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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would you ever meet for sex if u hadnt seen what the person looked liked
A woman asked me if i was free tonight it was 45 mins to.hers i said yes chatted her likes dislikes then i asked if i could see her face pic she said no i dont show pics because of my job so i declined she got arsey.
Just wondered peoples views would u have still met and if u didnt lile juat left or would you have not met in 1st place
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ever meet for sex if u hadnt seen what the person looked liked
A woman asked me if i was free tonight it was 45 mins to.hers i said yes chatted her likes dislikes then i asked if i could see her face pic she said no i dont show pics because of my job so i declined she got arsey.
Just wondered peoples views would u have still met and if u didnt lile juat left or would you have not met in 1st place
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For sex - no. But I always meet for social only first. I don't ask for face pics to meet for social nor do I send them myself. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
Yes, from a contact magazine many years ago. I met a few couples and single ladies without seeing a photograph or them of me. Occasionally a grainy b/w photo would be sent, but not often. Only one bad experience. Always were more than one meet. I guess the emphasis wasn't on, as much what people looked like but the type of person they were. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did it last year, my first Fab hookup, and it turned out really well - a very handsome, intelligent and sexy guy. We had great sex. But we'd done a lot of messages and spoke on the phone - he interested me as a person and I wouldn't have been that bothered what he looked like. |
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Absolutely not,
We all need privacy, but if we didn't know if there was any attraction, we wouldnt meet.
If people don't want to show them, that's up to them.Also up to us to stop chatting at that stage.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I arranged a meet with another couple and they did send face pictures and was very good looking but before I could show my girlfriend. They had hidden the face pictures.
Anyway to cut a long story short my girlfriend deleted all her pictures on fab and suspended our account.
To make the point that I never arrange a meet without her seeing the face pictures first and agreeing to it.
Nowadays I can be talking to people on fab and if I've not got their face pictures I don't even bother telling the girlfriend. Until I do have some face pictures. |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
They have to see my picture first, face and body. I wouldn't be able to cope if they turned around on the spot, if we met, because they didn't like me.
Presumably this woman is very fit and doesn't have those kind of hang ups. |
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"No.
Refused to meet a couple I was chatting to. They asked for a pic which I sent then refused to send one back but still wanted to meet me "
I have done the same thing if they don't pass the ball back the ball game ends. |
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Definitely not. I want to swap face pics right at the start, before even chatting. I’ve been burned too many times where I’ve started chatting with someone, then they’ve sent me a pic and I didn’t fancy them. |
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"Would you ever meet for sex if u hadnt seen what the person looked liked
A woman asked me if i was free tonight it was 45 mins to.hers i said yes chatted her likes dislikes then i asked if i could see her face pic she said no i dont show pics because of my job so i declined she got arsey.
Just wondered peoples views would u have still met and if u didnt lile juat left or would you have not met in 1st place
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It would be a no from us
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not.
And I’d be more concerned if you wanted to meet me, without seeing a few face pics, too! X
That's ok darling .what doggys for  "
Haha sounds like one of the dodgy messages I’ve received that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Face pictures might get you a social. No face pictures, no social and definitely no blind date sex!
When they say whattap or snapchat or this or that
No just no
Whattsap "
All the guys I’ve met have been asked to send a direct selfie with a condiment of my choice haha
They did it, too  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Face pictures might get you a social. No face pictures, no social and definitely no blind date sex!
When they say whattap or snapchat or this or that
No just no
Whattsap
All the guys I’ve met have been asked to send a direct selfie with a condiment of my choice haha
They did it, too "
Xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Face pictures might get you a social. No face pictures, no social and definitely no blind date sex!
When they say whattap or snapchat or this or that
No just no
Whattsap
All the guys I’ve met have been asked to send a direct selfie with a condiment of my choice haha
They did it, too
Xx
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Show me your hot sauce  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Face pictures might get you a social. No face pictures, no social and definitely no blind date sex!
When they say whattap or snapchat or this or that
No just no
Whattsap
All the guys I’ve met have been asked to send a direct selfie with a condiment of my choice haha
They did it, too
Xx
Show me your hot sauce "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know this site is over ran with men but even if I got a message from a woman requesting a meet for sex, I wouldn’t agree unless we’d swapped face pics. Has to be an attraction. |
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"Would you ever meet for sex if u hadnt seen what the person looked liked
A woman asked me if i was free tonight it was 45 mins to.hers i said yes chatted her likes dislikes then i asked if i could see her face pic she said no i dont show pics because of my job so i declined she got arsey.
Just wondered peoples views would u have still met and if u didnt lile juat left or would you have not met in 1st place
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No, definitely not, not a chance …as if 
NO ! |
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By *egoMan
over a year ago
Preston |
Nope, and the amount of hypocritical profiles as well, demanding pics, face pics other details yet their profile is devoid of any photos and a single line about stating you must have pictures or be ignored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not.
And I’d be more concerned if you wanted to meet me, without seeing a few face pics, too! X
That's ok darling .what doggys for
Haha sounds like one of the dodgy messages I’ve received that!"
Improvisation. You bend I'll insert.
Win win x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never even talk about anything like that, without seeing a face pic... It's the bit I find physio attractive  "
Physio?!? Where the fuck did that come from?! Ffs... My word suggestions need to have borders or sumin  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now I have read the whole question
I would answer as long as she did video or what's app time with body and hide face if needed due to job then maybe yes |
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We exchanged face pictures with a couple before a meet and everything was great. Whilst waiting for them at the bar, we barely recognised them as they approached us as their picture was clearly 10 years out of date. We did laugh………. We spent an hour with them out of politeness then parted separate company. On this occasion it made no difference seeing a face picture before we met them. |
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Not anymore, not after we met someone that was not at all what we expected!
Maybe we’re selfish, but we need an attraction in order to play with someone. If we’re not attracted then we’re not going to have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not only do I want a picture I’d be pretty keen to do a video call for any future meets I’ve only had 2 and both turned out to be a nightmare, so I’m happy just being part of the forums unless someone jumps out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not anymore, not after we met someone that was not at all what we expected!
Maybe we’re selfish, but we need an attraction in order to play with someone. If we’re not attracted then we’re not going to have fun. "
Only fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not.
And I’d be more concerned if you wanted to meet me, without seeing a few face pics, too! X
That's ok darling .what doggys for
Haha sounds like one of the dodgy messages I’ve received that!
Improvisation. You bend I'll insert.
Win win x"
Cheeky!! |
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I did it recently with a couple but only because we were having a social first to see if we liked each other.
Fortunately we did and I've played with them twice since and will be doing so again.
Personally I try to make it easy for people to decide as you can see by my profile pic. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Nope because what if didn't find the person attractive.
But putting things aside, a picture or even meeting. would still be under the same category (re job) hence the conversation had between so unable to trust, by sending a picture why arrange to meet, if trust isn't available. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On all my meets iv never sent a face picture, sometimes it's just a social and other times its led to more . I don't think seeing a face should be a deal breaker. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met a couple once when on holiday and their photos were nothing like reality so it’s not always a good guide.
Needless to say it was a drink and leave situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve met for socials without seeing face pics…. Some of the socials turned into more.
On the flip side, I’ve met people with the intention of playing after exchanging photos and ended up not playing. Photos aren’t always a true representation unfortunately. |
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By *BC AndyMan
over a year ago
Richmond Upon Thames |
A few years ago i met a lady from Fabs we did exchange photo's on the day of the meet the lady in the photo was not the lady who turned up, in no way shape looks or form, i politely declined and went for a pint. |
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"Would you ever meet for sex if u hadnt seen what the person looked liked
A woman asked me if i was free tonight it was 45 mins to.hers i said yes chatted her likes dislikes then i asked if i could see her face pic she said no i dont show pics because of my job so i declined she got arsey.
Just wondered peoples views would u have still met and if u didnt lile juat left or would you have not met in 1st place
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I wouldn’t do it personally.
There is, however, a woman near me who does this - and she’s met pretty much every great looking guy in the north west. Whilst the first one or two undoubtedly took a chance - her many veris say she’s absolutely gorgeous and physically in amazing shape (she’s in her early fifties) - so even if that’s an exaggeration one can assume she’s very attractive - therefore her newer meets aren’t taking as much of a chance. 
She’s often piqued my curiosity tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On all my meets iv never sent a face picture, sometimes it's just a social and other times its led to more . I don't think seeing a face should be a deal breaker. "
What id there not your cup of tea and you get there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ABSOFUCKIN'LUTELY!
I started swinging with my first partner before camera phones and we met most of out meets though personals in the local Saturday paper. No one is ever what their picture shows; how often in verifications do you read "pictures don't do them justice".
I go to meets with the expectation of meeting some, having a relaxed (with mild flutterbies) chat, hoping there's an attraction that fulfils our mutual interests. I don't call up my local takeaway and get pissy with them for not sending me a sample pack before I order. If during the meet it's clear we're not on the same vibe, be adult enough to be honest.
If you tell me every person you've met or dated _ased on you thinking they were attractive went well, I've got some shares in a bridge you might be interested in. |
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