good size and all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You’re happy average. Does this mean you’d still rather someone with bigger than average ?

For example

Two males 1 with 8’’ 5’’ girth

1 with 6.5’’ 5’’ girth

Both skilled equally and both have the same level of attraction.

Who do you chose ?"

I would go for the smaller one, can give better blowjobs to the shorter one, plus I definitely prefer girth over length as length can really hurt. And I have the coil in so guys who are quite long can feel it and sometimes it puts them off.

Plus if a guy really wants to drill you hard then a shorter one can do this as I find, sometimes I end up crawling away from the lengthy guys.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm happy with my 6"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You’re happy average. Does this mean you’d still rather someone with bigger than average ?

For example

Two males 1 with 8’’ 5’’ girth

1 with 6.5’’ 5’’ girth

Both skilled equally and both have the same level of attraction.

Who do you chose ?

Plus if a guy really wants to drill you hard then a shorter one can do this as I find, sometimes I end up crawling away from the lengthy guys. "

You don't need to be massively long to feel a coil though.

Id still love to know what classifies as a good girth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most couples male counterparts are cuckolds.

Women who are in couples are looking for satisification theyre men can't give them due to lack of ability or size.

Single men don't care.

Tv|Ts want attractive guys.

Single women on here are looking for Sex. A Good dick will more than likely give them what they want with ease. So to save time and effort they will look for a bigger one.

Or find a girl who has a smaller vagina which can only hold a smaller penis. But that is probably rare on a site like this as most women are stretched out beyond belief.

So obviously if you have a smaller than average penis your probably not going to have an inbox flooded with interest.

I hope this helps you guys with average to below average size.

It's sad but it's reality and sometimes you people get dealt a shitty hand.

What a load of bollocks"

I agree absolute bollocks! A vagina can stretch to squeeze out a baby and I guarantee that baby is bigger than any man's cock... oddly enough it goes back to it's original size so when it come to "being stretched" it comes down to how comfortable the women is with the man... if she isnt comfortable then it wont be as relaxed and therefore does not stretch as much.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You’re happy average. Does this mean you’d still rather someone with bigger than average ?

For example

Two males 1 with 8’’ 5’’ girth

1 with 6.5’’ 5’’ girth

Both skilled equally and both have the same level of attraction.

Who do you chose ?

Plus if a guy really wants to drill you hard then a shorter one can do this as I find, sometimes I end up crawling away from the lengthy guys.

You don't need to be massively long to feel a coil though.

Id still love to know what classifies as a good girth"

Good girth to me is when I wrap my hand around it my middle finger and thumb should barely touch. That's about 6".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mines about 6 inch I think it's a good size love it when it goes in and the pussy opens up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"good girth to me is when I wrap my hand around it my middle finger and thumb should barely touch. That's about 6". "

Damm i think i have small hands. If i do that (finger and thumb) its just 6.25in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most couples male counterparts are cuckolds.

Women who are in couples are looking for satisification theyre men can't give them due to lack of ability or size.

Single men don't care.

Tv|Ts want attractive guys.

Single women on here are looking for Sex. A Good dick will more than likely give them what they want with ease. So to save time and effort they will look for a bigger one.

Or find a girl who has a smaller vagina which can only hold a smaller penis. But that is probably rare on a site like this as most women are stretched out beyond belief.

So obviously if you have a smaller than average penis your probably not going to have an inbox flooded with interest.

I hope this helps you guys with average to below average size.

It's sad but it's reality and sometimes you people get dealt a shitty hand.

What a load of bollocks

Why do most men still believe that once a woman has had a big dick or a baby that they will have a giant vagina, do men with big cocks get something out of thinking that they have somehow ruined it for the rest of us

I wonder if there is a correlation between large dicks and being dumb as fuck

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By *dge of HeavenMan over a year ago

Bridgend

And that my friends is todays competition winner!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From what I've noticed it seems to be couples who are looking more for vwe men

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By *avid_rydensMan over a year ago

waterlooville

Interesting post OP

I’m about 6” long

But only 4” girth so not sure how I fit in?

Excuse the pun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too big is uncomfortable.

Especially when you like doggy

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By *aughty_nymphWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

She’s right, a dick is a dick.

Good sex isn’t just how the bloke fucks you or how big his girth Or length is.

For me to orgasm, my entire body and mind has to be turned on. Someone slamming away with a 5” dick or a 9” dick is irrelevant!

If you have a connection with someone, you’re more likely to cum (as a woman) I believe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On a side note...gentlemen, as you’ve got older and ...err added a few pounds around the midriff have you noticed changes down below??

I used to be stick thin, right up to my 30s...but then with work, got lazy and just wanted nothing more than to come home and chill...thing is, that’s made me look like a pregnant matchstick hahaha..but worse..I have lost a few inches in length from down there... but got thicker?? What gives...I read somewhere blood flow..or lack of due to increase weight around the middle might be the cause...so wondered if any gents had similar findings?

Looks like I have to up my game to get fit again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She’s right, a dick is a dick.

Good sex isn’t just how the bloke fucks you or how big his girth Or length is.

For me to orgasm, my entire body and mind has to be turned on. Someone slamming away with a 5” dick or a 9” dick is irrelevant!

If you have a connection with someone, you’re more likely to cum (as a woman) I believe. "

It's the magic, not the size of the wand that matters...

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By *aughty_nymphWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

"She’s right, a dick is a dick.

Good sex isn’t just how the bloke fucks you or how big his girth Or length is.

For me to orgasm, my entire body and mind has to be turned on. Someone slamming away with a 5” dick or a 9” dick is irrelevant!

If you have a connection with someone, you’re more likely to cum (as a woman) I believe.

It's the magic, not the size of the wand that matters..."

Exactly

And smaller dicks can fuck harder!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She’s right, a dick is a dick.

Good sex isn’t just how the bloke fucks you or how big his girth Or length is.

For me to orgasm, my entire body and mind has to be turned on. Someone slamming away with a 5” dick or a 9” dick is irrelevant!

If you have a connection with someone, you’re more likely to cum (as a woman) I believe.

It's the magic, not the size of the wand that matters...

Exactly

And smaller dicks can fuck harder! "

You also have to be careful with 'how much is too much' with a bigger penis. Lots of "technical" talking which can kill the moment...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"2 big definitely hurts, but that said I do prefer girth over length. I get extremely wet so it's easy really... "

This! Girth over length, nobody needs to be battering the cervix

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan over a year ago

london

I don’t go out of my way to study other guys penis’s so I’m not sure what category I fall into. I know with the right lady mine as an extra 1/2 inch that it pulls out of the bag

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By *orbidden eastMan over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"She’s right, a dick is a dick.

Good sex isn’t just how the bloke fucks you or how big his girth Or length is.

For me to orgasm, my entire body and mind has to be turned on. Someone slamming away with a 5” dick or a 9” dick is irrelevant!

If you have a connection with someone, you’re more likely to cum (as a woman) I believe.

It's the magic, not the size of the wand that matters...

Exactly

And smaller dicks can fuck harder! "

I like her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interesting post OP

I’m about 6” long

But only 4” girth so not sure how I fit in?

Excuse the pun"

You would fit in just perfectly! Ideal size!

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By *ave1976XXXMan over a year ago

newmarket

I’m not big at all

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By *anxmann55Man over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

"You’re happy average. Does this mean you’d still rather someone with bigger than average ?

For example

Two males 1 with 8’’ 5’’ girth

1 with 6.5’’ 5’’ girth

Both skilled equally and both have the same level of attraction.

Who do you chose ?"
6.5 deffinatly better.

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By *ave1976XXXMan over a year ago

newmarket

I’m only 5.5 inches

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By *anxmann55Man over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

"I’m only 5.5 inches "
dave your a nice size aswell ....

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

No it doesn't. If they're thick it often takes lots of lube and lots of easing and I usually can't fuck them for as long.

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By *ave1976XXXMan over a year ago

newmarket

"I’m only 5.5 inches dave your a nice size aswell ....

Cheers

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By *anxmann55Man over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

It's clear men are more size queen than women 6.5 7.0 inches is enough to satisfy the lady ...my ex bf always wet me she like sitting on top I could feel her cumming while I was still in lady was in the driving seat knew exactly what she wanted how she wanted it ..

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By *anxmann55Man over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

"It's clear men are more size queen than women 6.5 7.0 inches is enough to satisfy the lady ...my ex bf always wet me she like sitting on top I could feel her cumming while I was still in lady was in the driving seat knew exactly what she wanted how she wanted it .."
gf meant 2say

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By *utonguy2023Man over a year ago

luton

Yepp too big deffo does no favours

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By *anxmann55Man over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

"Yepp too big deffo does no favours"
u are a bigboi ...

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"You’re happy average. Does this mean you’d still rather someone with bigger than average ?

For example

Two males 1 with 8’’ 5’’ girth

1 with 6.5’’ 5’’ girth

Both skilled equally and both have the same level of attraction.

Who do you chose ?"

Bigger cock every time

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By *anxmann55Man over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

Yes u like them big ...big man Tom 10.2 inches pure hard meat ....

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I had all sizes of cocks. The best felt cock is thicker, curved and long. Small cocks, even in my tight pussy, feels lost and the guy has to be exceptionally sexy and skilled to pull off great sex with an average size cock.

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By *anxmann55Man over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

Lutonguy your name not Tom isit lol

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Yes u like them big ...big man Tom 10.2 inches pure hard meat ...."

Exactly... Tbh i haven't even got to that part of the story where we fucked

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Lutonguy your name not Tom isit lol

Tom doesn't exist on fab btw

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By *anxmann55Man over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

I have followed every part upto now I wait for the next part of the story..wish that was me with Tom sounds delicious tall hansome knows how treat a lady ....

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By *anxmann55Man over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

U dissappoint me ...u made him up there for 1 moment he actually existed and u did walk long too the bench where he gave u his big throbbing hard precum cock ....

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

"Op why do you ask?

In my experience the very large majority don't care about size, only the few actively look for massive cocks."

This!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"U dissappoint me ...u made him up there for 1 moment he actually existed and u did walk long too the bench where he gave u his big throbbing hard precum cock ....

He is a real guy. He was one of my ex lovers. He just not on fab so you can't stalk him

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Op why do you ask?

In my experience the very large majority don't care about size, only the few actively look for massive cocks.

This! "

I think they're lying to make most men not to feel inferior

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op why do you ask?

In my experience the very large majority don't care about size, only the few actively look for massive cocks.

This!

I think they're lying to make most men not to feel inferior

Cause they are any women who says a small penis isn’t an issue is a liar

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jasmine you’ve probably got my size, I’m extensible and love to play dimensions. It’s especially horny when I’ve made my Girl happy that way and her eyes and mind melt.

The gift is in my pants for her !,

I bet there are a few frothing tongues watching this .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Loving this thread, I used to think my cock was small,and was very shy about it, its 6.5 inch, but the more cocks I see I realize Im in the middle, love the girls replys here makes me feel good, as an exhibitionist its kind of important to feel good about your cock. Thanks Girls.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Op why do you ask?

In my experience the very large majority don't care about size, only the few actively look for massive cocks.

This!

I think they're lying to make most men not to feel inferior

No we're not. You're entitled to your preference, I'm entitled to mine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some women are put off by the size of my penis so I have to be careful and ease it in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never had any complaints but think all men including me want a bit more, it’s in our genes I think lol

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Op why do you ask?

In my experience the very large majority don't care about size, only the few actively look for massive cocks.

This!

I think they're lying to make most men not to feel inferior

No we're not. You're entitled to your preference, I'm entitled to mine."

Ok speaking on my behalf of my friends, they say they prefer big cocks... But they don't want to upset their partners so they say how satisfied they are... But own a big dildo. Just putting that out. We all can't say the same thing.

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By *urrey Dave 69Man over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

Most of these threads conclude that everyone is different and have different preferences. Selection of a partner is done by considering lots and lots of factors. Some as physical characteristics and others are personality and skill based. I understand Jasmine’s position. I’ve got a very thick cock which is 7” in circumference (see profile photos) and some ladies love that but there are others who don’t - c'est la vie.

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By *avid_rydensMan over a year ago

waterlooville

Thank you miss x

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By *ikesEmBigMan over a year ago

Herts

As we approach the end of this thread. I'd just thought I'd point out how lovely my penis is

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

We should celebrate everyone's cocks. They all have their own charm. We definitely have preferences. Some are more popular than others. Maybe average size cocks are the more popular preferences for women. As for tight pussies with small tidy labias and big boobs. But I like to show my appreciation to big cocks: long hard hotness.

Have a great guys. Wanking. Fucking your partners at home, in the garden or on webcam. #staysafe #savelives

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Op why do you ask?

In my experience the very large majority don't care about size, only the few actively look for massive cocks.

This!

I think they're lying to make most men not to feel inferior

No we're not. You're entitled to your preference, I'm entitled to mine.

That's your friends though. It's not fair to call other people you don't know liars. Personally I've had partners I struggle to have comfortable sex with due to their girth. Seems a bit extreme to always make sex a bit of a song and dance and sometimes completely abandon it all together just to give them a bit of an ego boost or something. I buy small toys for myself but mostly just use my hands.

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