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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious do you have a preference, club meets or more private couple meets?
I like the idea of meeting in a club where you don’t really get to know the other couple because it’s just a sexual thing.
Do people prefer building a friendship before playing?
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Clubs meets for me hands down as you get to meet multiple people at the same time and socialise. Even better if you get a hotel for the night and make an evening of it beforehand, at the club itself and after  |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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We prefer hotel meets with single guys, no social and all our extensive prior conversations are via fab. The excitement, the entrepidation as well as the nervous energy gets us both off immensely. |
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We don’t mind clubs but prefer to have drinks and a laugh before moving on to more. Nice going back to a hotel or private in a room, instead of in the open every man and his dog comes in for a look |
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It’s all down to personal preference.
Clubs are great as you won’t get messed about and let down etc. Not easy though to chat and for me as a single guy I don’t like to be not pushy but forward let’s say So that bit I don’t like and also not a fan of group rooms with wanking zombies walking about. Hotels are much more relaxed meets and more intimate so a personal preference definitely for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Club meets all the way. You can move on to the next if there's no connection. Plus your mood can change know what you want. So I club is ideal and no pressure  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not sure I’m against clubs as much as I was. I suppose it’s because this ‘fab’ thing is a lot of work. The people are not hard work, but the rules and expectations are difficult to navigate. It doesn’t feel as natural to talk to someone as it once was on here. (Years ago)
I’d prefer a hotel, I’d prefer to have got to talk with someone and built up some kind of understanding of one another. Friendliness and flirtyness goes a long way to getting me naked. In a club, I’m supposed to have already ‘dressed down’  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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Clubs definitely for us. Love the anonymous spontaneous sex, often with groups of guys and other women (who you get to see before committing to play). Hotel meets reserved for the people we've met and enjoyed in the clubs. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Just curious do you have a preference, club meets or more private couple meets?
I like the idea of meeting in a club where you don’t really get to know the other couple because it’s just a sexual thing.
Do people prefer building a friendship before playing?
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Easy solution and the best of both worlds - go to a club a reasonable distance away and book a hotel.
We used to do this regularly on trips to Xtasia which was a 4 hour round trip for us. If we were just going for the night we'd not stay over so was a pure club night and I'd have to not drink to drive there and back (not an issue). If we were making a weekend of it we'd book a room.
So you could enjoy the club experience AND take fun back to the hotel if you wanted.
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We are quite pragmatic to be fair. It's sex at the end of the day and we don't need to form deep connections for play. You get a feeling very early on if something isn't right before going to the bedroom or hot-tub.
Meet, chat for a bit, fuck (or don't fuck). It's supposed to be fun, and there is no sense pussy footing about.
Private meets are preferred by us as that leaves the option of taking a few snaps or filming if all parties agree. |
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