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how often do u have sex
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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10 years together,2 years married every day weather its sex or some kind of oral or foreplay,were very active and its a great way to show each other which we love each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try to fit in a kink night at the wkends..big box of toys and outfits to choose from..weekly we mix it up vanilla wise..currently out shopping both wearing jewelled plugs..Watching eachother across the food aisles knowing what we both know is our secret little thrill for the day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the moment very little due to covid, but now
Lockdown easing hoping to get back in it shortly. I’ve been meeting a friend prob every week, that’s ticked us both over. Be glad when the clubs open back up I tell thee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually 2-3 times a week sometimes 4. She likes to just let me use her to cum inside sometimes if I've had a frustrating day at work but that's still sex right? Lol 
Also, is oral sex classed as sex to you? Or do you only mean full penetrative sex? |
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"interested in how often you have sex as a married couple--ours dropped and can be less than once week"
when together it's at least twice a day unless both on alternating shifts.. ie hes on earlies and I'm on nights. We cant live together just yet so when we are apart it can limit times per week.
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Been married 26yrs this year we have some kind of sexual activity when ever we’re in the same room together a quickie while loading the dishwasher just can’t keep our hands of each really embarrass’s the kids lol |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"It baffles me why couples are on wanting sex with other people when they don't want sex with each other
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This is my point to but it could be due to boring sex but also lack of communication between the two and not being imaginative enough to spice things up like or prefer a younger model  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been married 26yrs this year we have some kind of sexual activity when ever we’re in the same room together a quickie while loading the dishwasher just can’t keep our hands of each really embarrass’s the kids lol "
Me and my wife are the exact same,our kids hate it. |
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"Been married 26yrs this year we have some kind of sexual activity when ever we’re in the same room together a quickie while loading the dishwasher just can’t keep our hands of each really embarrass’s the kids lol
Me and my wife are the exact same,our kids hate it."
The best way to get the kids to bugger off upstairs, start cuddling  |
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"Been married 26yrs this year we have some kind of sexual activity when ever we’re in the same room together a quickie while loading the dishwasher just can’t keep our hands of each really embarrass’s the kids lol
Me and my wife are the exact same,our kids hate it."
my partner and I are touchy feely except in front of his son as he is only 10 and struggling with his dad not being with his mum. But normally there will always be a touch or something. Although being that my kids are older no quickies are possible often x but we try lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your just try you make me feel better thanks dude lol"
I wish it was the case, but its true. Im starting to wonder if i’ll ever have sex again I literally cant remember the last time i had a BJ, at a guess i’d have said 8 years ago.
I dont think i’d last 2 minutes if i had a BJ today! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"25 months and counting ........  "
3yrs - she didn't want to talk about it.
Then 2 years - again no talking.
Once or twice a week is common in a long term relationship and nothing to worry about. Life gets in the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!"
I beg to differ. In my prev relationship I can count on one hand the number of days we didn't have sex during the 5 yrs we were together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!
I beg to differ. In my prev relationship I can count on one hand the number of days we didn't have sex during the 5 yrs we were together. "
You were both lucky in that respect the !  |
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"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!
I beg to differ. In my prev relationship I can count on one hand the number of days we didn't have sex during the 5 yrs we were together. "
Just wondering if that’s the case why did it end ? Ps hope you don’t mind me ask |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!
I beg to differ. In my prev relationship I can count on one hand the number of days we didn't have sex during the 5 yrs we were together.
You were both lucky in that respect the ! "
Just a good match sexually, unfortunately not in religion... He thought he was god and I disagreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!
I beg to differ. In my prev relationship I can count on one hand the number of days we didn't have sex during the 5 yrs we were together.
Just wondering if that’s the case why did it end ? Ps hope you don’t mind me ask "
I don't mind no but I'll respond privately. |
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"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!
I beg to differ. In my prev relationship I can count on one hand the number of days we didn't have sex during the 5 yrs we were together.
Just wondering if that’s the case why did it end ? Ps hope you don’t mind me ask
I don't mind no but I'll respond privately. "
If you please |
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Sometimes everyday sometimes 2 to 3 times a week ! Always try to get a quickie in 
Especially if I know he's had a shit day at work and I'll just bend over on the stairs when I see his car pull up!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go up and down massively. Anywhere from 5-10 times a week, to a few weeks without. My sex drive is either very high or zero, plus I have health issues that can sometimes interfere.
My meets were very much the same, sometimes a string of guys one after the other, then a month off sometimes.
I'd say 2-3 times a week is a happy average for me with hubby, plus some extra people as well if I can xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About twice every ten minutes these days.
It was five minutes in our twenties, were slowly dwindling as we age but I like to think the quality has improved. |
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"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!"
most of my actual relationships it's been more than once a day most days. Have the odd time when it wasn't possible, like after I had the kids. But if there are no physical reasons I dont see why once a day is not possible. I will always try for at least once a day. Finding it hard with my current relationship as we dont live together.
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Very variable as life has been extremely challenging. Anything from once a week to once a day. We usually can’t go longer than a week before the sexual tension overtakes the stresses. As things become less stressful I can see us quickly getting back to a couple of times a day |
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When I was with ex it was a couple times a week.
Then it dropped to once a month, then a couple of times a year.
Then for the last 2 years before we split, it dropped to never having any.
Lockdown feels like a breeze! |
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"interested in how often you have sex as a married couple--ours dropped and can be less than once week"
That's so unfair, when restrictions allow give me a shout to help out, got around 52 weeks to make up for |
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"At the moment very little due to covid, but now
Lockdown easing hoping to get back in it shortly. I’ve been meeting a friend prob every week, that’s ticked us both over. Be glad when the clubs open back up I tell thee "
During Covid? Goodness..... |
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Probably averages out to about 6 days per week as unplanned overtime in work for one of us normally scuppers one day.
Although some days will be more than once so I suppose we make up for it that way! |
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We had a baby. Finding the right moment where we are both in the mood and have the energy that coincides with being allowed to express that desire by the small human who requires our attention is difficult at the minute. One of the many joys of parenthood.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends to be honest, can be multiple times a day or every day if we're both up for it , could be once a week if either of us aren't feeling too good about ourselves |
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