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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Recently just wonder are where really any so called guys here? Just had so many upsets recently from them. Thinking to change our profile preferences x |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
Currently Faraway |
"Recently just wonder are where really any so called guys here? Just had so many upsets recently from them. Thinking to change our profile preferences x"
If you ever want to meet up with and chat to a friendly and genuine bloke in Leeds, I would gladly meet you and I won't waste your time X |
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Read the verifications and look who the verifications are from, this will give you a good grasp if they are legit or not. As a rule I will not speak to anyone who is not verified by at least two meets and photo verified, not for everyone but it works for me. Hope this helps x |
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"There are lots who in our experience can only talk a good game.
The reality is that too many prefer playing with their cocks over a laptop and bullshitting on fab about how reliable they are."
Yes, this is our experience too ... It's a shame for the genuine ones, sadly the idiots and fantasists causes genuine people to lose faith  |
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"There are lots who in our experience can only talk a good game.
The reality is that too many prefer playing with their cocks over a laptop and bullshitting on fab about how reliable they are.
Yes, this is our experience too ... It's a shame for the genuine ones, sadly the idiots and fantasists causes genuine people to lose faith "
That's the problem. We have pretty much given up on meeting new guys and now prefer clubs.
I know a lot of couples share this opinion. |
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"Oh what a surprise...another single bloke slag off thread. Getting old this topic."
Possibly it keeps being brought up because it is a widely recognised problem.
And in our opinion it is not getting any better. |
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"I have a single profile . All my meets are in person not by wanking on cam.
I have had lots of couples let me down over the years though"
I agree with you also
I am also genuine and been let down many times bu couples |
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"I have a single profile . All my meets are in person not by wanking on cam.
I have had lots of couples let me down over the years though
I agree with you also
I am also genuine and been let down many times bu couples "
Couples or Fabcouples as there's a lot of difference between the two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The site is full of genuine, single men. There's very little proactivity from women or couples here.
Many sit and wait for a delivery service. Not surprisingly the only thing being delivered is junk male (see what I did there!).
Perhaps actively search, send a face pic and a decent message. Lost track of the one line messages from couples and self entitled single girls over the years. Many of whom are far from single or playing together. You reap what you sow.
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We've been on here since November and from then until lockdown we had socials with 5 single men, 3 of which we went on to play with at another time. All 5 turned up, put effort into their appearance, were good company and showed us both respect. In our opinion there are definitely genuine single men out there but it can take a little effort.
Mrs x |
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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago
waltham cross/Dartford |
"There are lots who in our experience can only talk a good game.
The reality is that too many prefer playing with their cocks over a laptop and bullshitting on fab about how reliable they are."
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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago
waltham cross/Dartford |
"We've been on here since November and from then until lockdown we had socials with 5 single men, 3 of which we went on to play with at another time. All 5 turned up, put effort into their appearance, were good company and showed us both respect. In our opinion there are definitely
genuine single men out there but it can take a little effort.
Mrs x"
There are but some put us to shame . Bullshiter and picture collectors
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm single in that I play solo,but I am married,my wife doesn't play as she's lost all interest in sex. I have her permission to play with other women & couples. |
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"We've been on here since November and from then until lockdown we had socials with 5 single men, 3 of which we went on to play with at another time. All 5 turned up, put effort into their appearance, were good company and showed us both respect. In our opinion there are definitely
genuine single men out there but it can take a little effort.
Mrs x
There are but some put us to shame . Bullshiter and picture collectors
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Of course, that's always going to be the case on here. We just have to spend some time exchanging messages and know what signs to look out for x |
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it's a problem that not only plagues this site.
Verifications are a good start.
Face photos (even on request) can assist.
Also insist on a telephone number and say you want to speak on the phone first. Even if you don't it can be a game changer as often that sorts out the genuine fro the not so.
And if you are organising a group or gangbang then count on 50 per cent not turning up - Car broken down, surprise party, etc.
Good luck.
Gary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it's a problem that not only plagues this site.
Verifications are a good start.
Face photos (even on request) can assist.
Also insist on a telephone number and say you want to speak on the phone first. Even if you don't it can be a game changer as often that sorts out the genuine fro the not so.
And if you are organising a group or gangbang then count on 50 per cent not turning up - Car broken down, surprise party, etc.
Good luck.
Gary"
THIS!
You stole the words right out of my head, sir! |
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"There are lots who in our experience can only talk a good game.
The reality is that too many prefer playing with their cocks over a laptop and bullshitting on fab about how reliable they are."
love your status too |
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"Recently just wonder are where really any so called guys here? Just had so many upsets recently from them. Thinking to change our profile preferences x"
Such a sexists post,so called guys! Men don't have to behave like men in the 60s lol the world wanted modern man and they've got it lol |
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"When you say,genuine single guy?
Are you saying there are women on fab masquerading as men  "
I think OP means are there guys who are genuinely single, and genuine about meeting, but I'd love to be wrong about that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you saying there are women on fab masquerading as men "
Ha can you imagine. I'm a 19 year old teen with a tight pussy, masquerading as a bisexual middle aged man for shits and giggles.
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"Recently just wonder are where really any so called guys here? Just had so many upsets recently from them. Thinking to change our profile preferences x"
Think you have to check verifications - I always do. Couples with no verifications are very likely to be fake - any couple (esp a hotwife couple) should find it easy to find men and have several verifications...
Likewise, with single guys - any guy without verifications or with veris from long time ago is fake/married
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"Recently just wonder are where really any so called guys here? Just had so many upsets recently from them. Thinking to change our profile preferences x
Think you have to check verifications - I always do. Couples with no verifications are very likely to be fake - any couple (esp a hotwife couple) should find it easy to find men and have several verifications...
Likewise, with single guys - any guy without verifications or with veris from long time ago is fake/married
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Not sure that's true, my non veri periods are just due to me being elsewhere or tired of trawling for decent people !  |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
We have been lucky with our single guy meets, we have met some really lovely guys all of which we stay in contact with, not that we had that many but I do tend to chat to them for about a year before meeting lol |
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"Recently just wonder are where really any so called guys here? Just had so many upsets recently from them. Thinking to change our profile preferences x
Think you have to check verifications - I always do. Couples with no verifications are very likely to be fake - any couple (esp a hotwife couple) should find it easy to find men and have several verifications...
Likewise, with single guys - any guy without verifications or with veris from long time ago is fake/married
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Talk about sweeping statements! |
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"Recently just wonder are where really any so called guys here? Just had so many upsets recently from them. Thinking to change our profile preferences x
Think you have to check verifications - I always do. Couples with no verifications are very likely to be fake - any couple (esp a hotwife couple) should find it easy to find men and have several verifications...
Likewise, with single guys - any guy without verifications or with veris from long time ago is fake/married
Talk about sweeping statements!"
I agree, not fair to generalise ... But the probability of fake goes up with certain factors like no veris, can't meet at his, can't speak on phone except lunch break at work, no photos ... There are plausible explanations for all of these things, granted, just makes it more likely that the guy is fake, that's all ... And in a tough market, why go for the guys that have all the fake indicators? |
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"Recently just wonder are where really any so called guys here? Just had so many upsets recently from them. Thinking to change our profile preferences x
Think you have to check verifications - I always do. Couples with no verifications are very likely to be fake - any couple (esp a hotwife couple) should find it easy to find men and have several verifications...
Likewise, with single guys - any guy without verifications or with veris from long time ago is fake/married
Talk about sweeping statements!
I agree, not fair to generalise ... But the probability of fake goes up with certain factors like no veris, can't meet at his, can't speak on phone except lunch break at work, no photos ... There are plausible explanations for all of these things, granted, just makes it more likely that the guy is fake, that's all ... And in a tough market, why go for the guys that have all the fake indicators?"
How does not being able to talk at work until lunchtime make you a fake? |
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"Recently just wonder are where really any so called guys here? Just had so many upsets recently from them. Thinking to change our profile preferences x
Think you have to check verifications - I always do. Couples with no verifications are very likely to be fake - any couple (esp a hotwife couple) should find it easy to find men and have several verifications...
Likewise, with single guys - any guy without verifications or with veris from long time ago is fake/married
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Woooaahh so my last verification (not shown on profile) is from Feb march last year, must mean I'm married!!!!
Or the fact that by coincidence, or otherwise (that it's hard to just get replys on here nevermind meets) is the fact that my last 3/4 meets over the last year have been from other apps/sites!!! |
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"Recently just wonder are where really any so called guys here? Just had so many upsets recently from them. Thinking to change our profile preferences x
Think you have to check verifications - I always do. Couples with no verifications are very likely to be fake - any couple (esp a hotwife couple) should find it easy to find men and have several verifications...
Likewise, with single guys - any guy without verifications or with veris from long time ago is fake/married
Talk about sweeping statements!
I agree, not fair to generalise ... But the probability of fake goes up with certain factors like no veris, can't meet at his, can't speak on phone except lunch break at work, no photos ... There are plausible explanations for all of these things, granted, just makes it more likely that the guy is fake, that's all ... And in a tough market, why go for the guys that have all the fake indicators?
How does not being able to talk at work until lunchtime make you a fake? "
Eh? Read again, but carefully this time! I said he can ONLY speak at work ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same goes for all groups of members in my opinion. I’ve arranged several meets with singles or couples, only for them to not show. Single men get a lot of bashing on here, and to be fair judging by some of the messages I’ve got from men on here, the bashing is partially justified. However, there are plenty of great single men on here too. All groups have a proportion of dickheads. |
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"Same goes for all groups of members in my opinion. I’ve arranged several meets with singles or couples, only for them to not show. Single men get a lot of bashing on here, and to be fair judging by some of the messages I’ve got from men on here, the bashing is partially justified. However, there are plenty of great single men on here too. All groups have a proportion of dickheads. "
Hear, hear ... Plenty of great single guys on here ... All I'm really commenting on is what we've noticed ... The good ones don't have a problem calling in the evening, putting photos on their profile, sending you a photo they've just taken, accommodating you ... The ones that have let us down have no photos, can't be called, can't accommodate, no veris ... |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"Recently just wonder are where really any so called guys here? Just had so many upsets recently from them. Thinking to change our profile preferences x"
. Can’t believe you guys have been let down by single guys.I remember meeting you when you were in London and if you were still in London would have no problem meeting you again.Hopefully when lockdown is over things will improve for you.
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"Recently just wonder are where really any so called guys here? Just had so many upsets recently from them. Thinking to change our profile preferences x
Think you have to check verifications - I always do. Couples with no verifications are very likely to be fake - any couple (esp a hotwife couple) should find it easy to find men and have several verifications...
Likewise, with single guys - any guy without verifications or with veris from long time ago is fake/married
Talk about sweeping statements!
I agree, not fair to generalise ... But the probability of fake goes up with certain factors like no veris, can't meet at his, can't speak on phone except lunch break at work, no photos ... There are plausible explanations for all of these things, granted, just makes it more likely that the guy is fake, that's all ... And in a tough market, why go for the guys that have all the fake indicators?
How does not being able to talk at work until lunchtime make you a fake?
Eh? Read again, but carefully this time! I said he can ONLY speak at work ..."
There's no only in that sentence! |
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"Recently just wonder are where really any so called guys here? Just had so many upsets recently from them. Thinking to change our profile preferences x"
Well I’m totally single and it’s the not so singles that fook it up for the rest of us.. but hey oh  |
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So yes you are right from what I see and hear from others on here the large percent of single males on here are time wasters and looking to get themselves off on whoever and as quick as they can
However for the actual genuine single guys it can be and is tough going and no I don’t want to moan or do I feel sorry for myself quite the opposite
I have been on and off here for nearly 7 years now and this is my second profile and as you can see no veris in last few years and can not accommodate does this make me a liar a cheat or a time waster, to me no I am not but to a lot of people yes I am However if I was female or couple saying the same thing in general no one bats an eyelid
On my first profile I had many meets and socials with couples and singles and a lot of veris , then I left for medical reasons and when I came back I decided it was going to be different and all about quality not quantity so yes i am now fussy and it will take someone very special for me to meet however I always tell people that and never time waste
I had a couple tell me the other week we love your profile love your pics however our rule is we don’t meet any single males with no veris in last six months , I did say no worries that’s fine however just think we have been on lockdown for three months so that leaves three months and because I am I picky and have standards i adhere too I’m been punished because despite offers of meets I have said no, it does not mean I am a time waster and again just because i don’t accommodate does not mean I am a cheat or a liar , I could well be a single father I could live with relatives or house share or I might just not want strangers coming to my home
Sadly this site has changed so much over the years there is a general un conscious bias towards single men and that has been created by single men and how they behave and act and some of the things they message and reply is shocking.
So naturally it is going to be hard for females and couples to separate fact from fiction
It would be interesting if single males actually could not send the first message and could only reply to messages sent, how it would flip it onto the females and the couples to let them take the lead , as opposed to all the status updates you see that say too many messages bulk delete !!!
I don’t really know where I am going with this post but all I would say is there is good and bad in all , but due to the numbers of single males on here it will always make out the single males are sometimes what we are not
Hope this makes sense to some and it’s not a rant or a pity post have a great evening all xx |
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